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Nice guys finish last is a sad truth...
Posted: 5/4/2009 3:22:51 PM | I feel your pain brother.
I just got shoved into the friend box with a chick (23 go-go dancer, very cute, gets tons of attention) who proclaims me as her favorite person, a great guy, she calls / texts 10x a day, always wants to "kick it" and has become my platonic spen every day together girlfriend. As if I'm a gay monk who enjoys such a relationship.
A scenario I am all too accustom too.
This time however I have started to flake on her in favor of another girl, my x-gf. Last night she texts me... wants to come over, ostensibly to smoke my weed drink my beer then sleep on my couch.. the "usual", "sorry, no can do" I text back, "got plans with my x". This drives her insane, suddenly she's jealous and decides to call, 5x in succession. But I don't answer. I let that seed grow in her mind all night. 2am, 3am, 4am, 5am I get texts that she cant sleep, am I up? Again, I have no answer.. I'm busy. At least thats what she thinks.
Normally I'm mister nice guy emotional tampon man who responds to texts right away with kindness and all that..
Today I get a phone call, she wants to come over after work. Fine I say, but I might not be able to hang out long.. this annoys her, I can hear it in her voice "I'm coming over anyway" she barks. I respond without emotion "all good".
It's bull she-it gamesmanship, I'm totally bluffing. My x-gf is in Seattle. Games are not me, not my style, not entertaining any more.. but this time F IT, I'm really F'ing sick of being every chicks F'ing brother / friend. When I do meet a chick that really likes me.. shes fat, desperate, crazy, wants to get married, stalks me, is looking for a daddy for her demented children or suffers some sick & twisted mental disorder.
If playing "the game" gets results this time, so be it. | | | |
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