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edencapwell

Joined: 3/13/2009

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told myself I would never do it Posted: 11/23/2009 2:22:01 PM
wow, you sure are a douchebag.

edencapwell

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lol! Posted: 11/22/2009 10:48:35 PM
my poor writing skills were to get under homely, unattractive, hard up woman like you. How is that? I find that the rude response always seem to come from the ones who look like they can't get a date! you mean you're a beauty?? if so then why not post a f*cking picture??? if you were even slightly attractive, you would have a few pics posted. you've got some nerve to make fun of anyone without a photo!!!

edencapwell

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grow up? Posted: 11/22/2009 10:44:56 PM
what are you like 17?? i doubt it if your bf is 48 unless he's robbing the cradle. and i agree with what someone else said, men who don't like their ex's don't SLEEP with them or should i say f*ck them. if you believe that shit, then you're extremely naive.

edencapwell

Joined: 3/13/2009

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Meant to be alone Posted: 11/21/2009 12:28:55 AM
Everyone's love life is a disappointment, until the one comes along. yes but what if the one never comes along?? what then??

edencapwell

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are women playing GOD when they become pregnant Posted: 11/19/2009 8:16:52 PM
Cindy, the herb you were referring to is called St. John's Wort and it can indeed reduce the effectiveness of birth control pills. so can certain antibiotics.

edencapwell

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Whats wrong with people Posted: 11/18/2009 7:21:45 PM
is this your ex-wife or ex-girlfriend? whoever it is she does sound like she has plenty of issues. sounds like a boomerang, first she's there, then she leaves, then she comes back. you certainly shouldn't put up with her shit, you deserve MUCH better!! also since you've already taken her back several times, she feels she can keep treating you the same way and you will always forgive her and welcome her back with open arms. don't allow it anymore.

edencapwell

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The other side of WTF was he thinking? Posted: 11/17/2009 9:54:20 PM
es, and I think I understand you right!....Op, be careful with these women that just lie to you, or get cold feet once you meet. Trust me, her ego doesn't deserve a gentleman like you!! She is a slut and a whore, you can do better, because youARE better wow, judge much? she is a slut and a whore?? why, because YOU say so?? and who the hell are you anyway?? if a man has sex with a woman on the first date, then what exactly is he??

edencapwell

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The other side of WTF was he thinking? Posted: 11/17/2009 9:39:41 PM
This woman sounds like she's used to going to bed with men on first dates and probably took it as an insult that she didn't end up in your bed at the end of the night. that's because she was a hooker.

edencapwell

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How long does it take for you to get sick of people? Posted: 11/15/2009 10:38:46 PM
i see my bf once a week and he calls me every Thursday night. we keep in touch via email, usually 2 every day and that seems to work for me and for him. but i guess it depends on the relationship. i've been involved with men who like to call me every day or send a few texts every day.

edencapwell

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What are guys thinking? Posted: 11/15/2009 9:08:08 PM
say now, is your name Elaine Benes? i swear this is just like that Seinfeld episode when he took IT OUT, lol lol.

edencapwell

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Dating A Single Child Posted: 11/15/2009 8:34:41 PM
well i honestly NEVER date children, i believe it's illegal. are you by any chance talking about an only child?? because a single child really makes no sense and i have never heard that term before.

edencapwell

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how come women initiate the breakup 80% of the time? Posted: 11/13/2009 10:39:02 PM
well that's SOME women, i'm not them. i know what i want and i go after it. i'm not wishy washy and i don't change my mind constantly either. if i like someone, i commit to them and stay with them. i'm not always looking for someone better, i am satisfied and happy with who i'm with.

edencapwell

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He's banged his open-relationship roomie.... Posted: 11/13/2009 10:29:52 PM
well you keep defending him like he is some sort of saint and it doesn't sound like you want to listen to anyone's advice here so i'm wondering why you even posted this mess?? yeah real nice guy who has sex with a married woman, duh. if i were you, i would have run so fast i would have left skid marks, i mean yikes!!! what exactly are his good points?? doesn't sound like he has any.

edencapwell

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how come women initiate the breakup 80% of the time? Posted: 11/13/2009 10:08:52 PM
But it's not as bad as it looks... love is the biggest power. And if you find a fatty... who cares if she leaves?! LOL! Plus, men can increase thier knowledge about women. But from birth, it's generally more of a woman's game. wow aren't you mature and charming? how do we know that you aren't a fatty yourself? i don't see any pics so for all we know you could be lying thru your teeth. haven't you ever heard the expression birds of a feather flock together? chances are if the woman is fat then so is her husband.

edencapwell

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how come women initiate the breakup 80% of the time? Posted: 11/13/2009 10:06:10 PM
Since they're so exceptionally fickle, their needs can change daily/weekly to disastrous proportions and unfortunately, they tend to act during those aberrations. yeah right like men are NEVER fickle. i find men are way more fickle than women.

edencapwell

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MATCH.com V p.o.f Posted: 11/13/2009 6:29:12 PM
well if nobody charged any money, how would they continue to make a profit or to even exist? they are all businesses with employees whom they have to pay.

edencapwell

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When do I ask again, or do I? Posted: 11/12/2009 8:08:12 PM
i wouldn't push it either, you might appear to be too aggressive for her. maybe you could hint and ask if she has anything to tell you. you know kind of remind her that she never shared her past with you yet. btw, i LOVE your doggy, she's adorable. also looked at your profile briefly and my cousin was also born on Feb. 29, leap year baby. she even had her picture in the paper when she was a little girl.

edencapwell

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Addicted Posted: 11/11/2009 7:26:28 PM
well what type of relationship do you have? is it exclusive? if so, then he really shouldn't be on here and should either hide his profile or delete it entirely. if he's not willing to do that, then i think you should probably dump him. it sounds like you are unhappy that he's on this site and probably don't trust him in which case you definitely shouldn't be together.

edencapwell

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starting to give up findeing love Posted: 11/11/2009 7:06:48 PM
i did quickly look at your profile and the first thing i noticed was your terrible pictures!! they really are horrible. that just might be one of the reasons you aren't meeting any women. you could go to the profile review section and get their opinion. some pics are blurred and out of focus and in some of them your face is blue!!! WTF?

edencapwell

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are women playing GOD when they become pregnant Posted: 11/11/2009 7:03:17 PM
Celibacy is not a realistic choice, this is absurd. It's also completely unhealthy, people should be having sex(responsibly). Accidents are bound to happen but, when they do, both should have options. You cannot justify and allow abortion, adoption and sperm banks to be remain legal if you are to deny men their due rights. i believe she meant that a man should use condoms. she didn't say anything about celibacy.

edencapwell

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How much is too much? Posted: 11/10/2009 5:11:48 PM
well i think you may have appeared a bit too needy and eager but her response to you was totally uncalled for. in fact i think she was very rude and nasty. i mean to cancel only one hour before meeting is a bit rude to me. and what was her reason for it i wonder? she never did say, did she? was it an emergency or did she just get cold feet? sounds like a flake. i'm sure you're not missing anything.

edencapwell

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Does it change Posted: 11/10/2009 3:02:20 PM
I guess finding me a MASSIVE parther would be a breeze ummm...and what exactly is a parther?? or did you mean a panther?? wow, you certainly like to live dangerously, lol.

edencapwell

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Strange hobbies/collections Posted: 11/10/2009 2:28:23 PM
i love windchimes and have a few sets, not sure if it counts as a collection. i think the glass ones sound the best, i love the tinkling sound.

edencapwell

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Strange hobbies/collections Posted: 11/9/2009 7:38:16 PM
kaleidoscopes? now that's interesting. i don't think i've ever known anyone who collects those.

edencapwell

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Do men realy think that blonds are more attractive? Posted: 11/9/2009 7:31:46 PM
i believe it's actually blondes with an e at the end. blonde is for female and blond is for male. French i think.

edencapwell

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Strange hobbies/collections Posted: 11/9/2009 3:12:20 PM
i don't collect lighters but i found one in a dollar store that was really cute. its' a hotdog!! i use it for candles.

edencapwell

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A Plugged up Toilet, so she packed up and left?! Should I let it go? Posted: 11/9/2009 8:30:06 AM
i don't understand why you are still defending her?? i'd think you would be relieved to have this creature out of your life finally!! and how come she didn't have time to look for a job when she was home ALL day doing NOTHING?? what did she do all f*cking day anyway?? watch soap operas and eat bon bons?? must be a VERY boring life for her and i truly don't envy her. she needs to address the OCD and get some therapy and take meds. you as her friend should make sure she follows thru on this. you are just way too nice and kind. you seem to be a doormat which means everyone will walk all over you and take advantage of you your whole life unless you get tougher.

edencapwell

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Strange hobbies/collections Posted: 11/8/2009 9:00:53 PM
i was watching the Food Network yesterday and caught part of a segment. it seems this woman LOVES Jello and collects everything having to do with Jello, primarily molds which are either glass or metal. she also had quite a collection of Jello boxes some dating back to 1910. i found it all a bit odd but was wondering what has been the strangest thing anyone has ever collected? or maybe a weird hobby?

edencapwell

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Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop Posted: 11/8/2009 8:42:25 PM
You have a lot of growing up to do...if the sight of a mature woman's loveliness and assets disturbs you. Lets hope that some day you may meet a woman who maintains her loveliness and her sexuality until the day she returns to her maker. they are NOT assets and truthfully you are disgusting and stupid. you are the one who should grow the f*ck up. i've got a hell of a lot more going for me than you do. you are just jealous of my beauty and youth. you are also pathetic. i feel sorry for you. guess you know that you are way past your prime and most men are not attracted to your face anymore so you decide to look like a slut and a cheap one at that. i've had plenty of men in my life and none of them were losers like the ones you meet.

edencapwell

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Should I get divorced? Posted: 11/8/2009 5:16:09 PM
so you married her when she was 17? WTF?? no wonder you've got problems sheesh. who the hell gets married to a child?? obviously she wasn't mature enough to be married and still isn't mature enough. not sure why you chose to have a child with her. i don't see any hope. at 20 she is way too young to be tied down with a baby and husband. she wants to have fun it seems. she probably missed all that by marrying you when she was 17!!

edencapwell

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A Plugged up Toilet, so she packed up and left?! Should I let it go? Posted: 11/8/2009 2:34:58 PM
ummm...i'm still trying to figure out why you love her??? i mean WTF?? she's obviously mentally ill with OCD and extremely selfish. what exactly are her good points? doesn't sound like you've mentioned any redeeming qualities the woman might have. also why the hell isn't she working?? wow, lazy and selfish aren't exactly good traits for anyone. you must be desperate to have a woman in your life if you put up with this shit. surely you could do better and deserve better than the likes of her. i'm kind of shocked she had someone before you. i mean what the hell?? didn't realize there were so many desperate men out there that would put up with this type of abuse and crap. KICK HER TO THE CURB AND NEVER LOOK BACK!! MOVE ON!!

edencapwell

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Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop Posted: 11/8/2009 2:23:58 PM
I just looked at your photos in your profile and I can see that you have zero standards for yourself. You have no boundaries for what you will do or put up with. Get some class and find some classier men. i kind of had the same feelings when i saw her main photo. i mean what on earth are you thinking posting a pic like that with half your boob exposed?? if you were my grandmother or mother i'd be so embarrassed. you must be quite desperate because someone who is 60 really should have more sense and class, geez. guess what? you don't have to post revealing photos to meet a man. frankly i'm not surprised you are meeting a bunch of low class losers. if you don't post better photos, that is all you will meet.

edencapwell

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Do woman realise how ridiculous they look with pumped up lips? Posted: 11/8/2009 12:14:28 AM
i believe it's because of Angelina Jolie. most men think she is hot so women want to copy her. she doesn't do much for me but then i'm not a man.

edencapwell

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from one dater to another: 'show me your drivers license, please' Posted: 11/7/2009 10:26:38 AM
you can always Google someone or zabasearch.com

edencapwell

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23 year old woman without children, and I'm weird? Posted: 11/7/2009 10:10:53 AM
Maybe because your body looks like pregnant woman? well that's just stupid AND insulting!! also learn to spell. it would be *a pregnant woman" duh!!! i don't even see any pics on your profile. why is that? too ugly to post one?? i just love how people on this site have no pics but then have the nerve to judge someone who actually has one. i'm sure you are NO Brad Pitt. btw OP, my niece is 23 and has NO KIDS too. she just graduated college and might even decide to get her Master's degree.

edencapwell

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23 year old woman without children, and I'm weird? Posted: 11/7/2009 8:45:23 AM
i don't think it's weird at all especially if you are single. i think they are weird for thinking you are weird in the first place!! i mean WTF?? i can understand if you are divorced and have kids and then become a single parent. but to intentionally get pregnant without being married is wrong in my opinion. call me old fashioned but that's the way i was raised. also if you don't have the financial means to raise a child, you shouldn't be having any. and what if God forbid something happened to you, who would raise your child??

edencapwell

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Confused & upset - Why do men do this? Posted: 11/6/2009 8:19:47 PM
That doesnt mean that youre not good enough, it means either he didnt like your unique character, he didnt like your body, or he got bored of sex with you and wanted sex with someone else, all of which may be different with someone else. she DID NOT have sex with him!! don't you read?? she said she had only ONE date with him and it lasted 7 hours and then she never heard from him again. it would be nice if some people would read before posting.

edencapwell

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Sleep (yes, just sleep) with someone and your souls touch Posted: 11/6/2009 8:07:52 PM
how on earth do you sleep with your animals in the same bed?? i've had cats that slept with me in the past and boy was it uncomfortable!! now i won't let them on my bed anymore. the cats would curl up real close to me and i'd wake up the next morning all cramped up and in pain. sorry but i don't think it's a good idea to let your pets sleep with you.

edencapwell

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Pinocchio Posted: 11/6/2009 8:02:03 PM
i met a guy on another site a few years ago who told me with a straight face that he had been in the Secret Service!! talk about lying and b.s. geez. if he was in the secret service, then i'm Heidi Klum. amazing what tall tales some people tell.

edencapwell

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Creepy Posted: 11/6/2009 10:09:49 AM
sounds more like a nutcase than a creep. i mean why did he even bother to show up?? probably would have been better if he just stood you up. he could have at least gotten to know you and talk to you.

edencapwell

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IS IT TRUE THAT A WOMAN SHOULDN’T PURSUE A MAN? Posted: 11/5/2009 11:56:01 PM
was this book The Rules?? i did read it and thought most of it was garbage. i've never had a problem calling a man. i mean you have to show SOME interest or he will move on to someone else. i believe they also said something about NEVER returning a man's phone calls which to me seems extremely rude and impolite. i wasn't brought up that way. i wouldn't want someone to do that to me. if someone calls me and leaves a message, you'd better believe i will call them back in a timely manner. the book is about game playing and i would hope most adults are mature enough not to play them.

edencapwell

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Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop Posted: 11/5/2009 8:06:42 PM
Why do men do that? Why do they fall for someone just as they are, and then start trying to change them? "Change your hairstyle," whereas before it was gorgeous, "Lose weight", whereas before you were "just right". "Change the color of your hair and the way you dress." Whereas, before you dressed like a queen and your hair color reflected the sun.... Men.........where are the genuine ones? actually it's funny you should post this because i always hear men say the same thing about women. they say that women always try to change them. also i've never experienced a man wanting me to change my appearance or personality for him. and if i did, i think i would dump him because i wouldn't change for anyone but myself.

edencapwell

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How do you trust anyone on dating sites? Posted: 11/4/2009 9:07:20 PM
well if i got really serious with someone from a dating website, i'd probably hire a private investigator before going any further. i mean like moving in together or marriage. that way you will know the real truth. better to spend a little money before jumping into something serious.

edencapwell

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Our 15 year long relationship ends and he meets someone on here and starts a family in 9 MONTHS! Posted: 11/4/2009 8:56:04 PM
well if it's any consolation, he doesn't seem like the marrying kind. i mean he hasn't married this new woman either even when she had his kid so i doubt he will ever get married. doesn't look like it. too bad you wasted so many years on him. he seems like a loser.

edencapwell

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Anything worse than poor hygiene on a date? Posted: 11/3/2009 2:33:46 PM
that story was quite gross but i'm wondering why in the world you would blow someone on a first date? i mean WTF?? i'm not in the habit of giving BJ's to some guy i just met.

edencapwell

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What's the point? Posted: 11/3/2009 2:23:37 PM
I met this guy Friday. He phones me on Saturday afternoon and was like "what are you doing?" and I was like "watching A Haunting on the Discovery Channel. There's a marathon on because it Halloween" OMG i LOVE that show!! it's sooooo scary. i guess i have more in common with you than he does, lol.

edencapwell

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Teased for liking bbw's Posted: 11/2/2009 9:01:44 PM
Why are the women getting so big in the first place? they are getting big because they don't want the obese fat men to be alone.

edencapwell

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Confused & upset - Why do men do this? Posted: 11/2/2009 7:57:20 PM
He really wasn't into you. He liked you but didn't love you. If a guy loves you he'll hustle to call you back. We fear losing something good. well of course he DIDN'T LOVE her duh!! it was their FIRST date!! if someone told me they loved me after just one date, i'd run as fast as i could sheesh. that just wouldn't be normal. and if he just "wasn't that into her", then why spend practically the whole day with her?? he had nothing better to do??

edencapwell

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Confused & upset - Why do men do this? Posted: 11/2/2009 3:46:39 PM
Was seeing someone else at the moment (of course he is not tellig you that) and still desided to focus on her (because she is better) so if he was seeing someone else and was already in an established relationship, why did he spend SEVEN hours with the OP?? that really doesn't make any sense. unless he's a nutcase.

edencapwell

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Confused & upset - Why do men do this? Posted: 11/2/2009 3:39:44 PM
yes i too was dumped for an ex. he told me they had a history together. the history was 2 months so i was like WTF?? i also dated him for approximately 2 months. i was a bit hurt and upset and told him it would never last and of course it didn't. funny thing is 6 years later we are still friends but he NEVER hears from the EX.

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