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themancometh

Joined: 3/22/2009

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I have hope... Posted: 4/26/2009 5:13:32 AM
It was really good to hear that you have had what they may describe as one moment in time! but the question I have is did you get her number? if not why not she made the first move! if you didnt hope shes back for another eyeful ye and you better send a letter of thanks to that expensive vet who forced you to get the job which put you in place to have your moment in time. I wish you many more!!!!!

themancometh

Joined: 3/22/2009

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Is it possible to love someone with differing political views? Posted: 4/25/2009 3:06:37 AM
Of course it is good god, you would live in a very boring and insular world if people with differing oppinions could not express different points of view. In fact I think thats the basis of politics and relationships are just the same and remember the Old Adage Opposites Attract, problem solved!

themancometh

Joined: 3/22/2009

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Do you think that the job or career a person holds is a strong predictor of compatibility ? Posted: 4/25/2009 2:57:28 AM
The only 2 reason's I could see in being attracted by a persons career is the fact that you would have something in common to talk about and if in the case of people who work strange shift patterns then they would have a greater chance of fitting their lives around work! The Old adage is opposites attract!

themancometh

Joined: 3/22/2009

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Is It OK to Date your Best Friend's X????? Posted: 4/25/2009 1:24:18 AM
This is one of the quickest questions to answer NEVER, it has broken so many good friendships and destroyed entire social groups, so is it worth the risk NO!

themancometh

Joined: 3/22/2009

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what happens when we are 40 and single, who is available to date? Posted: 4/24/2009 10:43:18 AM
Well being one of the so called playboys, I have to say that if you go to the store just before closing time at Christmas you aint going to have a lot of choice lol Sorry I was being funny there im sure that, in fact I know there are lots of good guys over forty and single but like you they have busy lives and may not have even thought of coming on a dating site, they are all down the Clubs wondering where are all the ladies of my age? and not just these little girls? it's because you are all at home on your PC's lol Seek and thou shalt find!!! best of luck.

themancometh

Joined: 3/22/2009

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I am hesistant to email anyone now..... Posted: 4/24/2009 7:01:09 AM
Hey dont beat your self up over this i dont think that any guy on here gets more than a 1 in every ten reply and then out of thatyou will chat with some one who say they want to meet and just stop replying to your mails. The problem is with them and not you it simple it a numbers game at first and then you refine it down to the quality and there are quite a few quality ladies on this site. So buck up and get emailing it will happen!

themancometh

Joined: 3/22/2009

Msg: 197 (view)

Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?! Posted: 4/23/2009 9:22:01 AM
It does not make you a whore it marks you out as a person who cares about them self and the health of the other person, you have thought about the possible situations you may find your self in and have taken resonable steps to protect your self and any possible partner. You dont walk into your local pub or bar with it pinned to your dress or top, so only the person who you are going to have sex with will know you have a condom!

themancometh

Joined: 3/22/2009

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what does don't want to rush into anything mean Posted: 4/23/2009 9:05:54 AM
well you have two possible out comes one is that he is not interested but wants to let you down gentley or he is taking a far more mature approach to the new possible relationship, especially as you knew one another before but in a different context. You wanted to know and he said dont worry so what are you worried about women often over analize things and come up with the wrong conclusion.

themancometh

Joined: 3/22/2009

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What does my children come first mean to you? Posted: 4/20/2009 7:54:03 AM
It generally means whoever wishes to contact you has to be prepared to come second best in everything and yes you want a relationship but on your terms and your terms only! What it really means is that you have probably found the reason your looking for a date and not with the other parent of the child or children and that you just dont know how to learn from your mistakes!

themancometh

Joined: 3/22/2009

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How many people have actually went on a date using this site? Posted: 4/19/2009 6:33:19 AM
I have met a couple of women from this site and have come to the conclusion I would rather go through the proccess of emailing and establishing a rapour than have the first email deleted even before they have viewed your profile, also nearly as bad is those that you email and ask them to look at your profile they reply all eager after reading your profile and then dont ever read the reply they have requested and delet it with out reading it strange. What's that all about? the conclusion is that there are a large number of dreamers on this site, who vastly out number the real honest normal people on here.

themancometh

Joined: 3/22/2009

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When is taking a drunk girl home from a bar and having sex considered rape? Posted: 4/19/2009 6:19:49 AM
You are you even asking the question as you and a number of others really dont care! if you did you would not have taken advantage of a situation that some one who was vunerable was taken advantage of and no matter what the law says you are guilty mate!

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