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MsMaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 44 (view)

Passionless Relationship Posted: 10/31/2007 9:02:52 AM
It takes work by both parties to keep a relationship fresh and exciting. You will get from it whatever you put into it. If sex is one of the things you need in a relationship and you have discussed it with your partner, then it should be and easy fix. If you both can not come to understanding about sex before you marry then why marry. Communication is key if you can't do it BEFORE marriage, it will not suddenly happen after marriage.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

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why do men get so bent out of shape when a woman says no thanks? Posted: 8/13/2007 12:59:28 PM
People do not like rejection. Some more than others do not handle it well. You tell them you don't want whatever they have to offer and the name calling starts and the angry responses to your polite refusal. Some can be childish and immature. Then you know your first response to them was the right one. Listen to your inner feelings.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

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Do women still like guys who sing to them? Posted: 8/13/2007 12:44:33 PM
I enjoy it very much. I have even had guys write songs about me.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

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Is there such a thing as the Alpha Female? Posted: 7/31/2007 12:24:51 PM
I believe that women have come into their own. Due to the change in social acceptances, men have become softer or are looked on as more in touch with their feminine side (i.e. metrosexual...). So I believe an Alpha female would bend to accommodate and Alpha male. Because she is looking for an equal not a subbie.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

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So they want me to post here before I delete this account Posted: 7/17/2007 3:02:12 PM
Good luck to you. If you truly want to change for the better you will. I hope you find the peace within that you need to allow others to love you and get your love in return.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 232 (view)

why do women shy away from guy that doesnt drink?? Posted: 5/21/2007 1:14:46 PM
Their loss if they turn down a good man simply for not drinking with them. I will date men who treat me well. Drinking does not become a factor unless he's an alcoholic. I do not drink any alcohol and do not plan to start. But all my friends do. I will b the only sober one in the crowd but they still enjoy asking me to go out. I like to have fun and do not need alcohol for that.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 667 (view)

guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 5/10/2007 7:19:20 PM
I've met several. Some say they can not cum from it so they don't want it. Some have medical condiotns that cause pain when sucked [ too much force or suction ].

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 221 (view)

Most girls lie on this site! Posted: 5/10/2007 7:10:18 PM
most people in general lie. You simply don't talk to most people so it's not as obvious.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

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how old you are vs how old you look/act Posted: 5/10/2007 7:08:05 PM
I totally agree. I date younger always.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

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Fayetteville Area Posted: 4/19/2007 12:34:24 PM
I'm new to "The Ville" I love it here

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

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child support question when child is over 18 Posted: 3/17/2007 3:53:10 PM
I have a child support order on the books never went to court to force the issue. My son is now 19 in college and I am paying for it. In his lifetime he has received $300.00 in child support from his father, who lived 5 minutes from us. Now I am receiving child support checks for $70 every month. The arrears is over $50,000. I will not do anything if the $70 dollars stops coming fine, if not fine. I can use gas $$$ to visit my son in college.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

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teenage son's Posted: 3/17/2007 3:47:04 PM
I feel your pain. I never had that problem with my son. From infancy he always wanted clean hands and face so he could always be ready to eat lol. He was always in some sport from age 7 on so his coaches handled grooming and proper attire for young men. I would say time will change your son and the influence of girls.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

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whats with toys??? Posted: 3/17/2007 2:23:54 PM
the glass ones are nice and the ones that you can warm up that feel almost real. I'm not found of vibes as a rule but this back massager I have is better than any sex toy I've ever used

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 110 (view)

age differance and dateing Posted: 3/17/2007 2:20:46 PM
as long as you click with the person and it's mutual, forget age enjoy your life

msmaxx

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One third of older women date younger men Posted: 2/24/2007 7:22:59 PM
I've always been out of sync. I started dating younger when I was 24. I've never stopped

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 271 (view)

Do women ever wear garters and stockings anymore? Posted: 2/24/2007 3:11:29 AM
yes when dressing up. It makes me feel sexy.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

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Would you date any of your Ex's again? Posted: 2/24/2007 3:03:11 AM
date No have sex with YES. I trained him well to do what I enjoy. So in bed perfect, out of bed he sucks (and not in a good way)

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

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Big Girls ridin ?!? Posted: 2/15/2007 3:54:53 PM
ride him hard and put him to sleep wet

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 9 (view)

help Posted: 1/5/2007 2:39:14 PM
I am a practicer of the straight forward honest approach. If she stops being your friend because you feel and want more than she's no real friend. You are going to serve your country, you don't want this on your mind. Ask and accept the answer. Good luck

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 128 (view)

what is unconditional love to u? Posted: 1/5/2007 2:34:35 PM
knowing and accepting the whole truth, including faults, about another person and being able to forgive without punishment problems that occur.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 118 (view)

She's been sexually abused, she's bipolar, multiple personalities,etc. Posted: 1/5/2007 2:19:34 PM
Not everyone had a charmed life. That doesn't give anyone the right to dump on another or continue the abuse. Most abused become abusers in some way if they do not get the help they need to attempt to fix their problems. I speak from experience (from her point of view minus the drugs or drinking). Keep some distance between yourself and her. Don't let her pull u down into her madness. Good luck

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

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To all bi-racial individuals... Posted: 1/5/2007 2:02:17 PM
I'm multi racial and have always looked at the soul of the person not the color of the package it's in. I date people who treat me well.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 75 (view)

Abusive women Posted: 11/18/2006 1:45:56 PM
I think u should hire someone to follow her or wait to catch her following u and take vid or pix. Then when u have evidence SLAM her good. Take her to court.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 30 (view)

Has anything like this ever happened to you? Posted: 10/21/2006 12:13:10 PM
I totally feel for you. I am a single mom and would put the welfare of my child first. But I was mature enough NOT to bring a man into our lives unless I wanted him to be around for the long haul. My son only knew of 2 men while growing up, his biological father and his step-father (he calls him Dad). My son was 4 yrs old when I remarried. Even though we divorced, husband #2 did keep in touch with us and remains Dad to my son now in college. It sounds like you will make a great Dad. Maybe you should consider looking for "the one" to start your own family. Good luck and don't paint all us single mom's with the same brush please.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 202 (view)

When it comes to the opposite sex, what is your weakness? Posted: 10/21/2006 12:02:35 PM
voices and hands

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

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Hands & Fingers Posted: 9/15/2006 4:12:10 PM
I enjoy a nice hand and fingers also. Guys with nice strong hands, fingers medium thickness, (manicures are not a must)clean nails, and long supple fingers.mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 65 (view)

my date wants me to choke him Posted: 8/13/2006 11:36:55 AM
From a nice Northern girl... only try what u feel comfortable with. AEA isn't bad

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 82 (view)

Physical or Habits that are Turnoffs of the opposite sex Posted: 8/13/2006 11:33:01 AM
1.people that bite their toenails 2. booger pickers 3. thick long head to toe body hair 4. guys who keep their hand down their pants 4.dirty, ragged fingernails

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 33 (view)

Ok...how many relationships have you had and what was the outcome? Posted: 8/9/2006 3:21:18 AM
2 marriages, 2 divorces, 1 fiance (he got cold feet no marriage), 1 serious long term boyfriend (5 years) I ended it, he's still angry.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 30 (view)

Is Sexiness Going Out Of Style For Women? Posted: 8/9/2006 3:15:36 AM
How pretty a person looks or dresses will not determine how they treat you. A real woman will be sexy for her man no matter what she dresses in. A real man will see that his lover is always interested. Thought for today " One man's trash is another man's treasure"

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 62 (view)

Threesome when in a committed relationship Posted: 8/9/2006 3:05:54 AM
Is the third a permanent part of the relationship or a 1 time thing? Because it sounds like you want to swing. Which is fine, it works for people who are secure in their relationship. Adds variety without the lies, jealousy, and guilt.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

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Have you had a man from POF make a date and cancel prior Posted: 8/5/2006 5:40:21 AM
I usually get the NO sho No call dates or meet and greet.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 313 (view)

does anyone get as turned off with a smoker as i do? Posted: 8/5/2006 5:34:38 AM
I am allergic to smoke (sneeze, eyes water, cough, nose burns and runs). Not very sexy :( But I have run into some men that have smoke fetish. Interesting but not my thing.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 8/2/2006 11:03:20 PM
sure I have. I've had the people who look nothing like their picture. I've been dumped on a date because I was not big enough (he wanted BIGGER BBW). Hey part of the game right

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 41 (view)

How do I tell someone I'm NOT interested? Posted: 8/2/2006 10:58:31 PM
sweetie thank you but I'm just not into you

msmaxx

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Msg: 573 (view)

older women younger men Posted: 8/2/2006 10:52:25 PM
I only date younger

msmaxx

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Parental Sayings.... Posted: 8/2/2006 10:49:59 PM
My parents : If all your friends jumped off the roof, would you??? our response: ummmmmmmmm depends. They did not find this funny. If I want your opinion I'll give it to you. Me to my son: look with your eyes not with your hands and God gave you 2 feet stand on them stop leaning on everything (passed down from my parents). New one from me to my son: You had better be glad your mother loves you or you would be SH*T out of luck.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 33 (view)

Does a woman withholding sex in a RELATIONSHIP cause you to find it elsewhere? Posted: 8/2/2006 6:08:19 AM
The moto I live by is " What you won't do someone else will" That goes for anyone. For me angry sex is always good. Not a first choice with my partner but in the end no one goes to sleep angry

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

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What's the lamest line you've used to get someone into bed with you? Posted: 7/30/2006 6:24:21 PM
are you a practicing heterosexual?? Let's practice

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

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Why would a Female IM fish send roses?? Posted: 7/30/2006 6:21:18 PM
she liked you and thought enough of you and your birthday to send you a small token

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 22 (view)

Anyone in the Eastern part of NC??? Posted: 7/10/2006 7:46:34 AM
hello from Fayetteville

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 86 (view)

Air America says Experts Say U.S. Losing ‘War on Terror’ Posted: 7/10/2006 7:34:42 AM
hell the criminals all have better weapons than the law enforcement here.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 24 (view)

Anyone in here serious? Posted: 6/28/2006 5:50:11 AM
I get the same from guys here

msmaxx

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Msg: 17 (view)

Fayetteville Posted: 6/28/2006 5:44:06 AM
I'm new to Fayetteville but I love it here. Glad I moved from DC. my older sister and I have partied every weekend from like 6pm to 3am. I hope I survive Fayetteville LOL

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 226 (view)

Could you say NO to sex Posted: 5/24/2006 10:53:37 AM
I say no often because I am not into casual sex. I like sex alot and miss it. But I refuse to settle for casual sex to scratch that itch.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 70 (view)

Adult circumcisions Posted: 5/24/2006 10:47:33 AM
I did not have my son circumcised because there is no medical reason for it. Sure it can look more pleasant but it is unnatural. It is only cosmetic. If he chooses to do it later in life fine. But he loves the way he is. He said the feeling is during sex. Unless there is a medical reason he won't do it. So I give u the same advice.

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

Msg: 71 (view)

Women...would you pay for sex with a man? Posted: 5/24/2006 10:40:09 AM
No why pay when I can get it for free

msmaxx

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Porn names revealed Posted: 5/24/2006 10:39:06 AM
Tiger Maryland

msmaxx

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why do women run when they find out your a single dad????? Posted: 5/22/2006 9:38:06 AM
Some women don't want to share time or have to deal with ready made family. Some women don't want to deal with the adjustments that have to be made to deal with teenagers if they have finished with their own or never had any. The stress of a new relationship is one thing. But that and children much less teenagers, is more than some women are willing to take on. Women have gone through this much longer than you men. At one time the women always got custody you guys are now finding out what women have goen through for years. Good luck

msmaxx

Joined: 1/14/2006

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Need some serious custody advice.. Posted: 5/22/2006 9:33:01 AM
CALL YOUR ATTORNEY!!!! Best advice. If the $$ issues were in writing then she can't change mid stream because she and new man screwed up. I would fight for full custody on her death since you are their biological father, correct? Or should you get DNA tests done? good luck

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