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huka5510

Joined: 3/21/2009

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Please HELP Posted: 5/29/2009 10:46:05 AM
I mean due to your mail settings, I tried...

huka5510

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Please HELP Posted: 5/29/2009 10:41:41 AM
Its apparently too far for you to recieve emails from

huka5510

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Please HELP Posted: 5/29/2009 10:27:41 AM
Yes, I am is suffolk county

huka5510

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Please HELP Posted: 5/29/2009 9:42:33 AM
I am actually on the cusp of libra and scorpio...if that explains anything

huka5510

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Please HELP Posted: 5/29/2009 9:33:06 AM
Thankyou...Well, I guess I'm both. We all have different sides to our personalites, I am a professional, and a mother. My children are the most important people in my life...but that is not all of who I am. I am also the tattooed adventurous type who likes to have new experiences and yes skydive. I am not reckless or a crazy party girl, but I do like to have fun. Who doesn't? Thanks again for your opinion

huka5510

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Please HELP Posted: 5/29/2009 7:20:38 AM
Thanks for the advise, I deleted some things...and I'll work on getting a new body shot up

huka5510

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Please HELP Posted: 5/28/2009 11:43:47 AM
Actually it costs about $24 per jump. To go to the movies if you bought popcorn it might cost you that much! LOL But I do appreciate the feedback...

huka5510

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Please HELP Posted: 5/28/2009 10:34:24 AM
I am looking for help specifically on my profile, the way it is...Is it offensive? Is there anything I could do differently? Is it my pics? I hate when I email someone and they don't respond or even worse I see read/deleted. I see that they look at my profile, so what is it that makes them not want to respond? Any advise or thoughts would be appreciated

huka5510

Joined: 3/21/2009

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Interested? Posted: 5/11/2009 9:50:01 AM
I'm not good with aloof anyway...I was just wondering if guys enjoy the chase, maybe I'd have better luck if I was less available?

huka5510

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Why did you cheat on your significant other? Or why were you cheated on? Posted: 5/11/2009 9:42:05 AM
I cheated, I wasn't ready for the relationship...we got pregnant after dating for 3 months, if I had gotten to know him before getting pregnant I probebly would have moved on sooner. Also the sex was unsatisfying despite how we tried to make it work. I was selfish and he didn't deserve that...I don't cheat anymore, I refuse to be that person again. Now I am very devoted in my relationships. I totally disagree with that 'once a cheater always a cheater', you just gotta grow up and learn from your mistakes.

huka5510

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Do guys like to be pursued? Posted: 5/11/2009 8:57:20 AM
If one person does more initiating, is that an indication that the other person isn't AS interested?

huka5510

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Do guys like to be pursued? Posted: 5/11/2009 8:12:19 AM
" I do agree with the pestering and hounding all the time is bad though." Where is that line? How much contact is too much contact? I think for every person its different...I don't mind lots of contact but I'm not one who needs a great deal of space or time to myself.

huka5510

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Do guys like to be pursued? Posted: 5/11/2009 8:09:34 AM
My problem is more with not knowing if the guy has lost interest. You know in the beginning we correspond a lot and then it just gets less even after we have met and had a really good time. So I think maybe I'm too available and they have lost a lil bit of that chase and I need to back off and let them come to me a bit...

huka5510

Joined: 3/21/2009

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Do guys like to be pursued? Posted: 5/11/2009 7:29:58 AM
I tried to do a search but nothing came up...Guys, do you like when a woman calls you or text messages you just to say hi or goodmorning? Do you like when a woman asks you when you are free to get together or would you rather be the one to do the asking? Would you rather the woman be slightly aloof and let you do the chasing?

huka5510

Joined: 3/21/2009

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Are my Pictures doing me any favours? Posted: 5/6/2009 10:31:17 AM
Your pics are great! You are VERY CUTE!

huka5510

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History of cheating Posted: 4/29/2009 6:13:34 PM
Just because someone did cheat in their past doesn't mean that they will always cheat in future relationships. I cheated on my husband...I was a terrible wife. I acted selfishly and did all the wrong things...he didn't deserve that. But I grew up, I learned from my mistakes and paid for them dearly. And that is not the person that I want to be. Since my husband I have not cheated on any other man, and won't ever be that way again. When I'm in a relationship, I am 100% devoted. OP I wish you luck, but don't judge her by the actions of her past, and who she was then, focus on who she is now...

huka5510

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Is It OK to Date your Best Friend's X????? Posted: 4/24/2009 5:55:56 PM
I gave my friend my blessing to date my ex husband (actually we were separated for about 2 years). I figured she was a nice girl, he's a nice guy, maybe they could be happy and I knew that I certainly didn't want him so what did I care who he was with? It only got weird when she started to girl talk and dish the dirty details of her sex life! I almost threw up as she began to tell me how he used toys on her and did this and that....too much info for me! OP if its cool with all parties involved I don't see it as a problem.

huka5510

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Why do guys post profile pics of themselves with other women? Posted: 4/23/2009 2:19:13 PM
I'm with you doubletubby! I hate that, pics with other women! I dont even bother looking at the profile...GUYS: No pics with you and your ex or with some hot bikini model not a way to catch a lady fish! Or a pic of you with kids, if you don't have kids. It's awsome that your niece is special to you and you love her, but if your profile says no kids, and you don't caption the pic saying that its your niece then I'm wondering why the hell are you holding some random child?

huka5510

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Take a peeksee Posted: 4/21/2009 10:53:19 AM
I love your pics, you have a beautiful face! In my opinion the all natural pic isn't too flattering (you look angry) and I don't think you need the pin up girl pics...but your other pics are perfect. I also think that everyone else is right, you are way too negative (no doubt out of frustration), keep it light and talk about your likes and who you are. What you think or believe in, give a guy something to start a conversation with. JMHO Right on to a strong independant woman who doesn't want to settle (but you don't need to state it).

huka5510

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Profile butterflies Posted: 4/20/2009 6:35:49 PM
Pro-filer, I know what you mean...sometimes those amazing ones I find, I become intimidated and don't even bother with an email...mostly cause I don't want to see another "read deleted"

huka5510

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Profile butterflies Posted: 4/20/2009 5:49:02 PM
Usually its the pics that make me say WOW! Some people just dont put a lot of effort or information in their profiles. I've seen guys that are really hot, and said Wow out loud... But I've seen some guys that are...lets just say not my type and also said WOW but not in a good way! LOL

huka5510

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How many first dates don't lead anywhere? Posted: 4/19/2009 3:24:40 AM
I find that it easy to get a first date, not really that hard to get a second date...so far very few have made it to a 3rd date...

huka5510

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The shaving craze Posted: 4/14/2009 4:23:59 PM
I hate having body hair!!! I like when everything is soft and smooth, just a preference. I think it looks better and feels better when its freshly shaved.

huka5510

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forgiving Posted: 4/14/2009 12:20:51 PM
Forgive but move on...

huka5510

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Women That Wear Thongs... Posted: 4/12/2009 10:44:22 AM
I love thongs...they are more comfortable then full ass underwear! There is nothing sexy about granny panties or that panty-line or that division of each ass cheek! There is nothing sexy about a woman discreetly or not pulling out her wedgie! Even if no one is gunna see my panties I still wear thongs just because they hold the parts I want held and feel like nothing is there on the parts I want to feel free!

huka5510

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Can you get STUCK ... Posted: 4/12/2009 9:49:52 AM
That is a vial disgusting image that is now burned into my mind forever! Thankyou sepia!!!

huka5510

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Can you get STUCK during sexual intercourse? Posted: 4/12/2009 9:17:23 AM
A friend of mine was an ER nurse, and she saw a couple coming in on a stretcher with a blanket wrapped around them...apparently during an orgasm the woman's vag muscles clamped down constricting the already blood filled head of the guys penis creating like a vice. My friend said they had to inject a muscle relaxer directly into the vagina in order to get her to relax and let go... Unless my friend was lying, it apparently is possible!

huka5510

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Is Analingus the new Cunnilingus? Posted: 4/11/2009 9:01:04 AM
I've had it done to me by a few guys and I enjoyed it very much! Certainly made me cum that much faster and was much more intense! I reciprocated with only one guy, he was very clean, and liked it so much he came all over me while I was doing it! LOL Surprise! As long as were both comfortable with eachother then I'm open to suggestion...

huka5510

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Please review Posted: 4/9/2009 2:54:27 PM
Should I add full body pics? All my pics are from my cell phone camera, I could take mirror shots...but I kinda think those never really come out right. Any thoughts our suggestions on my profile or adding mirror full body shots would be appreciated.

huka5510

Joined: 3/21/2009

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Could he still be looking for somebody better to come along? Posted: 4/8/2009 9:40:59 AM
Men hate when they feel like their privacy has been invaded...we all hate that! If you approach him on it, its gunna look like your snooping and that will upset him. It could be nothing...if he's still "looking" there will be other obvious signs, until you start seeing those...I'd forget that I even saw those pics, and have some trust.

huka5510

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Learning to control timing. Posted: 4/8/2009 9:31:51 AM
Maybe your getting distracted or allowing your mind to wonder off the task at hand...focus! I've been with guys and if they start thinking about other things it doesn't matter what I'm doing, they loose their erection! Pay attention to what's goin on and get lost in the moment.

huka5510

Joined: 3/21/2009

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Talking during sex? Posted: 4/8/2009 7:44:13 AM
I agree with crazeegyrl, dirty whispers in my ear is soooo hot!

huka5510

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Learning to control timing. Posted: 4/7/2009 2:19:10 PM
I love that you refer to your erection as "quite robust"! LMAO That's awsome!

huka5510

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Role playing Posted: 4/7/2009 11:06:58 AM
Thats awsome! Sounds like fun...the possiblities of situations are endless!

huka5510

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Privacy? why would you ask that after two dates? Posted: 4/7/2009 10:36:55 AM
Walk away...there is definatly something fishy about that situation!

huka5510

Joined: 3/21/2009

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Unusual bedroom requests Posted: 4/7/2009 9:57:36 AM
To my knowledge erotic asphixiation is when the corotid arteries are pressed on each side of the neck cutting off the blood supply to the brain during some sexual act...and released at the time of orgasm or before they pass out! Auto indicates someone doing it to themself during masterbation. Its not about cutting off your air supply like strangulation! I like a lil neck pressure but not strangulation...I've been choked before there was nothing erotic about it!

huka5510

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Have you ever been caught Masturbating? Posted: 4/7/2009 8:30:16 AM
Not me but I did walk in on my exhusband once! It was pretty disturbing, he hadn't come to bed and I was worried (didn't even know he was home from work), I walked in and he was there****in hand looking and a webcam or some chick (fully clothed), I walked over and hugged him then said "looks like your busy...I'll leave you be" When he did come to bed even though I was a lil grossed out...we ended up having some really hot sex! LOL

huka5510

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does absence really make the heart grow fonder? Posted: 4/7/2009 5:32:31 AM
For me if you dont show me interest and attention, I'm gunna think that the excitement has fizzled out and your not all that into me anymore...sometimes absence does make the heart grow fonder but building a strudy foundation in the beginning is more important. Let her know your really into her...don't play games

huka5510

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Unusual bedroom requests Posted: 4/7/2009 4:40:03 AM
In a discussion of fantasys I had a guy tell me that he wants to perform oral sex on a man! Then followed it by "no no no, I'm not gay or bi" LOL I told him if he wants to suck a c*ck, and has that fantasy then he absolutely needs to indulge in that cause he needs to learn some things about himself! GAY!!! It was when he asked me to teach him how that I bolted!

huka5510

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Role playing Posted: 4/6/2009 7:49:35 PM
Has anybody gotten into fantasy role playing? Beyond the occasional pigtails and school girl skirt...I mean, you play the "delivery man", or "milk man", "naughty librarian", whatever your into? And do you really play the role? Do you use accents or accessories? If so how often do you do it and how often do you do the same role? Any experiences please share

huka5510

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FRENCH SPEAKER Posted: 4/5/2009 4:56:02 PM
Accents can be very sexy...really does depend on who is doing the speaking though...

huka5510

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Queefing Posted: 4/5/2009 4:32:25 PM
Vaxplant, that is the funniest thing I have heard all week!!! LMAO Thankyou!!! Personally I hate it, and am sooo embarassed by a queef, but if figure the air didnt get there on its own! LOL

huka5510

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Devices for the Deed Itself..... Posted: 4/5/2009 3:01:17 PM
I've seen those straps...never tried one before though. Liberator makes some great positional furniture...you can use them in combination or separate...they're expensive but SOOOOO much fun!!!

huka5510

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Women: Can you seperate sex and love? Can you have a one night stand? Posted: 4/5/2009 1:24:33 PM
I can have sex for a period of time without getting emotionally attached...but there comes a point where either feelings start to develop and I start getting into that relationship mode or if that's not gunna happen then its time to move on. It seems inevitable that it will come down to that choice, I can only keep the emotions separate for just so long then they start to blend in the mix. I feel for you OP, 4 months is brutal (after a week I get a lil antsy)...just be selfish for a night, enjoy a lil naughty fun with a complete stranger, just use protection, and when its over and ur box is happy...simply walk away and dont look back...basic mantainence thats all! Good luck!

huka5510

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do women still like guys with shaved heads? Posted: 4/4/2009 5:34:42 PM
I like both! A shaved head is GREAT!!! I love when its newly shaved and smoothe, and after a day or so it feels like sandpaper (like that too)! A few more days and it gets fuzzy, so much fun to rub! LOL Then again a nice head of hair works too, as long as its clean and kept nice...running my fingers through and stroking some soft hair is good too! Both are very dependent on the face of the guy and the shape of his dome!

huka5510

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weekends.... Posted: 4/4/2009 5:28:54 PM
If no one is available to go out...I go out by my lonesome! I'm a social person, I go to a club, have a few drinks, chat up a hot guy, hit the dance floor...whatever! Go out, have fun, enjoy being 25!

huka5510

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Do you try Anal with a Woman or do you ask first? Posted: 4/4/2009 5:24:52 PM
ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS ASK FIRST!!!!

huka5510

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Fascinating Ways to Orgasm Posted: 4/4/2009 3:36:03 PM
I'm so jelous!!! I wish it were that easy for me to get off!

huka5510

Joined: 3/21/2009

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How rare are really good Lovers? Posted: 4/4/2009 2:47:02 PM
I think finding a man that is a really good lover is extremely rare! I've been with a few guys and there arent too many that I would even consider being with again! For whatever the reason it just wasn't THAT good. When you do find one that really touches you in ways that no one else has, who is truely inside your head and seems to know how to make those fireworks start exploding, you wanna hang on and hope that, that fishy is a keeper in other areas too!

huka5510

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Please? Posted: 4/3/2009 6:21:53 AM
If we lapse in bedroom etiquette the next thing you know people will be having trouble on coffee dates. LMAO

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