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 Author Thread: How do you let go? (Just a little twist)
 ErinxCx
Joined: 3/12/2009
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How do you let go? (Just a little twist)
Posted: 4/2/2009 6:46:55 PM
Alright, so I had a very long distance relationship with this one guy. We'll call him "T". We'd known each other for 2 years then beginnig of last year, he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes, because he was a really sweet guy who meant a lot to me. We dated for about 7 months. But we broke up twice. Once in late June and the last time was in late August. The last break up wasn't bad at all. It was a mutual agreement actually. We agreed to still be friends. But the beginning of 2009 we were talking again. I was in another relationship with a guy from work. And I wasn't too sure things were going to work out. "T" had admitted to still having feelings for me. And the thing was... I'd never gotten over him either. And we'd talked about it and he said that he'd be with me in a heartbeat if things didn't work out with my boyfriend at that time. Well, not even 3 days after "T" had admitted his feelings for me, he gets a girlfriend. I was crushed! Because I was about to end things with my boyfriend. Not because of "T", but because we were differen't people and I had a change of feelings. I stopped talking to him for about a month. Then out of the blue, I start having dreams of "T" for 2-3 nights in a row. And those dreams were amazing! And I kept thinking about them, and realized that I still had strong feelings for him, even though I knew things probably weren't going to work out.
I made the mistake of emailing him and telling him what I thought and what I was feeling. He basically said "Wrong time, wrong place." And it ended just how I thought it would, but I was disappointed anyway. Over the next month, I kept thinking about what I did, and I knew it was wrong, and I decided that I should at least apologize for what I'd said and try to be friends. Well, I'd figured out that he had blocked and deleted me off of everything.
So, I ask... How do you let go of someone you still deeply care about? How do you "start over"?
 ErinxCx
Joined: 3/12/2009
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Is It Possible To Be In Love With Someone You've Never Met?
Posted: 3/17/2009 1:25:06 PM
You know, I always wondered if I was crazy. The same thing happened to me. I met him online, and at first we were friends. Then we became, I guess you could say, Best Friends. It wasn't until a year later that I realized I loved him. I made the mistake of not telling him until a year after I realized ths. So, long story short... He said he loved me too. And we were always talking. But last November something changed. I'm assuming he found someone better to be with because he told me that it would be better if we were just friends. And I as all for it. Give me some space, you know? Yeah, he got another girl friend and I was just crushed. So I emailed him and said that it's probably better if we just not be friends anymore.

And I just got sidetracked.. Oh Yeah! I know how you feel, though. It's like no matter how hard you try you just can't stop thinking about this person. And you often day dream about the two of you.. and when you're out in public, you'll see and hear things that remind you of a conversation that you two have had and then you think about him even more. So, yes I believe it is possible to fall in love with someone you've met online. And no you're not the only one it's happened to.

 
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