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Joined: 3/22/2009

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What do men vs women consider to be RED FLAGS?. Posted: 6/16/2009 8:57:29 PM
No picture . Without a picture I wont go any further. If they have a picture and almost nonexistant profile giving very little information about themselves, I would go no futher, it may not be true, but to me it says they dont comunicate well

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What do women over 50 find desirable and undesirable in a man's profile? Posted: 6/11/2009 6:38:32 PM
I couldnt help but reply, I found your profile so very annoying. You will except responses only form woman with pictures, well what about posting your picture, You want someone in good shape size 4 to 8 and so on what about you, are you are put together as you request the woman to be. I found your profile to be insulting which is probably why you are not on anyones favorites list.

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After talking for a year romantically and meeting twice what happend? Posted: 6/1/2009 9:26:04 PM
e ato be mean , but take of the rose colored glasses. This is the age of cell phones and internet, wherever someone travels they can get in touch , if they want to. Dont you think it is strange to email someone for a year, you do that with someone who lives in another country, I am assuming he dosent live in another country. It was to soon anyway for you to become involved in any romantic relationship, going through a nasty divorce. Be slective go into a relationship for the right reasons, you were needy, being in the situation you were in, and he took advantag. He is a creep, but you have to realize that while there are many nice people in the world , there are also some pretty lousey ones. Wish you well

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the nightmare continues Posted: 6/1/2009 8:07:53 PM
To the author, youmight try posting a picture, people react to seeing a pic. I know I dont re spond without one, and I try and respond to as many people as I can, as long as they are not rude.I ahve to disagree, I mean there are idiots on here just like everywhere else, but for the most part I have found the men that I spoken to and met, to have represented themselves well been nice, I have not found " the one" yet but nothing ventured nothing gained. I try to be curious and thoughtful, and so have have recieved the same

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Made my heart skip a beat Posted: 5/28/2009 8:58:04 PM
If you were lucky enough to have once had that kind of love be grateful, not having it anymore is difficult but it is also what keeps us here looking to recapture what was so wonderful Just have faith you can find it again and it may come to you, and let the memory of how wonderful it was not let you settle for less. Good luck to all

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Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 5/27/2009 8:45:44 PM
I have found this to not be the case at all. Many of the men that have gotten in touch with me have remembered things I had written in my profile that I had forgotten about. I have been pretty impressed by how much they have retained , what I hate is when they ask for your number and dont call , why bother asking ?

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Internet dating: sucks for guys, good for women. Posted: 5/27/2009 8:38:09 PM
Excellent reply

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Internet dating: sucks for guys, good for women. Posted: 5/27/2009 8:37:23 PM
Excellent repy

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Personal Trainer Posted: 5/27/2009 4:19:27 PM
Hi tinkle, I am a trainer and my advise is this , a good trainer should teach the the basics and give you a program , this should be covered in about 5 session or so, they make sure you are lifting corectly and then give you a program including cardio, when you reach the point that this becomes easy for you , then engage them again to change your program and add new exercises . Exercise and results are a progression, and remember we are not nutrionists but we do have some training in this area and what you are , body wise , is what you eat. Dont give up hope the end results are so worth it . If you dont feel your trainer is right for you get another trainer, also asked about thier certification, you probably wont know what they are but just pretend you know the good certifing org. Remember you dont have to be certified to be a trainer, most gym trainers are, but there are all levels of certification, Good luck to you if you have questions pls feel free to get in touch

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Starting over, isn't that why we all are here at our age? Posted: 5/27/2009 4:07:15 PM
I think at this point we have to learn to be patient . Firecrackers ar not going to go off the minute we meet, in most cases, and even if they do it is a physical attraction that takes some time to grow into something more.

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sex on the first meeting Posted: 5/27/2009 4:00:54 PM
You are the only one who can allow yourself to be used. The first meeting is just that, a first meeting. Don't get in touch with him that bat has sailed. You made a mistake so just move on, unless you view sex as a sport, it involes caring and understanding of another which is impossible on a first meeting. Good luck to you and learn from your mistakes, its how we grow as people

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