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Posted In Forum: All Forums Alabama Alaska Alberta Arizona Arkansas Art/Music Ask A Girl Ask A Guy Australia British Columbia Broken Hearts California Colorado Connecticut Dating & Love Advice Dating Experiences Dating Sites Delaware District Of Columbia Event Hosts forum Florida Georgia Hawaii Health & Fitness Humor Idaho Illinois Indiana Introductions Iowa Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Maine Manitoba Maryland Massachusetts Michigan Minnesota Mississippi Missouri Montana Nebraska Nevada New Brunswick New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico New York Newfoundland News/Current Events North Carolina North Dakota Nova Scotia Off Topic Ohio Oklahoma Ontario Oregon Over 30 Over 45 Pennsylvania Plentyoffish Get Togethers Plentyoffish Site/Suggestions/Help Poems And Quotes Politics Prince Edward Island Profile Reviews Quebec Recipes & Cooking Relationships Religion/Supernatural Rhode Island Saskatchewan Science/Philosophy Sex and Dating Single Parents South Carolina South Dakota Sports Stories/creative writing Technology and computers Tennessee Testimonials Texas Uk Forums Utah Vermont Virginia Volunteer Moderators Only Washington West Virginia Wisconsin Wyoming Home   login   MyForums   Show ALL Forums      Author  Thread: A letter to the ex  izolde Joined: 1/15/2006 Msg: 54 (view)   A letter to the ex Posted: 2/8/2006 4:16:11 PM I read your words several times and am sorry that someone cause you such pain, however it seems that you are inflicting even more pain on yourself by re-living all the hurt. It is important to purge emotionally....to rant..to cry, but at the end of it all there has to be closure so that you can heal and move on towards a life of peace, joy and happiness with your soul mate. I believe that person is still out there for you and if you close your heart by not trusting in yourself and others you will never find that person and will remain a victim.  izolde Joined: 1/15/2006 Msg: 1 (view)   Introductions Posted: 2/8/2006 3:43:57 PM Hello everyone, I seemed to have missed this first step. Better late than never.  izolde Joined: 1/15/2006 Msg: 33 (view)   On having affairs.... Posted: 1/24/2006 5:51:27 PM You are right on the money!!!!!!!!!!!  izolde Joined: 1/15/2006 Msg: 32 (view)   On having affairs.... Posted: 1/24/2006 5:49:17 PM Hey if you take your time in getting to know each other and end up marry right, you will get the "lady in the street and the freak in the bed" to quote the rapper Ludicrous. Expecting to have all your needs met by one person is perhaps expecting too much, maybe we can't have it all and must make compromises?  izolde Joined: 1/15/2006 Msg: 20 (view)   When you get it from black and white men Posted: 1/24/2006 5:27:15 PM Hey, I tend to agree with "boublecabin". Humans are always searching for a way to connect with others.......to find our uniqueness as well as theirs. Examine what is going on inside of you that creates your attraction to this "type" and why this causes you to them question your desirability as a woman. I hope it gets better for you.  izolde Joined: 1/15/2006 Msg: 182 (view)   Relationships with morals Posted: 1/24/2006 5:00:18 PM The horse has long left the barn.....and it AINT coming back!! The current state of affairs between men and women did not materalize overnight, pop culture has been chipping away since antiquity. Hugging, kissing, holding hands sex....... are the ultimate forms of trust, communication, and love and the preacher man tells us god is love!!!! What is a godly relationship, and who makes such a determination. Additionally, we must not forget that just a short time ago a 20 year old who was not married was considered an old maid!!!!! Time marches on and we alongside with it. The question becomes, how much of our true selves are we willingh to give up?   Show ALL Forums