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Man-shy Posted: 11/11/2009 7:08:32 PM
Do you think it's abnormal for a 28 year old to be shy almost anxious when it comes to approaching a beatiful woman. I desperatly what to find my dream woman but my insecurites always hold me back and I never say anything bbut if i push my self to say something it's something stupid. Only when i try to whoo a beatiful woman! There more I'm put in this situation it all seems more hopeless.

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What is ..... Posted: 3/29/2009 2:51:41 PM
I see I'm not welcome here, I will not ask anymore questions. I didn't mean to spoil the mood or what not. If anybody wanna holla at me just hit me up on my profile. PEACE

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What is ..... Posted: 3/29/2009 2:37:17 PM
I asked one question and went from there, I'm only asking questions off of responses that I got after asking the first question. I just like to see what people think, Im having fun! Why didn't you respond to any of the first questions? I'm not mad or anything but when the lady said "gang from the ghetto" it maid me wanna ask this question, like i said i read a book about the word ghetto (Ghetto Nation- A Journey into the Land of the Bling and the Home of the Shameless)

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won't commit Posted: 3/29/2009 2:28:42 PM
Give him an altumatum, flat out!

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What is "ghetto" to you? Posted: 3/29/2009 2:10:57 PM
I know this is a dating site but I couldn't resist. I read a whole book on the word ghetto so please tell me, what does "Ghetto" mean to you, there is no stupid answer because it's all opions, i'm excited about this one!!!

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Acting black or white Posted: 3/29/2009 2:04:29 PM
Thats funny a gang from the ghetto ?how does a gang ouside of the ghetto act, what is ghetto. I bet you don't know where the word comes from we are all from some type of "ghetto" if you really must know but white ghettos or any other ghetto beside black ghettos are not seen as ghetto, i bet you won't look it up on Wikipedia.com a gang from the ghetto you made my day!!

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Cutting the tie that binds Posted: 3/29/2009 11:05:34 AM
Man hold on for the same reason women do, praying for a miracle!!!! What they don't understand when the thrill is gone......it's gone!

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Acting black or white Posted: 3/29/2009 9:16:06 AM
Good one jim!!!! To me some people wanna keep people in the box so if you come out of the "box" then your not your self, thats why so many rappers are scared to rap about positive stuff, the think it will down grade there "blackness". Balck people are the main ones doing this if someone changes for the better they "sold out" I love this dialogue, yall are making me proud. There is a solution to all of this , you know that right?...it's in the bible Jesus said LOVE COVERS ALL SINS, it might sound corny but if you love someone they can only hate you (I USE THE TERM HATE LOSSELY) FOR SO LONG, so i leave you with this Love peace and a bucket of hair grease!!!(thats a black joke) src=http://www.plentyoffish.com/smiles/icon_204.gif border=0>If you don'y know something about someone don't be scared to ask, me at least

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I was told I am a bad mother because I smoke marijuana. Posted: 3/29/2009 8:54:51 AM
Does that make you a bad mother,no but it sure as hell eleminates you from the good mother category. i was a child who was brought up around weed smokers, so even though I never thought about smoking weed when the chance presented it self i didn't hesitate to jump on it, that was 12 years ago and I can't stop when i try and it makes me feel bad about myself, good thing i don't have kids, might be from all the weed smoking. Bottom line yo should try your damnest not to bring anything around a child that would hold them back. And weed can stop you from getting a good job, good women, and it makes you lazy an neglect important things. With all the good things you doing to help your child progress why show them that that's that exceptable let her decide that on her own, Go smoke in the garage!!!!

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Racism in Dating Posted: 3/29/2009 8:47:01 AM
Amen brother, that's just people showing there true "colors", I have a similar problem. Check out my thread. go to ask a girl it's labeled "wht do women run from me"

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Why do Women run from me. Posted: 3/29/2009 8:43:11 AM
Oh no Im not just looking to date interracial, i love balck women... shit my mothers black I just want someone who's gonna appreciate a good man

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Why do Women run from me. Posted: 3/29/2009 8:40:47 AM
That's what i'm talking bout Jim know you getting to the good stuff, lets not forget the news at leat down hear in Mempho. But there are good rappers Common, mos def , outkast and so on i mus admit there's a lot more negative then positive but what kinda rap do you listen too(not you jim just, general question. know look at movies do we think all mexicans are illegals or all asians know karate or all white people are.....well white is the default. By no means do I want anyone to think Im bitter its the way of the world. When I was in the fourth grade living in gosnell Arkansas my white friends use to tell me only reason I was good at basketball was because my ancestors was slave and they were use to running and jumping high and it wasn't there fault they were fourth graders too. i just learned it's something I have to deal with. I have racist thoughts at time but i make my self overcome them, I use have a thing against hispanics, there is a lot in memphis nut there no diffrent then me. Anyone who acts as if they don't have racist thoughts is lying it's natural. it's when you let those thoughts overcome you when you need a reality check.

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Why do Women run from me. Posted: 3/29/2009 8:27:31 AM
it wasn't dirrected towards you it just made me think because I hear that a lot. And it's not an issue of race it's an issue of racism. I could've been tryin to tell her she dropped something. but i've been dealing with racism as far back as the 2nd grade so Im use to it. There are all types of racist balck,white,asian,arab, Latino etc.etc..........Who cares right? that's my porblem i tend to care too much.

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Acting black or white Posted: 3/29/2009 7:50:57 AM
I like that jim, you are so very right. Ain't nothing wrong with that. but if a girl who i was not attracted to said hi i wouldn't ignore her.....she might be asking for directions or telling me my fly is open you never know, I guess you'll have to be their it kinda funny really.

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Acting black or white Posted: 3/29/2009 7:42:58 AM
I understand that it's not about the person it's about the observer, so what would you consider acting black. When I first moved to Memphis people said I act like a white boy because I had a midwestern accent and I pronounce my words more clearly than the people from Memphis do. I use to have this white supervisor at my job who haad a deep voice spoke with slang baggy pants and timberland and all the girls said he act black. and at another job we had a black supervisor he dressed like carlton off of fresh prince with the dress show shirt buttoned all the way up very articulate, i must admitt I said he act like a white guy. There are alot of arabians in memphis a lot of them dress urban and people think the ones who dress like that act black. what is "urban anyway"

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Acting "black" or "white" Posted: 3/29/2009 7:30:46 AM
I think this is a good discussion someone responded to one of my forum topics and spoke of a black man who said he acts white. So tell me to you what is acting "black" or acting "white" to you. Lets no hold back on this let me know how you really feel.

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Why do Women run from me. Posted: 3/29/2009 7:22:55 AM
Well ms sweetsexy.. I've been single for almost four years so when I say test the waters I just mean try something diffrent I haven't dated a white girl since I lived in Michigan back in 2000 I am a very sincere person. the conversation goes like this "hey how you doing"....then they strike out speed walking clutching they're purse and im not exagerating but i really appreciate you comment!! I think BBW might be right it might have alot to do with the area I was raised in Michigan and it takes some getting use to living in the bible belt. I love women in all the colors, shapes and ages, heights, hair lengths and background there is no race that is an ugly race maybe except...naw Im just kiding

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WHY DO MEN USE WOMEN?? Posted: 3/29/2009 7:06:44 AM
Your only being used because you allow your self to be used. There is something you do or say that gives off that vibe as being a "pluck" or "cake girl" just be more cautious of what you say or do for a man until you really get to know him. P.s. A man who will use a women typically tries to use whoever they can male or female.

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Why do Women run from me. Posted: 3/29/2009 7:00:04 AM
You take the good You take the bad You take them both and there you have..... No I don't act "white" in that case I don't act "black" eithier. What the hell does that mean anyway? huh?

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What are the odds? Posted: 3/29/2009 6:50:36 AM
You never know but i did see a special on 60 minutes where this guy pic had been stole off of my space and was being used to scam women. it was a guy in his forties suppositly he was a contractor doing work over seas and he got close to the women and had them cash money orders for him and it wass all fraudulant. they said its has happen to a few women on a few diffrent sites. So please be careful

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Why do Women run from me. Posted: 3/29/2009 6:36:39 AM
I would be Ok with it if it was a typical rejection, I've been shot down by plenty of women but to have a women to act terrified is something diffrent. How original a breath mint you are soooo hilarious lol...... not really

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How do you get over someone who doesn't want you?? Posted: 3/29/2009 6:31:44 AM
If he's willing be just friends he's not gonna change. If you hang around as a friend he'll just keep you on the bench while he test everyone he comes across while you get to hear all the details. I've played both positions. If yall are gonna be friends be friends if you want more deal with the pain and keep moving becuase he's not gonna come around.

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Hooker? Posted: 3/29/2009 6:27:45 AM
Hell No!!!! My first time was with a random girl and I regret it to this day. It doesn't seem important know but it will be in the future. Don't you want a story about your first time that you won't be too embarrassed to tell!!!!

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Slept with 83 people Posted: 3/29/2009 6:24:32 AM
Same thing happened to me, at the time she was 23 and I was number eighty. Since we were engaged i tried to stick it through. A few weeks later I went to work and got off early and she had packed all her shit and was gone left a dear john letter. A week later I found out she left me for the guy who stayed in the apartment across the way, that was almost 4 years ago and I been single everysince. The best advice i can give is to tell him to take his time on the wedding eventhough I was devasted Im glad i didn't marry that her!!!

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Why do Women run from me. Posted: 3/29/2009 6:07:15 AM
I am a single black male living in Memphis,Tn. Recently i've been testing the waters trying to date outside my race but everytime i approach an asian or white female the ignore me and walk faster. Am I that repulsive or is there some kinda pat or sterotype when it coes to dating black men, it's a downer for a women to literally take off like she's scared your gonna rob her.Some one please tell me something.

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Miss Too Busy For Me! Posted: 3/29/2009 6:01:07 AM
This Might soumd redundant but if she can't make time it's because she doesn't want to. Either she has someone else or she's not feeling you like that and don't wanna be mean. I dated a girl for six months last year and never got past 1st base.When I asked her how she felt I couldn't get a real answer. Might I add i was the one always tryna see her and she was too busy for me. Even When I got shot last year she never came to see me when I was at home stuck on the couch, so I backed off then a month later she comes up pregnant. Don't feel bad man, when your in it for the long haul you'll come across alot of people but your looking for that one special girl so if she's not the one, keep it moving don't forget Ther's P.O.F. in the sea :)

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