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snglagain27

Joined: 3/24/2009

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Cosmo Lounge - Lakewood Country Club - October 23 Posted: 10/22/2009 1:55:22 PM
Sweetie, I look forward to seeing you, the girls, and "the girls" again. You do a wonderful job making these events happen. I look forward to chatting with old friends, new friends and "dancing". See you there. - Mark

snglagain27

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Friday July 17th ~Tiki Bar Ocean Place Resort Long Branch Posted: 7/17/2009 9:58:55 AM
CLO, A number of women are uncomfortable attending alone and I would volunteer to walk them to their cars. It is unfortunate that this concern exists and should not prevent the women from enjoying such a lovely evening under the stars. Mark (the Wingman)

snglagain27

Joined: 3/24/2009

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Friday July 17th ~Tiki Bar Ocean Place Resort Long Branch Posted: 7/13/2009 1:25:09 PM
There is free parking next door at Pier Village. I recommend coming early, getting a parking spot, take a long walk along the elevated boardwalk or explore Pier Village or take a liesurely walk along the surf.

snglagain27

Joined: 3/24/2009

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Friday July 17th ~Tiki Bar Ocean Place Resort Long Branch Posted: 7/10/2009 5:15:55 AM
One of the most romantic locations on the beach in Long Branch. Great for conversation, ambiance, people watching, and relaxing music under the stars with the beach within a short walk. I can't wait.:kiss:

snglagain27

Joined: 3/24/2009

Msg: 232 (view)

Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about? Posted: 7/4/2009 8:59:08 AM
Sex runs through my mind a number of times in a given day for a variety of reasons. It could be someone I was thinking of, a beautiful woman I exchange a glance and smile on the street, an advertisement of a bikini on a passing taxi, or a phone call from a friend with a sexy voice. The male libido is visually oriented and this information is stored and filed away, to be reaccessed when in the company of a love interest and heightening sensual pleasure at that moment. Beautiful, sexy women are like the choices in a dessert/pastry cart although there is no need to taste all. They can be admired from a distance while I share my intimacy with someone special that I have an emotional connection with. On the flipside, there are men looking for a quick release and prefer an accomodating woman to facilitate. Women have "the goods" and the power and can determine how they want intimacy, on what terms and with who/when. Unfortunately, I continue to see too many beautiful women give their power away to easily and therefore are labeled "easy". Hope this helps.

snglagain27

Joined: 3/24/2009

Msg: 160 (view)

first date sex Posted: 7/4/2009 5:55:54 AM
Sex based on physical attraction and basic likeable qualities may be enjoyable but never to the degree of being emotionally connected with someone. Women I have met want lengthy lovemaking with someone they know and have a strong connection with and the freedom to let them selves go. Taking the time to truly get to know a woman and understand her wants/needs heightens the pleasure tenfold. Comparing lovemaking/sex to a 7 course meal with dessert the sex, the enjoyment of the first 6 courses heighten the anticipation of the intimacy and can be explosive to say the least. On the other hand, having the dessert first leaves little reason to stick around, especially if the meal offered is not your favorite dish. I have been fortunate in that I have always been invited for follow up dinner parties with varied deserts, one better than the last. Bon Appetite!

snglagain27

Joined: 3/24/2009

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Casual blowjobs Posted: 7/2/2009 1:13:59 PM
Most women I know view a blowjob as anything but casual. The mere personal nature of such a pleasurable exchange reflects not only a serious attraction but also a strong emotional connection, regardless of the commitment level. I believe the "casual blowjob" is overblown in the minds of boys/men who prefer emotionless sex performed by desperate women that lack confidence. Fortunately, as Bob Dylan sings so poignantly "the winds they are a changing". I recommend dating a very confident woman that is in tune with her sexuality and who knows exactly what she wants, how, when and with whom. Add an emotional connection and brace yourself for a wild ride.

snglagain27

Joined: 3/24/2009

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The best stimulation for any woman has to be french kissing Posted: 7/2/2009 9:24:07 AM
I believe that French Kissing is the ignition switch in all of us that propells passion. I find that with women, it creates the tingles, the weakness in the knees, the onset of internal lubrication, and the heavy breathing that leads to the ripping away of clothes and the pressing against the nearest wall. "Where there is woman there is magic" and add french kissing to the mix and that is the recipe for "magical music", the likes of which I could dance all night. IMHO

snglagain27

Joined: 3/24/2009

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Not sure she was that into me Posted: 7/2/2009 8:42:46 AM
I agree with ImAHotMess, whenever I am out with a woman and feel I am competing for her attention, I politely call the waiter, ask for the check, tell her it was a pleasure meeting and leave. People will treat us how we allow them to. The only thing I do with my BlackBerry is turn it off and place all of my attention on my date. As mature adults, it is important to understand our "power" and not give it away so easily to others. There is nothing a woman can do for me that I can't do for myself, except show some sincere interest in return. I would rather be alone and happy than with someone rude and unhappy. IMHO.

snglagain27

Joined: 3/24/2009

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why do most men judge women by their number of past lovers? Posted: 7/2/2009 7:07:25 AM
It is dependent on the man and his comfort/confidence level. I personally enjoy an independent, experienced and confident woman and could care less her intimate history. What is most important is her sense of self, sensuality and ability to openly discuss her wants/needs in life and the bedroom. The beauty of intimacy in this age bracket is many years of practice and perfection. Intimacy is heightened when both parties can discuss their hot buttons and experience them together. The men that have a tough time with a woman's intimate experience either has some inequality issues or some self confidence issues to address, in my humble opinion.

snglagain27

Joined: 3/24/2009

Msg: 157 (view)

Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting? Posted: 7/2/2009 6:41:43 AM
My answer to this question is both. There is something to be said for men "pre-heating" the oven with a good hour of foreplay. A confident woman will tell you when she has had enough of one course and wants to move to the main dish. There are 3 dimensions to great lovemaking in my opinion: 1) lengthy foreplay and kissing, 2) the passionate throws of intercourse in a variety of positions, 3) the afterplay where both meld together in an exhausted heap where the most sensitive and intimate of conversation/touching takes place. Then there is the 24 hour afterglow that puts spring in our step and smiles to everyone we meet. There is also something to be said for quick passionate sex like fast food on the run to tide us over until there is more time for the lengthier opportunities. Either way, it is all good!

snglagain27

Joined: 3/24/2009

Msg: 49 (view)

I don't kiss on the first date Posted: 7/2/2009 6:28:24 AM
I greet every woman I meet with a gentle hug and kiss on the cheek and have never had a problem. Women enjoy appropriate affection from men vs. innappropriate touching. When it comes to a kiss on the lips, I learned early in life that if a woman wants me in her personal space, she will invite me! There seems to be some deeper issues worth looking into, in my humble opinion.

snglagain27

Joined: 3/24/2009

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Barnaby's Happy Hour July 9th 6-8 pm Posted: 6/30/2009 6:36:47 AM
Linda, Great profile, well thought out. Look forward to chatting at the event. Mark

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