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Cialis or ED drugs online Posted: 11/21/2009 11:36:47 AM
There are websites (e.g. pharmacyreviewer) that check foreign pharmacies and rate their reliability, and remove their recommendation from those that aren't compliant. And far more than ED drugs are available, at a tiny fraction of the domestic cost. If all they sell are ED drugs, then they are suspect, IMO. They should meet FDA quality guidelines, require a prescription, and have licensed pharmacists dispensing. Check opmeds in Vanuatu as they seem to be reliable and inexpensive. Many items cost about 90 to 95% LESS than US or Canadian pharmacies, if you get the generic equivalent.

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Why do women scratch your back and bite your lip during sex? Posted: 11/20/2009 1:05:24 PM
Biting is a no-no for me, but scratching is okay if she doesn't break skin! I've encountered this very seldom. One woman dug her nails into my butt when she came - put me over the edge and thrust even deeper to get away from her nails! Kind of like spurs! lol It can be intense at the right time.

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Is love enough? Posted: 11/20/2009 9:19:54 AM
No, love is NOT enough. That's simply a myth that contributes to a lot of poor relationships. You need basic compatibility for the long haul, and that means more than a shared hobby or two, which are superficial things. Do you have the same core values, in things ranging across beliefs, integrity, child-rearing, and finances? Can you accept each other's different interests without creating conflict or guilt, and still have great shared time together doing other things you both enjoy? Edit: Second doglover on recommending the book, "Are you the one for me?"

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Male ED Posted: 11/20/2009 6:35:30 AM
ED may be more common now due to more men being overweight or obese than 30 or 50 years ago, causing a variety of cardiovascular problems. And yes, it does work extremely well, especially for those who do NOT need it!

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Her Orgasm Posted: 11/20/2009 6:16:02 AM
Yes, a woman is responsible for her own orgasms, if the man isn't finding the right combinations of stimulation to get her off. Some women are very easy to bring to orgasm, and others take a great deal of time, and still others need some atypical kinds or levels of stimulation. Even if he can get you off, he may be able to do it even better, but how would he know to try unless he's told? If he's not doing it for you, and you say nothing, it's NOT his fault - unless he doesn't try what you ask for.

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why do people feel like they need someone in their life . Posted: 11/19/2009 11:54:41 AM
Want. Need. Bleh! While I can be quite happy alone, I need companionship to be completely happy. I want a loving relationship to fulfill that human need. I hope that's acceptable to the nitpickers! Anyway, humans are social critters, and in general need companionship to be fulfilled. Pair bonding satisfies this urge very effectively.

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Second (or Third or. . . ) Time Around Posted: 11/19/2009 8:22:16 AM
Marriages - like condoms - don't recycle well. You should get a new one each time.

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Is This a Good Reason For a Husband to Leave? Posted: 11/19/2009 6:55:12 AM
Where is this young man's father? And why isn't he expected to help out if help is really needed? It seems he should have more responsibility than the new husband.

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Men love naked women Posted: 11/19/2009 6:36:54 AM
If we're at a point where I want you naked, you're already beautiful to me. What flaws? I also love women in sexy underwear. Peel and eat!

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What do Atheist Holla Out During Sex? Posted: 11/19/2009 6:31:34 AM
P.S. And I'd bet that if I stopped doing what I was doing right that moment, it would change to "Oh Hell!!!!" or "Oh Sh1t!!!"

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What do Atheist Holla Out During Sex? Posted: 11/19/2009 6:28:50 AM
I'm fine with her yelling "Oh God!" - at that moment, I am her God!

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Is This a Good Reason For a Husband to Leave? Posted: 11/18/2009 2:07:44 PM
It seems that most of the women responding - and many of the men - don't think he left for a "good" reason. It seems that these people are buying into the idea that her husband is responsible only as a source of money and support, and that he has no other rights and shouldn't have any expectations. I still think she chose her son over her husband, when her son could have found a cheaper place to live or found a second job. It's great that the husband was not only willing to help out, but did so in several ways beyond providing a free place to live. However, he had every reason to become unhappy when his generosity and kindness were abused and unappreciated. He did the right thing, IMO, in leaving.

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do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great? Posted: 11/18/2009 1:30:40 PM
I hear what you're saying, m14. I certainly enjoy and want to have a loving relationship - nothing beats that! However, if I don't have that, I won't pass up great sex while on the quest for such a relationship, though I wouldn't settle for just great sex for very long. Happily, I have both, and needn't seek either.

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do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great? Posted: 11/18/2009 11:37:18 AM
Sex with love, or without love, is great. Great sex is great sex, and while love may add a little something, it doesn't make much difference to anyone's orgasm. It may make the cuddling afterwards more enjoyable, however. Sex without love is only less great when you worry about what you've gotten yourself into. So, I need to at least know the person enough to like them. And I can usually tell within 10 minutes if we can actually hold a focused conversation!

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Are you sure your ready for a relationship again? Posted: 11/18/2009 11:25:59 AM
If you're the one who chose to leave, then you'll probably be ready sooner that the one who got left. For me, I was ready the day I moved out. The relationship had been dead for years, and I'd already mourned it, let it go, and went through a lot to develop myself and lead my own life - we were barely housemates those last few years. I met someone three weeks later. We dated intermittently over the next year, but saw others (she wasn't ready for a relationship, and I was biding my time until she was, or decided she wouldn't be). After about a year, she was ready, and it's now 9 years later and the best relationship we've ever known. Time since the official end of the last relationship means little - circumstances matter far more.

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whats the most orgasms you've had in one day? Posted: 11/18/2009 11:02:26 AM
Max, I think 8 in one day with a partner. An average day, usually 2 or 3 - with a partner. Weekends, usually several more. Her max - well, we lost count around 30, and there were many more after that, and that's only for the morning session.

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Silent Sex Posted: 11/17/2009 1:55:21 PM
I always used to be pretty quiet, but my SO likes vocal feedback, and has slowly enticed me to do so. Unbearable tickling often gets things going - tell her to start with your balls.

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finding a girl who enjoys sex Posted: 11/17/2009 9:38:13 AM
Not all women will have the same interest or enjoyment. Not all are worth the effort of nurturing and educating, because their attitude can take too long to change if it will ever change. Even virgins can have attitudes, conditioning, and hang-ups that are too much effort to overcome for most men. I'll let m_church and others like him to provide the long-term therapy sessions. It's okay if some assembly and adjustment are needed, but aside from that I prefer a woman who is ready to go right out of the carton. BTW, that's a metaphor for you literal-minded people, and not a statement of my preference for blow-up dolls. I'll also reiterate my earlier opinion - that a woman who readily initiates sex rather than merely responds to overtures is more likely someone who enjoys and will continue to enjoy sex.

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Why do people lie? Posted: 11/17/2009 9:21:46 AM
I like the truth, but appreciate tact. Some people can't accomplish both at the same time. Some would rather lie than hurt someone's feelings, and I'm not too concerned about that as long as the immediate end result is the same. E.g., I'd prefer someone to tell me that we're not compatible, than say they think I'm butt ugly and want nothing to do with me! Same end result, but tactful. BTW, OP, since we're being truthful here, I find your over-use of emoticons distracting and immature, and it makes you seem naive. IMO. Honestly.

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Hooked on having a FWB? Posted: 11/17/2009 9:11:58 AM
I believe in equitable relationships, of whatever kind. I've been in FWB relationships, and then entered into a "conventional" long-term commited relationship. Why? Because I found someone who met ALL of my criteria for a relationship, rather than just many. As for that FWB? Now just a good friend, and the SO is fine with that, BTW. It's hard to comprehend all the drama people create around various kinds of relationships and past relationships, but that's just me, I guess.

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Is This a Good Reason For a Husband to Leave? Posted: 11/17/2009 8:07:29 AM
I'll be devil's advocate here. So, you coddled an irresponsible adult child who wouldn't get a better job - or a second job - in order to support himself, and disrespected your husband who had agreed to help out but only under conditions to which you agreed and then reneged upon. You made your choice, he made his. It's not like you didn't know there was a problem, and I'd say neither of you handled it very well and only made things far worse for everyone.

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Why some men never want marry? Posted: 11/16/2009 12:13:50 PM
that most of these other mammals are not thinkers nor do they have a conscience. We humans are rather unique in that way. Agreed. And I think marriage is often a bad idea, especially for men. As for conscience, it's mainly brought us guilt, unhappiness, and manipulation by religious leaders for purposes of power and social control. It may help promote social stability, but at a significant cost. I seldom see that it has made us any happier or more in tune with our innate humanity and sexuality. Side note: Many of the concepts of fairness exist in other primates (and even dogs) - generosity, justice, and altruistic behavior are not uniquely human.

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Smarter ladies have worse sex Posted: 11/16/2009 7:42:41 AM
Ooooh.......you're sending me your wife!! Awesome!! I just might! Then you'd be sorry! lol I can keep up with her - just. However, she's not bi, but you could go shopping!

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finding a girl who enjoys sex Posted: 11/16/2009 7:36:30 AM
There is no good way to tell, but there are plenty who do. I think the key is that once you've become sexually active with each other, she often initiates. Initiation shows definite desire and interest. If you are the one who always has to initiate, even though she almost always responds positively, that response may fade once she feels she doesn't have to make as much effort to keep you around.

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Dating A Single Child Posted: 11/16/2009 7:13:20 AM
Does someone having or not having siblings alter your opinion of whether or not you would date them? Well, as an only child myself, my preference has been to date women with few or no siblings. Few families are loving and functional, and the holiday obligations can be a major effort in diplomacy to avoid outright warfare. Christmas and birthdays become a chore of budgeting, planning, shopping and logistics. The phone is always ringing to discuss someone's problems. No, large families do not appeal to me, children or not!

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honest answer... Posted: 11/16/2009 6:49:19 AM
It sounds like an idea relationship, and you both seem commited even though it's unstated. Neither of you are seeing others, from the sounds of it. I wouldn't rock the boat, unless, perhaps, you want to have children with him. Since your profile says you have children, this may not be an issue. So, life is good. Do you have any reason from his words or behavior to think otherwise? Perhaps if you have some long-term plan or goal you both work on together, that will show you his intentions to be around for the duration.

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How long does it take for you to get sick of people? Posted: 11/16/2009 6:37:36 AM
If we're right for each other, then 24x7x365 - less bathroom breaks. Seriously! A couple of years into our relationship, we bought an RV and traveled full time for 2 years. We were never apart for more than a few hours at a time during those 2 years, and it was entirely blissful. We're not thrilled that I now have a job where I have to go to the office.

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Why do second marriages fail more often? Posted: 11/16/2009 6:28:50 AM
I'd say that second marriages fail at a higher rate because people are smarter. They see more easily and quickly the irreconcilable differences and don't waste time trying to fix what can't be fixed. Of course, all the other factors mentioned come into play as well. It would seem that whether it's the first, second, or tenth marriage, people have a difficult time selecting someone compatible. In part, it's not their fault - many flaws and bad habits don't become apparent until later or take awhile to become intolerable. There is always risk, of course, but I tried very hard to be amongst the 30% or so that succeed. It's looking very good so far, at 10 years into this second relationship!

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Smarter ladies have worse sex Posted: 11/15/2009 9:30:45 AM
According to these forums, I might as well become a crazy cat lady and buy a sex machine!! Hold off on the cats, MsMicki. I can also loan you a sex machine on weekends - just pay my airfare! Joking aside, I recall reading studies years ago that correlated better sex with more education. College educated people of both sexes were more adventurous and open-minded about various sexual practices, and had fewer hang-ups and misconceptions (no pun intended!) about sex. They may think and analyze more, but most set that aside during sex. Ignorance is sometimes bliss, so the less educated or less intelligent may simply be less informed and therefore believe they're having better sex. If it makes them feel good, good for them.

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Kissing during sex; cuddling after sex. Posted: 11/15/2009 5:30:43 AM
If I were having sex with a woman, and she wouldn't kiss me during, I would feel like I'm with a cheap whore. It would feel like she is not at all into me, and I'd probably leave. As for cuddling afterwards, I thoroughly enjoy that, even if it's "casual" sex. If I like someone enough to have sex with them at all, I'll want to cuddle.

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Matches based upon personality Posted: 11/13/2009 10:59:59 AM
You make some good points, jobba. And while many are looking for the sizzle, the fire may go out before long if there isn't compatibility underlying it to support a deeper relationship. I always sought compatibility, and then required that the sizzle or chemistry also exist. Sizzle leads to many dead end relationships, as compatibility takes longer to establish - especially when distracted by the sizzle.

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Sexually Inadequate??? Posted: 11/13/2009 10:47:19 AM
It sounds like your equipment works - it just takes awhile to heat up. My SO is like that, and I don't find that it's a problem taking the time and using whatever works to ensure her enjoyment. I like pleasing her! Once she is hot, she can keep going and have multiple orgasms. It's the first one that's difficult for her. I certainly don't feel inadequate. In fact, I feel good that I can get her there, whereas some men might not have the skill or patience or self-assurance. And she's certainly not inadequate in any way.

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Matches based upon personality Posted: 11/13/2009 7:58:53 AM
^^^ You seem to be at the extremely skeptical end of the spectrum on this. Did you know that the Meyers-Briggs method is used extensively by thousands of corporations to help employees better understand different coworker personalities and how it impacts how they approach their jobs and communications with colleagues. It has proven value, and some of the knowledge and insights are directly applicable to dating. However, it's only a starting point, and there are many cases where someone will totally surprise you and be compatible despite seeing not to be on paper. And that's why I would always be open to anyone who seemed interesting, despite their type. In practice, though, 9 out of 10 women I actually did enjoy dating were all NF types.

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Friend can be an Embarrassment Posted: 11/13/2009 7:42:15 AM
If your friends embarass you, then they're not such good friends - or perhaps it's you. If they make you that uncomfortable, then end the friendship, otherwise accept them as they are. Of course, you can always give them the option to come or not, once they know who else will be attending.

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why is that an older woman looking for younger men is OK but...older men for younger girls is BAD Posted: 11/13/2009 7:08:32 AM
Older men interested in younger women has been normal for hundreds of thousands of years. Ever since the feminist movement, though, women have been levelling the playing field. Unfortunately, the judgmental and derogatory epithets have gone a little too far - because really, it's fine for either gender to look for younger partners, as long as current legalities are respected and the people involved are willing participants.

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Wanted : A Chemistry drug ! Posted: 11/12/2009 1:35:39 PM
Attraction is due to certain brain chemicals being triggered, so it IS based in chemistry. Therefore, "feeling the chemistry" is actually an accurate phrase.

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Matches based upon personality Posted: 11/12/2009 1:32:34 PM
I'm convinced matches using personality factors is very helpful, but there's far more to finding a great match than can be captured in a questionnaire. I did my own personality matching before it became common online. I knew that INFx Meyers-Briggs types are by far the best matches for me, but that just helped narrow things down to a smaller group. Sometimes they'd do the questionnaire, but with enough communication I could usually peg their type very accurately. Anyway, it worked for me, and I have my ideal match - and she is an INFx.

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Sending RL Guys to Online Profile Posted: 11/12/2009 10:29:34 AM
I suppose it could work, but then again, if they're not already on the site, they may decide to start shopping. And you never hear from them again! (It works well for swinger sites, but probably not so much for dating.)

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Shaving or trimming your privates at our age? Posted: 11/12/2009 10:23:41 AM
This thread is getting way too graphic for my delicate sensibilities!

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6 month relationship Posted: 11/11/2009 9:34:57 AM
Frau clearly has a point, but following her advice will almost definitely result in the end of the relationship, IMO. If you're okay with that and can't tolerate some ambiguity for awhile longer, then go for it!

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Has God always existed? Posted: 11/11/2009 9:16:10 AM
I don't think God has always existed - I think God came into existence when humans developed sufficient intelligence to question why the world is as it is, and tried to come up with an answer. The sophistication of the concept of God has grown with the development of civilization. As for the universe - IMO, it always existed, at least as the multiverse, not specifically the one in which we live.

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Online Dating v Traditional Methods of Dating Posted: 11/11/2009 6:33:58 AM
Advantages of online dating compared to traditional methods: * a far larger pool of potential candidates * improved knowledge of who's actually available and looking * ability to screen for relevant characteristics, such as age, religion, desire for children, etc., as well as mutual interests and hobbies * ability to communicate conveniently with a large number of people to obtain further screening information to determine compatibility, without wasting time and money pursuing unsuitable people in person * often able to get some idea of attraction if good photos are posted or can be obtained The only disadvantage is that you can't determined "chemistry" - sexual attraction - except in person, but at least the people you meet AFTER screening carefully for probably compatibility are likelier to pass the chemistry test as well. Of course, many people do not approach online dating in a way that takes advantage of these features, and simply use it to find nearby passable candidates and meet them quickly, then find out later if there is any real compatibility. So, I think it's only an effective tool if used carefully.

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Do you ever think about how much time you have left? Posted: 11/10/2009 7:59:09 AM
Caramel, you may feel the passage of time and hope to find the loving relationship you desire, but don't forget to live your life fully NOW as well as continue seeking. Once you do find that thing called LOVE, and have established a wonderful relationship, the passage of time continues. Then you may worry about how much time you have left to enjoy this wonderful relationship. It does prime you to appreciate what you have as best you can, and make the most of it. I realize that the love of my life could be gone at any moment, for unknown reasons, but all I can do is appreciate what I have now. However, in BOTH situations (wanting, and having), it would be a mistake to focus too much on how much time is left, as that detracts from what you have NOW. Plan and work for what you desire and enjoy, but live and enjoy in the now.

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Men 35-44, are we in the sweet spot? Posted: 11/10/2009 7:11:14 AM
^^^I'll venture an opinion. They're not taken because they don't want to be. They probably have exciting, fulfilled lives without permanent relationships. It works for some, but personally, I enjoy a commited relationship.

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Is porn ruining real live sex? Posted: 11/10/2009 7:01:14 AM
I've watched some porn, but it has very limited appeal. It certainly hasn't ruined "real live sex" for me or my partners in any way. At best, it can set the mood by causing some arousal, but by itself it isn't that satisfying - IMO - unless you have someone real to share with too. I recently met a web-cam porn starlet, and yeah, she can handle the monster coc ks and toys and likes it - and she also likes average size guys. It was interesting to learn that most of her clients are military in Iraq and Afghanistan, as well as shut-ins and disabled guys - she looks at it as helping people be happy. Kind of makes sense to me.

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What's this I see, he says suspiciously ... Posted: 11/10/2009 6:47:23 AM
Large breasts on a slender woman have a definite appeal, but ONLY if they're natural. I've met some women with more silicon than a supercomputer, but nowhere near as bright.

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Chemistry/Attraction Posted: 11/9/2009 1:15:24 PM
I usually know quickly and early in the first date if there is significant attraction, but can't always tell if there is sufficient compatibility - so a second date (or more) is often needed to establish that. However, I try to get the main compatibility questions answered well before even meeting, whenever possible. Very rarely the attraction has been ambiguous when one or both are out of sorts or particularly nervous, and a second date will usually make things clear.

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do men like getting more then giving Posted: 11/9/2009 12:56:17 PM
I love giving, and love pleasing my woman however she likes it. Few things can compare with wearing her out and having her fall asleep in my arms. And yes, I love receiving too. Sometimes the focus is on one of us, sometimes the other, and sometimes both. Whatever the mood brings forth! It's all good.

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Sex versus love Posted: 11/9/2009 11:44:38 AM
^^^ And if they have sex on the beach, don't want it used as an ashtray. Okay, I'll butt out now.

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Your two cents worth...... Posted: 11/9/2009 10:31:21 AM
Everyone is imperfect - some are just more imperfect than others.

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