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lookin4theone104

Joined: 3/24/2009

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Why dont females reply to married males looking 4 friends Posted: 6/20/2009 10:27:48 PM
Because we think you are all a$$holes for being on here when you have a wife and kids. It was said before...WE AREN'T STUPID. Women like myself who have been married and he cheated we are nauseated by dumba$$es like yourself.

lookin4theone104

Joined: 3/24/2009

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Do I tell her how I feel? Posted: 6/18/2009 6:34:37 PM
RUN AND RUN FAST....same thing happened to me and he went back to her leaving me heartbroken. There is no way for this to end well for you! You have been given plenty of signs that you need to move on...whether you have fallen for her or not isn't the issue...it's not going to change anything. Move on dear and save yourself a ton of hurt! Good luck!

lookin4theone104

Joined: 3/24/2009

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to much interest or to little Posted: 6/18/2009 6:31:05 PM
oh dear kcr...this is all what I like to call MIND GAMES. Men do the same things at times and it is very nerve racking. Good luck and happy

lookin4theone104

Joined: 3/24/2009

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Time for a real question Posted: 6/16/2009 5:19:02 PM
wow...ok so i agree that it depends on the city...however, i think a lot of the piercing bashing was uncalled for. bwanyo never said he thinks that's why HE isn't getting messages...he just asked a question. I say leave the piercings...it's who you are and it's what you like. why try to act like you are something other than what you really are just to hook someone. I personally love them...i have one myself :) happy fishing dear bwanyo!!

lookin4theone104

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Recently laid off.. Posted: 6/10/2009 7:40:24 AM
hey there paulpauly...of course there aren't any ways to make it sound good...however...if I meet a man on here that is in your position (and i have) and he is actively looking or at least doing something to improve his situation (ie: school) then I do take that into consideration. Now, you will have your women out here that won't even give you a second thought...but the down to earth good hearted ones will at least consider all aspects of the situation. Anyone in the working world realizes that the economy is hard right now and most of us know someone that is in your shoes. Good luck with the job and the love search.

lookin4theone104

Joined: 3/24/2009

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why is it so hard for me to find a girl Posted: 6/6/2009 8:24:06 PM
I totally agree with the chill out part...however, i disagree with taking the pics of you with the gun away...that's super sexy I can't speak for all girls but I know for myself and a few of my girlfriends...we love to see that a man has the means to protect us. Just expand on your profile and give it some time. Happy Fishin babe.

lookin4theone104

Joined: 3/24/2009

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Interesting...Men and Women APPARENTLY are NOT Equal Posted: 6/6/2009 8:15:46 PM
wow...well i can tell you're upset about it that's for sure. however, some people are like that it doesn't mean that all of us are. There are men that are the same way...you can't tell them you aren't interested without them going off on you. Unfortunately thats how some people are. This is a dating sight and everyone's turn on's and off's are different. Sorry you had a bad one...but don't give up...there's good ones too. I think! lol

lookin4theone104

Joined: 3/24/2009

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Talkin about other girls.... Posted: 6/6/2009 6:05:11 PM
ok...it isn't that i had bonded with these men...if you 'freaking' read all the posts i told that it had happened within the first week of talking to them. If you think you can 'bond' with someone in that much time without actually meeting them then I would think that's a problem too. It isn't like it's a girl to girl chat...it's like he is boasting about the women. Like I should be impressed. The one time he called and had been stood up it was like he was venting...but I think I was the wrong set of ears for that cause it was a COMPLETE turn off.

lookin4theone104

Joined: 3/24/2009

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Talkin about other girls.... Posted: 6/6/2009 5:57:24 PM
ok,...thanks guys so the general consensus is that i'm meeting losers with low self esteem..lol just my luck lol thanks for the answers though. just wanted to make sure that it wasn't the norm...cause that would definitely suck!

lookin4theone104

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Talkin about other girls.... Posted: 6/6/2009 4:51:02 PM
i would believe that about the friend zone...but we haven't even known each other long enough to be in that zone...haven't even met in person yet. I have had it happen from two guys...and both of them it was within the first week of talking to them....that's not long enough to be in any kind of zone lol...at least i don't think so...maybe i'm wrong about that too lol

lookin4theone104

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Talkin about other girls.... Posted: 6/6/2009 4:28:56 PM
wow...so i'm the call they would place to their mother...that sucks LOL

lookin4theone104

Joined: 3/24/2009

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Talkin about other girls.... Posted: 6/6/2009 4:18:03 PM
Why is it that when you start talking to a guy on here they want to start telling you about all the other girls they are talking to? Why do they feel the need to call you on their way home from meeting someone else or being stood up trying to meet someone else and want to tell you all about it? Is this normal for guys or is it just that I'm getting calls and messages from losers? Thanks for your help!! lol

lookin4theone104

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Would you kindly... Posted: 5/17/2009 6:22:35 PM
hey random...ok so first of all...the pics kinda make you look like a drunk lol might want to have a few serious ones with you smiling. Second...your content...you need to be more open...tell exactly what you are looking for in a girl and where you want it to start and eventually lead. ex: 'right now i'm looking for a nice girl i can get to know with a great sense of humor and hopefully it will lead to more' (just for example). I don't know about all women but I know I read the entire profile...so you have to assume that they all do...Good luck!

lookin4theone104

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Rate my profile? Posted: 5/17/2009 1:09:39 PM
hey ryan...i checked out your profile and i personally thought it was really good. The pics are great, the content is good...the only thing you might want to add is what you are looking for in a girl/relationship. Good luck in your search!!!

lookin4theone104

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help me Posted: 5/17/2009 5:33:03 AM
hey frank...ok in your profile you say you are looking for a woman with your same views on things...but you don't really tell what your views are...so how does she know if she has the same views or not? You need to talk more about what you want in a relationship, in a woman and what you have to offer her as a potential boyfriend...how you would treat her.

lookin4theone104

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why do i never get any replys Posted: 5/17/2009 5:29:41 AM
One of the biggest things I can tell you is that you need to go through your profile and check your spelling...a lot of women are turned off when they read a profile and have to figure out what you are trying to say because every other word is misspelled. Your profile also doesn't tell much about you other than you don't want to describe your job.

lookin4theone104

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Please help!!! Posted: 5/17/2009 5:16:08 AM
Thanks for the suggestions...ok so i have does not want kids becuase i don't want to give the wrong impression to anyone...it is impossible for me to have anymore...i never saw it as accepting someone with kids already...thanks...as far as it goes for my profession...i tell in my profile that i have a great job...i don't tell what it is because for local people i have a job where i could easily be found and let's admit the truth here...some of the people on here are not all together lol I'll go in and add a few touches to it...thanks again!

lookin4theone104

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Do me next :) Posted: 5/16/2009 6:19:47 PM
hey daniel...ok the no pic is a big deal breaker for some. a lot of fems don't even let men message them if they don't have a pic on their profile. Other than that...you should be more descriptive in your profile. Makes a girl think....is he that 'quick' at everything? lol

lookin4theone104

Joined: 3/24/2009

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So what's wrong with my profile? Posted: 5/16/2009 6:15:35 PM
hey there markmatt...ok first of all putting someone on your fav's list doesn't do the trick...i'm not sure everyone checks it..plus if someone does that to me it kinda bothers me that they did it but wouldn't message me and I delete myself from their list. The only thing I could say to change about your profile is to maybe add what you are looking for a in a woman or in a relationship. Good luck...now you could return the favor and review mine..lol i'm on here too to get mine checked out :)

lookin4theone104

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Please help!!! Posted: 5/16/2009 5:23:04 PM
ok my profile has been changed...please let me know if it's any better

lookin4theone104

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Please help!!! Posted: 5/16/2009 5:06:41 PM
ok thanks...i'll go change that...i understand what you're saying...thanks!!!

lookin4theone104

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Please help!!! Posted: 5/16/2009 4:59:17 PM
So, I want anyone and everyone's input as to what is so wrong with my profile. A lot of people look at it but I don't get many messages...at least not from people who are serious..so all input would really be appreciated

lookin4theone104

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Why Do Women Want To Sleep With You, But Not Date You? Posted: 5/11/2009 5:25:01 PM
are you really asking this??? i thought it was men that did that!

lookin4theone104

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My tattoo, your thoughts Posted: 5/10/2009 7:04:32 PM
you know what...i have tattoos and honestly i might question who's name it was but once you told me i would have absolutely no problem with it...but this is coming from a tat freak lol just my opinion :)

lookin4theone104

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Newb Posted: 5/10/2009 6:58:42 PM
see that's what i'm talkin about lol i'm done with you pozer LOLOLOL

lookin4theone104

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Where should I take this? Posted: 5/10/2009 6:49:33 PM
I agree with Silent Steel one million percent...the man knows where you live...that's just down right crazy LOL

lookin4theone104

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Newb Posted: 5/10/2009 6:47:50 PM
LOl smarta$$ lol see use that humor when you talk to women...most of us like a man with a sense of humor...even odd ones like yours LOL j/k

lookin4theone104

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Newb Posted: 5/10/2009 6:35:58 PM
oh Lord...quit apologizing lol Not all of us think they suck...I was just giving you a tip sheesh lol

lookin4theone104

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Newb Posted: 5/10/2009 6:27:38 PM
I was just saying that the black and while pic is really cute...an eye catcher...you should use it. When you message females on here...I can't speak for everyone but I love it when I get a message from a guy that asks questions and is light hearted and maybe a joke or two in it....shows a great sense of humor. I wasn't knockin your pic I was just saying that the black and while one is hot

lookin4theone104

Joined: 3/24/2009

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Why Why why do men have to treat me like this Posted: 5/10/2009 6:21:47 PM
Men can be like that...at least you got a trip to Monaco...I don't even get that LOL

lookin4theone104

Joined: 3/24/2009

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Newb Posted: 5/10/2009 6:02:44 PM
ok...on your profile you need to make that black and white pic your profile main pic....it is much hotter than the one you have on there now LOL I agree that you need to give out a free drink and see how she reacts...seriously I used to bartend and that's where i got most of my dates...free drinks and eye contact and make comments to them about the other people that are acting silly lol Good luck

lookin4theone104

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Where should I take this? Posted: 5/10/2009 5:58:59 PM
You should leave it alone...why would you want to try to get someone that is already involved with another man. Move on....quit trying to break up relationships.

lookin4theone104

Joined: 3/24/2009

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Is it so hard to say Not interested? Posted: 5/10/2009 6:29:13 AM
lol ps....i can't answer for all women...but...i always try to give the man the respect he deserves by giving him an answer. However, when I was in my early twenties I did exactly what you are referring to. It was immaturity and not knowing how to handle it ....the reason was I WAS TOO AFRAID TO HURT HIS FEELINGS. It wasn't until someone did it to me that I realized how awful it was and grew up and did the right thing.

lookin4theone104

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Why ask for chivalry if you question it's sincerity when it is given ? Posted: 5/9/2009 6:52:25 PM
I may be disturbed by the fact that she is questioning what we all want, and I have yet to find. you aren't alone dear sherlock...the good ones never can find each other we just find the losers! lol

lookin4theone104

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Why ask for chivalry if you question it's sincerity when it is given ? Posted: 5/9/2009 6:11:42 PM
WOW...i would greatly appreciate finding a man like that...why couldn't it be me instead of her lol it is no excuse but i think so many people have been hurt by other people playing games with them that it becomes hard to trust that someone is really interested in them if they don't just try to jump their bones right off the bat.... the sad thing is that they don't realize all that physical forcefulness right off the bat has nothing to do with the man being attracted to her and wanting only her...it just means that he wanted to get some lol there are still some of us out here that really want a man like that and think it might be the best thing that happens to her when she finds him :)

lookin4theone104

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David DeAngelo Nice guys loose do you agree? Posted: 5/9/2009 9:56:42 AM
WOW not all girls are looking for jerks. I think any man should be able to balance being the wonderful 'nice guy' and the man that knows what he wants but is able to relate that to his 'partner' in an understanding manner. I'm in my 30's so I'm past the bad boy all the time phase...I just want a man that treats me like the only woman in the world but when anyone tries to mess with me...the 'not so nice guy' comes out! :)

lookin4theone104

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More than four years without sex...am I doing the right thing? Posted: 5/9/2009 9:51:44 AM
Patrick...I'm so sorry for your loss...however, intimate encounters can lead to many problems. If that is all you are seeking I would suggest that you find that one person that you can have that with and that neither of you want it to turn into more. However, make sure you use all precautions...if she is like that with you...then you may not be the only one she is 'with'. Good luck in your search!

lookin4theone104

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Was she just using me? Posted: 5/9/2009 9:45:16 AM
You did the right thing by breaking it off. I can't speak for everyone but...I have found that anyone that is looking for a real relationship would not want to keep it on the 'DL' for such a long period of time. Especially since you all knew each other in the past. I could understand if you just met her and you all were taking the time to get to know each other before you involved family...but that wasn't the case. Move on dear...there are plenty of other women that would be proud to have you and 'show you off' to friends and family!! Good luck!

lookin4theone104

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to make you feel better Posted: 5/6/2009 6:40:29 PM
Ease up on calling it a 'pity party' anyone that has a hurt, broken, smashed or blown to smithereens heart deserves to take the time to feel sorry about it. We know it sure as hell won't be the other party feeling sorry for us so at least let us do it for ourselves lol. Lord knows since Sat I've been feeling sorry for myself A LOT lol

lookin4theone104

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How can men stop having feelings so quickly? Posted: 5/6/2009 6:36:47 PM
Well, one thing this forum has done for me is let me know that I'm not the only one this has happened to. It doesn't ease the pain but it makes it a little more bearable to know that I'm not all alone. I'm so extremely confused at this point. I just don't know how it all happened or why....guess I never will

lookin4theone104

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How can men stop having feelings so quickly? Posted: 5/5/2009 5:55:59 PM
It must be that easy for men...just this weekend I had the man I was seeing tell me that he really believed 'he could fall in love with me'. Several hours later I left his house and he won't take my calls, return messages nothing...so it must be real freakin easy for men...in the process I'm having an emotional breakdown while I'm positive that he is doing just fine.

lookin4theone104

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you deserve better= bullshit... Convince me otherwise Posted: 5/5/2009 5:50:00 PM
If it makes you feel any better girls hear the same silly crap. I agree with you 100%. I've determined that the only real love there is in this life is what you feel for your family...parents, kids, etc...I've given up also.

lookin4theone104

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to make you feel better Posted: 5/5/2009 5:45:01 PM
aww...dear you are not alone either...me you and lonely all in the same sinking ship lol

lookin4theone104

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WHY CANT I SEEM TO FIND THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE ? Posted: 5/5/2009 5:42:56 PM
lonely...i completely understand. I'm in the same situation and just recently got my heart trampled by someone i met on here. Good luck...you are not alone!

lookin4theone104

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When is the time to stop checking your profile? Posted: 5/2/2009 11:55:18 AM
I just want to thank everyone for the advice...we had the talk and as a matter of fact he brought it up!! We've both changed our profiles so thank you all and I'm outta here....hopefully I won't be back. Hope all of you find what you're looking for. :)

lookin4theone104

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When is the time to stop checking your profile? Posted: 5/1/2009 7:33:31 PM
Thanks for the advice. I really appreciate it..I'm pretty new to the whole online dating thing and it is really hard for me to accept that after the wonderful times we have had together and him saying 'you're gonna make me fall in love with you' that he would still be looking for someone else. I just really needed to make sure that I wasn't going over board and kept things realistic.

lookin4theone104

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When is the time to stop checking your profile? Posted: 5/1/2009 7:16:44 PM
thanks for that advice...as a guy how would you want a girl to bring it up to you? i don't want to scare him or freak him out.

lookin4theone104

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When is the time to stop checking your profile? Posted: 5/1/2009 7:13:21 PM
ok that's great advice...one problem..he still checks his everyday...should that bother me? It does but I don't want to over react.

lookin4theone104

Joined: 3/24/2009

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When is the time to stop checking your profile? Posted: 5/1/2009 7:03:04 PM
Just wanting some general input for anyone and everyone. I met someone on here that I am extremely interested in. We met in person almost a month ago and talk on the phone almost every day. We've spent several sweet nights together and last night he even mentioned that I should get a toothbrush to keep at his house cause 'there's no other chicks coming over here'. Now, my question is...what is an appropriate length of time before we don't look on here anymore even out of curiosity? I don't want anyone but him, but I don't want to rush him. HELP ME!!!

lookin4theone104

Joined: 3/24/2009

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Funny Dating Stories....... :laugh: Posted: 4/10/2009 6:57:37 PM
OK..so here's one. I met this guy on here and both of us had that we were interested in Long Term so we talked for a while and everything seemed to be going wonderful. It often came to mind that something too good probably is, but I pushed that thought aside because he was everything I wanted. Well, we finally decided to meet and he invited me to his house..WHY DID I SAY YES AND GO THERE????? But, I did (always meet in a public place) so I called when I got there and he told me to come on in that the door was open so I did. Thankfully he was fully dressed but all the lights were out just candles were burning to give some light. He was sitting on the couch and never got up but the first words out of his mouth were 'I'm so glad you came I wasn't sure if you would' then he proceeded to ask for 'favors'. I turned around and walked right back out the door. LOL NEVER GO TO THEIR HOUSE TO MEET THEM LOL

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