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jus_desireable

Joined: 1/9/2006

Msg: 7 (view)

Help me!!! Posted: 12/2/2006 12:49:16 PM
When we first started talking, he asked me out, and the type of guy i thought he was, I gave a sarcastic answer as I figured he was just trying to get some action Is it just me, or does this sound like the typical wanting the 'bad boy' syndrome? Ok, first you say you didnt date him before because you thought he was a 'playa' of sorts. Now he sort of proves your first indication to be right by leaving with one of as you put it 'easier girls' and you want to know if we should say persue him or not? Sounds like to me you already are wanting to and just looking for confirmation so you can go an do it. All I can say is remember what you kow of him and not what you want to believe him to be.

jus_desireable

Joined: 1/9/2006

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Knight in shining armour??? Posted: 12/2/2006 12:39:54 PM
Jus read the rest of your post - dump him aint worth it, sounds like he is out for games.

jus_desireable

Joined: 1/9/2006

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Knight in shining armour??? Posted: 12/2/2006 12:39:10 PM
It's hard to answer without being there and tone of voice. Balt is right. It could go either way, its hard to tell.. He could be ready to take it to another level or maybe you are doing things to make him feel like you're depending on him for too much.. My advice, go to the horse's mouth.. Just ask him what did he mean by that. If he cant give you a str8 answer either way, than maybe he might not be thinking the same things you are bout your relationship/friendship.

jus_desireable

Joined: 1/9/2006

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I've been called vain Posted: 12/2/2006 12:24:00 PM
Alot of ppl have some opinions here - well, here is mine. You have the right to your preferences, everyone does - to down you for your own preferences is wrong, but I do agree with some here. Your statement does sounds like someone who might be consider "high maintenace" in the sense you make it seem like if a person doesnt have the requirements you seek they are less than nothing to you. I don't disagree with somethings that you 'require' like a job, ambitious, I seek those things in a woman but I wouldn't refer to a person as less if they didn't have those characteristics or things ,I just know they're probably not the right one for me.. I think you may have to take a step back to see how you maybe carrying yourself to others. It may surprise you ,but I do give you props to seek for the advice for others - that shows more courage than you think cause its easy to comment on someone's else life, it totally different to be able to seek to find how you are viewed by others. Cya

jus_desireable

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if a woman say's she does not wear pants and will onlywear skirts is this sexy? Posted: 11/24/2006 10:43:31 AM
Depends by what she has in them but either way they would be consider sexy.

jus_desireable

Joined: 1/9/2006

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why is it that white men tend to like skinny, white women? Posted: 11/24/2006 10:26:54 AM
tell you the truth I think its more of a cultural thing, like why black men and hispanic men are tend into women with curves. Just years and centuries of cultural standards cemented into our brains.

jus_desireable

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What would you think if a woman said she had a thing for gus that are 6'6 or taller? Posted: 11/24/2006 10:20:47 AM
what do you mean it is typical?? I am very curious! Ok - the guys who read this can answer this one. But how many times in profiles, only movies,etc the term - tall, dark, and handsome. Only difference is you're just stating up front that tall for you is above a certain height more than properly others, but for my experience most women mean at least 6' feet or higher.

jus_desireable

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why do guys ask for sex after 5 mins on chat? Posted: 11/24/2006 9:53:58 AM
Cabby - I totally agree with you there. Even though both sexes do it, my question to these sort of things have always been as someone else has asked, "Why did you continue to commuicate with him if it wasnt what you wanted?" And also if this is something that is occuring on a regular basis for you what type of guy are you looking for this to be happening so frequentlly. Thats like the person being in a relationship for x number of years, months, and complaining its not what they want but refuse to get out of it. You can only be sympathetic to a degree after a while.

jus_desireable

Joined: 1/9/2006

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What would you think if a woman said she had a thing for gus that are 6'6 or taller? Posted: 11/24/2006 9:45:18 AM
For me that's just typical. Rarely very very rarely a guy would hear the opposite anyhow.

jus_desireable

Joined: 1/9/2006

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When a woman says that she want's sex to wait till marage what do you think? Posted: 11/24/2006 9:43:40 AM
Is this a challenge - Umm yeah. Just what that says to the male ego is a challenge enough. But it is an indication whether or not if they are really into you or just looking for sex cause at first they may try very hard but after a while it shouldnt be an issue (thats if he hasn't gone else where to satisfy his needs). I've done the 'waiting' game a couple of times and found it to be helpful even for a guy. Why they ask the question what does that mean? Well they are just trying to make sure your definition of 'no sex' is actually meaning no sex.. If you've heard on the news with the younger generation (under 21) they actually think that no sex is meaning no intercourse but you can have oral. So guess he/ they just want to know I guess how to approach the situation and not get caught out doing something offensive or knowing they could be doing something else. Me personally, I've always advicated sex before marriage(not staying a virgin unto marriage I mean) only because I've had friends who did this and they had issues where they thought it wasnt going to be a deal and it turn out to be for different reasons.

jus_desireable

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Is a womans looks important to you? Posted: 11/24/2006 9:29:09 AM
Anyone who says looks aren't important is a straight up liar. It may not be the deciding factor but we all know they are (important), if they weren't millions of dollars would not be spent on how to get slim and trim products or people looking for cosmetic modification. For me yes I like a woman to look her best, but at the same time her best at looks will always be overshadowed by her personality.

Jus_Desireable

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sex on the first night = no respect? Posted: 11/13/2006 1:42:59 PM
I wouldn't say disrespect, but it all depends on the guy. Some guys are into the whole sex = love, and might be crushed to find out that you didnt consider the sex the same way he did. Or some guys are just loooking for the score card and you're just a notch on the belt. It all depends on the guy but as long as you're up front bout your sexuality with them and how you are with it, most guys most respect you. Just remember though u made get more offers than you can handle afterwards though -lol

Jus_Desireable

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Guys....can an overseas internet relationship develop into smoething more than.... Posted: 11/13/2006 1:38:14 PM
Stranger things have worked.. But its gonna take just that work - lots of it.. LDR's can really stretch your patience and your committment very very very very easily.

Jus_Desireable

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What should you NEVER do on a first date? Posted: 11/13/2006 1:35:22 PM
Sounds old fashion but... Don't put out.. If its too easy most guy may return but only for a hit and run.. give him something to consider or probably look forward to.. And yeah be up front with what you want from your time with him, and be honest. I've seen it where this one lady told a friend she had no kids then 3 weeks later he was told she did. He ended it quick not cause of the kids because he said if she can lie bout something like that to him which was a normal standard question, what else could she be hiding.

Jus_Desireable

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will the attraction come with time Posted: 11/13/2006 1:26:12 PM
So what you are saying is you see qualites in someone who you wouldn't consider your type. Well here's a suprise - this is more often not so surprising, especially if the ppl you have been attracted to with these qualties; a relationship has never actually worked out. It really depends on how big a hurdle in the end it'll be for you.

Jus_Desireable

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I hate Tshirts with logo's on men..a question Posted: 11/13/2006 1:21:20 PM
Sounds like you found a guy who is at the stage of his life where he is "Take me as I am." At 57 I think most ppl would be but maybe its cross-signals.. Have you tried subtle hints? Like maybe one day meet and say you need to go shopping and then take him into the male section and suggest a shirt to him and let him know you'll find him very attractive in it. I'm sure that if there is a sales lady there, she would probably help you as well and there is no bigger ego stroker than 2 attractive ladies saying you look good in something. Question is how far you'll like to go with him, cause unless you are persuing a relationship I wouldnt seem it as much on a deal at all.

jus_desireable

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Just checkin' the crazy people radar.... Posted: 11/13/2006 4:24:48 AM
If her profile said she was 14, then that would mean he mailed a person thinking their 14. Actually still kinda baffled that a dating site allows 14 y/o's whether they actually are or not I totally agree on this. And yes how would a website that I thought stated you had to be 18 to even join would allow such a low age as an option to pick?? OP, you was right to question him on it.. Its just wierd, too weird, especially if you are finding more than just her on there under a juvenile age. I say let him go, and move on, obviously there may be more issues there you probably dont wanna get involve with if you persue this any further.

jus_desireable

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so, why are you still single? Posted: 11/5/2006 6:36:22 AM
tedbybear, I hear you but I look at it this way for myself : 1. Sorta by choice - I've coulda been in a relationship right now, but I didnt feel right with this person. And I'm not the sort of person who takes commitments lightly so I wont enter a relationship just for comfort or a need of having someone there. 2. Location - where I'm from its very small place with very much inbreeding (if you know what I mean) so most of the time its been meeting the same similar type of ppl who don't either interest me or I'm very weary of.. And to meet other ppl from different places is not that easily a task. (Live on a island miles from places and to travel from here is expensive). 3. My own personal attractions - This is the hardest pill to swallow. I made have been actually allowing myself over the years to have a relationship with people I know I shouldn't not even looked at for various reasons. Maybe my natural attraction is to people I shouldnt be with instead of those I should, hows that for a WTF lol But like others who I think are complete A-holes, if they can find someone then I should too.

jus_desireable

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How often was Mr, wrong really Mr. right? Posted: 11/5/2006 6:13:31 AM
I think its because they have to go with the jrks first, to realize the guys theyve been turning down actually were better lol Kinda agree with that to an extent.. But I guess both sides go through that phase sometimes. I guess the term would be Mr. Quite-Not-Right.. Though isn't Mr. Quite-Not_Right someone you know you have a vibe with but that little connection is not there to make u persue it further? I'm thinking of someone whom u thought you had no connection with at all, in fact, might have been a complete turn off and then when you actually got together with this person you find out its the opposite. I'm like most of you though, when I get that wrong person vibe I literally shut down all attempts of trying to persue anything more than friends or associates.

Jus_Desireable

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How often was Mr, wrong really Mr. right? Posted: 11/4/2006 1:51:20 PM
Ladies, I ask this cause I've talked to a couple of female friends who surprised me wit that their significant other was not really their first or second choice, but someome whom at first they wouldn't have never even considered looking at. I'm wondering how many ladies here have had their significant other been someone they would not have looked at on a regular baisis?.

Jus_Desireable

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Have you ever changed from a no spark zone to spark....? Posted: 11/4/2006 1:45:05 PM
I've had that happen but manly due to lack of conversation. For example one woman and I were mutual friends of another person, and we never had a spark, a flash, or a lighter to have any interest. Until one night we were out and our mutual friend who was acting like a idiot and it forced us to actually have a conversation with each other and realised we had wrong prespectives of each other. After that we're hanging out 24 -7.. lol

Jus_Desireable

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Tacky and rude... Posted: 11/4/2006 1:39:42 PM
Unfortunately, you are associating being an a$$ with the person's profile cause you say that if the guy had intimate encounter you would excuse him. Unfortunately profiles are just words that any person can use to try and disguise their true nature. My question to you would be if you landed 4 guys in a row, what was it about their profile that was interesting to you? Cause it's kinda interesting to see that you were able to reveal 4 guys with the same type of personality. Not being rude, I just like playing devil's advocate sometimes. Truly all you can do is delete, and move on. I'm sure if you look hard enough you'll fine that must guys here are generally cool.. Just every once in a while you get a few donkeys mixed up in the herd with the stallions.. lol

Jus_Desireable

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The Male Olfactory and Perfume Posted: 11/4/2006 1:03:32 PM
Your mate must be on crack.. Every guy I know would tell you that a perfect scent off a woman would make him stop in the middle of the road and sniff the air - twice.. I dunno any perfume names that I like all I know that when that right combination of female body and perfume comes under my nostrils, I get a primal instinct to stop, sniff again and look arounf quickly for the owner..

Jus_Desireable

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Show it off or Cover it up? Posted: 11/4/2006 12:58:20 PM
Either as long as its a real woman.. Check what's under the hood before you're ready to grap the clutch.. lol

Jus_Desireable

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would you go to the store for her Posted: 11/4/2006 12:54:54 PM
I wouldnt say whipped but some women consider it a show of confidence as well. I've done it a couple of times one was her period came on during our date and she decided to wear sheer white panties and dress - not a good idea.. She was impressed by how I found it so non-stressing to just go into a crowded store and get them. Guess for me it depends on the situtation. If she can get them herself like hell I'm getting 'em but if its in an emergency situation gotta man up - as it were lol :)

Jus_Desireable

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do men like texting? Posted: 11/4/2006 12:48:33 PM
Men who don't like texting aren't metrosexuals lol... I'm a computer nut so texting is second nature to me.. Though texting is kool, there is still nothing that beats that great one on one..

jus_desireable

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What makes a man not want sex? Posted: 9/14/2006 10:47:34 AM
sorry but I agree with the first response. I think its mental. The fact that he has stated that a toe massaage or cudling is all he needs triggers that he is definitely had issues in the past with intamency. All you can do is try to help him by getting him to take least talk bout it.. I'm just guessing that you havent had sex before this happen correct?

jus_desireable

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advice time again guys Posted: 9/14/2006 10:28:05 AM
Skinnbones is correct, that is the best way. The more he sees you are not worrying bout him and have a blast the worst he will feel.

jus_desireable

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Kinda long story, but I need to know.... Posted: 9/14/2006 6:14:36 AM
He probably just asked to be curious, had you know the radar as a possibilty but probably thought it either wasn't as interested as he thought, or he just got more important things to do. If it doesn't bother you like you say, just chalk it up as a 'cie la ve' (think that's the right spelling), and dont worry bout the why. Cause even if you don't care, the needing to know why can put you in a bad situation you wouldn't be in, if you left it alone.

jus_desireable

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Did I get played? Posted: 9/13/2006 10:29:07 AM
The take it up a notch ?!?! is what I can't grasp. From the way I see it, your notch was a bad touch one way or another, and she didn't appreciate it. I wouldnt say you got played dude, sounds more like your ego got stroked the wrong way (and apparently she got stroked the wrong way too). My advice would be from this is learn from the mistake. If you wanted a 'relationship' then you should have stood up to the plate and declined the first nighter, regardless if she wanted it or not. This would have at least have her the notion that you was indeed looking for more than the 'hit and run' scenario. Then you could have gotten a little more information on the bedroom situation cause it sounds like to me that was the real deciding factor then the 'silent' ride home. I think that was just the aftermath touch.. Plus she's told and shown you she doesnt want anything more so chalk it up to experience, learn and move on. Played = no, Messed it up = Yup

jus_desireable

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Ok so she is big Posted: 9/13/2006 9:57:41 AM
Psst said it best man.. Just follow your heart (corny I know) to what you think. Another way is to ask what would you like someone to do for you (like giving her a simple "I think ya great' card to flowers, to just a shoulder massage - massages are always a good start) and then just do that for her. Another good source is asking women (like you are here in a sense) for some ideas.. I'm sure if you put a little effort into it, you'll find that she's just like any other woman of any size you would meet who has treated you right.

jus_desireable

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the sex is great between us but we do not match as a couple Posted: 9/13/2006 8:55:06 AM
Fiesty said it best.. If you have nothing more than the sex keeping you together than I agree with her. The more you try to push it to something its not the more that even the bedroom would be something you dont share in common anymore.

jus_desireable

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why does he do this Posted: 9/13/2006 8:36:48 AM
Cause he wants to do exactly like you said screw with your head. Maybe he wants have a physical relationship and think by revisiting the past it would start it off for him. Or maybe he is in a messed up relationship and is comparng it to what you shared. I say talk to him and ask him bluntly what does he want.

jus_desireable

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if someone was giving your girlfriend a hard time ? Posted: 9/13/2006 8:33:07 AM
I've had my share of this from bars to dealing with gangs. Most of the time, if you stand firm and come across that you mean what you say bout backing off, most of the time they do. Of course sometimes words don't work and you have to get physical even if you decide to leave a place. Had that once where we actually left the bar we were at and the dude kept following us around. Eventually I sent her home in a cab and I confronted the guy on a face to face. Turned out the guy was all talk very little bite, but sometimes you have to be ready to knuckle up cause some guys are str8 up idiots when it comes to that sort of thing.

jus_desireable

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children...prefer not to say?? Posted: 9/13/2006 8:10:53 AM
"do you have children" area - is a red flag in and of itself. I agree with you on that weena.. I can't agree on the privacy excuse cause having a child changes ALOT of things in your life. How you spend your time, your money, your views all definitely are influenced when you have a child. To try and hide that just breeds of complications yet to come to me.

jus_desireable

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children...prefer not to say?? Posted: 9/13/2006 5:45:51 AM
It has to do with the 'single parent' syndrome some ppl have. Some ppl are iffy bout dating someone who has a child. To me its stupid not to say though cause sooner or the truth will come out.

jus_desireable

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Is romance dead? Posted: 9/12/2006 3:58:10 PM
I dont think its dead. I still do those things but women have to take part of the blame as well. When its just the 'players' the only ones you acknwoledge when they do it, and not the guy who is doing it from the heart, why should the guy from the heart do it? And to tell you the truth, I've seen it were the players dont even do those romantic things, nd the other guy does, but because its not the player its overlooked. Me, personally, I try to keep the romance alive but I can truly understand why most guys today see it more of a chore than a actual sign of affection.

jus_desireable

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Jealously!!! Posted: 9/12/2006 3:52:24 PM
as long as it causes no fights and it is harmless, we are all good... Exactly, cause sometimes a little jealous is a good thing. It lets you know that you strike a nerve with this person, and that they do not want it to change. Plus its needed cause sometime ppl become to secure bout what they have and start to abuse it without realising it. But yes no fights, and its harmless good Fights and abusive - not good

jus_desireable

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what would you think? Posted: 9/12/2006 3:48:01 PM
If he is thinking that something is going to happen, I wouldnt do it. Its just unnecessary drama waiting to happen as far as I see it. Besides all you need is for him to even spread rumours that something happen even if it didnt, and it gets back to your boyfriend. If he is the very jealous type I doubt that you'll have a bf after that.

jus_desireable

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Jealously!!! Posted: 9/12/2006 3:08:16 PM
I think it has to deal with the actions of the jealousy. Like most guys I know just get c@cker or start c@ckblocking (creating a barrier between them and the lady). But with most women its very vocal (the voice get louder and more commanding), and physical some times. I only like it when its obvious they are and they are trying hard to convince you they are not.. lol Its too funny sometimes, but if they start making a spectle of it, then its time to call a time-out.

jus_desireable

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A Simple Question Really... Posted: 9/12/2006 2:59:39 PM
Its probably because since most vehicles are equipped to be automatic these days, usually you only get standard if by request or a large rig (a heavy duty truck).

jus_desireable

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gf wants me to wear pink Posted: 9/12/2006 2:56:17 PM
Oruspu, I'm with you on this one. Call it 'old fashion' thinking but I have a hangup bout wearing pink too. For me pink has been traditionally for women. But the real funny is how in todays fashion, the first males I saw wearing pink where the Wanna-be thug types. Hell they are wearing Carlton from The Fresh Prince of Bel Air Clothing and its called being styling, when no more than 2 years ago they themselves would have beaten the crap out of you for even attempting to wear that stuff.. WEIRD!! But anyway dude, try a comparise, I did. I let my acegirl (friend to those who wondering what it means) dress me in a shirt with pink stripes in it.. I'm still a little iffy but hey it goes with the terrority.

jus_desireable

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I need advice Posted: 9/11/2006 10:21:30 AM
Tara, Sounds like to me you aready know the answers to your question but are having a problem confirming them for yourself. I'm not going to give you a length reply just one *K.I.S.S. (Keeping It Simply Sweetie). You know the truth, you know what you have to do. So just do it.. Peace -out

jus_desireable

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quick question Posted: 9/11/2006 10:15:20 AM
No, both men and women have this problem. I do agree with one thing someone said on a different thread which was if you are attracting that many type of peoplle that you have to post it, maybe you have to re-evaluate the type of person 'you' are attracted to, or are persuing.

jus_desireable

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Tell me honestly Posted: 9/11/2006 9:59:26 AM
I call them women they have "B.G.S." - Beatdown Girl Syndrome. Explaination - Its a woman who for whatever reason - love, money, etc. decides that being with a guy that treats her like crap is better than being with someone who they claim they would want as an ideal mate (aka the 'good' guy or girl). BTW Guys have it too, so let not get it twisted and think its just a female thing. The one thing I have notice with these people is they have some sort of lack of self-esteem, that makes them think that being treated like that is not on acceptable but a sign of affection - I kid you not. I've had conversations with some female friends who have told me bluntly they need their men to treat them like s***t or they wouldnt know what to do with them, or feel like they are doing something wrong. A person that is all together is their biggest fear not their biggest joy. Thats why if you have noticed you'll see that even if they go out with a 'good' person the person's personality or traits is not enough to keep them there. Thats because even though they know they deserve a good relationship, a bad relationship is all that they know, or are too comfortable with to deal with.

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Stood up and Stumped Posted: 9/11/2006 8:33:54 AM
I agree sounds like there is another woman in the picture. Just chalk it up to him missing out on something big and dont confuse yourself more by trying to figure it out. Some times we just do stupid thins. End of story.

jus_desireable

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STINKIE.....PU!! Posted: 9/8/2006 2:03:37 PM
Easy man, just buy her some perfume you like, and jus say you thought she's the type of woman that can carry the perfume well with her personality, etc.. Hopefully she'll like it and wear it often.. If not, they are make some nice scented oil ornaments these days you can pass off as jewlery for her on a necklace..

jus_desireable

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what makes young puppies think older women are desperate? Posted: 9/8/2006 1:56:25 PM
But to me personally it would be like me asking a kid out. LOL!! You sound like me.. At my current age of I wouldnt consider being involved with anyone younger that 28 YOA. Unless there was a serious connection I mean real serious connection between us but even then it would be like you said dating my neices - eeewww - no..

jus_desireable

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what makes young puppies think older women are desperate? Posted: 9/8/2006 6:46:35 AM
I think most younger guys think older women are more desperate cause most older women aren't afraid to approach 'em. Lets face it, even during my 20's, women my age were afraid to approach me for the most part but women in their 30's or older felt no way bout it, cause they weren't even intimidated or just had been there done that - what would they be afraid of, and because of this , most older women are more aggresive than there younger counterparts. Most of the guys think what the title of the thread is cause let's face it, we males have some of the biggest ego's in the world withor without the help of Testosterone. It's always been seen has a 'big' deal when an older women has an interest in you because you're not even suppose to be looked at. Why you think in movies they have the pre-teen boys protrayed as 'de man' from their friends when an older girl speaks to them? The funniest part is for me, the same guys who think this will be in the same guys in 10+ years wondering why 21-25 yrs.old think of them as old perverts when they try to hit on them. Ahh the cycle of life - its priceless lol

jus_desireable

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SIngle moms... Posted: 9/6/2006 12:20:06 PM
I've date a couple of single mothers. The main issue for me in one of the relationships was actually with the father. He was a very jealous S.O.B., and started to use the child as a pawn to keep me away from her mother. In the end, the mother refused to do anything pro- active bout it (cause they had other issues she could have taken care of as well ,like back child support, etc) so I ended it as she didnt want any of my involvement to help her. Married - Sorry don't touch it. Thats a whole other issue there.

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