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ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Why do men lie about why they are here? Posted: 7/23/2008 12:53:37 AM
Sex isn't boring after the first few times, unless you are boring and unimagnative, antonioIII.

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Dating tips for the workaholic Posted: 7/23/2008 12:44:49 AM
A workaholic is emotionally unavailable, period! The pain is the same as any other addiction for loved ones. I had anything money could buy, but not the things that really mattered. I was hurt, lonely, and felt like a single parent. It's okay to have money as long as the money doesn't have YOU. Blessings, Patricia

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Why do men lie about why they are here? Posted: 7/8/2008 8:22:35 PM
I have NOT given up hope! I agree with you, NotLookin', up to a point. The internet and phone chatlines are cesspools for the cons and players. I don't take it too seriously anymore, hence my off the wall profile. There are good men and good women. When you find thee one, it's worth the wait? Take care, Patricia

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Do hearts harden with age? Posted: 7/6/2008 10:18:42 PM
No, hearts don't harden with age. Bitterness will make any heart calloused, young or old. There are some misconceptions about those over 45yo. A person can be young at heart and real beauty never fades. My Aunt Ella will be 84yo soon she's more fun and active than people half her age. Blessings, Patricia ~thecryofthewolfinthewildernesspraisinghiscreator

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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How bad is cheating on your partner? Posted: 6/29/2008 3:41:44 PM
Cheating is the #1 deal breaker. No second chances with this lady. The other three are almost as important. #2 if you can't trust them to be honest, what can you trust them with? #3 physical abuse would only be attempted once ~I AM AN EXCELLENT SHOT! #4 if they refuse to get help; the only thing you can do is an intervention. Sometimes you have to let go and let God. Be selective next time and never settle. Take along time to get to know someone before becoming intimate. Sex changes the dynamics and can cover or disguise potential problem. The last thing we sometimes think to do, when all else fails, is "prayer". Best wishes and good luck!

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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If you are a middle aged man . Posted: 1/15/2008 1:07:38 PM
I automatically pass over any man looking to date a women half his age. How vain to believe a young, beautiful woman would have any reason outside of money to date "dad"; and what cracks me up is they are usually overweight and unattractive too. Younger men hit on me all the t ime. They assume older women are more experienced in bed; and when they are ready for a "real" relationship, they pick women their ages. I automatically pass them over also. OKAY, folks I know there are exceptions! If I ever do get in a relatonship again, I want it to be for the right reasons.

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Why are older men so SEX oriented??????? Posted: 12/16/2007 9:06:36 PM
They are so self-absorbed it's sickening! It's all about self-gratification...they have no clue what making love means. They are shallow, boring, immature, and not worth my time. Maybe it was the sexual revolution's influence, but I doubt it. A man who has no self-control, is not one I care to be involved with...the phrases "I couldn't help myself", "it just happened", "men will be men", etc. seem to be their justifications. ~I'M HOLDING OUT FOR A "HERO"!!!

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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No Sex Tonight Posted: 12/6/2007 7:32:12 PM
AVALON96,,, oh I love your response , "Don't think it's a matter of running out of steam, the women are just older & wiser and not falling for the same crap as 20 or 30 yrs ago". Halelujah, a man who gets it!!!

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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No Sex Tonight Posted: 12/6/2007 7:20:03 PM
To quote you on the subject, "In need of rejuvenation"!!! Okay then, how do we rejuvenate? I felt rejuvenated when the sex was spontaneous , in odd places, fun like chocolate syrup, or a planned spectacular date. Maybe you two need a weekend get-a-way together away from it all; possibly a weekend away from each other ~absence makes the heart grow fonder. Anyhow, I hope you find happiness. Having someone who sticks by you through the good and bad days is "PRICELESS". Amen? Pat

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Why is he signing up on new dating sites when we are in a serious relationship? Posted: 11/29/2007 6:22:36 PM
I didn't realize you "both" have ads on here. Maybe you should look in the mirror, ask yourself if "you" are ready to commit to anyone. Either way I'd dump him if it were me. If I were serious about a guy, I would remove my profile or put "not looking". A man has to EARN my trust! Period. Pat

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Why is he signing up on new dating sites when we are in a serious relationship? Posted: 11/29/2007 6:08:43 PM
He has "a lot of skeletons" in his closet and he "wasn't honest", you said. LISTEN TO YOURSELF!!! 80% or more of the men are unfaithful. If he's already searching on other sites, what makes you think he won't be after you are married? It doesn't get better, it gets worse. He's a player and maybe a con. I'd drop him like a hot potato. Good luck. Pat

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Thoughts on giving.... Posted: 1/2/2007 5:11:52 AM
My Dad used to say "You should give with your heart and you should never "do" for someone if you are "doing" begrudgenly" Your Dad was right! True giving is from the heart. Not because you feel you have to, but because you want to; and without any thought of getting anything in return. What's fun is a suprise. No special occasion. Just because someone wants to to let you know they think you are special.

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Why do so many people seem to hate cops? Posted: 1/2/2007 5:01:10 AM
Hey Ben, I'm sorry you have been offended. Last time I called an officer, he couldn't stand infront of my door...that's how dangerous it is now; but I wouldn't open my door until he identified himself. When I see the lights flash and sirens going off, I always say a prayer for their safety. Most have treated me well, even when I was a teenager drag racing down main street, LOL. Have great New Year. ChosenLady

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Advice for dealing with stalkers Posted: 1/2/2007 4:08:34 AM
Livvy, I just read your profile. You are unreal! You are just begging for trouble. You must enjoy the attention, even if it's a stalker. No sympathy from me girl. Next subject?

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Advice for dealing with stalkers Posted: 1/2/2007 3:58:30 AM
"Years later, they are still sending you IM that are slightly threatening and hacking into your email." quote, unquote... THREATENING? Are you responding to these? You cannot have any contact with a stalker whatsoever! Why haven't you blocked them? If they have accessed your computer, then you need to notify the FBI; and take appropriate steps to clean your PC. You need a PC cleaner done three times, a firewall, and I had to remove IM from my puter altogether. It is an open portal for hackers. You shouldn't be talking to anyone on IM that you do not know well in your real life. I believe in women owning large dogs if possible; and packing a loaded pistol daily. I practiced at the range using police targets. I would not shoot to wound if my life were in danger. I would take them out permanently. I personally, think you are taking this way too lightly. ChosenLady

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 1/2/2007 3:45:45 AM
It's getting old for me...most men don't read them, most are looking for a booty call, they have nothing in common, etc... These dating sites are ok. I like this one 'cause of the forums. Too many phonies to weed through in search of the "real". I'm not holding my breath, put it that way. The ones who don't have a pic irritate me the most. They have excuse after excuse. One finally sent one and you couldn't even make out the face. He's probably married. Good luck to you and happy New Year. Chosen

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Women who can't walk in High Heels Posted: 12/24/2006 2:21:58 AM
I'm 5ft 3in so when younger, wore very high heels. Always thought tall women were so elegant and graceful. Heels or not, I never had any problem turning heads. You know, Macy's will sell you sexy, elegant, man catching heels; but the real beauty can't be bought. If it doesn't shine from within, the effect is a crass imitation in my opinion. Some of the most beautiful women I have ever seen were silver-haired, wearing bright red, a smile that could light up the world, and moved with the grace of an angel using a walker or cane. Merry Christmas to you and yours! Chosen

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 12/12/2006 12:53:49 AM
You go girl! Why throw your pearls before swine? Save it for someone worthy of you. Sex for the sake of sex only, tends to get real empty after awhile. Having someone who REALLY loves you, brings lasting satisfaction.

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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been dating since beginning of Oct- he doesn't want sex... Posted: 12/12/2006 12:44:41 AM
Three, four, five dates and he says he's not ready. Well, he's not ready. Why the rush? Would you rather have a guy just wine, dine and expect? Men are not the only ones who's emotions are tied into love making. Maybe he would rather get to know YOU! He drives 90 miles just to see you. If you don't want him, many would be standing in line Honey. Count your blessings.

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Too content? Posted: 11/24/2006 4:03:52 AM
fluertee...We should have that contentment no matter what circumstances we are in (ideally). Single women are usually happier than married women. Relationships take alot of work; and if not healthy, can drain the life right out of you. If you can find people and things to feel the lonely moments, if you even have them; then I would just enjoy yourself...one day at a time. If Mr Wonderful steps onto your path, I would assume your peace and contentment would attrack him even more. You have attained something great in my opinion. Blessings, Chosen

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Be Careful!!! Someone Who Seems To Good To Be True Posted: 11/24/2006 3:47:50 AM
Seems too good to be true...same for relationships, purchases, dream homes, etc. Doesn't seem to be any safeguard, except take your sweet time and get to know someone thoroughly. Follow that gut feeling. If something doesn't feel right, there's a reason! I don't recommend the internet for meeting that special someone. Too many lies, guys looking for sex, women for money, not much long-term. There are the exceptions; but considering how many are looking, they are very far and few between. Good luck!

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Be Careful!!! Someone Who Seems To Good To Be True Posted: 8/26/2006 11:15:17 PM
PineBreeze, He just tried to get back with me again today. I told him no way...I've been through enough and life is too short! He was really possessive and jealous early on in the relationship. He'd get verbally abusive and say horrible things. I deserve better than that! He did that over and over again; and I gave him plenty of chances. Wish it would of worked out; but better off alone than having someone weird out at moments notice. I hope no one experiences this. What you said, PineBreeze, about it seeming like Junior High behavior...I took a good, hard, long look at what was happening so far. That's not the future I want! Blessings, Pat

ChosenLady

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Be Careful of Someone Who Seems To Good To Be True Posted: 8/24/2006 7:32:26 PM
Well I am not going to accuse him of being flacky, even if it's true. I am not here to smear anyone. Never seen an on-again off-again relationship work. If one learns from experiences, then they are not in vain. Maybe I allowed myself to become too vulnerable, trusting, or whatever. Right now I feel like there's a hole in my heart and appreciate encouragement. Blessings, Pat

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Met our soulmates blunders....... Posted: 8/24/2006 7:25:40 PM
Yeah, oh the advantages of taking one's time! When you're getting to know another, that's as good as it gets, I'm told. On-again off-again relationships never work. Sometimes one's better off just dating and having friends. Will keep yah posted. Blessings, Pat

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Be Careful of Someone Who Seems To Good To Be True Posted: 8/17/2006 11:23:09 PM
Please, be careful? I let things move "too quickly". Look before you leap. Take all the time you need to to see if someone is real, sincere, honest, credible, etc. There are alot of good people out there, many of us lonely. And lonely means vulnerable. I am still in the running. Check out my profile and message me if you'd like. Blessings, ChosenLady ~thecryofthewolf.

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Met our soulmates...yes it does happen Posted: 8/7/2006 6:37:35 AM
Yes, I met him!!! I thought we were mistaken for a moment. We knew within one day apart, ours was a love beyond this world and one we did not want to loose. First it starts with God's love in your heart. The Holy Spirit is the best matchmaker possible. Chosen by the Lord to serve Him, each other, and the world who needs the Master's Touch. My prayer is for you all to find your love in Jesus first, then the one He has chosen for you, and then to take the world by storm. Amen. ChosenLady ~thecryofthewolf

ChosenLady

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Met our soulmates...yes it does happen Posted: 8/3/2006 1:48:49 PM
Ooops...spoke too soon. What a disappointment. Oh well, life goes on. Not bitter and keeping a positive outlook. Best wishes to those who have found someone and those still looking. ChosenLady ~thecryofthewolf

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Met our soulmates...yes it does happen Posted: 7/26/2006 4:50:07 AM
This is ChosenLady a/k/a thecryofthewolf, I found him!!! Held out for God's "best" (the one He chose for me) and it is worth the wait. Was critized for being picky. Please, don't settle ~it's not worth it believe me..been there done that. I didn't meet him here. I met him through a friends website online 360* yahoo. It's NOT a dating site. He has a ministry there and I am so excited to be serving the Lord along side him. He is just so awesome I can't begin to describe the man. His name is Robert and I am Patricia. This is a farwell, but definately not a sad one. Amen.

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Why is smoking pot a crime? Posted: 7/11/2006 12:30:38 AM
It's all about politics and the almighty dollar. There is no reason socially, spiritually, medically, nor any other reason why it should not be legalized. This is coming from a Christian who worked in detox and an alcohol/drug treatment facility. I will probably come under attack for saying this; but oh well. ChosenOne

ChosenLady

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Why Do Men Want Us To Fit Into Their Lives Only? Posted: 7/9/2006 1:03:03 AM
I was brought up in the "old school". Pretty much everything revolved around the man: his manhood, needs, wants, ideas, career, life, etc. Then came "women's lib", which had some good and not so good ideas. When I was in nineth grade, I told my teacher I wanted to be a Forest Ranger. I loved the outdoors and I wanted to work there. I was told that that was not appropriate; and women should be nurses, school teachers, secretaries, or in simular fields. I believe whatever talents one has should be used and utilized no matter what gender a person is. I think we should be willing to adapt, give 'n take, and build each other up. I certainly don't expect a man to turn his world upside down just because I walk into it. And I shouldn't be expected to either. Too many times in the world out there we see people tearing each other down. I want to be around people who are positive. It's great to be around a man who encourages me to be all I can be, to follow my dreams, to have hope and something to reach for. I know I can do that for a man many times over. It may just boil down to something as simple as "respect". Chosen

ChosenLady

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Why Do Men Want Us To Fit Into Their Lives Only? Posted: 7/8/2006 10:06:13 PM
Why is it almost every profile I've read the men want a woman who will fit into their lives, their activities, their life style, their goals, etc; but there is no mention whatsoever of including a woman's, nor helping her follow her dreams. Am I missing something here? Isn't this the year 2006? What ever happened to mutual desires? Equality? Aren't we all adults here? Does it seem one-sided to you too? I have yet to see this thread and want to know how men and women feel about it.

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Needy Guys Posted: 7/8/2006 9:07:09 PM
He is "stalking" you and it is a crime. Tell him if he doesn't stop you will report him to the website and the police. You don't want to hurt his feelings; but is he "respecting" yours? This is not NORMAL behavior...be on your guard! I don't want to scare you; but in this day and age it is not impossible for someone to get your address and other personal information. Good luck, Chosen

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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This game is getting old! Posted: 7/8/2006 2:34:21 AM
nofatgirlsplz...OF COURSE I UNFAIRLY HAVE THE ADVANTAGE OF BEING ABOVE AVERAGE LOOKING. Who are you trying to fool? Yourself? And your marital status is "Prefer Not To Say". We all know that one. I hope no one is taking your advice on scoring the opposite sex as serious! Chosen.......

ChosenLady

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love at first sight! Posted: 7/7/2006 10:53:45 PM
rainbowfishh...you hit the nail on the head. You have some wisdom on things...thecryofthewolf

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Ladies should stay away from this one Posted: 7/7/2006 12:52:48 AM
YOU'D BE SUPRISED AT HOW MUCH TAIL YOU CAN GET??? Gee, that sounds like a real mature, responsible, meaningful and worthwhile goal in life. Gee, maybe I brought my Sons up wrong. They have respect for women. They are normal redblooded men; but they have tact, class, and their act together. I feel sorry for for you boys who subscribe to this shallow crap...I really do. Thecryofthewolf

ChosenLady

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A Moral Delimma Posted: 7/4/2006 6:45:03 AM
what in the world is FWB? It was really devastating when I found out my husband was having an affair. I thought there was hope and we could make it. He got caught again. So Sabre"wolf"ss...stand up and be the Alpha. You know this is only the beginning. YOu should be proud of not following in your Dad's footprints, damn proud!!! I would suggest you find a healthy outlet for your pain and anger, please don't call his wife? Good luck ...praying for you...Pat

ChosenLady

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Any women down to earth women out there? Posted: 7/4/2006 3:58:43 AM
Oooh yeah, there's "plenty" of us down to earth women out here. In my earlier post I said how sorry I was that you had such a bad experience on here. I JUST READ YOUR PROFILE!!!!!!! I wouldn't answer your email either. "YOU" don't have the courage to deal with your problems and make your life better. Cowards way is to blame it on someone else.

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Any women down to earth women out there? Posted: 7/1/2006 3:11:16 AM
AT LEAST RESPOND WITH I'M NOT INTERESTED? I been there, done that! Two gentlemen (I'm using the term loosely here) would not only leave me alone, they literally stalked me. One had to be turned into the Sheriff's Office. Several others responded back with explicit words I cannot repeat. I'm only looking for friends here of all ages both men and women. I'd hate to see the results if I were looking for a romantic relationship. I'm sorry Avengere you haven't had a better time on here. There are some good people around; and when you find one, it's worth the wait.

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Mill Creek, Washington Posted: 7/1/2006 2:25:07 AM
I kinda congregated over the hill...still no action, lol. Seriously, there are all kinds of things to do if one wants to find it, create it or ? It's usually more fun to share things with someone. There are still times when I prefer not to share myself and would rather enjoy my own company. I think these forums on POF are the greatest and I feel very fortunate they are here. Can't believe in three days it will be the Fourth of July! Time flys when yer havin' fun

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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ON THE WINGS OF A PRAYER Posted: 7/1/2006 2:10:57 AM
"On The Wings of a Prayer" There is a secret chamber in my heart where I hide. My companions there are named fear and pride. They won't let me rest, annoying me is their jest. It's dark and safe here, but no one comes near. Sheltered but imprisioned, I await a time envisioned, When the walls come down and I'm finally found. He promised the chains would be broken remains, And on the risen wings of a prayer, Hope He brings. The spell must be broken, over the enemy victory. Many words never spoken, loosed they make a storey. They testify of God's grace and of His love and glory. Copyrighted 1993

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Confused, Hurt, LOST...... Posted: 7/1/2006 1:59:58 AM
linds19 The hardest thing is staying away long enough to start the healing, because the healing begins with the grieving process, and it can be painful at times. It usually takes seven attempts to stay away from a destructive relationship, with the help of weekly counseling and a support group for Domestic Violence. Buy a journal and get your feelings out on paper, break huge chunks of wood to release your anger, before it becomes internalized into depression or taken out on someone else. Make a list of things you can do when you are lonely ~the MOST vulnerable time is when you are lonely! Re-established friendships, joined a singles group at church, take long drives in the country, treat yourself to some new makeup, research online all the information you can find on these kind of relationships, etc...whatever works for you, please do it? You are worth sooo much MORE!!! Good luck Hon. You will be in my prayers, Pat

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Posted: 6/30/2006 11:52:38 PM
"On The Wings of a Prayer" There is a secret chamber in my heart where I hide. My companions there are named fear and pride. They won't let me rest, annoying me is their jest. It's dark and safe here, but no one comes near. Sheltered but imprisioned, I await a time envisioned, When the walls come down and I'm finally found. He promised the chains would be broken remains, And on the risen wings of a prayer, Hope He brings. The spell must be broken, over the enemy victory. Many words never spoken, loosed they make a storey. They testify of God's grace and of His love and glory. Copyrighted 1993

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Why is there no Pride Day for heterosexual relationships? Posted: 6/30/2006 10:53:28 PM
You are absolutly right, Georgian~though I would have worded it a little more delicately. If the scientists get research money for their experiments, well they could take twenty years or more to prove a theory. And just think, in the meantime all the enormous amount of funding they could pocket. They could care less if someone's life, heterosexual, bisexual, gay or lesbian, were actually made better because of it. Some people would assume that I am predjudice. Just for the record, I have friends of all sexual persuasions. It all boils down to loving people whether you agree with them or not. I am neither here to condone nor condemn. Blessings, Pat

ChosenLady

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Why is there no Pride Day for heterosexual relationships? Posted: 6/30/2006 12:56:30 AM
LOL...do you accept "every" theroy you read of as an absolute???

ChosenLady

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Why is there no Pride Day for heterosexual relationships? Posted: 6/29/2006 4:43:23 AM
Yeah, I'm feeling put out! Everyday I took care of elderly people who helped make this a great nation. When they retire they live in poverty, their social security they earned is given to illegal immigrants, who haven't even earned it. They have to live off of food stamps, medicade, their families help and whatever they can just to have food, shelter, medical and electricity. Is this the thanks they get? Yeah I'm talking immigration, minorities (sexual, nationality,etc) because it all ties in and it all boils down in the end to the almighty dollar. Those who have it and those who don't. YOu may not think this applies to you...all too soon it will, but then it will be too late.

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Are pets as important as people? Posted: 6/29/2006 2:40:34 AM
I've been dragging home some critter or other ever since I was a little girl. I could not live without an animal, my home would feel empty even with a crowd of people. My latest pet I have had 15 years. She's a Lovebird named Sherbert. Fall before last I actually died, but guess God had reasons for allowing me to stay. While I was ill my bird also became ill. The vet didn't expect her to make it. The veternarian assistant concluded that my bird was wasting away in grief over me. Where in all of God's green earth could I ever, ever find such a loyal friend??? She's lived beyond any Lovebird the vet's ever seen. I didn't tell him the Lord had healed her twice before. There is going to be one huge hole in my heart when she's gone. I'm grateful for every moment that remains...Pat ~thecryofthewolf

ChosenLady

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Why is there no Pride Day for heterosexual relationships? Posted: 6/29/2006 1:51:20 AM
There is no gene for homosexuality. It is a "choice". Very simple, why complicate it?

ChosenLady

Joined: 1/18/2006

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Why is there no Pride Day for heterosexual relationships? Posted: 6/29/2006 1:44:25 AM
Simple. Minorities rule. The average, decent. law abiding, normal, white, moral, heterosexual has been, folded, stapled, and mutilated just like our constitution has here in the good 'ole USA. We no longer matter. If I went to a foreign country illegally, expected them to support me, change their language to mine, and promote my sexual agenda, HOW FAR DO YOU THINK I'D GET??????? I - rest - my - case. ChosenLady

ChosenLady

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from hornersville,mo. lived in fairbanks awhile.wanna come back Posted: 6/29/2006 12:27:19 AM
Hello from Washington State! My older brother's been to Alaska, but no other family members has yet. It's our last frontier and maybe someday I'll have the privilege. I am very much into Wolves and have met some. To hear and see one in the wild would make a beautiful memory when I die. Are they still slaughtering them by planes? What is the dating scene like up there? Any how best wishes from Mill Creek. TheCryOfTheWolf

ChosenLady

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Freinds first? Are you nuts?! Posted: 5/24/2006 1:07:35 PM
I agree.......platonic friends should most likelly remain that way. The "friends first" concept is valid though. Maybe we should chose a different name for it, as long as the expectation is the same......."getting to know someone" well and letting nature take it's course. If a lasting, romantic relationship developes wonderful. If not.......well? Hey, I certainly don't have all thee answers. Learning like you are. Bless yah, Pat

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