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what does 'seeing eachother' actually mean
Posted: 1/15/2006 12:18:06 PM | hey...im new here and this is my first post, but i agree with the idea that a guy out there exists that doesnt need to be "tested". however, having said that...i know heaps of guys that have all said the same thing. the advice they give is to walk the same way rafe said. mind blowing whatever and then "see ya". i think guys just need to feel like they are doing the chasing. when girls chase, guys run. its pretty simple if you think about it. they dont want a girl that will fall at their feet no more than we want a guy that will. as for the whole "seeing each other" issue. i myself have the feeling that when two people are "dating" its casual and light and open to going out with others. seeing each other means (to me) that you like each other enough to explore each other further. i personally dont think this is a time for sex, but some intimacy here would be cool...just make sure you (as the girl) draw firm boundaries. if he wants the whole meal deal...he has to step up to the plate and commit. and this to me is "together".
another thing...im sick of wondering at what stage im at with a guy and im pretty blunt about things now. i give a new relationship 2 months to decide if i want to go further with it or not and if i do, its at that point that i start asking questions. not huge questions, but i need to know how they are thinking at that point and if they cant answer me honestly (or if their honest answer doesnt jive with mine) then i set them free.
ya but thats just me.
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