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 Author Thread: It just doesn't end
 shaggy214x
Joined: 3/8/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
It just doesn't end
Posted: 5/8/2009 2:06:10 PM
Thanks for all the advise. I've been sheated on before and I started dating her because she was different but she changed I guess and I just didn't realize it. I've never cheated on a girl, hell I've never even looked at aonther girl with out feeling guilty, yet I keep getting burned.
 shaggy214x
Joined: 3/8/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
It just doesn't end
Posted: 5/7/2009 2:56:50 AM
In october of 08 my ex girlfriend of 5 years left me and 2 months later started dating a "friend" of mine. About a week ago she asked me to take a look at her car because somthing was wrong. So I did and when she left I forgot to tell her somthing else about her car so I send her a text letting her know. She send one back saying "Ok, Thanks MY Love" and just when I thought I was moving on and getting over the heart break it all comes back and I feel like I'm at square 1 again. I get depressed and ask her to give us another shot, I know I shouldn't of but I was depressed and not thinking, she doesn't respond. Today she tells my roomate, who she works with, to tell me that her and this "Friend" of mine have been dating since June. 5 months before she broke up with me! Even if they didn't have sex I still consider that cheating. Now my mind is telling me to forget about her and that I can find some one who isn't going to treat me like that but my heart is still stuck on the love we had for each other before all this mess. It just feels right as I start to get out of this hole I get kicked back to the bottom and don't know what to do or think. Why would she indirectly tell me this and why didn't she tell me to my face? I know that no one on here can really answer this for me, I'm really just wanting to rant and maybe find some answers.
 shaggy214x
Joined: 3/8/2009
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Was I in the wrong?
Posted: 3/14/2009 2:06:56 AM
thank you all for your kind words. I've been through this before but never have
i had so much feelings for someone ad I did her. It's funney, I've never really been one for confessing my feelings to strangers but when I joined this sight I felt compeled and comfortable with doing so.

Thank you all you have been a big help
 shaggy214x
Joined: 3/8/2009
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Was I in the wrong?
Posted: 3/13/2009 9:04:50 PM
I have just been confused because I have always been the type of person to put the ones I love first in my life and had I spent more time with her this could have been avoided. But on the other hand I felt I wasn't in the wrong because I was being a man and taking care of my responsibilities. But I guess it wasn't really about the lack of time we spent together. If that wasn't an issue she would of found some other reason to end it.
 shaggy214x
Joined: 3/8/2009
Msg: 10 (view)
 
What happened?
Posted: 3/13/2009 8:53:19 PM
I agree, it sounds like he got what he wanted and moved on. I'm sorry to hear about that. We all have had our hearts torn from our chests and broken. The only thing I have found to help is to keep bussy and hang out with friends alot. It keeps your mind off it and gives you some one to talk to about it. When I'm alone and think about my break up is when I sink to my lowest and get all emo. But, yea that's my advise from one broken heart to another.

Things will get better and there are good people out there you just have to look hard.
 shaggy214x
Joined: 3/8/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Was I in the wrong?
Posted: 3/13/2009 8:42:51 PM
I was in this relationship with a girl whom I thought was the one I would spend the rest of my life with for about 5 years. We met in college and moved to San Antonio so she could go to grad school here. 2 years went by and I thought everything was dandy but she broke it off with me in October. She told me that we didn't spend any time together and never talked. At the time I was working 60+ hours a week so she could go to school and I could keep up with all my bills and when I would come home from work at night she would be hanging out with a "Friend" of mine talking outside. She told me he was going through a rough time in his life and need a friend to talk too and I was cool with that. Well after she broke up with me, 2 days before x-mas, she tells me she has feelings for him but isn't going to persue anything out of respect for me. I was depressed and broken hearted all over again. Than last month I am getting the rest of my stuff from her place and see them kiss and holding hands. I ask her about it and she tells me they have been dating since December. So all the time since than she has been lieing to me. I feel worse now than when this entire mess started back in October. I feel like I have been stabed in the back and my heart ripped from my chest. I don't really know what to do or think and any advice would be greatly apriciated.
 
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