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datingdave56

Joined: 1/13/2006

Msg: 63 (view)

men and the chase Posted: 5/23/2007 3:11:43 AM
So ladies, that's me. These posts stay a long time by as of this writing I am NOT dating any one. I am in only one serious relationship at a time. That's me. And I'd like to hear if I'm doing this all wrong or right, thank you for reading

datingdave56

Joined: 1/13/2006

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men and the chase Posted: 5/23/2007 3:07:41 AM
I'm glad to see I'm not alone. I see a profile and I respond to it, I initiate the conversation, maybe it is up to me to keep it going, but then ladies why are you here if not to take a chance, and write a few lines back and forth with a guy, who's just here for the same reason as you, according to your profile. In this case she saw my profile and wrote to me first, I respond with: ---------------------------- "Hello (her name), Thank you for writing. I'd like to learn more about you. My two children are grown and out of the house. I've been single for just over three years. Some of my relationships were short, the last one was 7 months and ended in early April. What other morsel of information would you like to know? Tell me about you O and Communication is VERY important to me too. Communication is a two way street, each must be willing and able to open up and speak and Listen B. David :)" ---------------------------- and she replies with: "If you want to chat more email me back." ---------------------------- Did I say something that turned you off? In this case I wrote her first, my second email asked some questions, not too personal, gave my answers to the same questions and I expected a small exchange of emails till one of us gave up our phone number and we began phone conversations, till we both felt comfortable enough to meet in a public place for coffee, or a drink (which I think is bad for a first date). So this is the letter I was going to send, if you think is applies to you, then maybe it does, if not maybe it doesn't. Ladies, this is me, B. David: ---------------------------- SUBJ: I respect you (her name), I'm not into chasing you or playing games. #1 I am a gentleman, not rude, nor easy and I'm not a child. I saw you picture, read your profile and thought take a chance. I believe if I'm not willing to take a chance, I'll never meet the lady (notice, I didn't say girl) I'm looking for. You put up a profile here on POF to meet people, to eventually meet that special someone. Maybe you're currently dating and haven’t decided, tell me so, don't lead me along, just say "I'm dating, give me 2 weeks to decide if this one is the one and I'll write back.” I can accept this. I asked you some questions and didn't get an answer, maybe I'm a bit harsh, but did you read my e-mail? I am interested in you, to know more, when I feel comfortable I'll give you my real email address and maybe my phone number too and you can call me, or give me yours for me to call you, if you like the guy to call first. ---------------------------- Well that's my opinion, I could be wrong, in which case I'll be single till I die :(

datingdave56

Joined: 1/13/2006

Msg: 28 (view)

Tampa Bay Sexy Back Saturday - 05/19/07 - POF - Meet & Greet!! Posted: 5/19/2007 9:59:04 AM
I'm looking forward to getting to meet some of the fine people here at POF.

datingdave56

Joined: 1/13/2006

Msg: 282 (view)

Men posing with cars Posted: 8/12/2006 4:28:54 PM
Then why is it when I drive the Black 2001 BMW 330Ci convertable, Girls look at me and if I'm driving the '88 GMC 1500 truck, not even a glance. I really don't want to date a girl who looks at me in the BMW, I want a Lady who wants me for me. Is there something wrong with me?

datingdave56

Joined: 1/13/2006

Msg: 137 (view)

Tampa/St Pete Party AUG 12 Posted: 8/7/2006 5:01:47 PM
Sounds GREAT, August 12, is it still on? I'm glad there is something local. Lakeland was a bit too far would have to get a hotel. Looking forward o it, Ft. DeSpta is GREAT Dave, Looking forward to meeting other fish

datingdave56

Joined: 1/13/2006

Msg: 12 (view)

Tampa Bay POF Get Together Posted: 1/24/2006 6:16:43 AM
OH I'M GOING TO GASPARILLA, wouldn't miss it. It's gona be a party and I got so many people commming from WestFloridaRomance and Florida_Singles and here and friends bringing friends. I may need some help. Write me if you want more information, same ID at yahoo. I am having two chat sessions on yahoo wednesday night and will have answers after 9:00 PM. Have a great week/end

datingdave56

Joined: 1/13/2006

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What makes a good introductory email: Male to Female Posted: 1/23/2006 9:22:53 PM
I guess I'm just happy to hear that I'm doing the right thing by being myself. Glad to hear I don't need to be a jerk to get a lady to chat/write me. Thanks

datingdave56

Joined: 1/13/2006

Msg: 9 (view)

Tampa Bay POF Get Together Posted: 1/23/2006 8:09:01 AM
Gasparilla Adult Gasparilla Pirate Fest 1/28 - Who wants to go? http://www.gasparillapiratefest.com/ Saturday, Jan. 28, 2006 Gasparilla Pirate Fest 2006 by SouthWest Airlines - Downtown Tampa http://www.visittampabay.com/events/major/moreinfo.php?Event_ID=5017 The Florida State Fair (Thursday, Feb. 9 – Monday, Feb. 20, 2006, Tampa Fairgrounds). The Florida Strawberry Festival (Thursday, Mar. 2 – Sunday, Mar. 12, 2006; Plant City). These functions would be great opportunity to get together. Here is a link to a web site with several of the functions occurring in the near future/2006. http://www.visittampabay.com/events/major/index.php

datingdave56

Joined: 1/13/2006

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What makes a good introductory email: Male to Female Posted: 1/23/2006 8:03:15 AM
I would like to add, since my friend has blocked the "Forward Males" she has begun to see some nicer class of people. So both the ladies and men, Keep trying, tell a little about yourself and ask a question. We are here to meet someone who can make our lives more interesting and have fun with/not at their expence.

datingdave56

Joined: 1/13/2006

Msg: 7 (view)

Tampa Bay POF Get Together Posted: 1/22/2006 9:53:10 PM
How about Jan 28th: My name is Dave. I am on two yahoo groups putting together a group going to Gasparilla in Tampa. Why don't you get together and come on Saturday Jan 28th. Email me if you want.

datingdave56

Joined: 1/13/2006

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Looking for some ideas for a Tampa get together in February Posted: 1/22/2006 9:25:13 PM
How about Jan 28th: My name is Dave. I am on two yahoo groups putting together a group going to Gasparilla in Tampa. Why don't you get a group together and come on Saturday Jan 28th. Email me if you want.

datingdave56

Joined: 1/13/2006

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Meet over 4000 singles at the Singles Expo- Friday, January 13th Posted: 1/22/2006 9:21:03 PM
My name is Dave and I did go to the event on the 13th in Tampa. I went alone and about two hours after it started and lots of people looked like they were having a good time. I am on two yahoo groups putting together a group going to Gasparilla. Why don't you get a group together and come on up Saturday Jan 28th. Email me if you want.

datingdave56

Joined: 1/13/2006

Msg: 10 (view)

So where are the South Florida Get Togethers? Posted: 1/22/2006 9:00:28 PM
How about Gasparilla Saturday Jan 28th, It's gona be GREAT. Drop me an email or post something here. I'll setup a meet in Tampa.

datingdave56

Joined: 1/13/2006

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st.pete fl any gettogethers ? Posted: 1/22/2006 8:53:37 PM
Let me know, I'm on 2 yahoo groups and here looking to get a group to go to Gasparilla Saturday Jan 28th and then again the State Fair in Tampa, February, and the Plant City Strawberry Festival in March, I just want to get a group out. I went to the Gasparilla Saturday the 21st with a lady and her son, just as friends, wish I could get more people to go out as a group. Email me, or post here if your interested in going to any thing here in the Bay area.

datingdave56

Joined: 1/13/2006

Msg: 15 (view)

Do I ever wish, I was down South right now..... Posted: 1/22/2006 8:41:48 PM
The weather was so hot today and yesterday, I was sweating at Gasparilla in Tampa and here is St. Petersburg. The weathers great, Vcation in Florida, and leave your money here. Thanks for visiting, Come Back now ya hear.

datingdave56

Joined: 1/13/2006

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What does it take to get a great looking woman? Posted: 1/22/2006 8:34:42 PM
CoverGirl you got the right answer. And so does the post earlier by Cajun, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. OK, here is where I go wrong, I'm 6' 170 lbs. I am looking for a lady comparable/looks like we fit together; I would say about 5’3” to 6’, 110 to 150 lbs. I don’t want to date a lady bigger than me. Is this wrong? I want a lady that I find attractive in looks and mind. I want a lady that I can, and we can communicate. I also want a “SINGLE LADY” I am a Single Gentleman. Am I wrong, what should I do?

datingdave56

Joined: 1/13/2006

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What makes a good introductory email: Male to Female Posted: 1/22/2006 7:18:38 PM
I have seen the types of emails ladies receive on this site, only this site, since I have a friend on this site willing to show me her emails (ladies please confirm or denounce what I am saying). About 75% of the emails my lady friend receives are very forward, talking about what they expect for breakfast the next morning. The emails I have written to meet ladies, start with communication and find out if we have any common interests, something to build on and out of 20 emails sent, I've received 2 replys. So the question is "What makes a good introductory email: Male to Female". Should I be forward or nice, I am a gentleman looking for a lady.

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