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cuddleslut389

Joined: 1/9/2006

Msg: 292 (view)

love and weight gain Posted: 10/19/2009 9:56:27 PM
50 pounds is one thing. Especially over the coarse of years. How bout 100 or 150? What if you end up with the bed ridden guy who can't leave the house? So does it matter? Is it really a yes or no answer?

cuddleslut389

Joined: 1/9/2006

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Why don't men date single mothers...the answer Posted: 10/14/2009 10:08:25 PM
Here is another one that you missed. Getting attached to the kids, it not working out with the mom, and you end up hurting the kids. My brother got in a situation, where the kid got confused and started calling him dad. When things didn't work out, well it tore his heart out. Because of the little girl, not his girl friend.

cuddleslut389

Joined: 1/9/2006

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Pumpkin dump cake recipe wanted... Posted: 11/21/2007 11:14:41 PM
You should probably name it something other then a dump cake. I thought it was a smart ass guy. I was going to ask if he wanted a recipe for Blumkin Pie(blueberry pumpkin). It's a novelty pie. If you don't know what a "Blumkin" is, don't ask.

cuddleslut389

Joined: 1/9/2006

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Stutter Posted: 11/19/2007 11:13:48 PM
Like some people mentioned above, it's probably going to depend on the individual woman. And if she does have a problem with it, she just saved you alot of wasted time. ****! There maybe things that you can do to lessen your stutter more. A speach therapist can help. Hell, it might be covered by your insurance. You don't like something about yourself, change it, if possible. Hey, whatever makes you happy in the long run.

cuddleslut389

Joined: 1/9/2006

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How quick is to quick? Posted: 4/27/2007 9:16:55 PM
Using Sigmond as an example. We have 3 "Brains" that drive behavior. The Id, the Ego and Super Ego. Or Your Head, Your Heart and your Genitals. Your head is logical and is the one that posted this forum(thought). Your Heart wants to be with this women, if you can't help but think about her all the time(Feelings). Your Genitals, well they want to pass on your genes(instinct). Each of these three things are telling you different stuff. Don't listen to the third. Hopefully your Head and your Heart agree with this women. If they don't agree, problems occur. Your heart is a selfish illogical thing. It wants what it wants, whether or not it's good for you. Try to take it slow and don't sweat it, like I always do. Hopefully your heart picked a winner. I wish you the best of luck.

cuddleslut389

Joined: 1/9/2006

Msg: 31 (view)

Why me? Posted: 4/22/2007 9:35:04 PM
I'm probably going to say things you don't want to hear but...People grow up. While he will probably always be a unworthy father. I think your kid is at somepoint going to ask questions and wonder where she came from. Maybe in time he will mature and want to be there. Also there are your child's Grandparents, who may or may not be horrible people. But if they are any kind of human beings they will want to know their grandchild. Also there is your child's brother or sister. Those kids should know each other. Think of how close you are to your grand parents and siblings. I know it's hard, don't deprive your child. Alow him to be one deprive her.

cuddleslut389

Joined: 1/9/2006

Msg: 96 (view)

Is it still expected that men pay for everything Posted: 11/11/2006 1:05:07 AM
I always pay first date or 30th date. But if dating someone for a long time. Paying every single time, for everything. It's kind of nice if the woman, makes a feeble attempt to grab her purse and at least offer, even if the guy won't ever let her pay for it. I appreciate the struggle. So ladies you may have to let your boyfriend pay all the time. But at least put up a struggle. The guy will appreciate it. Bake him cookies(yeah I know I sounds totally sexist, but I like cookies) or something else so he isn't thinking in the back of his mind about the $200 more a week he would have, if he didn't have to "entertain you." Hey Guys are cheap! At least I'm honest!

cuddleslut389

Joined: 1/9/2006

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Was Jesus Christ the Son of God... or God Himself? Posted: 10/29/2006 8:32:28 PM
Hercules is the son of a god does that make him a God? If Vishnu, Budda or Thor had a kid does that make them gods. Is divinity a trait that is passed down threw offspring? Chirstians say that we are all sons of god. Is Jesus our brother? Does that make me God? The bottom line is the difference between Mythology and Religion is whether or not anyone stil practices it. Case and Point. If people stopped worshiping Shiva, the destroyer, in the hindu religion like they stopped worshipping Tiamat, the Babalonian god of Chaos. It would be a Myth not Religion. Take it for what it's worth. Jesus had some good lessons. But don't take 2000 years of imbelishing by religious zealots, desperate to win converts Literally. What would Jesus Say? It's my Guess he would be appaulded that we eat pork, and don't celebrate Jewish hollidays. It's a shame He didn't write the gospels himself. Getting information second hand and 200 years later from unknown authors is how I would like to base entire belief system on!.

cuddleslut389

Joined: 1/9/2006

Msg: 49 (view)

Would you consider dating a woman who doesn't believe in sex outside marriage? Posted: 10/26/2006 2:28:47 AM
I think guys are a product of their preivous relationships. For example. My first girlfreind was my best freind that I just started dating. She was religious. And wanted to wait. So I have no problem with that. Even if I met a woman like that now, it wouldn't bother me. Granted blue balls would be a problem, if that ment not going past first base for a year. If I had slept with my first girlfriend in lets say a week. Coming from that perspective, I will expect women to be the same way. If they are not, they are a tease, prude or whatever. We are a sum of our experiences. Some guys can wait, some guys can't. It a combination of experiences, character, temptation, biological need, and the nature of the feelings for the woman. If I good guy really cares about a woman, he'll wait. But please give the guy some kind of relief.

cuddleslut389

Joined: 1/9/2006

Msg: 84 (view)

did women kill chivalry? what do we need to do to bring it back? Posted: 10/26/2006 2:07:55 AM
I like to think that Chivalry isn't dead. But it is lost on some women. Opening the car door. Offering your hand to help someone get out of the back seat. Letting woman sit in the front seat of the car, dispite the lack of leg room in the back. Some women don't get. Much less demand it. I've had some women just give me confused looks when I did these things. Or you write a girl a poem and then they ask you if you wrote it. No I copied it and trying to pawn it off on my own. Thanks. I'm not saying women should wait by the Car door for the guy to open it, though if enough did it... I think it has to be taught. So what should be done is known. And then then their should be positive reinforcement. A "thank you, that was sweet(hug, kiss on cheek)." If women did this, guys will be real chivalic. Also it might be helpful if women held out, just a little. Make men respect you. Why treat a pig like a queen?

cuddleslut389

Joined: 1/9/2006

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What's the number that would scare you off for GOOD? Posted: 7/8/2006 8:23:26 PM
For those people that says it doesn't matter. I hope you fall in love with a prostitute. Hey it doesn't matter right? The answer to how many is too many is subjective. I would say best answer is the same amount of partners that you have had or at least close. You don't want a virgin dating a pornstar. People usually ask this question because they want an idea of the values of the person they are dating. Nothing like finding out your going out with a whore(man or woman) after its too late.

cuddleslut389

Joined: 1/9/2006

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Somebody clarify vagina-phobia for me Posted: 7/8/2006 8:04:49 PM
Sometimes some women have problems down there. I'm not suggesting anything. But I dated one of those girls and well, it was really really really bad.

cuddleslut389

Joined: 1/9/2006

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please review my profile Posted: 6/18/2006 11:21:13 PM
Well, I think people look at these looking for something to disqualify you and eliminate you from contention. I'm a pesimist so I would see "Other Religion" as Satanism or maybe some wacky cult. Also you don't really discribe who you would like to meet. There is no way for a woman to determine if she fits what your looking for.

cuddleslut389

Joined: 1/9/2006

Msg: 39 (view)

How do you break an obsession with someone? Posted: 6/18/2006 10:51:43 PM
Your heart wants what it wants. There is no rationale to it. I know alot about staying away from people that I care about because I'm not the best thing for them. As far as emotional health, you may need a professional to talk to. Sometimes Depression, Lonelyness, stress all wear away at at your soul. You have to be in the right state of mind to love someone correctly. With me time helped. Hell it took years. I was unnecessarily cruel to myself. It also helps to get angry, pissed off. It's a defense mechanism. Don't point it all inward. Your a guy sooner or later you'll be checking out other girl's asses. You'll be Ok.

cuddleslut389

Joined: 1/9/2006

Msg: 41 (view)

pregnant Posted: 6/18/2006 10:28:34 PM
I have to agree, unwanted pregnancy is a growing problem. It would be nice if they could come up with some kind of birth control for both men and women, that makes you sterile until you go to doctor and take the antidote. But then you have the ACLU and religious people get involved. As far as the father goes, like it or not he is the kid's father. Whether he is pay support or a dead beat. If he behaving like an ass or not. This kid is going to love him. You have to acknowlege that, otherwise the kid will probably resent you for it. Yeah kids suck like that.

cuddleslut389

Joined: 1/9/2006

Msg: 119 (view)

Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 6/18/2006 9:56:08 PM
Hi I'm Daryl from Montgomery County(PA). I'm looking for alot of different things from a special person. I want a best freind. I want to feel the irrational emotion despiration that I did when I was a kid. I want someone to look after. Someone who desparitely needs me, emotionally, like I need them. I want to wipe away her tears and make everything alright. I want to protect her. I want to be inspired, to be the man that I'm capable of being. I want to be in love, with someone who loves me the same degree at the same time. I want to hold this woman close to me. I want to be so in love, that I lose control. I want to be in love with some who it is safe to let myself go, because I would never forgive myself if I hurt her. I want the extremes of feelings, both good and bad, to be with the person I find. If love doesn't hurt, do you really care about that person? Apathy is a sin.

cuddleslut389

Joined: 1/9/2006

Msg: 195 (view)

age difference Posted: 6/18/2006 9:02:58 PM
My general rule is half your age +7. So if your 34 you shouldn't go for anybody younger then 24(34/2 =17, 17+7). It would even work for Anna Nicole Smith. A 90 year old could date a 52 year old, but any younger would be strange. It even works for young ages. As you get older the gap increases but that's necessary to deal with the maturity difference.

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