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Joined: 1/19/2006

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How is it possible? Posted: 9/21/2009 7:34:57 AM
Is it possible for someone to delete their mssg from My Inbox before I have read it? - yesterday it was there.....today it's missing???? and the 20 day auto-delete does not apply...it's only been two days ~ I know it can't be that he deleted his profile from the site - I know when that happens their handle is gone....but how could the message also just not be there????? - I ck'd his profile which I always do before I read the mail if it's somebody I don't know.....but I have ev'ryone blocked from being able to see I viewed them.....I just think it's soooo weird that it's missing today.....and it was there yesterday....please tell me if anyone else has had this happen! I didn't know you could delete anything you already sent someone .....What gives???

Joined: 1/19/2006

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What is TIME ?? Posted: 7/2/2007 6:56:11 PM
TIME is the substance by which we number our days upon the Earth ~ we each have an allotment of it tho' we never really know exactly how much we have of it ~ and by the time we figure out what's going on with our lives we have almost run out of it ~ we try to recapture it but it cannot be held. It is one of the intangibles we often can never grasp until it is too late. ... and yet it shapes our ev'ryday lives moment by moment and we never seem to have enough of It! We may plan for the future and remember the past but it's the moments in the here & now that we have to truly live! ~ After you leave this earth time will no longer exist...for you....only for those you left behind. It's what spins the Wheel of Life ~ The Great Mandella ~

Joined: 1/19/2006

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I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age Posted: 11/6/2006 7:42:51 AM
I just read a bunch of folks comments on this subject...something I have been having trouble with since I got on this site at the beginning of the year. After having met several men ranging in age from 31 to 58, 1st of all - most men lie about their age! by 5 to 7 years...saying they're younger! - Used to be that women were the ones to lie about their age - "the tables have turned" - --- 2nd of all, women in their 40's+ that are returning to dating have usually experience divorce or, like me, widowhood and have had to become independant, thus making them more confident and therefore more interesting! I DO find men about 10-15 years younger than myself to be more attractive to me, but perhaps I have a distorted sense of my own 'perfection' - LOL - I was "the baby" of my family (always slow to mature) so everyone used to be older than me...now it's just the opposite. When I was in my 20's I was attracted to the elegant biz man with the grey in his temples & the hot car! LOL - I might could be again...that is if I would ever find one! LOL All in all I think what it all boils down to is that certain special attraction/energy that comes with finding "The One" - and with that age becomes relative .... One last thing I have learned is that as a general rule, more than 10 yrs. diff in a couples ages becomes a bit of "a generation" problem, and makes it harder to connect in a real and meaningful way....tooo much water under the bridge...if you know what I mean.

Joined: 1/19/2006

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how do you get over someone you loved with all you heart that has passed Posted: 2/23/2006 3:08:02 PM
I can totally relate to what you are saying- My husband and I were souldmates - we met when I was 16 and he's the 1st guy I ever had sex with - I never forgot him....we both married other people then got back together years later and had 2 beautiful daughters. We were married for 25 yrs. and he passed away on our 25th anniversary. He is/was always the love of my life....now that 3 years and 5 months have passed.....I am just now completing the grieving process, which is different for everyone no matter who says it takes a full year to get over the loss. I am just now beginning to live again and it's actually starting to feel pretty good..... I find that I have invorporated his Being into myself, and even hear myself sounding like him when I say certain things.... he is a part of my Soul that I will never lose! But I do believe that, if I had passed on 1st, that he would've found another girl to share his life with way before.....he hated being alone. I finally feel that it is OK to love another....tho' I haven't found him yet.....and YOU can too! Just don't let anyone rush you into something you don't feel right about! Just ask God daily to see you thru all this, and your day too will come, I promise! Moondiva

Joined: 1/19/2006

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What a Gr8 Site!! Posted: 2/14/2006 7:01:52 AM
Just wanted to say that this is an excellent - and frankly the only truly free one I've found, all the others say they are "free" - but then after you go thru all the work of profiles,pics,etc. they trick you - can't get in to do anything w/o the use of a credit card. So many thanx!!!!

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