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whats his problem???? Posted: 7/2/2009 2:18:18 PM | I met a guy back in May(23rd) this year.....he lives about an hours drive away from me and we've been meeting up fo meals, pics etc for the past 5weeks. My dilemia is.... he avoids comming to my home cos he doesnt seem to want to meet my children. He lives with his mother and is going through a divorce at the moment....he sees his 3 boys, as and when he can...work permitting.... Last night we met half way and went for a meal. We met at 6.30pm had a meal and at 8.30pm i asked what he'd like to do and he said "to be honest, im knackered and need to get home to bed". So..i was home by 9pm after spending just 2 hours with him. He asked if i'd like to do something Saturday evening and i said it would be nice if he came to mine...dvd, wine take out.....the usual. he wouldnt answer and said for me to try and get a babysitter and we'd take it from there........ So, what i'd like to know is.... is this guy avoiding meeting my kids???? How long should i leave it until hes ready to meet them??? Will he ever want to meet them??? This is doing my head in cos....FACT.... im a single mum with children and cant just keep getting my mum to babysit all the time..... Anyone....HELP!!! would love some advice... | | | |
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