I had my BC removed... on purpose because we wanted a baby...

Sounds like she has serious avoidance issues. Has no-one considered perhaps she was so terribly embarrassed to face the OP who possibly won't understand so she opted instead to escape, fully expecting never to hear from him again. So what diff is it to take care of the sheets if he's gonna pass on her after that anyway! It's rude to be sure but as I said, she was probably too horrified to face him. Think of it, if she's insecure enough to take laxatives (if that's the reason) then that'd be a disaster, the facade she kept up would have just flew out the door. That's my theory anyway, not that I been in that situation lol. I speculate that she was stunned but glad/relieved to hear from him yet kept the incident blocked from her mind, hoping/thinking he'd just carry on as normal. I'm not defending her actions, just putting forward a possible explanation.

I talked to her later that same day and even said i has A LOT of laundry to do. She acts like nothing happened. Should I ask her wtf? She wants to do "movie" night again next weekend after Thanksgiving.

If the women is going out with other men, and you keep on paying, along with other men, where does that leave you? Do you continue to pay for her? This is until SHE decides that she wants a relationship?

Yes, men should pay the first couple times, even three or four times. After that the men must decide if it is going anywhere, or is she is just a "friend"

You don't "date" on the internet, you use the internet to cast a net to find somebody that may be dating material.

Important distinction.

Is it true that women without children prefer a higher spec man than women with children??

Im finding that single women without children seem to be very ignorant, and are looking for VERY high standards in a man.

WHY AM I EXPERIENCING THAT?????

Very easy. They actually have said they have never had anyone like that before. All losers, drinkers, etc... Then it is "I'm scared" because it seems to be too good or appears to move faster than it should because all the drama, crap and craziness isn't there.

But you have all those qualities and they still don't move to keep you. Something always happens for the bottom to fall out like it was never there. I think really they get scared and can't deal with it when it is staring them in the face. They put up a wall at that point or something. Haven't figured it out yet!

I don't ever push for this, but if she suggests it, and I think we are connecting, I'll go along. But when the time comes, she is sick, or forgot she had other plans... Why does this happen? What am I doing wrong? Any insight would be great!

Are there better, more effective ways to meet numerous people from the opposite sex in such a short time?

I realize POF isn't the only fish in the sea, and I have heard of other sites, but wouldn't they have the same pool of members of the opposite sex?

Are diamonds REALLY a girl's best friend?

She is currently studying for a master's in Ministry. I understand that her beliefs are important.

Not hardly. It shows respect and shows that you aren't afraid to go after what you want.

Going in for one without making sure the other party is interested is an azzhat move, IMO.

Yeah, right and be perceived as a total wuss.

Maybe you should have just said "can I have a kiss?"

I think most SE Asians are dark but I'm not sure what countries or nationality constitutes as SE Asians.

kina took his chances you wouldn't charge him w/ flashin you for that lil stunt ha? Timing is everything!

So what does it mean when you tell someone that you want them to date other people?

Is this an easy way out to let me down? Or is this actually legit? What should I expect from this?

Why should it matter to the women he dates if he binge drinks alone occasionally?

@accuddler
Oh so Japanese women just want a clean, honest, gentlemanly, polite, intelligent, educated, kind, confident, emotionally stable, financially secure, respectful, nice smelling, socially aware, knowledgeable about foods/wines/etc, non-rude, and non-macho man then?

Isn't that what most women "supposedly" want?

Incorporating Steven Seagal into your dating life is, generally speaking, an excellent idea.