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beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

Msg: 32 (view)

pee Posted: 11/23/2009 1:12:45 AM
This not a problem with men, this a problem with alcoholics. Don't worry about hurting any feelings on this one, Babe. You do not need an alcoholic in your life.

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

Msg: 38 (view)

Start off as the new partner, then become their parent Posted: 11/20/2009 11:52:20 PM
Ladies and Gentlemen, Elvass has left the building.

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

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The Big Deal About Being Single. Posted: 11/20/2009 11:42:19 PM
Dude, I'm forty one, divorced for almost 13 years now and my parents are still worried about me not having some one in my life! I'm happy being single but they don't seem to understand. The thing is this, as a happily married couple for several decades, they can not even imagine living alone. They see it as a bad thing. They are looking at it threw a narrow perspective, based on their own lives. They know what they would be missing. Just keep re-assuring them that you are fine and that at your age , you have plenty of time to meet the right girl.

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

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Meant to be alone Posted: 11/20/2009 8:57:42 AM
Yeah, okay. It is likely there is more than one person for each of us. It's not fate, it's a statistical probability. The same can be said about being alone. It's a big world with a lot of people, no guarantees on actually meeting one of those folks.

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

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Start off as the new partner, then become their parent Posted: 11/18/2009 9:50:40 PM
Lord help us! is it too late to delet this thread?

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

Msg: 8 (view)

Start off as the new partner, then become their parent Posted: 11/18/2009 7:45:39 PM
I am having trouble understanding how becoming comfortable with another to would be "child like". You have a dominate personality type and you are finding women that are comfortable with that and will allow you to make decissions concerning the both of you. In addition they are affectionate and have problems with physical intamacy. I don't necessarily see that as being "weak". Maybe the problem is not in personality types, maybe it's that you have a problem with intamacy. Not saying you do, just pointing out a possibility.

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

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Are you sure your ready for a relationship again? Posted: 11/18/2009 9:03:29 AM
I know I'm not ready, but not for any of the reasons you give. At this time, I'm just happy being me and not half of we.

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

Msg: 3068 (view)

Haiku Connection - This is It ! Posted: 11/17/2009 11:52:23 PM
winter's creeping in I'm getting giddy again Christmas is coming!

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

Msg: 31 (view)

He ran away... Posted: 11/17/2009 11:38:28 PM
He may really have the problem he stated and is now embarrassed. Just saying it's possible. He may be having a hard time dealing with what you told him and doesn't know how to talk to you about it. I know I get a little nervous around recent widows or widowers. Are you a war widow? I ask because that is hard on a lot of guys; Respect for the fallen and honor and all. Bottom line, however, is that phone lines work both ways. Call and ask him.

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

Msg: 65 (view)

The other side of WTF was he thinking? Posted: 11/17/2009 11:25:48 PM
Dude, can I have her digits?

beershark

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Would you message someone if you knew they weren't going to respond? Posted: 11/17/2009 11:19:16 PM
Why not? Someone once gave me some advice that went something like, "We all start at no."

beershark

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Keeping the profile open after you've become serious Posted: 11/17/2009 11:16:08 PM
People ridicule because you are doing what he is doing BUT complaining about him doing it!

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

Msg: 18 (view)

She is confusing me Posted: 11/17/2009 11:13:59 PM
Dude, you are in the Friend Zone my man! She calls you everyday because she sees you as a friend she can talk to.

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

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Keeping the profile open after you've become serious Posted: 11/17/2009 11:06:52 PM
This subject has been done to death! How can one be on this site AND STILL complain about their SO being on this site? 1) THREAD SEARCH 2)why are YOU still here?

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

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Breaking a Date...By Text Message Posted: 11/17/2009 12:06:08 PM
Not seeing a problem here, other than maybe you're being a bit over sensitive. I suppose he could have called to follow up, specially since you hadn't responded to the text.

beershark

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Would you have sex with a machine? Posted: 11/14/2009 11:11:52 PM
No, but I'd watch the video!

beershark

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Msg: 28 (view)

Friend can be an Embarrassment Posted: 11/13/2009 2:28:56 PM
Well, now you've gone from being crude to just being just plain ignorant and racist. Invite them or not, that's your choice. But I would say anytime or anywhere he is in your presence and talks like that, open your mouth and tell him it is unacceptable. If he does it in your home tell him he has to leave.

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

Msg: 578 (view)

Sleeping naked Posted: 11/13/2009 8:04:49 AM
I haven't worn pajamas since I was about 14.

beershark

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Friend can be an Embarrassment Posted: 11/13/2009 7:47:42 AM
I know how you feel. It is so hard when your friends do not act as you want them to. Don't they realize that your friendship is for their betterment? If they would only become the people you wish them to be, they would be much better off, and they wouldn't clash drapperies!

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

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Possible for a man to love two women at once? Posted: 11/13/2009 7:34:01 AM
I think it is possible for anyone, male or female, to be in love with two people at one time. However, we are not ruled by emotions, and there is a little thing called "self control". That being said, remember that she left him. She obviously had some issues that she thought through and decided on a course of action, then followed through with that action. In other words, she worked through the process. He did not have that luxury. One day he was married, the next day his wife was gone and life was different. He still has to work all this out, to go through his own process. That could be why the letters were written and never mailed. It is a common enough practice for folks to do such things, journals, diaries, un-mailed letters. What I'm curious about is how you "found" these letters and why you read them. You may have crossed a line by invading his privacy.

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

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Birth Control for Men???? Posted: 11/12/2009 10:31:09 PM
Why would I put something into my body that may cause who knows what sort of side effects down the road? For the record I have similar feelings towards birth control pills, tubal legations, and vasectomies. Condoms are cheap, readily available, and not permanent!

beershark

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independent women fall the hardest Posted: 11/12/2009 6:00:32 PM
I'm not real sure what you are driving at here, but I'll give it a shot. I think anybody, male or female, can be too pridefull for their own good. I was involved with a woman who was very independent. It was one of the qualities I admired about her, until that independence ruined our relationship. She would not ask for help when needed, and refuse it if offered. She felt like she had to do it all by herself. She also became very suspicious of people, me included, like we were all trying to use her or take something for her. She eventually shut out me and others out her her life. Yes she has advanced her career. Yes she has aquired the things she wants. Yes she has raised her son and managed a career and a home. What hurts me the most is when she talks about all this then bemoans the fact that she had to do it all herself because she had no one to help her. She didn't have to, she chose to. She doesn't qualify for sainthood in my book because I know what she willing cast aside to get there. We remain friends but at a distance.

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

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Haiku Connection - This is It ! Posted: 11/12/2009 3:04:12 PM
Brothers in arms, they unbreakable bonds they forge forged of mud and blood

beershark

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Msg: 2761 (view)

Haiku Connection - This is It ! Posted: 11/10/2009 9:54:53 AM
Water splashes up icy cold upon my face must find caffeine now morning all Hi JuJu

beershark

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People With No Conversation Skills Posted: 11/10/2009 9:43:41 AM
And why are you entitled to have a conversation with whom ever you want? And yes, the education system is bad when a 20yr old university student doesn't know that an actual conversation actually requires oral communication. As in Face2Face, Telephonic? You may not appreciate their brevity, however they have done the socially polite thing, that being to acknowledge receiving your message. By your demanding that the world conform to your standards shows your lack of social skills. In short, just grow up and get over it, dude!

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

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WHATS THE WORST DATE YOU HAD ON POF Posted: 11/10/2009 9:22:52 AM
Lasted an entire 3mins! messaged me she was going to this bar with some friends and wants me to meet her there. I initially declined, knowing that it was not the type of bar I'm usually comfortable in. Very upscale, and i'm more of a tiki bar guy. Anyway she talks me into going, I drive into the city (Tampa) and find this place. I walk in with my jeans, get told I have to take my hat off, pay $9 for a beer I could have got at the beach for $3 and try to find this girl. I find her table and sit down, (start timer). We barely get through the hellos and she starts asking me if I like her, if I think she looks better than her profile pic, stuff like that. Strange for having only met less then 2mins earlier. Then her phone rings, Her mom's had a stroke, she has to go,(stop timer). About three months later she messages me asking if I remember her. I say yes i did and ask her how her mom is doing. She asks what did I mean. I had to reminder her mom had a stroke? Please.

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

Msg: 38 (view)

Empty promises Posted: 11/10/2009 8:51:27 AM
I'm sorry, but promises or not, if she's giving these guys the brush off after a couple of dates why would they be expected to follow through? She has rejected them, and therefore anything they had to offer including their help. I mean come on here, isn't there a word for people that say, "I don't want you, but I still want your gifts."? Let's try a little experiment. I'm going play the role of one of these rejected suitors asking for your advice: Hey there people I need some advice. I dated this woman a while back. We only went out a couple of times and she cut it off, said there just wasn't a match. I'm cool with that. The problem is on one of those dates she mentioned doing a tiling project she was going to do in her bathroom. I said I could help out with that if she wanted. Well like I said she cut things off a couple of days later. Now she's calling wanting to know when I'm going to come over and do the work I "Promised" to do. AM I now obligated to be a laborer to this woman that rejected me?

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

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Open mic night... Posted: 11/10/2009 8:37:32 AM
Perhaps he knew this woman and he was the penis in question?

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

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In love with my best friend, but she's got a boyfriend Posted: 11/10/2009 8:18:42 AM
Well, putting aside the "Payton Place" aspects of this for a sec, sounds like you had a SEXUAL relationship rather than a romantic one. Her married boyfriend lives fifty miles away. You, on the other hand, are unattached AND right next door. You were convenient. Can you say"Used"? Now let's consider those nasty little STD's, shall we? She's doing you and him (maybe more?) He's doing her and presumably his wife (again maybe more?) The wife could have a side ride or two of her own, and who else have you been doing? "I've had the blues, the reds and the pinks. All I can say is...Love Stinks."

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

Msg: 126 (view)

Casual blowjobs Posted: 11/9/2009 10:45:01 PM
okay, where do I sign up?

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

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Do you prefer to be on top or bottom Posted: 11/9/2009 10:40:02 PM
I like to be in the middle.

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

Msg: 31 (view)

Sex on the beach! Posted: 11/9/2009 10:38:21 PM
Man, sex on the beach! I haven't done that since, well, since I was your age, Ferris. This one time the girl and I were naked, standing in surf about chest high and banging away to the wave action. Middle of the afternoon, had this little isolated beach all to our selves, we'd been running around out there naked all day. So anyway we're in the surf getting it on when this nice family group out boating beaches their cruiser and proceedes to have a picnic. Now this was up off Cape Cod, and let me tell you even in mid july you do NOT want to treading water in the North Atlantic for OVER AN HOUR! gets a bit chilly. Finally, Papa Bear sort of takes notice that we had been out in the waves for sometime and of the pile of clothes on our blanket. So he takes the family for a stroll down around the jetty so we could dash out of the sea and get dressed. But I would do it all over again!

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

Msg: 6309 (view)

First Line, Last Line (Part Deux) Posted: 11/9/2009 10:05:54 PM
and we'll do it in rhyme and without reason all in it's time all in it's season and we'll run in the sand and play on the shore star fish in hand while looking for more and the castles we'll build with moats all around sea water filled the waves will knock down Flying kites on the breeze with long wagging tails roam the high seas with pirates set sail and we'll do it rhyme and without reason all in it's time all in it's season

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

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Haiku Connection - This is It ! Posted: 11/9/2009 9:44:49 PM
senses aroused keen crouching tiger stalks his prey large heart thundering

beershark

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Empty promises Posted: 11/9/2009 3:26:48 PM
Perhaps I am wrong. There also seems to be some biased on your part. You state that you feel they are trying to reel you in, that these "promises" seem to you to be lures. Maybe, due to your independent nature, you are being overly suspicious about men that offer to do things for you. If that is so, that could be leading to the feeling that there is no match and your ending things after only a few dates. Either way it is clear that you must have some expectation, no matter how slight, or it wouldn't dismay so. JMHO

beershark

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Msg: 6306 (view)

First Line, Last Line (Part Deux) Posted: 11/9/2009 12:34:48 PM
^(Fantastic!)

beershark

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Msg: 6304 (view)

First Line, Last Line (Part Deux) Posted: 11/9/2009 9:03:54 AM
His tongue rough as sandpaper; not sublime His soul coarse before it's time callous heart and hands tears in the sand He speaks of the evils of love; without love He dreams of one taken above loneliness chilled to the bone a life spent alone

beershark

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Msg: 2736 (view)

Haiku Connection - This is It ! Posted: 11/9/2009 8:53:18 AM
tropical island searching for forgetfulness in the tossing surf

beershark

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Msg: 31 (view)

How am I supposed to act on a first date? Posted: 11/9/2009 8:43:38 AM
Do you have a sister? Act the way you would expect a guy to act towards her and you'll do fine.

beershark

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On the Cusp! Posted: 11/9/2009 8:37:41 AM
Had my 47th Bday this past summer and got my first tattoo! My kids payed for it, my son actually designed it for me. Don't know if I'll get another or not, but I can cross it of the bucket list!

beershark

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Empty promises Posted: 11/9/2009 8:29:58 AM
It is quite possible that they intended to but when there was no match and the dating ended, what did you expect? You talk about being able to do these things for yourself, and that's good and admirable, so why would you expect a man that you only dated a couple times do such things for you after you break it off. Also there is a difference between saying you can do something and saying you will do something. For instance I can build you a deck in your backyard. I can but I'm not going to. In spite of your protestations to the contrary, I think you do like playing the helpless female.

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

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Moral Dilema Posted: 11/9/2009 8:17:22 AM
My guess would be that they had an argument, then he got drunk and horny. Just leave it alone and forget him.

beershark

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Hate being single!!!! Posted: 11/8/2009 1:23:51 PM
My god! Your 22 years old, ONLY 22years old! Give it time, a lot of time, before you go rushing into a relationship just for the sake of being in a relationship. Find activities where you can meet people and develop friendships.

beershark

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Safety issues at POF Posted: 11/8/2009 1:16:15 PM
I saw that and thought WTF? The advice sounds very specific to situations when you already know some one, whether it be through work, church, bowling league or what have you.

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

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Why lunch or dinner? Posted: 11/8/2009 1:11:17 PM
Watch Sleepless in Seattle, they explain it so well.

beershark

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Are we all here for the same reasons ??? Posted: 11/8/2009 12:51:06 PM
I also have been a return guest on this site. I think more than a few people use this site more for social networking than actual dating. There are a lot of Married/Not Single/Not looking folks here. Hey, that's cool. Some are serial daters while others are just looking for the hook-up, and that's cool too. Yet, others came seeking but stayed for the forums. This is also cool. Me? I'm here seeking to meet interesting people and to forge new friendships. The dating and possibility of a LTR can grow from those seeds. I also enjoy the forums. I miss having the last five forum posts listed on a persons profile. That was one of my ways of deciding whom I wished to connect with. If you were to filter out everyone with an agenda or some sort of issues, small or large, you would be fishing in an empty pond. The trick is not in finding perfection, just the perfect fit. And in the dating world, one size never fits all.

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

Msg: 116 (view)

My ex-husband cheated = The sex was bad Posted: 11/2/2009 10:11:38 PM
Cheating rarely has anything to do with the quality or quantity of sex. Cheaters cheat and that's that. When sex does play a role in the motivation it goes like this: Lack of sex= she doesn't care= she doesn't love me anymore.

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

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Zappaween XIV Posted: 11/2/2009 6:14:41 PM
I am looking for pics from the Bogus Pomp show at the State theatre in St. Pete. on Halloween night. If you were there and have pics please contact me. Thank-you. I guess my post is not quite long enough to post just yet. Perhaps it will be by the time i'm done typing this sentence.

beershark

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Does exactly what it says on the tin? hmmm doubtful! Posted: 10/29/2009 10:31:41 PM
I put in my profile that I was not looking for sex and got a lot of email from women that just loved my sense of humor. I t took that out of my profile now my inbox is collecting dust. Think there might be a corrolation?

beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009

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What does it mean when she dosent want to be in a relationship but Posted: 10/29/2009 10:26:19 PM
Means she's looking for the BBD, the bigger better deal. You're there to keep her from feeling lonely until then, like a puppy or kitty or pet rock. Bail, NOW!

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