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FlutterbyMe

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What name do you call it? Posted: 12/15/2007 2:40:38 PM
My ex gave each breast a name... he called them cupcake and muffin... he said it was because he liked both a lot but cupcakes were better and apparently one of mine was better than the other too LOL

FlutterbyMe

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Is it ok to keep your profile up if you meet somone? Posted: 12/14/2007 11:00:20 AM
POF is more than just a dating site, its a way to network yourself. I started using my profile again when I moved to a new town to meet people. I added myself to event groups and received invitations etc. I think having a profile after you met someone on this site that as long as you communicate with the person that you are dating that you're going to leave your profile up, but make the adjustments necessary to be clear you are not looking for anything else then there should be nothing wrong with it. If you keep your profile up and change nothing and are still chatting with the opposite sex to see if something better comes along, then darn tootin there is something wrong with that in my opinion.

FlutterbyMe

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have you ever broken up over sexual demands? Posted: 12/14/2007 10:56:32 AM
I've not ever ended a relationship because of sexual demands, but I've had guys threaten to not see me because they thought I wanted too much sex. I've also made the choice to not to start a relationship with the fear that all the guy wants is sex. I like sex a lot (most of us do I think) and if I'm with someone who shows me I mean more than just my bedroom abilities then I will continue to give them what they want, BUT if I feel that they are only hanging around for sex then I'm not happy and will most likely start to deny him sex and eventually he leaves. make sense?

FlutterbyMe

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Favorite Quotes Posted: 4/27/2007 10:15:38 PM
One of my favourite quotes makes absolutely no sense and was said by someone whom has no fame or fortune... my grandfather (RIP). "smile... it makes your teeth happy" now who wouldn't want happy teeth? LOL can't argue with that logic!

FlutterbyMe

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check messages via a cell phone? Posted: 4/26/2007 10:38:23 PM
I think we're all in the same boat right now and no one has reached out to help up yet :(

FlutterbyMe

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check messages via a cell phone? Posted: 4/19/2007 9:53:37 PM
maybe this is why I can't see or send mine. anyone have any ideas? its great that i can do forums but its not the reason i want to do it from my phone.

FlutterbyMe

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check messages via a cell phone? Posted: 4/19/2007 9:21:27 AM
Ok so i bought a new phone and can now access this site via wap browser, but i can do and see everything EXCEPT my mail. Im even doing this post via my cell phone. Would really love it if someone could tell me whats happening.

FlutterbyMe

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check messages via a cell phone? Posted: 2/22/2007 5:20:26 PM
I'm still not able to get it. I've put in www.plentyoffish.com and http://www.plentyoffish.com. I'm using a Nokia flip phone with Rogers. Anyone know how I can get this to work? I really want to be able to use it...lol

FlutterbyMe

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check messages via a cell phone? Posted: 1/7/2007 1:16:21 PM
awesome.. thanks I will try it out later tonight!

FlutterbyMe

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check messages via a cell phone? Posted: 1/7/2007 12:33:37 PM
I need more information about this. Do I just go to www.plentyoffish.com from my wap browser? I'm always on the go and use my cell phone far more than I do a computer. Are there only certain carriers that can access this site? is the address different? please help

FlutterbyMe

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She calls all the time, but why? Posted: 12/9/2006 1:37:50 PM
Maybe the reason she is happy with her current situation is because she has you as a fall back for those seemingly strange but obviously important reasons to her. Could be that you are still filling some sort of void and she doesn't realize that the new guy isn't doing that because you're there. Or could be harmless and she just see's you as a dependable friend.

FlutterbyMe

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shoe on freeway Posted: 11/5/2006 10:40:47 AM
I like the shoes that hang from power lines, what's that all about? from what i'm told this has something to do with some sort of drug being sold near by its a code from what i understand.. kinda like the red light above a door for a prostitute...LOL

FlutterbyMe

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What do you think about using lie-detectors? Posted: 9/20/2006 3:41:08 PM
I would have to say that this wouldn't work very well. I mean, if I'm being asked all sorts of questions randomly pertaining to my loyalty in my relationship, or even had the slightest clue that my integrity was being questionned my mind would race, my heart rate most likely increase due to being nervous of whats happening. If he told me about his experiment before asking me the questions, I would most likely be able to remain calm no matter what I was saying. (Not saying that I would lie if he told me in advance of his experiment, but I would understand it) If I was willing to participate I was probably very committed to the relationship being successful. If I wasn't committed then I would probably say no to being part of it. But ultimately if you question your partners integrity or loyalty to you or wonder if they are hiding something from you, the best way to deal with that is to come right out and ask them. Tell them how you are feeling, why you are feeling it, and what you would like to see come of it. If they truly want to be with you they will plug into your concerns and lay them to rest or atleast be willing to work on changing the things that are causing you to feel the way you are.

FlutterbyMe

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Is being Burned stopping you? Posted: 9/20/2006 3:32:17 PM
I think its healthy to be burned or rejected once or twice.. depending on the severity of course. Its a very hurtful thing and most definitley can have adverse affects on someone. But rejection is part of life, and we need to realize that even though we have been burned or rejected, we are still very much worthy of moving forward and experiencing what life has to offer.

FlutterbyMe

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To Pamper or Not to Pamper.. That is my question. Posted: 9/11/2006 2:04:00 PM
I want to thank everyone who has posted a response to my questions. And I'm going to refer back to the very first post. I do know the answer, it just took me a few days of worrying and wondering and over analyzing to come to the simple answer. I do have fear, but so what - to conquer that fear will be worth while. I have been hurt, and it will probably happen again - but before that hurt comes there will be experiences and personal growth and memories made I do like being treated nicely, I do enjoy the occassional pampering, I enjoy rough housing too! I am dynamic and I can't expect someone to be able to please every aspect of who I am within ONE date - that takes time and getting to know each other further which I am denying not only him but MYSELF And just incase any of you were wondering... this post came after a recent date that I had and no I have not called him back, but I will be as soon as I'm finished with this post! And this time I'm picking what we're going to do, I'm going to put myself in his position and show him that I do appreciate all that he did for me last week. Thanks again everyone, by all means if you have further advice I'm more than willing to listen/read

FlutterbyMe

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To Pamper or Not to Pamper.. That is my question. Posted: 9/10/2006 1:45:00 PM
One of the best ways to judge if he's putting on a show for you is to gauge how he treats other people I like that suggestion, my mom did always tell me to find out how he treats his mother as that would be a good indicator, but that early in the game its kind of hard to find out that infomration. And as previously mentioned by someone else (and I'm beginning to actually learn this) mom's are normally right.

FlutterbyMe

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To Pamper or Not to Pamper.. That is my question. Posted: 9/10/2006 11:45:31 AM
Some people do the same thing when love finds them. They do not feel they deserve to find love...or to be loved. They sabotage the relationship early on, pushing away the love interest. I do know that I deserve it, perhaps just don't know how to accept it. (and if anyone can tell me how to do this i'm all ears.. or eyes rather) But then again there are a lot of things that my brain knows and understands but my heart knows and understands something different.

FlutterbyMe

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To Pamper or Not to Pamper.. That is my question. Posted: 9/10/2006 11:41:32 AM
How a about the simple fear that you're not worthy of happiness or simply afraid of success, most of us have a bit of that I think. We have a tendency to shoot ourselves in the foot for the silliest reasons. This definitely USED to be me. I didn't believe I deserved much of anything (as it had been my experience that anything that I did find or thought I earned would be ripped from me faster than I got it) But since my fiance left me I've done so much work into figuring out my authentic self that I now completely love who I am. I know that I am a good person, hard working, intelligent, friendly, loyal, and can be a total hoot to hang around with... but perhaps still very "love dumb"

FlutterbyMe

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To Pamper or Not to Pamper.. That is my question. Posted: 9/10/2006 11:38:12 AM
It sounds to me like you are scared of what would happen if things went well enough to fall in love. Love is a big risk. I am scared of what will happen if I fall in love again, but I want to... Don't we all have fear of the unknown though? Even if only a little?

FlutterbyMe

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To Pamper or Not to Pamper.. That is my question. Posted: 9/10/2006 11:33:16 AM
You have read about Prince Charming and you're expectations are unrealistic. What is realistic? How do I go from wanting my prince charming to wanting whats best for me?

FlutterbyMe

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To Pamper or Not to Pamper.. That is my question. Posted: 9/10/2006 9:55:10 AM
Ok, so I've never started a thread myself before, I've always enjoyed reading and throwing my two cents in when I can or when I believe I have something of worth to say. But I really need some opinions on my newly found dilema. I'll do my best to keep it brief and to the point, but my confusion may cloud my ability to provide the pertinent information. Now in the past I've kept my dating experiences fairly silent from my family, however over the last year I've opened up to my mother in regards to this portion of my life. Recently she pointed out to me that I say I want one thing, but every time a guy shows it to me I reject it. I did not realize this and now that she has said it, I'm very concerned that I may be subconsciously sabotaging my chances at actually finding someone to treat me the way I deserve to be treated. Here is an example; not specific to any certain incident I'll meet a guy, become intrigued, wait and wait for him to ask me out, anticipation builds, finally he does and of course I agree. I do the typical girly routine to get ready and he'll do his part of the courtship by picking me up, dressed nicely, bring me flowers, take me to dinner, hold my door, pull out my chair, use subtle compliments all evening, etc etc etc (I think you get the picture) By the end of the night he is hooked, telling me that he has had the most incredible time and he would be ecstatic to see me again. sound wonderful doesn't it? And before the date this is exactly what I'm hoping will happen. But time and time again I find myself going to my mother and when she asks "well, how did it go, are you going to see him again?" My answer is repeatedly "no, I don't think so" My reasons are usually similar to the following... "he was too nice..." "he had to be faking it..." "he touched my hand without me making a gesture that it was ok..." "too many compliments, I felt uncomfortable..." "He gave me a red rose.. its a little early for that..." "He make a sexual joke, all he wants is sex from me..." Again I think you probably have the point. Why am I doing this, and why didn't I notice this before? I know logically that I want a man who is willing to step up and impress me. Who will treat me with respect. Who will simply "fall in love with me" at first meeting. Am I not ready for a relationship? Do I not really want this - am I stuck in that "fairy-tale" land? I have so many questions about this and can't even put them all to words. But I'm hoping that through someone else's eyes maybe I can lead myself to a better path. Thanks for taking the time to read this, I know that there are a lot of issues aired on here, and may get a little repetitive, so I truly appreciate this. TOODLES ~Janine

FlutterbyMe

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Idiots among us Posted: 9/10/2006 8:26:56 AM
I had a bill collector call and ask for my father. I told them he died in 2001. "That's ok, I'll call back later." Same thing happened after my mother died. Idiots! I live in my grandparents old farm house and I kept the phone number they had since, well since they got a phone put in... anyway I still get calls for both of them (grandfather passed in 1990 and grandmother in 2004) I just tell them that they no longer live here but I have their new number... I give them the number to the cemetery. LOL

FlutterbyMe

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waking up to sex... Posted: 9/10/2006 8:12:47 AM
Yupperdoodles... wakin up to your partner trying to get in your pants, or lack there of, is an instant "take me now" situation for me... and if I wake up first you can guarantee my head is going to be under the covers "waking him up" too. I am totally refreshed and much more ready to face my day after these types of mornings. But sadly these mornings are just a memory right now

FlutterbyMe

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RAIN... Does it make the sex better? Posted: 9/9/2006 12:40:14 PM
I don't think I notice if its raining outside if I'm having sex inside, and I haven't tried sex outside in the rain, but boy do I wanna! Been part of a fantasy for ever.. still looking for that chance.

FlutterbyMe

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I will Survive Posted: 9/3/2006 11:16:02 AM
hmmm not really sure how I ended up with two of the same responses...lol.. sorry

FlutterbyMe

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I will Survive Posted: 9/3/2006 11:15:23 AM
OMG!!!! That is the best laugh that I have had in a very long time...lol Both myself an my female co-workers thank you for sharing this!

FlutterbyMe

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I will Survive Posted: 9/3/2006 11:14:59 AM
OMG!!!! That is the best laugh that I have had in a very long time...lol Both myself an my female co-workers thank you for sharing this!

FlutterbyMe

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What book are you reading right now? Posted: 9/3/2006 7:32:18 AM
I am reading Captivating: Unveiling the Mystery of a Woman's Soul by John Eldredge and Stasi Eldredge... very thought enducing and motivating read.

FlutterbyMe

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anything goes ....the painter Posted: 1/26/2006 12:47:22 PM
I wrote this when I was 15.. it means a lot to me. More now then it did when I wrote it actually. Once upon a startlit night, I saw a beautiful bird of flight. I imagined it a bird of love, Sent from the heavens far above. Through the sky it flew with grace, With a slow and gentle pace. As it flew it called to me, Let my untamed heart go free. It sang a song of broken love, It sang to me from far above. To let you go, to set you free, You no longer are in love with me. I cried to you on that same night, As I dreamt of that bird in flight. You told me that your love was true, For me, was nothing you wouldnt do. But in your eyes the truth is there, Your mind is somewhere far from here. For tonight I'll let it pass, And be content upon this grass. I didnt think a bird could cry, But one single tear hung in it's eye. It felt my pain, it cried my tear, And washed away my hidden fear. Here we are together now, Still, I believe that bird somehow. For as its perched so high above, It sings its song of broken love.

FlutterbyMe

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HOW EMBARRASSING!!!!!!!!! Posted: 1/26/2006 11:19:12 AM
The story actually gets worse than that but I get embarassed just thinking about the rest... Later that evening the waiter brings our desert. He places it on the table and can see how worked up I am about the whole experience has been. He looks at me and says "I have to admit this has been the most contact I've ever had with a customer..." I immediately turn red and cover my face. He continues with "Don't worry, I"m not bothered at all... just don't try it again" He smiles and walks away. While we're eating our dessert some friends came over to the table and my company of course had to tell of the incident however he was getting it wrong so I jumped in myself to explain the situation (here we go again talking with my hands) And I know this seems almost too hard to believe but once again as I swung my hand out to the side it connected with something... the same waiter.. but it was his leg this time... My table went silent, the waiter begins to laugh and says "Hey! I thought I said don't try it again" I wanted to DIE.. just shoot me now is all I could think. To make matters even worse the next day my company and I were walking through the market and who do we bump into?? Oh yeah.. the waiter.. he came over to me.. shook my hand and said "no hard feelings eh?" He wished us a good day and continued on his way. I will NEVER EVER EVER forget this experience, or go back to that restaurant.

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Edible underware yes or no? Posted: 1/25/2006 12:17:51 PM
LOL not much on the inventor of Edible underwear.. all i could find was a date in 1976 and the name Lee Brady who now lives somewhere in florida. Apparently he has a thing for Art and he and his life partner decided to have some fun with panties. LOL

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HOW EMBARRASSING!!!!!!!!! Posted: 1/25/2006 12:00:38 PM
I was out to dinner, in probably one of the most fancy restaurants I had ever seen. It was underground and the entire staff was in costume. Lights low, very intense feeling being there. Now you have to understand that I talk with my hands. I for some reason feel compelled to demonstrate everything that I say. To begin the meal we had a choice of two soup types. I hate soup. Our choices were some sort of vegetable thing and cream of carrot. Now I dont mind cream of mushroom so I decided to try the cream of carrot. After the soup came to the table my company excused themselves to use the facilities. I tasted the soup while they were gone and it was disgusting! So I went to move it to the side to signal that I was finished with it... I spilled it. I very quickly grabbed the napkin and started frantically trying to clean it up. My company returned just as i was finishing wiping up my mess. They of course had to know what had happened so I began to explain. Just as I swung my hand back it connected with the waiters you know what. What made it worse was when I realized i had hit something I stopped dead, froze for a moment and my hand stayed on the waiters package!! I turned to see what my hand was sitting on and knew right away this was trouble. I slowly looked up and made eye contact with the waiter, who smiled and took a step back. I sunk into my seat and couldnt eat my meal that evening because I was so sick to my stomache. The waiter tried to make light of it, but I couldnt help but notice that when he came to our table he always stood on the other side.

FlutterbyMe

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speedos Posted: 1/25/2006 9:22:04 AM
Speedos in the news! CADDO VALLEY, Ark. - A man's skimpy swimsuit was too much — or too little — for Taco Bell workers. Employees at Taco Bell called police Sunday when the man walked into the restaurant wearing only a tiny black Speedo swimsuit and a cut-off T-shirt during the Labor Day weekend. Caddo Valley Police Chief Hiram Latin said his attire, or lack thereof, was a little too revealing. "He was inappropriately dressed for a restaurant," said Latin. He said the man had left his clothes at a lake. The man faces a $750 fine and possible jail time if convicted of indecent exposure. According to Arkansas law, a person can be charged with indecent exposure if "he knows his conduct is likely to cause affront or alarm." Police ticketed the man and took photos of him in the Speedo, for use in court.

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What is the funniest pick-up or reject line you have ever heard? Posted: 1/24/2006 10:14:37 AM
Want to come see my HARD DRIVE? I promise it isn't 3.5 inches and it ain't floppy. Are you from Tennessee? Because you're the only ten I see! Baby, I'm no Fred Flintstone, but I can make your Bedrock!\ If you were a booger I'd pick you first. Excuse me. I'm from the FBI, the Fine Body Investigators, and I'm going to have to ask you to assume the position

FlutterbyMe

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speedos Posted: 1/24/2006 8:20:09 AM
For those that are curious about the invention of speedos and their true intention... take a gander at this! It was also in 1906 that a keen surfer named Lester Ormsby, a regular at Bondi, invented the surf lifesaving reel, which, until the arrival of other techniques, was to save thousands of lives on Australian beaches and become widely used overseas. This was followed by the invention in 1927 of Speedo swimming trunks by Austrailian designer Peter Travis. Designed to reduce drag in the water, they were the ultimate racing swimming trunks and were so successful internationally that at the Mexico City, Munich and Montreal Olympic Games it was estimated that more than 70 per cent of all medals won in the pool were won by swimmers wearing Speedos. In 1940, Fauldings, the pharmaceutical company, made a great contribution to Australian beach culture when it invented zinc cream as the ultimate protection against sunburn. Now you know....LOL

FlutterbyMe

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If you were a pizza topping, what would you be? Posted: 1/19/2006 9:00:47 AM
good thing the cheese likes to be on top

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If you were a pizza topping, what would you be? Posted: 1/17/2006 2:05:15 PM
if i was a pizza topping i would be the cheese.. because the cheese is what holds everything together.. its always there.. and definitely delicious!

FlutterbyMe

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What was the best kiss you ever had? Posted: 1/16/2006 3:59:40 PM
My best kiss ever was completely unexpected. Now the situation wasn't perfect. Actually it was probably the worst time for this kiss to happen but I'm very glad it did. He had come to visit me for the weekend, like he had done before, and we were having some drinks and watching movies, like always. We had gone to the kitchen and prepared a stirfry for dinner. After the meal was over we turned the lights out and returned to our movie. He was laying on the couch and I was sitting on the floor infront of him. Several minutes into the movie I turned around to say something to him and before I actually said anything he put his hand on my face and slowly pushed my hair behind my ears then pulled me towards him. The kiss lasted for what seems like forever. I litterally had butterflies in my stomach and couldnt stop smiling when it was done. I had never thought of him like that. Why I don't know, he was gorgeous and funny and sweet and always did anything he could to put a smile on my face. Since that night we've remained amazing friends but agreed we didnt want to lose what we had. We do however have an agreement that if we're not in a serious relationship with someone by September 19, 2007 we'll give it a shot...LOL

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life is like....... Posted: 1/16/2006 10:43:29 AM
" You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees or the stars. You have a right to be here, And whether or not it is clear to you, No doubt the world is unfolding as it should." ~Desederata I find this to be extremely inspirational and calming and try to remind myself of it every day.

FlutterbyMe

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Why can't men focus on the conversation ? Posted: 1/15/2006 7:46:10 PM
yes Linguatic, that is what I meant. I just re-read what I wrote and it was in definite need of better expression. I suppose I should take a moment to re-read what I've typed in order to ensure my message is being sent appropriately. Thank you for paying attention and pointing out the message.

FlutterbyMe

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I ate what? Posted: 1/15/2006 8:31:02 AM
To get the children I babysit to eat their veggies at dinner I cook them with a small amount of brown sugar or with a little maple syrup in the water while boiling. I know that it takes away from the entire nutritional value of the veggies, but I'd rather this then them eat nothing. I also believe this way they are more likely to eat them when they get older.

FlutterbyMe

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Why can't men focus on the conversation ? Posted: 1/13/2006 7:31:37 AM
No they don't realize they're doing it. Well most of the time anyway. A man's mind is the villian. And its not exactly like they chose their gender, but its no excuse to become aware of their own self and learn to control it in order to provide their partner with the attention she requires. There are men out there that can do this. They're just harder to find.

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