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Would like your opinion Posted: 11/22/2009 1:40:00 PM
Hi ambie! feel for you. i think with a lot of ppl its, be careful of what u wish for or you just might get it...and when they get it ....they just aren't too sure of themselves... i have no suggestions, only present this as an insight ppl are weird

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Ratio of men to women with degrees on POF 5:1 !! Posted: 10/30/2009 1:46:40 AM
yeah rosie we all got it there are different kinds of smart aren't there? op mentioned "professional" and "woman" in his post it's not such a huge leap of the imagination to come up with valley girls eh? and who's to say they aren't studying for a degree and paying for it this way? wouldn't be the first time OP needs a humour transplant apologies? preposterous

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Ratio of men to women with degrees on POF 5:1 !! Posted: 10/28/2009 4:56:38 AM
of course you are assuming all these men stating they have degrees are telling the truth? just a thought (kind of blows your calculations somewhat eh?)

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How did you lose your first love? Posted: 10/2/2009 5:12:04 AM
he died as a result of a motorbike accident aged 23 (I was 21)

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Image Problems Posted: 8/1/2009 6:13:42 AM
I got a message today supposedly from markus saying my main pic had been deleted because it did not have my face in it. Not true! It was a full length shot of me standing in front of an old church ruins. I dont understand why my pic was deleted I just saw one guy who had a chimpanzee for his profile pic

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when a man meets a woman !!!!!! Posted: 8/1/2009 5:09:41 AM
mate i dont fall in love over the phone ......and certainly wouldn't be saying the big I love you under these circumstances love takes a fair while of real life getting to know each other...... i wouldn't consider speaking on the phone as keeping 'company' either (passing time perhaps) - company infers being in the company of - spending time together in the same area and space it takes a whole lot more than a bunch of words to be worthy of my love.....am i wrong? pretty confusing post especially when you say at the end... "or do u still want to meet face to face?" are you addressing ur 'love' interest via these forums? or is this all completely metaphorically speaking?

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Does this drive all men nuts? Posted: 7/30/2009 11:17:20 PM
msg 19 ^T^ spot on girl, I'm with you!

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How FAR have you gone..(in your eyes or others eyes)...to find a bf/gf? Posted: 7/29/2009 11:29:47 PM
big lol @ wackmc i look on here.....haha and it aint workin' gotta be optimistic tho

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unconditional love !!!! Posted: 7/28/2009 6:45:22 AM
oh cindyloo u took the words right out of my mouth.. i have always felt that the love from my own mother was unconditonal, as is the love i have for my own as for relationships - well we strive for it (don't we?)

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husband and wife facts !!!! Posted: 7/26/2009 1:47:35 AM
ok so where abouts is this store situated? and is there a boyfriend shop next door.....not necessarily in the market for a husband....tried that once already sigh

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Why do ex's randomly contact you ?! Posted: 7/19/2009 6:49:20 AM
onmyown - it was never my intention to infer OP was in the wrong or "pain in the ass" (your words) is in the right - your interpretation is coloured by your own agenda. It sounds as though OP most likely does have good reason for wanting him out of her life and with no further contact but she's aking why he continues to contact - and im saying it's not always anything so complicated or devious....it could be just hello how are you doing.....genuine caring....do you not understand this concept? All she has to do is not take his calls or delete messages unread, he'll get the idea - eventually

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Why do ex's randomly contact you ?! Posted: 7/19/2009 6:31:13 AM
i agree with message 22 im friends with my ex and his partner we bought up two kids after divorcing no point in being bitter, life's too short, bitterness makes you ill we have healthy balanced grown adults now it is possible to be friends & genuinely caring for each other to the ones who say booty call etc ....is that what you'd do? there's so much negativity/bitterness in the responses here at times.....also a lot of good too i might add the best make me laugh but just because you're no longer in a relationship does it HAVE to be nastiness from then on? you valued that person enough to spend a large chunk of your life with whilst i admit the children were a big motivation for us to keep it nice.....it's turned out so well so yeah im all for it, though i concede some ex's are best left to stew in their own juice - it all depends on circumstances and the ex in question

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Why do ex's randomly contact you ?! Posted: 7/18/2009 4:31:11 AM
Oh come on he's just saying hello - pure and simple. There doesn't have to be any agenda, he might just think you are an alright person?

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Eye Contact Posted: 6/25/2009 6:31:25 AM
It's definitely a city thing and I think I know why. Something that happened to us when we were in the UK that brought this home to me whilst reading your post. Twice (on separate days) this homeless loony lookin' guy came up to my father and I and asked if we spoke English.....then asked for 10p! Just a simple beggar or a possible mugger? Seems to be more mentally ill living on the streets in cities and so how do they get money - like this I guess? It's the same with people who want to accost you and sell or give you a leaflet or whatever, there's just more of this in the cities. So if you don't look, you don't get accosted. Self protection or time saving mechanism.....and I'm from the country but this I've learned. Just keep on being your same ol' friendly self and yeah come back for sure, there's good people everywhere.

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Honestly, this is kind of ridiculous Posted: 5/17/2009 4:53:09 AM
bit jaded? take it as a sign you're on here too much .....eh?

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Could this be true.. Posted: 5/16/2009 6:09:38 AM
do you even comprehend what ';emotional connection' means?

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I lied to keep a love Posted: 5/16/2009 5:52:28 AM
Nobody likes to be lied to, it means you don't trust me with the truth.

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Difference in Sleeping Habits Posted: 5/14/2009 1:04:17 AM
Just a rough guess but is he bipolar? They dont sleep well. My ex is and it's a fairly large part of why he's an ex. There's nothing worse than sleep deprivation, it's soul destroying. After a couple of years of having your sleep disturbed you'll be rather disorientated, take it from me. The fact that he thinks you're the one who's being inconsiderate also smacks of a bipolar disorder. You're not the inconsiderate one. You probably wont want to hear my opinion but I think find someone more compatible on the sleep front. Seven months away and sleeping is bliss now. Sleep is important.

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Do you have anything in your house that connects you with your earliest memories? Posted: 5/10/2009 5:34:03 AM
Yes I still have a soapstone sculture of the goddess "quan yin" from when I was six years old, that my father bought for me when I was in hospital with a fractured skull.

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something is wrong with some of men on this site Posted: 5/7/2009 8:31:52 PM
yep i agree with rebelheartfukkr....I think too many are lookin at porn and think that's how it is. I too have been groped by one from this site and yep im considering hoppin the fence or just opting out altogether....also I think the levels of mental illness/autism/aspergers/narcissism etc ad nauseum is fast rising. It's really difficult to find a relatively 'normal' person (whatever normal is - at least someone who has empathy)

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Dating someone with bi-polar ..............help! Posted: 5/7/2009 6:42:29 AM
I am 7 months out of a five yr relationship with a man who is bipolar. Still truamatised but healing now. Don't think that you can help - you can't. Cut your losses and save yourself a LOT of heartache. They can cry at the drop of a hat and there is no empathy for you. They manipulate and control by destroying your self esteem. At this moment in time I know I am better off alone. I wish you well. Please reconsider your options

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What are women really looking for? Posted: 4/23/2009 3:52:11 AM
We want to be cuddled and loved. We want to feel safe, we need to trust you. We want to communicate - truly and honestly.

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Cat Stevens / Yusuf Islam Posted: 4/9/2009 6:25:42 AM
Look him up on myspace, there is a lot of info there and links to his website.

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gaslighting, has anyone ever experienced this? Posted: 3/28/2009 4:12:57 AM
omg! i agreed with everything english lass was writing thinking about my ex (bipolar) and then i read ur post - i gotta say I am stunned. Its really weird to have everything u've ever thought and been suspicious about someone/situation proven true and spoken about by total strangers its called "gaslighting" now i have a name for it - thanks eh!

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