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vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

Msg: 27 (view)

Social Anxiety Posted: 5/2/2009 9:58:14 PM
I'm another one of those people that feels a bit out of place at times. Still haven't managed to go to a POF event, even though there were some nearby. I just can't bring myself to show up at an event. I don't drive, so getting around on transit isn't always the greatest, especially when it's late.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Need a New Holiday Posted: 2/2/2008 6:43:21 PM
It all sounds good, but for those of us that work in retail, it doesn't matter, all the stores are open anyway. Sure, we'll get a day off, but it will be later in the week, when everyone else is back at work, and school. Family day would be nice, but only if all stores would be closed, so family can spend time together (and not at the mall shopping).

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Fun Things in Vancouver for New Year's? Posted: 12/30/2007 8:41:21 PM
Nothing planned, just staying home, going to bed early, have to work New Year's day.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Tracy Latimer... was her father right or wrong? why? Posted: 12/7/2007 1:23:10 AM
He did what he thought was best for her, and while most people would disagree, they need to be in his shoes. Caring for someone 24/7, is not easy. I was taking care of my Dad, (dying of cancer), he was in so much pain towards the end. It hurt me to see him that way. For a parent to see their child in such a bad way, I can't imagine. So, he was denied bail? Go figure, it's not like he would do this again. But it's ok to let out sex offenders, and warn us that they are out, and living in are community. That makes sense..........

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Unveiling of the 2010 Olympic mascots Posted: 11/27/2007 1:54:16 PM
don't know what to say, they do look like characters that belong on a kids show, all the kids are going to want them I wonder if 'bigfoot' from the Kokanee commercials was an inspiration..... and if the guys that created them was drinking at the time.......

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Good Places to eat, and good places to take a date Posted: 9/18/2007 6:38:26 PM
Recently went to Dublins Crossing, an Irish pub out in Langley. The inside is very nice, not what you would expect from the outside, (it's in a newly built strip mall). There are 2 floors, (the 2nd floor was closed while we were there, I guess they open it for the evening), lots of woodwork. It feels like an old pub. The food was very good, menu has lots to choose from. Would be a nice place to go for a casual dinner. Dublins Crossing 18789 Fraser Hwy. #101 Langley

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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:stop:TOTAL LUNAR ECLIPSE MORNING OF AUGUST 28 07!!:stop: Posted: 8/28/2007 2:57:36 AM
it now has this reddish glow, glad I stayed up to watch

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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:stop:TOTAL LUNAR ECLIPSE MORNING OF AUGUST 28 07!!:stop: Posted: 8/28/2007 2:25:20 AM
here it's about 2:25am, mainly clear, looks really cool, to see the change, hope my pictures will turn out

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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SAME NAME Posted: 8/26/2007 6:27:13 PM
Same first name, slightly different last name (hers had one extra letter), in the doctors office, they kept pulling her file when I came in, (mine was next), my Dr. was confused at first, because she looked at the file, and knew that I had never had a child or liposuction. I laughed, and told her that if I did, I don't remember, and that the lipo didn't work !

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Is it a good idea?? Posted: 8/23/2007 12:27:35 AM
No. Not a good idea. Best to just leave it alone.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Why cant people just tell the truth Posted: 8/23/2007 12:22:25 AM
I guess some people are scared to tell the truth, they don't want to hurt you. For me, I want to be told. It may not be nice, and it may hurt. It's the not knowing, and the "was it something I did, or was it something I said" that has a way of hurting more. Get together, talk about it, then move on.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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If you were the boss at work, what would you change? Posted: 6/23/2007 9:31:05 PM
-make sure there are enough employees on the salesfloor, and including cashiers -have newer & larger 'temporarily out of stock, which also means we don't have it in the back' signs made

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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No More Z95.3 Posted: 6/6/2007 12:18:40 AM
I won't miss it, haven't actually listened to it for a very long time, think I'll stick to internet radio, some of those stations over in Europe rock, great format and playlists

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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CHICKEN SH*T BINGO Posted: 5/23/2007 12:17:10 AM
this sounds similiar to 'cow patty bingo' Google that and you'll get some ideas, same idea

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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what kind of pets do you have? Posted: 4/22/2007 11:26:24 PM
a schnoodle, part schnauzer & part poodle, her colouring is grey

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Girl Scout Cookies Posted: 3/28/2007 1:20:05 AM
Here is a recipe for the mint ones which is pretty good, 1 - 12 ounce package mint chocolate chips, (like Andes Mint Bits) 4 ounces semi-sweet chocolate chips Ritz crackers or anything similiar Melt chocolate in the microwave, dip the crackers in the chocolate, then place on a cookie sheet lined with wax paper, chill till set.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Tattoos Posted: 3/16/2007 12:54:02 AM
I have one, it's a small tribal design with a small flower, a nice little reminder from my last trip to Hawaii. Yes they can be addictive, and I want another one, just working on a couple of ideas.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Wacky Weather..... where are you? and what is your weather doing today? Posted: 3/1/2007 1:01:56 AM
it's snowing right now, in the Guildford area of Surrey I guess when I wake up I can make a

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Weird Food Combinations Posted: 1/28/2007 11:38:34 PM
kraft dinner topped with blue cheese dressing and bacon bits

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

Msg: 83 (view)

Bras in Bed???? Posted: 1/16/2007 11:35:10 PM
After wearing one all day, I can't imagine wearing one to bed.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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If you could travel back in time...... Posted: 1/16/2007 6:34:14 PM
should have got up earlier this morning, that way I wouldn't have to wait out in the freezing cold for 2 hours at the passport office, still trying to get warm now...

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Mexican vacation yes or no? Posted: 1/14/2007 11:48:01 PM
I would have to say 'no'. I have been there, and was thinking about going again, to Acapulco. Last time, I was on a cruise and we stopped there for a day. At the time I thought that it would be nice to spend a week there, as there was so much to see. As tourists, we only see the 'better areas', while vacationing, we don't (or rarely) see the 'other' side. The outskirts, where many are just trying to survive. Looking for a way out, many have turned to gangs and crime, which is common in many areas. As a tourist, we need to carefully choose where we go on vacation. There are lots of places that I would like to visit, but I need to think about my safety.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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home made bread Posted: 1/5/2007 11:58:32 PM
I like to mix the dough in the bread machine, ( for me that's where I sometimes had problems) then finish it in the oven, that way I have a loaf that looks more like the ones you find in artisan bakeries, shaped by hand.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Christmas decorations - when do you take them down? Posted: 1/4/2007 2:33:00 AM
probably this weekend, along with a couple of somethng to do if it rains.......

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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For those NOT attending a POF event tonight Posted: 12/31/2006 3:34:54 PM
Happy New Year fellow fishies I'm just staying home, have to be at work in the morning,

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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School dress codes Posted: 12/30/2006 11:16:17 PM
Living near a high school, I have seen some of these girls wear outfits, makes me wonder. Maybe they should teach 'What Not To Wear To School'.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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So what are you wishing for this Christmas? Posted: 12/23/2006 1:52:25 AM
Hope to hear about that other in-store job that I applied for, getting it would be the best present. I won't have to deal with any customers, and I've had some really bad ones makes me want to

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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How to spend Boxing day? Posted: 12/22/2006 1:26:00 AM
I don't have to work on boxing day having a family dinner what will happen after, who knows

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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So....Who else is stuck working Xmas??? Posted: 12/3/2006 11:07:59 PM
Will try to get the closing shift for Christmas Eve (open until 6:00), however, I will try to get boxing day off. That has to be the worst day when you work in retail Running out of advertised items, because some people just need at least a dozen of the same thing. Customers thinking 'everything' is half price. Then there are the countless price-checks, funny how labels with the bar codes 'fall off', or the 'packaging' dissapears when they wait in line. Takes 3-4 days to clean up the store, then there are all those 'empty' packages, to write up....... Boxing day I'd rather be after all, better to wait for the sales in January.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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It's Dec.1st...have you even STARTED your shopping yet? Posted: 12/2/2006 2:06:15 AM
I should start. I have no idea what to get. Working in retail, I deal with many , makes me want at them. Last place I want to be on a day off is at my store.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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I want to believe... Posted: 11/22/2006 12:16:36 AM
Aliens do exist. Some of them like to shop where I work.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Vancouver Sun article about POF ... Nov 20th Posted: 11/21/2006 12:39:59 AM
I also agree with all previous posts, also, you need common sense, listen to your gut feelings, and take your time. There is no need to rush into anything.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Sunday Brunch! October 22 @ Fresgos. Posted: 10/21/2006 12:37:13 AM
Looks like I can't make it, hopefully I can make the next one.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Sunday Brunch! October 22 @ Fresgos. Posted: 10/16/2006 11:25:53 PM
another 'newbie' here, I think I can make it out to this one.........if I don't chicken out!

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Consumers make me laugh Posted: 10/7/2006 1:20:39 AM
I also work in retail, and sometimes in the lunchroom we share stories about customers. It sure makes it entertaining, and a co-worker once suggested that we should write a book. I try not to laugh, when the customer needs an item. For example, they need a set of sheets, but don't know the size of bed they sleep on. They need curtains, but didn't think that they had to measure the window. It's when they ask me if it will fit, how would I know? I've never been to your place.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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A little list of getting to know you...newbies too..... Posted: 10/1/2006 1:51:31 AM
1. FIRST INITIAL?........M 2. WERE YOU NAMED AFTER ANYONE? .....neighbours daughter 3. WHEN DID YOU LAST CRY?........ month ago 4. DO YOU LIKE YOUR HANDWRITING?..... sometimes 5. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE LUNCH MEAT? ....ham 6. IF YOU WERE ANOTHER PERSON WOULD YOU BE FRIENDS WITH YOU? ....yes 8. DO YOU HAVE A JOURNAL? .....no 9. DO YOU USE SARCASM A LOT? ....sometimes 10. DO YOU STILL HAVE YOUR TONSILS?..... yes 11. WOULD YOU BUNGEE JUMP?.....hell no 13. DO YOU UNTIE YOUR SHOES WHEN YOU TAKE THEM OFF?.... sometimes 14. DO YOU THINK YOU ARE STRONG? ....sometimes 15. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE ICE CREAM FLAVOR? ....chocolate 16. SHOE SIZE? .....9 17. RED OR PINK? .....red 18. WHAT IS THE LEAST FAVORITE THING ABOUT YOURSELF? ...... ?, that can change from day to day 19. WHO DO YOU MISS THE MOST? .........an old friend 20. PEPSI OR COKE?....coke 21. WHAT COLOR PANTS AND SHOES ARE YOU WEARING? ....grey sweat pants, socks 22. WHAT IS THE LAST THING YOU ATE? ...cheese 23. WHAT ARE YOU LISTENING TO RIGHT NOW? .....Billy Idol 24 IF YOU WERE A CRAYON, WHAT COLOR WOULD YOU BE? ....blue 25. FAVORITE SMELL? .... plumeria 26.THE LAST PERSON YOU TALKED WITH ON THE PHONE? ...sister 28. DO YOU LIKE YOUR SENSE OF HUMOUR?.......yes 29. FAVORITE DRINK? .....coke & vanilla vodka 30. FAVORITE SPORT? ....dont have one 31. HAIR COLOR? ...mixed (but my roots are brown) 32. EYE COLOR? .....green 33. DO YOU WEAR CONTACTS? .......no 34. FAVORITE FOOD? ....schnitzel 35. SCARY MOVIES OR HAPPY ENDING? ......happy ending 36. LAST MOVIE YOU WATCHED?...RV 37. WHAT COLOR UNDER GARMENTS ARE YOU WEARING?......white 38. SUMMER OR WINTER ....winter 39. HUGS OR KISSES? ....hugs 40. FAVORITE DESSERT?......mom's homemade Black Forest Cake (on special occasions) 41. WHO IS MOST LIKELY TO CALL YOU THIS MORNING?......niece 42. FAVORITE SEXUAL POSITION?........I'll tell you later 43. WHAT BOOKS ARE YOU READING? .... fiction 44. WHAT'S ON YOUR MOUSE PAD? .... mouse 46. FAVORITE SOUNDS? .....nature 47. ROLLING STONES OR BEATLES?.....rolling stones 48. THE FURTHEST YOU'VE BEEN FROM HOME? ....Panama Canal 49. DO YOU HAVE A SPECIAL TALENT? ....I wouldn't say it's special 50. WHEN AND WHERE WERE YOU BORN? .... July, Simcoe Ontario

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Best and worst airlines in Canada and worldwide. Posted: 9/30/2006 9:38:55 PM
Just flew on Air Pacific, to Honolulu, was ok. We were delayed here in Vancouver for an hour, problem with the washrooms, good thing they fixed it, choices for dinner was 'lamb curry' & 'fish'. Our flight back to Vancouver, over half the plane was empty, so, lots of room. Best airline; Harmony Worst; Air Transat

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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March Hare? Posted: 9/16/2006 9:55:05 PM
Watched the band play this afternoon in the parking lot at Guildford Town Center, which is celebrating their 40th anniversary. What an awesome band, great sound, great playlist, cute drummer, must go see them play again.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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What sends shivers down your back? Posted: 9/10/2006 12:33:46 AM
from behind, his warm breath on the back of my neck..... his arms around me..... works everytime

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Idiots among us Posted: 9/6/2006 12:25:03 AM
I had a customer awhile back that wanted to buy an artificial 5 foot tall ficus tree. She wasn't sure if it was going to fit in her car, I asked her what type of car it was, she told me it was a red one.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Bailey Irish Cream Posted: 8/18/2006 11:49:31 PM
I've also made this, using almond extract, but I like the idea of coconut. Next time, I'll have to try this version, thanks.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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German potato salad Posted: 8/15/2006 1:27:59 AM
Here's one from my mom, always a favourite. Since my mom does not have a sweet tooth, this has no sugar in it, (and no miracle whip) like some potato salads. Mearsurements are approximate, as we had to figure it out. My mom always makes this without measuring, she just goes by taste. 6 medium sized potatoes, ( Yukon Gold) 3 - 4 Tbsp. mayonaise 1/4 lb (approx) chopped sausage, like garlic ring, Kielbassa, or Polish 1 large dill pickle, chopped 2 Tbsp. warm water 1 Tbsp. vinegar salt & pepper to taste 2 boiled eggs, chopped Cook potatoes; let cool completely. (this can be done the day before). Peel then slice potatoes, add remaining ingredients, mix gently. Let stand about 1/2 hour in fridge before serving. A few sprigs of parsley on top for garnish. * instead of mixing in the chopped egg, they can also be sliced, placed on top as a garnish, sprinkled with a little chopped parsley.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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The EASY button Posted: 8/7/2006 10:06:07 PM
Would be nice to have an 'easy button' at work, would make dealing with certain customers a lot 'easier'.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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If a woman has a few scars..does it make you look at them different Posted: 8/6/2006 11:57:04 PM
Was in a car accident when I was 10, have some scars on my face, and a couple on one leg. That was a long time ago and I have since learned to live with it. You really have to look to see them. It's when a guy can look past these scars, to see the person inside, that's what matters.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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How messed up our these PEOPLE??? Posted: 8/6/2006 7:25:29 PM
Some kids lack discipline and respect. Some parents don't know how to parent. Some kids think that it's cool to carry around weapons, act tough, after all, what music do they listen to? What movies do they watch? What games do they play on playstation or x-box? It's not real, yet they want to live it. Street racing, drive-by shootings, jump on some other kid at random. They may think it's fun, but it has hurt people, and many families. Catch these kids, and show them how it feels.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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You know you partied to much last night when.......... Posted: 8/5/2006 12:11:18 AM
You wake up, realize that you fell asleep in the furniture department in Wal-Mart

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Favorite musical instrument? Posted: 7/20/2006 12:34:57 AM
Used to play the drums, was good at it. Also some keyboard, but not that great, maybe if I had some actual lessons.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Can you trace your family roots? Posted: 7/18/2006 12:07:43 AM
Still working on my Dad's side, can only go back to about the early 1800's Germany so far. On my Mom's side, my Uncle had it traced back to the mid 1400's in Switzerland. This is something that I like to do in my spare time.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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Beer, Beer, Beer... Posted: 7/14/2006 12:43:46 AM
A nice cold 'Dos Equis' sounds good about now.

vanillawhip

Joined: 1/19/2006

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has anybody else had............ Posted: 7/9/2006 10:45:51 PM
^^^^ yeah, I also know what that feels like. Some people can be so rude. I wouldn't even think of trying that.

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