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scarlet marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 31 (view)

on mothers looking sexy Posted: 7/24/2009 6:55:57 AM
You need to grow up. Men want a woman that looks nice, yes dare I say it SEXY. I am a Christian, but I can also make myself look great too. And if men like you, who are insecure jerks, have a problem with it I don't care. Do you want a woman who does not take care of herself and only lives to serve you and the God you choose to serve? That is how it appears. If you find a female who will tolerate your attitude you need to keep her, due to the fact that she may be the only one.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 23 (view)

what's with women going to the toy box instead of the real thing Posted: 7/18/2009 4:03:49 PM
no 1 baby, I love your answer. I personally think that any man who takes issue of a toy is insecure. Are we not taught to share as kids.? LOL

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 75 (view)

I am getting used to being SINGLE, which scares hell out of me. Posted: 6/26/2009 10:19:09 AM
Being single is much better than being in a terrible relationship anyday.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 69 (view)

Common characteristic among mothers Posted: 6/21/2009 10:40:42 PM
After reading some of the comments on this thread, I am even more convinced that I do the right thing by saying that my children come first in my life. If any man has a problem with my lifestyle, he can take a hike and not return. The right man will appreciate the fact that I put my kids first.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 620 (view)

does anyone get as turned off with a smoker as i do? Posted: 6/19/2009 10:17:03 AM
I do not even consider dating a man who smokes. They could be the total package (everything I am looking for) and I still would give one walking papers in an instant.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

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Preacher Man? Posted: 5/25/2009 6:52:17 PM
Just keep in mind there are those who are meant to be preachers and some are meant to be a preacher's wife.The right female would gladly take on the role with joy. Do not give up.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 65 (view)

Cant stant doggs.. Posted: 5/23/2009 7:13:29 PM
sunseeker, I have a 3/4 Great Pyrenees and 1/4 Newfoundland. I know they can be messy. But that is why she is lives outside. She is 14 weeks and 44 pounds. But I can overlook her messes for the protection she provides. She sleeps on the sidewalk at the bottom of the steps guarding the house at night. I would trust her with my sons at all times. All she does is lick the boys and follow them around. She tends to try to "herd" them. I do think that all people are not in the best situation to have dogs. I live on a large farm.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 46 (view)

GED vs High School Diploma Posted: 5/23/2009 8:21:56 AM
I have taught GED classes. It is not as easy as people think it is on the kids. They have to cover and master great amounts of material to prepare for the 5 tests that are involved. Each student works independently with assistance from the teacher. When a child enters the program they are given a test to determine where they are in each subject. Then a program is planned for that child (which subject is worked on first, etc.). If a student needs to work to get up to grade level on any subject there are computer programs. The students take multiple practice test in each area until they are making a high enough score each time. After a child is ready for an official test, which they have to pay for, they are scheduled for the next test date. Since the student only focuses on one subject at a time, they tend to master the material and it greatly increases their self confidence. When I was teaching GED, I had a new student come in one morning that puzzled me. He was very reserved, almost anti-social, yet he was polite. He worked very hard and did not talk during class. He graduated in 3 weeks. He was very smart. He just did not like the high school classes he was in due to not fitting in socially. Let me add one very important fact. When a student is in a GED class, there are great amounts of one on one teaching. I wish every classroom could have this.

scarlet marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

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Cant stant doggs.. Posted: 5/22/2009 6:54:23 PM
I agree with others on here. Don't date women with pets. It might also be wise for you not to date women with children. They make messes, throw up if ill, etc. A man that is sweet to my four-legged kids shows me that he has compassion.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 17 (view)

how do you show your support when their child is sick Posted: 5/19/2009 7:14:31 AM
I think you are doing all you can for now, while his son is in the hospital. Once he is home, you could fix his dinner one night. (Maybe a dish that could cover 2 days) He could also use some help with his house work-- cleaning, laundry, etc.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 166 (view)

Unplanned Pregnancy Doesn'Have to Lead to Birth or Parenthood Posted: 5/18/2009 5:28:50 PM
Abortion is not a form of birth control. I would never have an abortion unless I could not survive labor , which would take me from my other kids and family. My religious beliefs would not allow me to allow that to happen. I lost my 2nd son at birth due to heart failure. Then when I was expecting my 3rd son, I had to have multiple tests run to make sure he was healthy. He was born with a few minor problems but nothing meds cannot take care of. Adoption is always an option. I know several families that have adopted a child when they were newborns. This is families who could not have any more kids Yes , abortion is legal. But if a woman has one, she has to live with that the rest of her life. I would not want to be in that position.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 41 (view)

Am I expecting too much? Posted: 5/18/2009 2:30:45 PM
He is just using you in almost every way possible. If I were you, I would kick him out of my house and my life. That is not a good example for your child to see --- it does not show her a healthy relationship. She may grow up thinking women are to be used by men. It is not your job in life to take care of him. You already have one child to raise.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

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Does finding out a person has started smoking bother you? Posted: 5/17/2009 7:26:02 PM
I do not date smokers. So that would be a deal breaker for me. I do not expose myself or my sons to second hand smoke. If a person said they did not smoke and then I found out differently, I would consider that being dishonest.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

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I need a push, please help. Posted: 5/17/2009 7:06:11 PM
You are the mature one. He needs to grow up. All I see is red flags. I know you care for him. But it is not your job to solve all his problems in the world. From what I can tell you are trying to do what is right for you in other ways (education, health, etc) so why not find a man that is mature and will appreciate you for who/what you are. Value yourself and remember that others will treat you in the manner you allow them to.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

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To understand or not to understand that is the question...lol Posted: 5/12/2009 11:04:53 AM
When I read the first part, I thought you may have a brain. Wrong! I read the second part and that changed my mind. You are the typical man. You want to be thanked/ praised for everything you do. Most women are different. I am a mom of 2 sons. I cook, clean, do laundry, mow the yard, do the landscaping, take the kids fishing and many more things. Yes I want to be appreciated but I do not asked to be thanked verbally for everything I do. I simply want to be respected and appreciated. I do not remind my son of everything I do instead I am teaching them the art of compromising. If they want to go fishing they finish their evening chores early so we can go. Men can sit down and say my day is finished. I am going to watch tv and not move. I cannot do that. I have many things to do every evening. I am even working after the kids go to bed. I get the impression that you have a personality that is very self centered. You think everything is about you. NOT This reminds me of the joke. A house wife / mom is working around the house. She leaves to go to the grocery store. Upon returning the husband meets her at the door, not offering to carry bags of groceries in, but tells her in a very excited manner that he emptied the ash trays in the house. He wants to be praised/ thanked over and over for one thing, forgetting what the wife does on a daily basis. Moral of the story: let a man do one thing he is not "responsible" for and he expects to be praised/ thanked in many ways.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 14 (view)

Boy Code Posted: 5/9/2009 6:11:27 PM
I have two sons, ages 11 and 9. I want them to act like boys and not be feminine at all. I want them to grow up to be compassionate men who can show emotions but in a appropriate ways. My Dad is a"real" man by my standards and he is capable of showing emotions in a productive way. I am hoping my sons follow his example. As a side note--- When my sons were small I used to tell them they were boys and I expected them to act like boys. It must have worked. I have two sons that like to hunt, fish, etc.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

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Can someone please explain what my ex is trying to accomplish? Posted: 5/7/2009 4:54:24 PM
She does not want you but she does not want anyone else to have you. But she is pretending to want to be your friend just to stay knowable about what is going on in your life. She needs to grow up. I would advise you to wish her to best and ask her not to contact you again.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 70 (view)

To yield a return, an investment is needed Posted: 5/3/2009 10:02:12 PM
Verityone, At least you admit you cannot have any woman you choose. I am glad you are honest. One point for you. LOL I have read many of your postings on here and I just get the impression you are arrogant and difficult. I suspect I am not the only one. That is just my opinion, which I am entitled to. So, you have a nice day and keep on being your "nice" self.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 63 (view)

To yield a return, an investment is needed Posted: 5/3/2009 9:31:38 PM
Evidently some men on here have a much higher opinion of themselves than they should. It would not be the first time a man has bragged about his sex life. It could not exist or could be exagerated. My Dad taught me that a real man does not have to say he is a man. If he has to tell you or brag about his sex life, don't believe a word he says. LOL

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 55 (view)

Are there jack of all trade guys out there somewhere? Posted: 5/3/2009 8:56:23 PM
A couple's sex life should not be controlled by one person. Communication is the key in order to find out what each person likes/ needs. If a man respects a woman, he will want to work on a healthy sex life. Personally, if a man even attempted to be in charge all the time in that area I would have to tell him to take a hike.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 142 (view)

Cleaning up previous messes before entering a new relationship... Posted: 5/3/2009 10:41:57 AM
Sacred Journey, you have proved your point by the thread you started. You proved you could be a difficult person to deal with. I know a man who you remind me of. I once dated a man who wanted to get married but he had rules for me. He wanted me to sell everything my ex and I had acquired (including furniture, china, etc.). He wanted me to sell my house,give the profit to him so he could buy a house without my name on it. He wanted me to change my religious beliefs completely. If I married him and even disappointed him one time, he could kick the kids and I out and divorce me. My sons could not stand him and the dog even hated him. I guess kids and animals are good judges of character. NOT HAPPENING I told him to take a hike and not to contact me again. I found out later he found someone willing to marry him and put up with his stupid rules. Your only hope is to find the right person who is "stupid" enough to go along with you. I suspect you would want to be a woman's number one concern in life. Let me give you some advice , stay away from women with children. Any mother puts her kids first and you will be "very disappointed".

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 86 (view)

Smoking....In the House? Posted: 4/29/2009 7:06:51 AM
She is being inconsiderate: 1. It is your house. NOT hers. 2. You have made the choice to smoke outside, so that should be the standard for all who live there or even visit there. It is your house so yes you do make the rules. 3. She needs to grow up. Scarlet Marie

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 205 (view)

Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?! Posted: 4/24/2009 1:30:57 PM
I know my sons are not perfect. Yes, they make mistakes. But I know who their friends are and what they are up to most of the time. I have talked to them about the importance of not having sex until they are married, just in case a child is the result. My middle son passed away at birth with a heart defect. My sons could carry the genes for the same thing to be passed down to their kids. So they know that the possibility of having a child with similar issues. They know they need to be in a good situation ( having a good job, insurance, etc) before they even risk becoming fathers. And yes I am a Republican and proud of it. If you bothered to read my profile you would have figured that out. I am not close minded about things that are optional. But on certain issues, my sons know right from wrong. Some parents have forgotten that you are their kid's parent first, not their friend. Today's society is too liberal and everything is expected to be approached with a politically correct attitude. NOT Scarlet Marie

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

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Frugal ways to save money on baby question? Posted: 4/23/2009 8:22:08 PM
1. Do not use Dreft detergent , use Arm and Hammer(unscented). It is safe for kids. If something has a stain on it , make a paste of the A and H and water, let it pre-treat the stain before washing. Try to avoid bleach. But if you use it double rinse the load. Biz is also a good stain remover used in paste form. 2. If you use bottles, use the ones with the drop in liners. You will only have to give the bottles and nipple rings a quick wash . The drop in liners will cost money but it will save you on hot water in washing hard plastic bottles. The nipples can be placed in water you get hot in a bowl in the microwave, allow to sit around 3 min, rinse, and allow to air dry. In fact, allowing every part of the bottle to air dry is good. 3. Look for consignment shops. Some have great deals on used clothing, furniture, etc that are in great shape. Get to know the owner so they can alert you when something comes in you are looking for. Yard sales are also great places to find good deals on quality items. 4.When the baby starts eating baby food, do not buy more than 2 jars of any new kind. This will be enough to see if your daughter likes it or not before you buy more. 5. If she should develop a bad diaper rash. Leave the diaper off if possible or put a larger one on her. (That would mean you have to buy a package of a larger size-- but she will grow into them) Mix Milk of Magnesia and Baby Powders until it is pasty. This is cheaper than diaper rash cream and works better. Mix it in a container you seal. You can even put the paste in a small zip lock baggie in the diaper bag. Most dollar stores sells both items really cheap. 6. Dollar General sells baby shampoo, lotion, and body wash for $1 . It is the same as the top brand names just packaged differently. I do not think baby powder is suggested for babies now. The store also has children clothing. 7. When your daughter starts on juice, do not buy the baby juice. Buy apple juice in concentrate form (frozen). When you mix it up , add more water to it to the point where it lightly flavored water. You can do this with many juices. 8. Baby applesauce can be replaced with sugar free applesauce. Be sure to buy it in a large jar. You can get the serving out of it. You will pay more for the individual cups. There are different flavors of applesauce it the small cups. My sons loved the strawberry flavored. I hope some of these tips will help you out. My sons are 2.5 years apart so I did everything I could to save money. These things helped. Enjoy her while she is small, they grow up so fast.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 32 (view)

CONTROLING GIRLFRIEND Posted: 4/22/2009 8:19:49 AM
After looking at both of your forum postings, I am convinced that you need to break it off with your girlfriend. You need to think of what is best for you and your child. This girlfriend need to grow up and realize you cannot control anyone but yourself. She also needs to stop riding her broom.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 112 (view)

Pet peeve that ruined the outing Posted: 4/21/2009 11:30:24 AM
I have a few pet peeves that really get to me. Keep in mind all of these are from a time when I did date and the ex husband and I were not trying to work everything out. 1. Poor manners in general,, including table manners. 2. Ex bashing --- I once went on a date and all I found out was he disliked his ex. He did not even ask me one question about what I liked or disliked. Then at the end of the date, he said that we needed to go out again. NOT He even told me which medications he was on for depression. LOL 3. Invading my space bubble too soon---- I went out with a guy for lunch one day. He kept trying to hold my hands while I was trying to eat. I was not the least bit impressed with him nor was I attracted to him. As he walked me to my vehicle he tried to kiss me. I simply offered a hand shake, thanked him for lunch, and told him I had to go.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 35 (view)

Love vs in love Posted: 4/20/2009 3:30:21 PM
I agree with Key Player. I can see this especially if children are involved. I am attempting to work things out with me ex husband because we share two sons. We are protective of each other but not "in love" with each other. Our sons know that both parents love them. There is no tension in our house since we co parent in a positive manner. We function as a family very well. This is the best situation our sons have been in since they were small. I do not know how this will turn out for me. But I do know that in the meantime, our sons will have both parents to care of for them. He knows that where I live is where our sons will live. Don't get me wrong, I do not use the kids to get my way. ( I want to make that clear before I get emails saying I am) He simply knows that the boys have to live with me, he even admits that. Our sons will not talk about serious issues with him like they with me. They are very distrustful of men in general. So I encourage the boys to talk to their Dad and I am seeing progress. The reason I am in the same house with my ex husband is to try to get our family back together as it should be. I do want my sons to know that we ( their Dad and I) did everything we could to bring this family back together. I know some individuals on here may think I am doing the wrong thing but they are not in my shoes and are not responsible for my sons.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 183 (view)

Just found out my boyfriend is married! Posted: 4/19/2009 4:40:55 PM
I would call his wife to let her know you were not informed that he was married. I am sure you are not the first one he has lied to. She needs to know what kind of man she is married to. I would even help her out if she needed assistance during a divorce process by testifying to the facts.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 144 (view)

can you stay friends with an ex? Posted: 4/18/2009 5:22:39 AM
I know it is possible to be friends with an ex husband, because I am. We c0-parent very well together and he is very protective of me. He made a stupid mistake and left when the kids were 5 ad 3. Now we are seeing if we can work it out again. He has some issues to deal with and I am being patient with him. In the meantime, he is a great Dad to the our sons and is good to me . When two people have children they need to be mature adults who do what is best for them. I would not change the fact that he is the boys' Dad because our sons would not be who that are now. They would not look like they do or act like they

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 73 (view)

Whats the problem with long hair on a guy ? Posted: 4/15/2009 7:55:48 PM
I was raised by a Father who has always kept a very short haircut. He almost looks like he in the military. That def. set the example for me how men were to keep their hair cut. I have passed the same to my sons. I have always kept a neat (not real short) hair cut on my sons. It is not about being a fake, it is about being neat. I like my sons to look like two gentlemen and hope they continue that when they grow up. There is nothing wrong with long hair. Some women like it. Personally, I don't like long hair on a man.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 893 (view)

Expain the phrase My children are my top priority? Posted: 4/15/2009 10:59:05 AM
Broncsbuff, In my case, it not men not "accepting my kids". It is the fact that I am not willing to settle for anything less than what the kids and I need. I do count myself very lucky that I get along great with my ex and we do what is best for our sons. I have two great sons who benefit from having two loving parents. There has been times that I dated someone for 6 months or longer. I made time for dating without my kids. But if one of my sons were ill, I would have to change plans. Most men would understand and we would make plans for later. I will never apologize for being a good Mom. If any man has a problem with that, well that is too bad.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 891 (view)

Expain the phrase My children are my top priority? Posted: 4/15/2009 10:08:16 AM
I am responding to TOMic Bomb You are a classic example of the type of man women with children should run from and run fast. In my opinion , you need to find a woman with no kids so you can be her number 1 concern in life. Good luck finding that!

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 315 (view)

Will a non smoker date a smoker ? Posted: 4/14/2009 8:38:11 AM
I try to avoid people that smoke in general. My sons and I have asthma. Even smelling smoke on someone's clothes or in their vehicle can cause breathing problems for us. We do not allow anyone (even family to smoke in our house). My kids grandfather on their Dad's side smokes. But he is respectful and does so outside and he picks up his cigg butts. After he leaves my sons will change their shirts , due to getting the smell on them when they hug him. I only had to ask him to be cautious when he is with my sons and he was great with that. It is each individuals choice to smoke or not. I am not rude to those who do. I just find ways to keep my sons from it.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 88 (view)

Cheating, unhappy & married with kids Posted: 4/13/2009 7:46:47 PM
Intriqueme66 Now my ex is one of my best friends. We are doing our best to be adults towards each other for our kids' best interest. He now sees that me being conservative and focused on being a good Mom is not a bad thing. He is actually very protective of me. There has been times I am the only person he can talk to. I would not change the fact that he is the Father of my sons. He has become more of an active parent over the past two years. We ( he and I ) never talk in a negative way about each other to the children. Respect is very important in this family. Now , I admit, at first he was not so fond of me after I reacted to him leaving. But I just gave him time to see that I was not such a bad person. Time was the key there or was that Maturity? LOL

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 85 (view)

Cheating, unhappy & married with kids Posted: 4/13/2009 2:25:42 PM
This guy is lower than pond scum! I do wish that his wife knew about his actions. He should be glad he does not have a wife like me. When I suspected that my husband was cheating, I played dumb. I even helped him move out, with the excuse it was closer to his new job. Then I went to the bank, drained the joint account, went to a new bank and set up an account. Next, I called the meanest female lawyer in town to find out which PI she uses. I called the gentlemen and by the end of the day papers were signed for him to be on the case. It took less than one week to get the dirt on him. So, I called the woman's husband she was seeing and offered to sell him a copy. Furthermore, I drug the divorce out 2 years so it I would be legally married to him for 10 years, so I could draw his social security when I am older. He really need to be careful who he messes with or he could end up with an ex wife like me. Let him read this to give him a dose of reality. As a side note, our sons still have issues with him and it as been 6 years. He needs to think about the emotional problems it can cause his son.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 883 (view)

Expain the phrase My children are my top priority? Posted: 4/11/2009 8:34:41 PM
I am responding to verityone I know too many women who put their social life before their children. I am just sick of seeing that. I was raised by a single mom for the most part of my life. She always made sure I was taken care of by her or my grandparents when she was at work. So I have seen the example of a good mom first hand. I make it a daily thing to let my sons know how much I love them. As far as having my tubes tied, I had 3 kids in 4 years. My middle child died of heart failure and then I almost lost my third. I can no longer have children. I had to struggle to have 2 healthy sons to raise. It was my belief in God that go me through all the tough times. When my sons were 5 adn 3, my husband left (due to cheating). I had to play the role of Mom and Dad until he got his act together enough to be an active parent. Now my boys are 11 adn 9. I count myself blessed to have them. I am not alarmed that you do not have a positive opinion of me. If you had to walk in my shoes for a while you would understand more.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 853 (view)

Expain the phrase My children are my top priority? Posted: 4/9/2009 10:02:13 AM
I have mixed emotions reading this original posting. First , it irritates me to a some degree to see such a question posted. My children are the most important people in my life, second only to God. Part of being a Christian Mother is to make sure my children are taken care of in several ways ( emotionally, spiritually, and physically) I do not think that a woman's wording of a profile which stresses that she is a Mother first is a red flag. I think (in most cases) it shows great character. Second, it angers me to think that there are men on this website who are so shallow as to think that if they are not a woman's top priority in life they will not survive. Men like that need to grow up a great deal before they ever deal with a woman who has kids OR they need to not date women who have kids. I realize the original poster does not mean to come across as shallow but he does. I do not say this to be difficult that is just my opinion (as I am free to have one).

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 31 (view)

It's time....but I can't seem to let go. Posted: 4/4/2009 10:15:39 AM
I am responding to message 15 on here. I agree with you on this one. Now a note to the original poster of this thread. I think the word DESPERATE is more like it also. If your self- esteem is so low that you continue to chase after a man that is not interested in you, then you could have another problem. There are anti-stalking laws and the man could actually file a restraining order against you. If a man is not interested in me, that is fine. I am an ADULT and can move on. I hope you can learn to do so also. As a side note, it is women like you that can make some men think that women are doormats to walk over. My guess is that he is married and just not telling you. But I have a feeling you would date him even if you knew he was married. I have been on the receiving end of that one. My ex husband cheated on me. I must warn you that you do not want to deal with a wife like I was. I hired a PI to follow my ex husband and even offered to sell a copy of the tape to her husband. In short, you could get yourself in some very hot water with him, his wife(which I think he has) , and with the law (for stalking)

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 17 (view)

I was accused of false cheating..... Posted: 4/1/2009 8:46:11 PM
Herding Cats , I agree with you on the need for professional help. I am glad to see that I am not the only one who thinks the situation is very odd , to say the least. My Mother always taught me if a man is not interested in you, leave him alone. I guess that is a lesson everyone has not learned.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 182 (view)

Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?! Posted: 4/1/2009 6:25:41 PM
I am responding to posting message #13 here. You have your 14 year old son carry a condom. That is saying " go ahead , have sex" .Are you crazy? What ever happened to letting kids be kids ( that includes not being sexually active). My sons are 9 and 11 and I have urged ( almost ordered) them not to have sex until they are married. I am trying to raise them to be Christian gentlemen, which means they know what is right and what is wrong. In my opinion, you are short changing your son by making the option of having sex acceptable. I hope his father is in the picture and lets him know that this attitude is not acceptable. You have forgotten one fact --- 14 year old children should still be virgins.

Scarlet Marie

Joined: 3/26/2009

Msg: 7 (view)

I was accused of false cheating..... Posted: 4/1/2009 6:02:21 PM
Is this the same man in the military who would not give you his address for care packages? (I think I remember that from earlier threads) who is talking about marriage and having kids? HIM or You I personally think he has too much on his plate to try to deal with a relationship. If I were you I would give him space.

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