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 Author Thread: Why men run at the first sign of pregnancy?
 PatrickDM
Joined: 3/26/2009
Msg: 119 (view)
 
Why men run at the first sign of pregnancy?
Posted: 9/15/2009 7:09:51 AM
I have always took responsibility when it comes to birth controll, I fully understand the risks of sex. I am 28 years old and I have yet to get anyone pregnant. now if I would have got someone pregnant I would have done the responsible thing. But I understand that most men are not like that.

Only one time where i have not been responsible and I was very lucky. but i still understood the risks involved. one thing I do not like is dead beat dads. if you get a woman pregnant you are not obligated to stay with her but at least be there for her during the pregnancy, be there for the birth and discuss what are your options.

it makes me sick when people can't make the responsible choices.
 PatrickDM
Joined: 3/26/2009
Msg: 13 (view)
 
single mom longterm relationship with guy who has no kids
Posted: 9/15/2009 6:59:23 AM
maybe you guys should consider adoption. there are alot of children out there with no home. me and my gf are considering it once we get things straight. she is in the very same position you are in.
 PatrickDM
Joined: 3/26/2009
Msg: 49 (view)
 
kids being violent
Posted: 6/30/2009 7:43:57 PM
I really hate to say this but when he first does it tell him no firmly, if that don't work then it surely means that kid needs a good spanking.

maybe that kid lacks a dad, dads are great. When I was growing up I always had the fear of dad in me. if i misbehaved all my mother would have to say is wait till your dad gets home.

if you don't start discipline your kids now they will be much much worse later on when you really can't controll them.

Don't get me wrong punishing your child and abusing your child is 2 total different things.

another thing that may help is put your child on time out, take his toys away, that will probally help.
 PatrickDM
Joined: 3/26/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
guys who love you and leave you
Posted: 3/31/2009 8:12:46 AM
from personal experience, if you give it up right off the bat yes it is more than likely to happen. If I meet someone who I feel is fit right for me and who I can take to go meet my family then its ia keeper. if it is someone who I can not hold a lengthy conversation with then it is not a keeper.

But please keep in mind women do it too. if there is no friendship establish or your dating someone who has totally different viewpoints than you do trust me the relationship is NOT going to work. even if you guys enjoy having sex together.
 PatrickDM
Joined: 3/26/2009
Msg: 21 (view)
 
For Real or does everyone just want to stay on the computer...
Posted: 3/30/2009 4:03:10 AM
I have met a few girls from online before, some of them great some of them not soo great. You just got to remember not to take it personally when things don't go the way you want it to. just make sure if the other person is not interested in you then it is not your problem, it is just not ment to be.
 
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