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 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Ok.. so he dumps me via facebook?
Posted: 3/8/2011 11:28:05 PM
So here's the headline. "DEBBIE WISHES DEATH OF POST. INSTEAD, SHE DYES......
hair... Story at 11:00

I'm sure you're over this clown by now. Hope so. If not, an argument can be made that he rescued you from having to make a most difficult decision. What if things continued to move along fairly well and he continued to be the anti SmartAzzJohn, that is, a nice guy. LOL (Sorry John, couldn't help myself.) At some point in time the smoking would be a horrible problem for you two. Because of health issues and your staunch stand against smoking, you would have had to flip a coin. To steal, Ms. Karaoke, from a '60's English band ( I think) "Should I stay or should I go?"

Oh my gosh, I'm envisioning go-go girls, white fringed mini-skirts, and white go-go boots.
pant pant pant

Questions regarding this bloke. (It's that '60's English band again)
1. How was he able to walk or dance or any of the other many moves which require a
spine, seeing he has none.
2. Is a guy without a pair of gonads any good in bed? Just curious, not thinking of
going gay.

Just one man's humble opinion.

Ga-night.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Don't put it off..
Posted: 12/24/2009 8:05:16 AM
A hard lesson was learned in '06. A friend died suddenly in a horrific accident. I was an over the road driver at the time and learned a few weeks after the fact. One never knows what the 'morrow shall bring so make peace while you can.

In the next couple of days I phoned everyone I felt I had wronged and asked for forgiveness. Others were told just how much I appreciated them.

How sad that it took a death of a friend to wake me up.

Just one man's humble opinion.


Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 87 (view)
 
Things you just can't compromise on......
Posted: 12/23/2009 2:01:57 PM
Mammy, are you sure they're scratching and not searching. "Oh my gawd, my nuts, my nuts. What have I done with them? LOL

With regards to compromise, I'm not quite sure. We all have pros and cons and when the cons outweigh the pros then, "Houston, we have a problem." But I think, as many before, I gostta have honesty. I know mistakes are made, talk to me, tell me what happened, we all make mistakes. But please do not enhance the problem by being dishonest.

Just one man's humble opinion.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 62 (view)
 
'rebound'
Posted: 12/23/2009 1:46:31 PM
Michkat57,

You ask, " what is the difference in your morals if you just sleep with one guy that you're not married to day after day...or if you sleep with several you're not married to.." (I've just got to learn how to use that quote thingy)

I guess, morally, there's not a great deal of difference except for the fact that sleeping with the same person day after day would indicate some sort of commitment which would be kinda nice. Also, you needn't spend a great deal of time teaching new lovers that which works and that which doesn't. LOL Oh ya! and you don't have to worry about calling them the wrong name. Of course, at my advanced age, I always blame it on dementia.


But, please don't listen to me regarding matters of the heart, or any other organs. After all, I only stumbled into this question after I saw "rebound" and I thought I'd be reading basketball stories. LOL

Curious, if there were a golf championship where the participants played 3 different courses in 3 different cities and T. Woods won this championship; would Tiger Woods then be considered the intercourse champion?

Just one man's humble opinion and meanderings.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 30 (view)
 
what things not to do on a date site
Posted: 12/21/2009 3:41:58 PM
I guess the one thing I would caution in regards to an on-line date site is to be consistent.
I'm amazed at profiles of those who come across as docile and non-judgmental and yet, when you read some of their forum postings, they show an entirely different side.

I've been away for quite some time and it appears we no longer have the opportunity to read someone's postings from their profile page. However if your venom is out there, someone will find it. Hopefully it won't be someone who is important to you and is unaware of this side of your personality. Isn't that right, Mr. Tiger Woods?

Just one man's humble opinion.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 21 (view)
 
What's your favorite Christmas carol or holiday songs?
Posted: 12/17/2009 6:51:34 PM
Hi all... . Merry Christmas.....

My favorite Christmas songs would be:
1. Oh Holy Night......Josh Groben, Michael Crawford, Nat King Cole
2. Do You Know what I know...... Nat King Cole. I think that's the title.... "Said the night
wind to the Shepard boy."
3. Coventry Carol ......John Denver
4. Your a mean one, Mr. Grinch......Your such a nasty fellow..... I've no idea who sings it. It's from the cartoon, "How the Grinch Stole Christmas".
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Christmas Memories
Posted: 12/17/2009 6:31:04 PM
I remember lying in bed, as a child, for what seemed to be an eternity....My family was very close to the family next door. So close that Santa seemed to keep all gifts next door so that my sister would not find and open. And then .......I hear the side door open and close as Santa would find his way next door to bring our gifts "home".

I would toss and turn, my excitement rising, counting the times the door would open and close. Why is it that Christmas Eve falls on the longgggggeeeeeessssstttttt night of year?

Now, my excitement is just being with family for Christmas. And I still love to hear the door open and close as another family member enters to cheers and hugs.

Merry Christmas to all..... And if it is not Christmas which you celebrate....Happy Holidays.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 109 (view)
 
Take THAT Michigan!! Love , John McCain
Posted: 10/14/2008 9:07:50 AM
flawedbutfun,

"If Bush and McCain (i.e. the GOP) were serious about it they could have done it..." re firmer controls on FMAC and FMAE, "as they controled the White House and the Congress. Me thinks they were not serious about it. "

I would disagree. Dems, of course, were against regulating their own created Golden Goose, as were some republicans who also accepted money from these two organizations. Also Barney Frank, a high ranking dem, brought up the race card and, unfortunately, this card seems to trump any other.

In regards to your statements about Senator McCain in 1995 and 2008. I would have to admit that I am not surprised. In my opinion if we have a free market system which has served us well for over two centuries, and in my opinion is the standard for theworld, why regulate it? Unfortunately, government intervention into the mortgage industry mandated that banks and morgage industries use poor banking practices. At that point, it was no longer a free market.

A flip-flopper? Personally, I've never put a great deal of interest in a flip-flopper title.
Who, of us, have never changed our mind when presented with more information which proves our original position not has positive as we've once thought.

"Let's look at actions and not rhetoric, McCain vote with Bush 95% of the time. Now that's Mavericky of him, quite the agent of change."

So, he's voted against Bush 5% of the time. And I know it's quite popular to hate Bush at this time, but not all of his programs were flawed. And as I mentioned to Tony above, he is not in lock step with Bush. He has a history of going against his party and voting for or sponsoring bills which are, in his opinion, to the betterment of his/our country. I'm not aware of Senator Obama's break from his liberal, democratic friends in the political system. In fact, as I mentioned in a previous post, Senator Obama had a great opportunity, in my opinion, to effect change in the corrupt Chicago arena and failed to do so. That's his history.

In regards to your position on Palin:
She's anti-abortion. Those who are pro-abortion always indicate that they are pro-choice. Okay then, why are they upset that Gov. Palin chose life for her child. "It's her body. It's her choice." Right?

Stem cell research. It seems to me that stem cell research has not been outlawed. It continues this day. I could be wrong and, gosh, that's never happend before. LOL
But, I believe Gov. Palin is against embryo stem cell research. So, let's create a life so that we may kill it and harvest that which we desire. Spooky..... And if I'm correct, embryo stem cell research was not outlawed, only the government funding of it.

Regarding the removal of those who do not agree with her, there are those who serve at the "pleasure"of the governor. If you are planning a party, running a business, or managing a state, you would obviously want to surround yourself with those who believe as you do. Makes sense to me.

The librarian was retained as it was shown that the public favored her over others. Wow a public official, the mayor, listening to the voice of the people. Gosh what a refreshing idea.

The Chief of Police and a public safety commissioner: I'm not aware of the situation regarding the Chief of Police, but I would assume you're referring to that which has been called "Trooper-Gate." I know the "official" reason for the dismissal of the public saftey commissioner, but let's face it. If a state trooper tazered(sp) your or your neighbor's 10 year old son, I would bet that 90% would call for his head. This trooper should not only have been fired but charged with assault as well.

OH,OH..... Just been called on a run by my company, gotta go. But I'll close with the following.

Unqualified? Yes, agreed, there are more experienced candidates available, but do they have a history of reform. Annnnnd, there are those who would put an even LESS QUALIFIED person into the white house.

Racial issues? I'm sorry I just can't leave without addressing that. Candidly it's bull-shiviky, to believe that mine as well as most votes against Mr. Obama are racially motivated. Afterall, there are just so many issues about him not to like , but my time is closing.

Hey, thanks for taking a look. I hope that whom ever may become president that they are the very best president in the history of the world. We really need it at this point in time. The truck awaitith..... Please forgive any misspelling or dropped thoughts. No time for editing.

Just one man's humble opinion.


Dave.
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 105 (view)
 
Take THAT Michigan!! Love , John McCain
Posted: 10/14/2008 7:34:26 AM
Tony, "OK, so how did all those regulations get removed?"

Tony, they weren't removed. They were never in place. Both Mr.s Bush and McCain warned again the minimal regulations which were in place, but to no avail. FMAC and FMAE were creations of the dems, a noble(?) cause which went south, and were watched over by the dems since the Carter years. Janet Reno, Mr. Clinton's attorney general, threatened banks with litigation and loss of flexibility if they failed to adhere to this flawed policy. Senator Obama's name, according to the National Review, was one of "Plantifff's name" on a piece of litigation against Citi Bank of Illinois for practicing, in my opinion, proper banking policy rather than caving to the dem's highly flawed program.

"So if they wanted regualtions why didn't they get them?"

Why weren't regulations placed when the republicans controled congress? GREED.
Democrates were not going to allow chains placed upon their Frankenstein monster. It has beeen shown to be a Golden Goose for them and apparently some on the other side of the isle. Also, Barney Frank, a high ranking dem, played the race card as the bulk of these loans were administered to minorities.

"So you are saying that the democrats controlled everything yet some how being the minority?"

Nope, I'm not saying that at all. They had great filibuster power though, as proven by the great many minority judges who President Bush nominated in his first term but were shot down by the dem's. But I'll stay on target and not bring that to the fore.

"So McCain has fought and Obama has not? How? Is it in anyway that matters?"

It matters in the fact that he is not in LOCK-STEP with any particular party and so he more readily can move across the isle for support of his programs. Programs which are for the betterment of WE THE PEOPLE. Senator Obama has indicated that he would, indeed, move across the isle but has yet to do so. This is his history. SenatorMcCain has a history of doing so, much to the dissapointment of the republican party.

Tony, thanks for allowing me the opportunity to clarify some of my thoughts. Candidly, I don't have a ton of facts as I'm not a computer wizzzzz, as shown by the fact that I've yet to master putting quotes in that little highlighted box. LOL I've all I can manage just to turn this flamin' computer on. However, I do have a memory.

Just one man's humble opinion.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 89 (view)
 
Take THAT Michigan!! Love , John McCain
Posted: 10/12/2008 8:23:57 PM
Tony, of what current state are you referring? If you are speaking of our country's recent slide to socialism, I'd have to argue. You mention returning regulations so I would suggest that you look at the origination of FMAC and FMAE (Freddie Mac & Fannie Mae) in the Carter era and intensifying in the Clinton era with Janet Reno threatening US lawsuits if crap loans were not premitted by banks.

Then you may want to discover that in 2001, 2002, and 2005 that President Bush and Senator McCain issued calls for regulation on these two fiascos only to be pushed back by the dems and, yes, republicans. Because the "norm" was and still is greed, self-service and arrogance by those WE THE PEOPLE have placed into office. And, YES, Senator McCain has fought against the norm. Senator Obama HAS NOT.

I certainly understand everyone's desire to see change in the White House. But, change is defined as any movement from the status quo. It doesn't necessarily mean that the change would be good. So, once again, it would be important to look at the history.

Again, just one man's humble opinion.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Are you honest?
Posted: 10/12/2008 5:37:23 PM
Yes, I'm honest....Unfortunately, this has cost me two jobs as I refused to toe the company line because of their lack of ethics. One must still live with one's self.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Take THAT Michigan!! Love , John McCain
Posted: 10/12/2008 5:26:37 PM
Change????? Change in the way politicians handle themselves is the change to which I refer....I'm extremely frustrated regarding self-serving politics. The government, i.e. the politicians, have been placed in office to serve. To serve whom? WE THE PEOPLE !!!! This, in my opinion is NOT being accomplished. A large government does not serve WE THE PEOPLE, it serves politicians and their lobbists and pac friends.

I believe Senator McCain has a history of bucking party affiliations for the betterment of his constituents, those who elected him. Senator Obama has had the opportunity to prove himself regarding change, the change against corrupt politics, but he either didn't try to buck this system or failed to do it. Either way, change did not happen.

Change, reform need to take place. I'm going with the guy who has a history of going against the "norm".

Just one man's humble opinion.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 20 (view)
 
What song are you?
Posted: 10/12/2008 2:56:55 PM
I would be Josh Groban's recording of Don McClean's (hopefully that's spelled correctly) "VINCENT"...........What a master of words.

Just one man's humble opinion

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 83 (view)
 
Take THAT Michigan!! Love , John McCain
Posted: 10/12/2008 2:48:01 PM
The fact that John McCain is pulling his campaign out of Michigan does not effect my vote. I've already issued my absentee ballot and given it to the fine folks at Saginaw's city hall.

I've enjoyed reading all the posts and seeing all the view points. Is this a great country or what? And I do hope that I may be able to define my view as well as most on this site. For me, political campaigns are basically, Blah, blah, blah, blah. What is it that you, the people, want me to say that would get you would vote for me......That's what I'll say..... It's as easy as that. Words are cheap. I think that a candidate's history is more indigative as to what he or she thinks and what they may do while in office.

I think it's reasonable to assume most want something different than what we currently have. Senator McCain has a history and even though it's brief, so does Senator Obama.

Senator McCain has voted with George W. Bush 95% of the time.... Blah, blah, blah, blah. So he has also gone against party lines, right? He has no problem voting his mind and heart, regardless of the grumblings of the republican party. I'm not aware of Senator Obama's voting record in regards to party lines, however I've been told he voted for higher taxes 94 times in his short career. You, the voter, need to decide if there is a pattern developing here and if you would be accepting of this pattern. Yes, I know what Senator Obama has SAID about taxes, but again, words are cheap.

Senator Obama speaks of CHANGE, yet he comes from the Chicago area where it has been a long standing joke that people there think so highly of their mayors, the Daleys, that they literally climb out of their grave to vote for them. ( I probably can't spell Daley correctly but I do know how to spell - voter fraud. Are you listening OHIO? ) My question is, what change in this political machine did he effect? What is his history in effecting change?

Senator McCain has a history of bucking the republican party and his VP choice has a history of reform, something which is so needed in DC. If their history is a barometer of what we may expect, they are the two people, in my opinion, wh0 we need in Washington at this time. Someone must bring the government back to WE THE PEOPLE.

Okay, I'm done. Time to wake up now.

Just one man's humble opinion.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 775 (view)
 
Pet Peeve of the day!
Posted: 8/29/2008 7:53:07 PM
debisusanne,

"but.. if i needed a sex partner. to contact him... MR CEO"

Apparently, the "C" in CEO did not stand for class.

Just one man's humble opinion.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 766 (view)
 
Pet Peeve of the day!
Posted: 8/28/2008 8:25:09 PM
Well, Robin, how dear of you to think of me. That's very sweet. But of course, that is the purest definition of "Robbity", isn't it? Gosh, I'm sorry to hear that someone mucked you up, causing you to stand a bit on the sidelines. Pettiness on POF, imagine that? LOL

By the by, Robin. Great new pics.

New pet peeve; not having my profile up for you to show Kathryn. LOL

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 758 (view)
 
Pet Peeve of the day!
Posted: 8/27/2008 7:34:19 PM
I'm not typically a negative person, but I do have a pet peeve. I am always appalled at the inconsideration people show towards one another. I thought the "me" decade occurred in the 80's , but I believe it is now being revisited.

Just one man's humble opinion.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Judging us by what we wear?
Posted: 5/7/2008 10:08:43 AM
John, well put. Agreed, agreed, agreed. Noticing and admiring, in my opinion, is far different than gawking. It is best not to let the eyes fixate on anything other then her beautiful eyes or lovely smile. (That way they won't expect the animals which we will become at the first opportunity) LOL NO, no, no, ladies......Just teasin'. Guess I won't be dating any time soon. LOL

Gentlemen, please, let's strive to show a little class. What was it said? "The brain is the sexiest organ in the body." I think that was said, by someone, somewhere. Maybe over coffee..... Or a good book.

Ripley,


Hmmm,,now that really surprises me!! Id figured they'd be shifting from one foot to the other,,,,turning all red faced,,,, mind racing a mile a minute wondering what the 'looker' was thinking. LOLOL


Have you not heard of the infamous MALE EGO.... Shifting from one foot to the other....only to give you a better look. LOL .....turning all red faced...... Ya, while I'm sucking in my gut and holding my breath. wondering what you, the looker, was thinking..... "Ya, I know, she wants it bad." LOL Except for me, of course. I'm thinking, "Gee, I hope she thinks that I was injured in the war."

I just think we should treat all others with the respect and dignity we would want for ourselves. But, then again, that's just me.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Judging us by what we wear?
Posted: 5/7/2008 7:19:25 AM
Ripley,


<div class="quote">oh and PS: How would men like it if our eyes drifted lower and we were talking to 'it'? That'd make you men feel uncomfy huh? Personally, I get the "stares" quite a bit, but not at my crouch. It's more of an overall, "What a dofuss. What a twit. Who the heck let him in?" type of stares. LOL Just teasin'.

I think the stares which you define would, at first, be well accepted by men. I think most people like attention. I receive it most often due to my idiocy, others (sigh) due to their physicality. However, I think over time it would wear thin as it has on most women.

No one wants to be defined by but one attribute. We all have bodies and we all have minds. I think if an admirer chooses to ignore one to emphasize, or give greater attention to, the other would leave the subject of his admiration questioning, "what's wrong with my.....(fill in the blank).

Beauty comes in many forms, sizes and shapes. It is not confined to just the concrete, that which can be seen, but also that which can be heard, touched or imagined. I think where we may find our troubles arise is when we place too much emphasis, spelled gawk, on one certain aspect, thus ignoring the other beauty which surrounds.

Have I meandered long enough? Oh ya, the question. Clothing can be flattering or provocative, like beauty, it's in the eye of the beholder. Being judged, unfortunately, is just a part of life. Whether you're judged by what you wear, say, where you live, what you drive, in my opinion, who cares? I am only concerned with comments from those who I respect or love. It's just so much easier for me, at least, as you just can't please everyone.

Just one man's humble and lengthy opinion.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 111 (view)
 
The rules of kissing
Posted: 5/3/2008 10:58:30 PM
Linda,

Good luck on the Harley ride. Now you hang on tight, we'd hate not having you here in the pond. No one to splash. LOL

Vroommmm, Vroommmmm !!!! "Get your motor runnin'. Head out on the highway.
Looking for adventure....." What's that you say? Stop that singin'? Sorry Mr. Cowell.


Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
just for fun?
Posted: 5/3/2008 10:41:01 PM
Robitty, well thank you, thank you very much. I'll be here all week. Please be sure to tip the wait staff.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Michigan Job Market
Posted: 5/3/2008 10:36:07 PM
RDtoo,

I was in your position in Oct. of '05. Difficult finding employment when you're in your 50'.
Everyone wants experience, but they want it in a 25 year old. Go Figure.... I finally found a job driving a truck. There's a real shortage of drivers and most companies will pay for your CDL education. Good luck to you.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Clinton...Obama or McCain?
Posted: 5/2/2008 3:46:25 PM
Michkat, I also liked Mr. Romney. Possibly, with Mr. McCain's admitted lack of experience with economics, Mr. Romney joins the ticket. Mr. Romney also brings a "younger" person with governmental experience. Mr. McCain has advised that, because of his age, he wants to be sure the country does not suffer in the event of his illness or, God forbid, death. So hang in there, kiddo. One just never knows.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 104 (view)
 
The rules of kissing
Posted: 5/2/2008 9:58:14 AM
Linda,

Heavens no, only being able to remember the last person that you kissed does not make you a bad person, your political bent does. .......NO, NO, NO, NO. Linda, I'm just teasin'... We can still be friends right? VIVA LA DIFFERENCE !!!!!

If you can't remember those that have kissed you previously, then perhaps the kisses were not memorable. Orrrrrrrr ? There have just been so darn many that you loose track, which I'm sure would that explain your situation.

Me? There have been so few that I can count them on one hand and three fingers or, since we are in hockey playoff season, one octopus. Eight tentacles (oh my gosh, what my flying figures almost typed here), right?

Enjoy the Harley.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Clinton...Obama or McCain?
Posted: 5/2/2008 9:44:10 AM
Linda,

Here's my dilemma. I too, would love to see honesty and integrity on Pennsylvania Ave. However, this can not come at the cost of expanding big government. I think we need to reduce government and it's attempt to make us all reliant upon it. This does not appear to be the democratic way. Mr. Obama seems like a fine individual and I'd probably vote for him in a heartbeat but, our principles seem to clash.

I've not heard anyone question Mr. McCain's honesty and integrity or the people with whom he surrounds himself. However, the "real" contest has yet to begin. His thoughts on government are more in line with mine. I don't think having a republican in the white house has been a bad thing. I think PARTISAN POLITICS, on both sides of the isle has been disastrous. But, hey, that's just me.

We'll see how it goes in November. Hopefully an Obama/McCain contest will be without mud.

Just one man's humble opinion.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Clinton...Obama or McCain?
Posted: 5/1/2008 11:41:58 PM
Wow, I just saw Bill O'Reilly's (sp) interview with Hillary this evening. I'm not a fan of hers but I thought she came across fairly well.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 102 (view)
 
The rules of kissing
Posted: 5/1/2008 8:04:56 AM
Robitty,

I took the test. I can name every woman I've ever kissed. Of course there were ONLY eight of them. All the rest had restraining orders.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Vanishing Michigan
Posted: 5/1/2008 7:56:30 AM
Tigersfan, there's nothing better than a sweet ride. Well, strike that, that's not exactly true. But a good looking car, properly detailed, shinning in the sunlight. SAWEEEEET!

In '68 I drove a '66 Corvair Corsa. I had 4 single carbs in the back and was able to grab rubber in 1st and second. The front fenders flared up like those of a 'Vet, though not quite as dramatic. The back seat was always folded down, giving me a two-seater. I had white-lettered Goodyears all around. I had to sell it in '69 so that I could go to college. I'd love to have that little puppy back. Ah, the memories.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
just for fun?
Posted: 5/1/2008 7:44:33 AM
Age? Phht, why it's just a number. It defines the number of times you've circled the sun, not who you are. Ohhhhh, philosophical today, are we? Me, I don't feel a day over 57 years, 21 days. LOL

I'm still able to:
(1) run a mile, takes me two days.
(2) cut my grass, I live on a small city lot
(3) do 100 push ups, of course I'm standing up against the wall
and
(4) please a lady. Granted, this typically happens when I leave. She's very pleased about that. LOL

The sign above the door reads: "All who pass through this door enrich our lives. Some as they enter, some as they leave."

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Vanishing Michigan
Posted: 4/26/2008 7:49:01 AM
Ah, the "advances" of man.....

In Bay City, on the shores of the Saginaw Bay once stood an amusement park called Wenona Beach. It held a wooden ferris wheel and wooden roller coaster and other rides and amusements. I believe that I was in the first grade, 1956, when my family last visited. A run down trailer park now occupies the land.

My family also enjoyed going to Edenville to a little beach resort called Bannans. Great memories of playing shuffle board with my grandma, Saint Beatrice, and running up to the store to buy her a grape soda and a Pay Day candy bar. It, too, is now a trailer park. I visited the site 15 years ago, walked through this trailer park and relived the moments and I hafta tell ya, the tears fell.

Does anyone remember when Tawas didn't have the Holiday Inn and the "condo" trailer Park? But, instead had the old Tawas Hotel and a great city park across from it?

"Don't it always seem to go that you don't know what you've got 'till it's gone. They paved paradise and put up a parking lot."

Great memories, thanks.

Dave
 d.a.ling
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Clinton...Obama or McCain?
Posted: 4/21/2008 1:17:49 PM
my2cntsin,

Personally, I would enjoy it if McCain were more like Reagan. I think that would be a plus. I'm not sure if your statement regarding Reagan's onset of Alzheimer's rings true or not. You stated that it began in the last years of his presidency. If correct, in my opinion, he did a hell of a job despite his disability.

Yes, poor ole Hillary. She climbs a mountain, TELLS LIES and slips and then must begin climbing that same mountain, TELLS MORE LIES and then, slips once again. In my opinion, having guts or a set of balls, as you have so eloquently phrased it, is knowing the truth and conveying the truth no matter the cost. i.e. Reagan not flinching when the Soviets demanded that he give up the "Star Wars" missile defense system. A puppet indeed.

Hillary is an ambitious person and there's nothing wrong with that, but I would think that she would have proven her strength, guts, whatever......by kicking that stiff (pun intended) of a husband to the curb after his first bout of infidelity. But it would appear that that type of action my have hindered her ambition.

Just one man's humble opinion.

Dave
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Msg: 54 (view)
 
Tri-City area parties ever?
Posted: 4/21/2008 5:02:33 AM
Robin,

Politically correct? Possibly I can help..... i.e. :

"Dearest Mr. Hunter, If you are looking for someone named Tim to satisfy you sexually, perhaps you should make your way to a gay site." - OR-

"Mr. Hunter, please feel free to fornicate with one's self and then kindly "flat line". -OR-

"Mr. Hunter, perhaps you would be better served with a self induced climax. Afterward, you could fall to the ground due to a heart stoppage." -OR-

......................Na ................. None of these are correct. Robin, I think you correctly defined you feelings.

Just trying to help.

Dave
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Msg: 7 (view)
 
Clinton...Obama or McCain?
Posted: 4/17/2008 4:52:34 PM
Many years ago there was an adage that advised never to discuss religion or politics on a first date and now we're discussing politics even previous to the first date. EGAD !!!! I'll never get that elusive first date.

I believe all the candidates have pros and cons. I like Mr. Obama's charisma and eloquence. I really, really, really, appreciate his lack of a smear campaign. And, candidly, the fact that he's a black man. I do not like his politics, nor his lack of experience. I would like to see our populace have less dependence on government. As for lowering taxes, it is just the contrary. He is on record for repealing the "Bush tax cut". And lastly, I'm not enamored with some of the people with whom he has chosen to surround himself.

I like the fact that Mrs. Clinton is a woman. I'm very happy to see her and Mr Obama running for the highest office in the land. It's nice to see that we are now including those other than , sorry Rev. White," the rich white man" as candidates. As a conservative, I do not agree with her politics. I believe she has problems with remembering the truth. I could not stomach seeing "Bill" in the spotlight for another 4 years. Take the politics out of it, I do not care for men who cheat on their wives. It's just that plain and simple.

Mr. McCain (gosh, did I spell that correctly?) has taken many journeys around the sun and has much experience because of it. Is he a hot head? I must have missed that particular day's paper. I would think it grand to, at some point in time, stop puzzyfooting around an issue and say what's on your mind. And if you get red in the face in doing so, so be it. As Toby Keith sings, "You might not like where I'm going, but you'll sure know where I stand." And one last pro, which may be seen as a negative for some. He has reached across the isle on many occasions to enact legislation and to foster unity. I would think his confessed lack of knowledge regarding the economy is detrimental.

I think the office of the president is over-rated. It is forgotten that we also have a congress. But I guess that its just easier to belittle one individual for what has and has not been done. After all, The buck stops there.

Just one man's humble opinion.

Dave
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Msg: 284 (view)
 
Nice Guys? Where?
Posted: 4/15/2008 12:06:45 PM
John - Nicely put. It didn't sound mean to me, only quite candid. Hopefully Linda will view your post as advise offered, not criticism thrown. You offered, "Sometimes its the people who seem too nice that you need to be wary of." Amen. In fact that's the rationale I'm going to use for being dateless since only God knows when. LOL


Ripely, you wrote, "...trudge on until we find 'the one' who really knocks our socks off." Yes, and then we'll read a post which says that she, "went out with this great guy, all was well, until he started to remove my socks." LOL Sorry, I couldn't resist this feeble effort at humor.

Thanks for letting me play.

Dave
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Msg: 274 (view)
 
Nice Guys? Where?
Posted: 4/12/2008 10:12:16 PM
Val,

Ouch !!! Regardless of whether you're in a relationship or not, walking away from someone who is talking to you is just plain rude. I just don't understand some people. If you've an interest in someone, especially if you're in a relationship, I would think that their ideas, desires, dreams would be of interest to you. But, hey, that's just me.

Thank you for your response. I had hoped that, maybe, the guys were not aware of their irritating nature, hence no change. However, each of you ladies offered that you had made your feelings known. I can only shake my head in wonder of these guys.

I very glad, in reading the postings of the 3 of you, that you don't hold all men accountable for the actions of some. Thank you.

Just one man's humble opinion.

Dave
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Msg: 272 (view)
 
Nice Guys? Where?
Posted: 4/11/2008 9:24:23 PM
Robin,

All we can ask is for an honest exchange in communication. If you advise someone of an irritating habit and they do nothing to respect your wishes or attempt to make you happy then, in my opinion, you've attempted to communicate. They've either failed at listening or holding you in high enough regard to attempt to make a change.

As Ripley noted, she does not want to change anyone. However wouldn't it be nice if we, with the help of our companions, recognized some of our shortcomings and then we decided to make a change.

Thank you for your feedback.

Dave
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Msg: 270 (view)
 
Nice Guys? Where?
Posted: 4/11/2008 2:35:22 PM
Rip,

I would agree that the Disgusting Mr. Hawker, hey wasn't there a film with Matt Damon by that name, should make his way to the exit as quickly as possible. On a scale of 1-10, he and the Fartman warrant a 10 and a "Do not pass go" card purely due to the fact that they're probably not old enough to date and obviously have no idea what respect is.

However an annoyance in the 1-5, maybe 6, range could be worked on if we only knew. If someone would be considered a nice guy/gal, and according to many of the POF threads difficult to find, wouldn't it be kind of a win/win situation if a discussion led to a behavior change? But, then again, that's just me. We all gotta do what we all gotta do.

Thanks for your feedback.

Dave
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Msg: 268 (view)
 
Nice Guys? Where?
Posted: 4/11/2008 11:04:07 AM
Rip, Robin, Val....

Some of the actions you describe are just plain vulgar, crude and disgusting. They show a complete lack of class by these individuals and certainly no respect for you. Yes I must admit, at one point in my life I thought some of these actions were funny, but then I graduated into the 4th grade. (Please note, though, never graduated out of the 4th grade. Dang, that long division)

Rip - you mentioned earlier, "...but he/she does something that annoys you and you think, 'Hmmm, can I possibly live with that for the long haul?' ".

Robin - you wrote, "...he had some quirks that drove me nuts..." and then gave an example of some, in my opinion, very rude behavior.

My question ladies, and I know we all have our definitive "deal breakers". On those behaviors which were "quirky" or annoying, not rude and disrespectful, did you have an opportunity to discuss your feelings with the gentleman? Hopefully this would allow him the opportunity to understand your viewpoint and possibly initiate a change in his behavior.

Candidly, I think most of us guys should enroll in a class entitled, "Ladies - 101". Not so much to learn that the borish(sp) behavior mentioned above is a no no. But to understand that, much like the lovely snowflake, there are no two ladies alike. And how do we get to know and understand the individual intricacies of these beautiful creatures? By listening, they will tell us how to win their hearts.

So please ladies, rather than kicking us to the curb for our annoying or quirky behavior, please talk to us.

Rip, Robin, Val, .... I'm not insinuating that you did not. I'm only trying to indicate what I feel is important.


Just one man's humble and lengthy opinion.

Dave
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Msg: 53 (view)
 
Summer Camping Trip in Oakland County with Entertainment
Posted: 4/10/2008 7:31:23 PM
A camping week-end sounds grand. I've one of those large tents which supposedly sleeps, I don't know, 10. That is if you sleep like a sardine rather than a log. And at night, if it didn't scare everyone, I could do my wild animal sounds. LOL I'll leave that to your imagination.

I've been told I do great sounds of the jungle. Of course, many think I mostly sound like a dumb a$$. Are they found in the jungle?

Go Wings !!!!! I can do that on a Michigan Forum, can't I?

Dave
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Msg: 153 (view)
 
Smoking
Posted: 4/10/2008 7:12:08 PM
My parents both smoked. Thank the good Lord we lived under the overpass so the ventilation was fine. Oops, that was one of my "other" personalities. Truth be known, though, our kitchen and living room were blue with smoke and I went to bed many a night with a cold, damp wash cloth over my eyes. And when our neighbors, who were heavy smokers as well, visited...... oh my, Purple Haze.... What? Wrong smoke? My bad......
Sorry Mr. Hendrix. DA-DA-DA DA-DA-Dum-Dum.

Although I'm a non-smoker, it doesn't bother me to date a smoker. I did so for a year and never had a problem with it. She'd heard, as have all smokers, the blah, blah, blah so she didn't need to hear it from me. After-all, none of us are perfect except, of course, me. LOL What? Sounds conceited? Well you know I can't be conceited because, after all, I'mmmmm.... wait for it now......perfect. LOL Just kiddin'

And for those who would like to quit but just have not been able to do so, much empathy for you. I had much difficulty giving up my Oreo cookies. I used the patch. Placed one part on my upper lip and the other on my lower. LOL

So, in summary, and I know most of you are saying, "Thank God", ..... Smoking bad, it can kill you and those around you, but so can driving.

Just one man's humble, if not so insightful, opinion.


Dave
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Msg: 7 (view)
 
A connection in Michigan???
Posted: 4/8/2008 2:38:42 PM
brat73jen,

So there ya have it. 200 miles isn't cross country, but it's a bit of a distance from Wixom. Congratulations for making it work for 9 years and my condolences for the fact that it is no longer on going. I believe that if the individuals believe they can make it work, it will. But there is no denying that it would be more difficult than trying to maintain a relationship with someone a little closer to home.

Yes, yes and again, yes there are "nice guys" in Michigan. I don't know how long you've been on the pond but if you keep the line in the water long enough, and throw back the crappies, you'll catch yourself a good one. Keep yourself "open" to meeting a nice guy and it will happen. It might not be on POF, but it will definitely happen.

And may I applaud you for also wanting a role model for your children. And may I shake my head in sadness because my gender has caused you to write the last 2 sentences in your profile previous to your cancer ribbon. It's really sad commentary, isn't it?

Just one man's humble opinion.

Dave
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Msg: 5 (view)
 
A connection in Michigan???
Posted: 4/8/2008 1:42:30 PM
brat73jen,

I'm a bit confused. You begin your post with a question concerning long distance relationships and then switch in midstream to statements about men and all we want is dinner, maybe, and sex. While two very important questions, I'm not quite sure they go together. But, then again, that's just me.

Long distance relationships, I would think, would be very difficult. But, I've been fortunate to have a few ladies from out of state with whom I've carried on correspondence. I wasn't looking for a relationship but sent a message admiring something about their profile. To my surprise, I received a reply and we would e-mail back and forth for a couple of months. It's always nice to share opinions and information. And, as one POF lady states, "You never know when lightening will strike." For me, I wouldn't hesitate to respond from someone out of state.

In regards to men and the endless threads about all we want is sex....Unfortunately, the world is full of arrogant, egotistical, self-centered individuals with a belief system that the world revolves around them and their needs, yes, some of them are men. LOL Here is what I hope you ladies may consider. I spent better than 20 years in corporate sales. I was always amazed at the disproportionate amount of letters of complaint to that of compliments. I represented the no. 1 company in our field so we must have been doing something right, don't cha think? It just seemed to me that people always had time to issue a letter of complaint but just never had the time to send a letter saying thank you, well done.

So my question is this. Could there be many great guys on the pond but we don't hear about them because we, as a people, may be more inclined to write about negatives then positives? Ladies, have you ever met or corresponded with a POF man who was nice enough but there was just no chemistry? IF so, could you find a minute to write something nice so as to balance out the scales? Read any posts regarding POF parties that were attended and the ladies, for the most part, have favorable comments. So ladies, please understand we are not ALL driven by the desires of our penis.

Thanks for letting me share my thoughts. It's truly appreciated.

Dave
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Msg: 98 (view)
 
What is wrong with the persons profile above you in this thread? (Michigan)
Posted: 4/7/2008 7:33:46 PM
smilinKris, there ya go. I don't recall the part in your profile about you being a flirt, great addition. Your comment regarding accidents and depends is what I was referring to. Well, not specifically that comment, but the fun of that comment. It reinforces the fact that you have a great personality and sense of humor.

I agree with Robin. The pic of you with a rose clinched between your teeth is grand.

Now, if your mailbox does not show increased activity I'd have to say that the men in the thumb must have dirt in their eyes. LOL

Just one man's humble opinion.

Dave
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Msg: 97 (view)
 
What is wrong with the persons profile above you in this thread? (Michigan)
Posted: 4/7/2008 7:15:17 PM
Just Sloan, **** Sorry kiddo, we kinda got off track a bit. As far as your profile, in my opinion it was super. I thought it was fun. I liked it. I chortled out loud, in fact. The "moonlight as a nun" and the "*Gasp!!*" after white guys were two of my favorites. Having titles to your paragraphs, I thought, was unique.

Your "***** IMPORTANT NOTE *****, in my opinion, is a waste of time. These men either don't see themselves as such or really don't give a rat's azz about what it is that you may want or don't want. Candidly, I think it's the latter.

"...looking for my Mr. Wright. Is that so wrong?", is great word play. Sounds like the theme to a song. Now get out the git-fiddle (guitar, for you sophisticates) or sit right down at that piano and fill in the rest of the lyric.

Just one man's tardy, humble opinion.

Dave

P.S. Oops, thank you for your kind comments.
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Msg: 91 (view)
 
What is wrong with the persons profile above you in this thread? (Michigan)
Posted: 4/7/2008 11:57:09 AM
SmilinKris, NO, no, no.... You certainly did not say too much.....Of course, this from a guy who pens a novel and calls it a profile. LOL

Here's what I'm suggesting. And suggesting only, as what do I know I've been on the pond since 01/06 EGAD !!!! Your profile indicates a pleasant personality and good sense of humor, you might want to add a line or two to show off your personality and sense of humor.

ie: you write, "...anything with Nicolas Cage, Jean Claude VanDamme, romances & Horror movies too." You might then tell us that your favorite movie would be "CHUCK - AIR", starring Ni-chuck-olas Cage. A thriller, which finds our hero smuggling a doll, a gift for his daughter, on board his plane to freedom. All hell breaks out when the demonic doll hi-jacks the plane only to land it on a naval carrier where Jean Claude VanDamme is a chief cook. Love and confusion ensue when it is found that VanDamme is a doll collector. NOTE: to those who do not watch movies, this plot mingles Cage's "Con-Air" with "Chuckie" and a VanDamme movie. (Sorry Kris, I can't seem to locate the title to this movie.)

Now, I'm sure that you can do better than my feeble attempt, but hopefully my example shows what might, remember might, be helpful.

Again, just one man's humble opinion.

Dave
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Msg: 89 (view)
 
What is wrong with the persons profile above you in this thread? (Michigan)
Posted: 4/7/2008 10:20:24 AM
SmilinKris, I think your profile is very factual. You've listed your interests and facts about yourself. Your pictures are great and show a wonderful smile. If I've any negative comment, and please forgive me, it may be too dry, too factual.

You indicate that you have a great personality, your pictures show a beautiful smile and a gleam in your eyes. It may be helpful to place a sentence or two so that we may get a sense of, I'm sure, your wonderful personality. And if I'm totally wrong, and gosh, that's never happened before (LOL)...... I'm sure, given a little more time on the pond, guys will be beating a path to your door.

Hey, what's "rubber stamping" as an activity or hobby?

Good luck to you, dear lady.

Just one man's humble opinion.

Dave
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Msg: 49 (view)
 
The rules of kissing
Posted: 4/7/2008 9:54:26 AM
Michkat, yes the relationship with my pillow is progressing rather nicely. I take it to bed with me nightly. LOL Candidly, if it weren't for my pillow and the fact that I have to talk and, obviously, eat...... my lips would be covered in cob webs for lack of use. OH my, the horrors, the horrors.

Dave
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Msg: 47 (view)
 
The rules of kissing
Posted: 4/6/2008 9:16:11 PM
As a hopeless romantic, I love to kiss. I really didn't know there were any rules. I certainly hope I've not broken any.

OP, you've asked for the masculine point of view. For me, the first kiss is meant to be slow and very soft. Certainly there will be no crushing of my face into hers. I've found very often that I am either slightly holding her chin or lightly caressing her cheek with the back of my hand. This allows for closed eyes as I'm touching her near her mouth and all I need do is follow my hands. As I recall, man it's been a long time, I will typically tilt my head to the right.

And if all goes well she will "teach" me, through her reactions, how to make these kisses memorable for her.

Well, I'm off to go practice on my pillow. G'night.



Dave
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Msg: 11 (view)
 
Michigan Drivers
Posted: 4/5/2008 5:02:32 PM
I know the subject is "Michigan Drivers" but I can assure you this happens throughout this great country of ours. And it always, truly amazes me. This hazardous style of driving is brought upon by those who believe that their journey and task is more important than any other's. And, of course, we all know that this is certainly not fact as it is MY, ME, MY journey which is most important. LOL

I'm am always so amazed at people's inconsideration of others. Bah Humbug.

Just one man's humble opinion.

Dave

Happy and safe driving to all.
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Msg: 11 (view)
 
submissive women??
Posted: 4/4/2008 8:50:22 AM
In my opinion, any relationship should be a partnership. Input should be gained from and respected by both parties with a mutual understanding/agreement taking place. OP, I do suppose that, in a time of a "standoff", someone has to make a decision and my ego is certainly stroked when I am deferred to as the ultimate decision-maker. However, that decision would be gained by use of your insight as well.

And if I may add another point. If I'm making A-L-L the decisions, couldn't that be interpreted as indifference on your part? And if so, would that necessarily be good for the relationship? Just a thought.

Now pass the flammin' popcorn....mmmmmmm...... Hey, who is up for a little less salt and butter on the next batch? Please don't make me decide alone. LOL


Just one man's humble opinion.

Dave
 
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