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 Author Thread: The bimbo-ization of women and its effects on relationships
 Kathy1973of calif
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 100 (view)
 
The bimbo-ization of women and its effects on relationships
Posted: 5/11/2009 7:14:58 AM
More than ever there are more and more stong women figures on the big and small screen - the thing is with impressionable people (and children) to target programing aimed at thost things you want to make part of yourself, or your child. Shows like that are targeted to/by men they can't truely be made by not women. Men would like to see us needing them, less inteligent than them, and weaker then them. Lord please tell me your not brainwashing your children with those programs!
Try Zena, Smallville, plenty of shows have strong roles for women and there are more of them eveyday. You can't watch sick shows like sex in the city and complain about the fact its WAY out there, the actresses admitted they can't afford the fashions they were in film.
Hey I loved alien Ms. Weaver kicked A__ - she wasn't weak, stupid, or air headed. What shows are you watching? Aren't you boared out of your gaurd?
 Kathy1973of calif
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 1009 (view)
 
Does God exist?
Posted: 5/10/2009 3:37:47 PM
A creator call it God would be neither male nor female - if you belive in the always was ans always will be and this enity according to most faiths crealed the matter that caused the big bang and the spirits (or angels) and according to most faiths the spirits and dreator enity conversed about creation. Now id the enity is all knowing whom would later relay the thought that idle hands are the devels tools - then wouldn't the same enity (much like a watchmaker) think of creating something so complicated so that we shall forever have something to keep out minds and hands active doing? Evolution was his creation (who did Cane marry- duh she was evolution made) which is why he told the Jews NOT to seek a compaion/wife outside of their race.

To think that BOTH creation and evolution are not/or can't exist together is silly. As silly as thinking that our planet is the only planet with inteligent life on it (as it stands now - sometimes I wonder if we qualify for inclusion in that inteliget call.)
 Kathy1973of calif
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 62 (view)
 
4 dates and they all used someone elses pictures
Posted: 5/10/2009 1:17:54 PM
I'd follow the suggestion from the man who said request exchanging photos nearly daily and they will either run out of the fake photos and give up on the lie - personally I never thought that that maybe a possability...you have me wondering about this on line stuff.
 Kathy1973of calif
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 675 (view)
 
Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/9/2009 8:50:11 PM
On both sides of this coin (single fathers/mothers) you have to remember that it its a big part of who you (the parent) are/is also. I've never had children and dated a few men (widowers and divorsced) with 2 to 5 children. I backed of of the fewer kids not because of the children, but because of the relationbship that the father had with the children. If he neglics them, or puts himself first - then in time thats how he would treat me - or the women in his life - and years later I see that everytime I've been right. The same goes for women - I've seen friends through several divorces. Its more from what I see, than what I personally have experenced, having no children - and marring once in 2001 am presently months away from a final divorce decree (yea!!! )
 Kathy1973of calif
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Ways to build self-esteem
Posted: 4/2/2009 5:27:21 PM
They best way to bring up your self esteeme is first (as well as other things) to meditate alone - the best way to start is in bed where your used to letting go of the days thoughts and clear your mind then - imagine how it feels when your in love and as you get more experenced at meditation you can give your self that gitty feeling of fresh love. Its then that your ability to love yourself will begin. With that being successful then you can begin to work on first identifying the traits that you feel are holding you back. Then when you find that trate try to identify another person with that same traite - when you see that its not so big a deal (chosing someone well liked I should have said) you will accept that traight and by the other metitation tec. given here you can work on loveing and accepting yourself.
Humans are flawed - its what makes us indivuals be proud that you are diffrent it makes the world a better place!
 Kathy1973of calif
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Too old to have another child?
Posted: 4/2/2009 2:36:14 PM
If thats what you want seek that in a mate, just because a woman can't give birth doesn't mean she can't be a loving mother. There are foster children, adoption, serrigot (Spelling you get the just) and belive me as a woman that learned young that giving birt is not possable - you can and will love someone eles child as much as if they were your own fleash and blood. So don't give up - if you've really considered the entire pitcure, and are sure that its really what you want. Just keep looking for the right woman with you common goals and interests. And be patienct - as a parent thats a good trait to have......
 
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