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sterling68

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Thank you plenty of fish I found my true soulmate Posted: 3/16/2006 9:42:17 AM
Once in a lifetime your world just falls into place. I have met the woman that I always thought was a dream. But I am here to tell the whole world that my dream is reality I give props to this site for it is the reason that I am in love today. Love that will never end. I have found the woman who is a perfect match for my soul. I love her dearly and never will stop. Life has perfect meaning to it now and I have never been in love like this. I am off the dating market for good. I have found my eternity. My love is alive and well I have found true love and my wish to everyone out there is to not give up on love for everyone has a soulmate I am blessed to have found mine. I love her with all my heart and soul. Thanks again for the connection and the start for me that will never end.

sterling68

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help me survive valentines day and this week. Posted: 2/13/2006 1:06:39 PM
Struggle that is what life has become for me. I lost my wife Monica to another man. I feel like moving on and finding love again but each day that goes by I still feel like life is a long struggle. I loved her and if she is happy that is the only thing that makes me happy. She left me after an injury I aquired last summer. We were better friends than ever lovers and maybe we should have left the relationship at the friend level. We were married for twelve years. I gave so much of my life to her taught her all she knows and now she is the one who is with someone and happily moving on. She can buy the man in her life something for valentines day I will be going to bed early with no dining out and no card. I wish there was more out there for me. Today I got a phone call from someone on this site but they said they would call me back, but never did. My hurt will not stop I feel like a ship wandering at sea with no where to dock. Maybe I did something really wrong in my life and I don't remember it for noone should endure this much heartache and to add insult to injury my birthday is on Friday with again no one to really tell me it is ok to get older. No dinner with that special someone. No cake with candles again just an early night of sleep after a hard days work. I loved my wife and I guess I always will but if she is happier without me than that is a blessing for her. The real one for me is out there and my wish for this year is to find you. I am an honest man with real true love inside of me my heart is shattered and I am only finding the glue to piece it back together again but this time of the year is the hardest for me. Time is the essence and it has healed me to an extent but romance is missing in my life right now and this is a romantic time. So I sit here feeling a little sorry for myself and letting the world know how unhappy I am. I pray that the woman that is gonna save me from my lonliness is nearby and can lift me up a little to see the rest of the world.

sterling68

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help me! help me! Posted: 2/6/2006 5:16:58 PM
the only problem I see with your profile is that if you believe in God don't think that it will bring you problems. There are many religious contacts out here that will be turned off to your profile because you are saying one thing and meaning another.

sterling68

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Need some help with my profile !!! SOS !!! Posted: 2/6/2006 5:12:22 PM
Your profile is good but talk a little more about the interests you have not just a list for the compatability level out there I am looking for is how passionate people are about what they are interested in. If you broaden that part of your profile you will get a couple more nibbles and increase your chances of getting hooked.

sterling68

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feedback is starting but is there anything missing Posted: 2/6/2006 5:01:01 PM
I have gotten a little bit of feed back from my profile lately. Been talking to one girl in particular alot lately but it is like spinning wheels. What can I do or say to push the car back into motion. I do think it could use a little bit of critism whack away. I really believe that this site will bring me the person I will be in a relationship with but I want to stay local to my area. Go on USA and Canada and even the UK give me feedback. Don't be shy lets talk a little about me. I dare you.

sterling68

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Should we trust our heart? Posted: 2/5/2006 12:25:15 PM
I agree with lutra you must take risks and chances in life. I wear my heart on my sleeve and always am open to getting hurt, but true love now you can't put a price tag on that. The hurt goes away eventually but it is better to have love and lost then to have never loved at all. turns to sometimes but there is always when the love you share is so heart, head go with the gut and listen to your heart for it is always worth the risk.

sterling68

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All guys are jerks Posted: 2/5/2006 12:15:39 PM
There are many sensitive guys out here wanting to know why women think that. True many men don't really know what they want even when they have it. Women are not objects of lust they are human beings with feelings just like men. The difference is that men are labeled with the bread winning label from way back in the past. The here and now has women playing a different independent role and I am ok with that. Not all men are jerks but also not all women are either. Life and love and gender is a complicated mix which is pretty awsome when all the ingredients blend together to make a healthy relationship.

sterling68

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A letter to the ex Posted: 2/5/2006 12:08:05 PM
hate hate hate that sums up a life of broken dreams and sorrow. I feel hate also for the broken promise of till death do us part. I am alive my hate is alive and I guess it is an emotion that has supreme strength. 12 years is not forever. We are both still alive I feel saddened but wiser for the future. I do know what hate feels like and I wish I didn't. This is a good post to let off the steam for you can't let it eat you alive.

sterling68

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Seperation Posted: 2/4/2006 5:57:59 PM
Man I am in the same situation as you took her cell phone and she blatently lied that she was not doing the things I was catching her doing also the seperation is about three maybe four months now. The divorce process is started. She was guilty in all counts. The bad thing is I was rehabing from a broken leg while she was cheating. Dude if she is lying and getting mad and locking up her stuff she has plenty to hide. If you dig you will find so much stuff you may not even want to know about. Don't confront the guy if she is with him nothing will matter you just have to walk right through the fire and make it to the other side the relationship is lost. Even if you take her back and she is willing your trust is gone. Find someone who is into you and not other people and start a life that is trustworthy. That is my answer it is painfull and heartwrenching but it is the only answer.

sterling68

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Life approaching 40 Posted: 2/4/2006 12:29:00 PM
also an Aquarius I will be 38 in two weeks and am going through trying to date after a long drawn out marrriage. Well I hope to live to be 90 for longevity runs in the family so 40 is not even half way there. looking for a good woman to share the rest of my years with hope that happens soon. Sounds like I have low self-esteem but I am sick of being lonely. The older you get the more it is important to have a companion by your side. I actually have high self-esteem and love all the aspects of life but you can't kid a kidder who really enjoys being alone.

sterling68

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please check my profile Posted: 1/29/2006 2:28:33 PM
Thanks for the input and well yes going through a divorce can do a little damage to your self-esteem but believe me I am one of the most confident guys you can find anywhere. But I appreciate your input.

sterling68

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tell me what you think about southern women Posted: 1/29/2006 12:10:06 PM
Well I hope southern women are as sweet as you for I am from the northeast and I am moving to Virginia in May. Divorced and ready to start a new life in the South wish me luck.

sterling68

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please check my profile Posted: 1/29/2006 12:04:27 PM
What is wrong with this profile and where do I go from here????

sterling68

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the dream Posted: 1/29/2006 12:01:25 PM
To all the people reading this. It is not a pick-up line it is a revelation that I was trying to share with the people on this site. I am a romantic who happens to love music of all kinds and when I find something that clicks I want to let the world know but mostly I used to share my compassion with my wife but she is gone and I really am ready to start something that has no end. If you read into what Shinedown meant in there poem you will understand that.

sterling68

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THE WORST BIRTHDAY EVER Posted: 1/29/2006 10:38:49 AM
There really is no revenge the best I can think of is if he was attracted to you enough to have a relationship go out there and find someone better than him which don't sound too hard to do and rub it in his face that he isn't the big stud he thought he was.

sterling68

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the dream Posted: 1/29/2006 10:15:12 AM
Whisper in the yard and turn the trees all into toys. Lay there on the ground an turn the dirt into your joy. From what I see and what I know, it's all been boring lately. So I suggest we trade a question mark in for a maybe. Time your riddles right and make a point that has no sense. Make sure that you're smiling and the money's been well spent. Innocence and ignorance it all goes hand in hand. I'm not sure that i'm right but I hope you'll understand. I hope that your still searching for the start that has no end, and all the plastic people have now become your friends. Before you start to drift and your soul begins to scream. I just wanted to tell you that you're listening to a dream. Shinedown 2005. The beginning forward to this album makes sense if you read into it. I am looking for my start that has no end. Are there any good women out there who feel the same? I hope so for I have a lot to bring to the table. Let me in on your dream.

sterling68

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Y can't a man ever make up his mind?! Posted: 1/26/2006 4:39:10 PM
try being married to a woman who did basically the same thing to me. I took her back three times before we finally got seperated for good she was supposed to be my best friend till death do us part and after a waste of 12 years I am sitting wondering why I let it go on for so long you are better off not being in a relationship with someone who is not faithful for it always ends in heartbreak.

sterling68

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National Television Posted: 1/26/2006 4:33:37 PM
I definately would for the world could know what type of person she is after the mask she wears comes off. Then she could do to no one else what she did to me.

sterling68

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Help!? Posted: 1/23/2006 3:18:46 PM
It depends how you really feel about him. Do you want to spend time with him? If you are not in a serious relationship with him letting him down won't be hard just tell him what creeps you out and be honest. If you are not honest there will never be anything anyway.

sterling68

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Is there love out here on the internet Posted: 1/23/2006 3:13:31 PM
I am wondering if this site really works are people really honest? Time is the essence of life and life is awalys a gift for every second you live. No promises for the next second and no promises for tomorrow. When you wake up everyday it is a gift. When you go to sleep every night the day you had was a gift. So why be lonely when time is so uncertain. I am a happy go lucky guy and I am a little lonely right now and I don't really like it. I am honest and I don't want to be lonely meaning by myself if there is any girl out there who is just as lonely and would like relief from that drop me a line and read my profile.

sterling68

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Just want a little advice please!! Posted: 1/23/2006 3:00:50 PM
well said Horse Woman because that is the new name I call my soon to be ex wife SKANK

sterling68

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Can someone give me advice about my ex? Posted: 1/23/2006 2:58:12 PM
Wow Laura you are too young to be asking questions like this mostly if you can't trust him and girl after girl comes into play then you are better off finding someone you can trust. Mistrust will tarnish your relationship no matter how much you have feelings for that person.

sterling68

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abuse Posted: 1/23/2006 2:52:56 PM
Stop being a player and give any girl you meet a real chance to win your heart.

sterling68

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Just want a little advice please!! Posted: 1/23/2006 2:49:25 PM
you are 10 times prettier than my soon to be ex wife and you live in a wonderful place my sister lives in St. Augustine.

sterling68

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Just want a little advice please!! Posted: 1/23/2006 2:45:36 PM
I'll give you the flip side to your question. I am the dumpee in my marriage my wife started dating another married man when I was recovering from a broken leg it was a horrible situation for me which is now ending in divorce. If you are serious about who you want to date then be careful your not caught in the middle of the triagle for it is a bad place. I am moving on but I have very little assets to cling to in the dating world and the seperation was very painful. Don't leave yourself open for a season of heartache that will occur on the flip side of the relationship.

sterling68

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over 30,s women are sexier! Posted: 1/23/2006 9:02:21 AM
I also agree for women in their 30s know what life has to throw at them and are more serious than women in their 20s I think women in their 30s are at their peak of sexuality.

sterling68

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In A Grocery Store ... Should I Run Her Down With My Shopping Cart? Posted: 1/23/2006 8:59:08 AM
if you are seriously wanting to meet someone it is better to just say hi then create an intervention.

sterling68

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is it wrong? Posted: 1/23/2006 8:52:39 AM
If you are married and seperated pending divorce it is ok to be on this site but if you are happily married you have no need for you are doing your spouse a great injustice.

sterling68

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Head Games...What is the reasoning? Posted: 1/23/2006 8:50:04 AM
sorry you had to endure that most guys I know are not out there for the long haul but interested in the physical and that sucks for there are true people in this world who just need the chance to prove themselves. It sounds to me like this guy likes to play and if he has a job with lots of travel he needs someone where ever he is. You did right by ending it for you sound like someone who needs a committed relationship and you must not stop looking till you are satisfied.

sterling68

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How far would you travel to meet someone you've met online? Posted: 1/23/2006 8:44:32 AM
hey craterbuttocks how about pennsylvania. That isn't too far.

sterling68

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Dating in your 30's Posted: 1/23/2006 8:41:27 AM
I now find myself single in my late 30s and it don't get easier but harder for your confidence level seems to drop a little with every year you get older girls are not girls anymore but mature women who know exactly what they want and will not stop until they find it but being a man who is straight and serious scares women in their 30s because there are too many men out there who are not straight to the point and serious about what they want.

sterling68

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all you 30 something girls Posted: 1/23/2006 8:36:09 AM
because love is a gift from god meant to be shared with people and it is the best feeling in the world when you have it.

sterling68

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all you 30 something girls Posted: 1/22/2006 4:26:35 PM
that sounds real well but you don't need to be with anyone to be complete but you do need to be with someone for a connection and that is what I mean. I am also a whole person and like to have fun sometimes with the opposite sex.

sterling68

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all you 30 something girls Posted: 1/22/2006 4:21:30 PM
at this point fun will turn into a lasting relationship for the long run. But the main question I have for all of the women in Canada and America is what does it take and where do I sign up?

sterling68

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Dont be too harsh Posted: 1/22/2006 4:15:07 PM
You are a sweety there is nothing wrong with your profile. A girl as pretty as you and as young as you does not even need a site like this to get noticed you can take your pick I am sure at the local grocery store. Me I am just giving my 2 cents worth of advice for I am far to old to be dating anyone in your age bracket but my eyes don't decieve me you are a knockout and you will do just fine.

sterling68

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k let's have it! Posted: 1/22/2006 4:09:35 PM
your profile has it all and being from Pennsylvania I think you got it all going for you. You should have no problem with any feedback good luck.

sterling68

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public attention Posted: 1/22/2006 4:05:27 PM
that may be the best news I heard all day

sterling68

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all you 30 something girls Posted: 1/22/2006 4:02:21 PM
What do you want and what do you desire? Is it love is it happiness or is it just fun? Love is what everyone needs sooner or later in your life. Happiness does not always come with love and fun can be had single or with someone. I have to understand it all and ponder it with life in the 30s now. A caring soul is what I desire to cross the great divide of life but is there anyone out there who cares anymore. The divorce rate in America has reached 60% and climbing every year. I am really ready to become a stat in the other 40%. Help me 30 something women out there give me a reason to believe that life is a gift from God that we can share together and not searching and searching and searching and searching. Give into risks and give me a chance.

sterling68

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public attention Posted: 1/22/2006 3:53:34 PM
yes single but looking for my ideal. I don't want to look dumb out there.

sterling68

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public attention Posted: 1/22/2006 12:35:18 PM
I am finding that looking and finding the right one is a headache and in need an excedrin

sterling68

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hi to all that read the forums Posted: 1/22/2006 12:32:14 PM
Just put a visual of myself out there today and hope to get better feedback and hopefully an email in my inbox for I am ready to meet the world.

sterling68

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Do people lack confidence in their relationships?? Posted: 1/22/2006 12:27:13 PM
If you get burned too many times you lose the trust which is the main support system for any union and that is what is wrong with the world today TRUST and lack of it but there are too many players out there you don't know who is serious or just wanting a piece of the pie and then leave the table.

sterling68

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public attention Posted: 1/22/2006 12:17:50 PM
When you are single and out in public do women really know that you are alone by body language and if so how do you come off as confident in youself so you may be interested in me. I am confident in myself but I believe that sometimes women are turned off by over confidence I just don't know.

sterling68

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Are you looking or wanting to be found? Posted: 1/22/2006 12:12:46 PM
wanting to be found I will not hide anymore

sterling68

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when will I get a response??? Posted: 1/22/2006 11:55:57 AM
noted thank you

sterling68

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when will I get a response??? Posted: 1/22/2006 11:50:36 AM
my sister she lives in Florida

sterling68

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when will I get a response??? Posted: 1/22/2006 11:46:33 AM
I have redone my profile and added pictures of myself I am a nice guy looking for a nice girl can someone out there tell me what I need to do to get a response from someone.

sterling68

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God does have a bearing on your life Posted: 1/21/2006 4:18:57 PM
without a doubt my life is nothing unless God has the control. It took me a long time to see it and I bet myself up for many years trying to do it on my own. God does wake you up if you can see it happen.

sterling68

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hello from Pennsylvania Posted: 1/21/2006 4:08:46 PM
Hey I am new to this site and am looking for some religious souls to talk with me and maybe share a little more of lifes experiences with.

sterling68

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God does have a bearing on your life Posted: 1/21/2006 3:56:09 PM
God will give you a wake up call once in awhile if you are sane enough to see it. I have been in an unhappy marriage for 8 years with my wife. During the drama she has had an abortion and three affairs. The final affair has lead to her leaving me and starting the divorce process she left me because I was out of work for 4 months after shattering my right tibia bone. She works at the same place I do and her boyfriend does also. I have always given in to her but I believe with my whole heart that God will tell you when enough is enough. I have returned to work in a bad situation but with a lot of prayer I have changed my shift to another time schedule to get away from them. God has a plan for me and I will be with a woman whom I respect and not just exist. God will lead me to the right person and does answer prayer, sometimes his answer is no. I am looking around me and I feel alive again but there was a time I thought that life was over. Tell me if you have a reason to give God credit for where you are in life right now. I am single but with God's guidance I will be better off than I have been in a long time.

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