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Thread: Sent txt to girlfriend by mistake
MS_belle_01
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Sent txt to girlfriend by mistake
Posted:
11/27/2009 5:39:37 AM
Bottom line, OP....
You fcuked up! You know it, we know it and she damn sure knows it.
MS_belle_01
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Guys that want no strings attached
Posted:
11/27/2009 5:25:41 AM
We diminish ourselves when we harm others either with our words or our actions. We diminish humankind. We are diminished in our own eyes (if we can stop lying to ourselves), in the eyes of the person we have harmed, in the eyes of anyone who is aware of what we have done, and if you believe, than in the eyes of whomever your God of choice is. We are one on this earth. We are a collective of beings with intelligence and spirituality. To hurt one, to cause harm, hurts us all - like the proverbial ripples on a pond caused by a pebble.
^^^^ Awesome^^^^ barbyanne2
MS_belle_01
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Doing it in the car/automobile - Do's, Don'ts, How to, etc.
Posted:
11/24/2009 7:18:28 AM
I've always driven automatic. Are there any special rules or tips if you have a stick shift?
Dated a guy who had a truck with a stick shift.....my best advice here....is DON'T park on an incline.
Stick to back seats if possible or like MsMiki previously said....bend me over the hood
As far as the 40' or 50's....tad before my time....and was still too young to enjoy the "free love" of the 60's as well.
Late 70's and 80's here when I came into my own.....mmmm drive ins.... quiet country roads, and fogged up windows.
Cute Thread, OP!
MS_belle_01
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Doing it in the car/automobile - Do's, Don'ts, How to, etc.
Posted:
11/24/2009 4:44:23 AM
Boat- is good.
Sea Doo- really good...except when you get caught up in the moment and one of ya goes over the side. Ahhhh memories...
MS_belle_01
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Doing it in the car/automobile - Do's, Don'ts, How to, etc.
Posted:
11/23/2009 11:41:10 AM
Being young is a good thing for this but I sure as hell don't think I'd be able to pull that off if I was in my 30's or 40's.
Whoa there, young grass hopper.....like some one else said...where there is a will, there is a way!
I have, however, nearly given myself a concussion (steering wheel), just have to have a little more imagination these days...darn those less roomy newer models and bucket seats!
I still have the will, and always willing to find a way. Here's to hoping I never lose either.
MS_belle_01
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Conflict in the bedroom.
Posted:
11/20/2009 7:35:49 AM
OP: Please, take note of what "OutMind" wrote, he is deadon! IMO, he usually gives very good advice on threads and/or situations such as yours.
If, you love this girl, and it sounds as if you do.....it is going to take patience, hun.
Good Luck!
MS_belle_01
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Male ED
Posted:
11/20/2009 7:25:30 AM
IMO: I don't think Ed is anymore prevalent than it was years ago....it's like many other topics that were "not' discussed openly then, topics that were considered “taboo.”
Heck, I, myself, can remember when you never even heard the word "sex” let alone see what was considered "soft" porn then but the “norm" now on television. Look how far we have come with that...........
The below post by NightJ1986...
OMG! The visual.......
Forget Superman.....who was able to leap tall buildings with a single bound....
we now have............
ED man !!! *heroic theme plays*
Taking the bite out of crime, one woody at a time !
MS_belle_01
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why do people feel like they need someone in their life .
Posted:
11/20/2009 6:54:30 AM
ZenBeth
So I don't feel that I have to have someone in my life to be complete. If I am not whole and happy alone I wont be whole and happy with someone in my life.
I really like this, it sums up exactly how I feel.
MS_belle_01
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Finding Out How Interested He Is...And Why
Posted:
11/20/2009 6:47:30 AM
Be realistic here... The average guy on this site can't even be bothered to read your entire two paragraph profile before writing you to ask for nude pics, and you want them to read a long article about understanding women in general? Yeah right... I think I need a shot of tequila. Let's make it a double OK?
Cowboy
You never fail to impress or make me laugh...Cowboy!
MS_belle_01
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What do Atheist Holla Out During Sex?
Posted:
11/19/2009 12:37:21 PM
I hollar....OMG! OMG Yes! Right there! Don't stop! OMG please don't stop!
You guys are cracking me up!
MS_belle_01
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When should I move on?
Posted:
11/19/2009 11:10:49 AM
Hi Giulia,
My heart goes out to you and your children. I wish I had words of wisdom to add to what the other posters have stated, but I don't. Until, someone has walked a mile in your shoes…they will never know.
Try to stay strong, work on healing yourself that in turn, will benefit your little ones. You and your children deserve to be happy and feel safe.
I truly wish you all the best!
MS_belle_01
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why do people feel like they need someone in their life .
Posted:
11/19/2009 10:56:25 AM
Umm...how about going out on a date?
Oh...that's right...that's not really what this web site is for...duh...I forgot...silly me...
This site is for DATING???? :Gasp: NO WAY! Silly ME! Sheesh! I never get the memo's!
MS_belle_01
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why do people feel like they need someone in their life .
Posted:
11/19/2009 9:11:34 AM
When you WANT something, you wish you can have it, but you can live without it.
When you NEED something, you HAVE to have it, it's essential. And you can't live without it.
Do I NEED someone in my life to complete me? Nope!
Do I eventually WANT someone to grow old with? Yep!
I, also call it, a CHOICE!
Hmmm... I'm surprised you could hear the pitter-patter over the thunder of your own clodhoppers racing to get in here FIRST..
BTW: LOL OP, I really wouldn't pay attention to those who YELL redundant thread.......for THEY are the ones who usually come in the door sliding sideways, spraying gravel everywhere, just to post exactly that! God love em!
People, People... ALL threads are pretty much redundant to those that have been on the forums for any length of time, but if they weren't started.... how the hell would we entertain ourselves then.???
MS_belle_01
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Help, please?
Posted:
11/18/2009 11:03:47 AM
First off I would like to say.....you are a beautiful young woman!
OMG at your age, Hun... I was so unbearably shy as well! Still am at times, even at my ripe old age, but I promise time and life experiences will help you, in the meantime what helped me tremulously was in fact…a lot of the suggestions previous posters have already stated. Get a p/t job that will enable you to interact with the public....but if I could stress another....that would be to surround yourself with POSTIVE people.
Positive people being good friends, who will encourage you, be there for you, offer tips on clothes, makeup etc. When you feel good about your outward appearance that in turn boosts your inner confidence as well, it did for me.
Good friends will also give helpful advice on what to say to that "certain" boy. They will help you to realize, life is short….so go for it…don’t worry about the “mean” people. The one’s who count will always be in your corner. Ask yourself….what is the worst thing that can happen? That he says no? So what? Means he wasn’t the “one” and you move on. You want know til you try.
Good Luck and love yourself first!
MS_belle_01
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Can you believe it ?
Posted:
11/10/2009 8:02:49 AM
MONEY!
Preferably, in small unmarked bills, Thanks!
MS_belle_01
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Open mic night...
Posted:
11/10/2009 7:31:26 AM
(long sigh...)
Yeah me too....Cowboy...
Sheesh! Like we women don't catch enough flake for over analyzing everything under the sun anyway.
Heck, maybe he was just bored out of his mind....maybe, he was uncomfortable with the subject matter....just maybe....yeah, that's it...he wanted a smoke.
MS_belle_01
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Does it change
Posted:
11/10/2009 7:20:50 AM
You need to get laid, something massive, Kindman.
That could probably be said for three fourths of the forum lurkers.
MS_belle_01
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Are disproportionate age ranges requirements a red flag?
Posted:
11/9/2009 2:58:36 PM
My age ranges are open, not because I'm a cougar on the prowl, nor am I looking for "Daddy.”
I'm here primarily for the forums....my open age range allows another poster to contact me if they so choose. Same reason I don't have a distance restriction either.
What's even more awesome.....I know how to ignore, say no and WOOOOHOOOO.....I know how to block if necessary.
MS_belle_01
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Does it change
Posted:
11/9/2009 9:55:24 AM
Depends on how "good" the sex was.
IMO: For me it depends on where the relationship "was" prior. At times it has deepened feelings (that were already there)....other times....not so much.
MS_belle_01
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IS IT TRUE THAT A WOMAN SHOULDN’T PURSUE A MAN?
Posted:
11/6/2009 6:47:52 AM
I just sneak upon em when they are least expecting it.... BAM.... hit em up side the head, and then drag them off to my woman cave. Much easier, and less work.
JUST TEASING!
IMO: You can pursue without being overtly obvious or too aggressive.
MS_belle_01
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Was I wrong ??
Posted:
11/5/2009 12:05:55 PM
Holy Hell! DTMFA!
He's 40. I can't even go into to all the reasons why this guy wouldn't be datable if he were 20, but at 40 he's not even trainable. He's never going to give you what you need. Rent some chick flicks; invite girl friends; eat ice cream; get some pics up on your profile. And MOVE ON.
x2
MS_belle_01
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Are you available; or jus wasting my time
Posted:
11/5/2009 7:54:40 AM
Mmmmm pretty CLEAR to me, the guy has issues....
He goes out with her three times, so unless the OP hog tied him and forced him to be there...fairly sure he wanted her for something...and something being...her listening to him...go on and on about HIMSELF.
So, she made a "move?” And???? Sheesh! Was she supposed to just continue to play therapist for him?
OP keep fishing....there are a lot of great guys out there. You will find one that fits.
MS_belle_01
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from one dater to another: 'show me your drivers license, please'
Posted:
11/5/2009 7:31:56 AM
GTFO!
My sentiments exactly!
Not just No, but Hell No!
IMO: If, you are that paranoid.....then maybe online dating isn't for you.
I just googled my whole name and....Nada! Whew!
MS_belle_01
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How do you deal with someone when the sex isn`t satisfying?
Posted:
11/3/2009 12:14:23 PM
OP: Is this the same woman you claimed you had screaming and moaning at the top of her lungs whereby your neighbors were having issues being awoken???? lol
If so, then how frigid could she have been?
OMG!
That is exactly what I was thinking!
Good Gawd, Man! You started that thread 10/26/09...She didn't sound very frigid a week ago!
MS_belle_01
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The new Marriage search/page
Posted:
11/3/2009 7:53:02 AM
I'm scared to click on it....afraid a shotgun and a minister will be there waiting!
MS_belle_01
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Which is worse - Dude! or Gurll!
Posted:
11/2/2009 8:46:51 AM
YO.. BEEEEOTCH.. Get me a damn beer
that always works during 18 weeks of football.. and year round in the south.
That wouldn't work in MY part of that South.....it would, however, get you a load of buckshot in YO azz, or at best a slap up against YO head.
baby
honey
darling
sweetheart
dear
gorgeous...
(they all work for me)
Yep, works for me too.
I must admit....anytime I have been addressed as "Dude" it cracks me up.
MS_belle_01
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Slutty/Sexy Halloween Costumes
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10/29/2009 12:04:36 PM
Don't know about slutty...but a girlfriend and I went as "White Trash" one year.
Last minute idea....we took a black garbage bag, cut holes for the legs, then glued an assortment of stuff to it...condoms (not used) LOL, tampon wrappers, waffle house coupons, cigarette butts, squashed beer cans, etc. Then we spray painted "White Trash" on the backside of it.
Cost us maybe $5.00 total. What was hilarious.... we won $50.00 each for best costume.
MS_belle_01
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People won't share or exchange pictures
Posted:
10/29/2009 8:57:34 AM
^^^^^ I agree with Sabrosura!
I used to get emails from those who had no pic posted, nor private image available. They would repeatedly want to set a meeting without me seeing one, that is a big "hell, to the naw" for me. If, that makes me shallow....I can live with it.
I remedied the situation by putting the filter on.
MS_belle_01
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what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed
Posted:
10/29/2009 8:33:48 AM
OP, I did find the whole story humorous....what I found even more humorous is a poster who berated and bashed you for even posting the story…...is on another thread whining because someone berated and bashed her for a post she made. I mean really??
OT: I really don't know what I would have done....would be awkward to say the least. I would like to think I would have empathy for anyone who had a "break down" of that sort, period. Him standing there screaming to his "girlfriend" off a balcony, however, IMO...is someone with far more mental/emotional issues, than I am equipped nor trained to handle.
Now him being married on top of him mourning the "girlfriend"....sorry……
That is just a plain NUTJOB!
I, do however... agree with this:
Oh, I don't doubt that crazy is crazy just as you say - but it seems that women would attack a man for posting something along the lines of what the OP posted.
A man would be lambasted for posting about a "woman" crying after sex.
Although, if someone, regardless of gender, hopped out of bed after "sex" with one person and proceeded to stand on a balcony screaming out apologies to their previous "lover" for "letting them down"....I think the other person should not resist the urge to help toss them over that said balcony.
MS_belle_01
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Christmas.
Posted:
10/29/2009 7:20:08 AM
My decision would be based on the age and maturity level of said children.
My ex and I, split when my children were 14 and 10. The 14yr old got it.....the 10yr old (due to maturity level) didn't...so in turn was always hoping for a reconciliation between her Dad and I..........still........
First couple of years he did come to (my) house Christmas morning. My 10 yr wanted this....I felt ...WTH? I could put aside any animosity for a little while for the sake of my children. In no way did we give either of them the impression we were getting back together, (he and I were clear on that) and we BOTH explained this to them beforehand. I, IMO, felt this gave OUR little girl comfort knowing her parents still cared and respected each other enough to spend a couple of hours as a family unit. We also included the other's SO, if warranted.
As my daughter matured and accepted the situation for what it was, and going to remain....she was good. She has since thanked us both for it. To this day....I still include him in Christmas "doings" at my home, as he does me. Thus far has not been perceived as a threat to anyone we were/are seeing.
Just be upfront with HER and the children, to avoid any miscommunication on anyone's part.
MS_belle_01
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Oral anal play?
Posted:
10/28/2009 9:45:20 AM
Sounds like a shyty situation to me!
MS_belle_01
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Does Sex Change How you feel ?
Posted:
10/27/2009 7:36:40 AM
So...you're saying you aren't a bit more moral than the rest of us you look down upon...you just set standards higher for other people...not yourself.
You will have sex with them early...but if THEY do it with you.. they're not good enough for you.
Precisely, what I was thinking!
Does Sex Change How you feel ?
OP, people will never EVER agree on this particular subject....
IMO, Do what YOU feel you are responsible enough to handle emotionally and physically. Will YOU FEEL differently about that person or yourself in the morning?
I have no problem with someone who elects to wait, nor with those who jump in with both feet. I do, however, have a problem with those who condemn others if they do not live up to THEIR particular moral standards. Gawd! That irks the shyt outta of me. Sure, there are those who are looking for the "booty call" and it is what it is. Then again, I have seen some awesome "relationships" come out of: GASP: sex within THREE dates!
Personally, I rarely have had "sex" within the pre-subscribed first "Three" dates (I want to seriously shoot someone in the Azz every time I hear that RULE)...but I have....and hells bells........I find that what I "feel" is this......when I have sex.... there are always feelings involved, even if its just old fashioned lust.
Yes, I will respect you in the morning.....
MS_belle_01
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my boyfriend asked me for money
Posted:
10/26/2009 8:38:14 AM
Based on knowing someone "ONE" week........let's see......
1. I would not be discussing my finances PERIOD!
2. They would not fall under "boyfriend" status.
3. Hell No! To being asked or me doing the asking! WTF?
Count yourself lucky you found out now, instead of later...and move along.
MS_belle_01
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Some people aren't meant to be married.
Posted:
10/22/2009 10:00:37 AM
To some women, you might present a "challenge".....those women might think....they could be the one to settle you right on down there, big boy, but hell, what do I don't know?
Me, personally.....you're prettier than I am....so I wouldn't want the extra competition.
MS_belle_01
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And what was your part in it?
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10/21/2009 1:50:24 PM
I have been following this thread last couple of days....WOW! Some of the responses have hit close to home. Actually, made me a little uncomfortable when I took a moment to self reflect on my "part.”
My part? Marrying too young and having unrealistic expectations of what "marriage" is/was suppose to be. I expected him to be my "knight in shining armor,” to be everything I had dreamed of as a little girl. That is a lot of pressure for anyone to live up too now that I reflect back. At times I also didn’t know when to shut up, and leave or let things alone. I liked having the last word. Drove him nuts.
Easy to place blame anywhere, but yourself, I am guilty of that. I have in the past justified my "part" by his actions, but that is another thread. Bottom line, it is true, no one is without blame.
Awesome thread, Rock!
MS_belle_01
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Is there such a thing as innocent flirting?
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10/21/2009 7:53:49 AM
I'm a natural born "flirt”.....With that said I have learned as I've gotten older and (hopefully a little wiser) to recognize there is a line between innocent and not so innocent. I have been guilty of (unbeknownst to me at the time) sending mix signals with my flirting, so now I try to be more aware of how my "flirting" might be perceived by others.
I must say you rather obvious reference to who he is kinda telling of the relentless nature of your personality. What are you seeking to gain by 'outing' him in the way that you have?
^^^I agree!
I also did not believe I outed anyone. That was surely not the intent
Sorry, OP....but yes, you did....I'm not bashing you ....honest.....but was this REALLY….
Was recently dating someone who gives advice on profiles. In a post recently, he bemoaned the fact that someone was on the other side of the country, followed by an offer to contact for pics.
necessary?
You have now pointed out he is a forum regular AND made direct reference to something he posted.
Do I think you should have questioned him on it? Absolutely!
Do I think you should have put his personal (past) business on the forum? Not just NO, but hell NO!
I think if you were “truly” looking for another perspective, you would have talked to your close girlfriends or ask a guy friend instead of posting to the “same” forums HE posts on.
I think whether you will be honest with yourself or not.....YOU ARE looking for some type of vindication against this man.
belle_01
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Another kissing question...
Posted:
10/2/2009 11:48:23 AM
Yeah, you hold out for those virgin lips
Classic!
Guys for the umpteenth time.. kiss the girls.
Yes, please do!
Stop over analyzing....and kiss the girl already.
belle_01
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Beware...kissing can make you fall.
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9/30/2009 9:04:18 AM
Awww Kissing! :Sigh:
At my ripe old age....I'm still a sucker for a "good" kisser. Although, I have never fallen into feelings of "Love"...I have certainly fallen into "Lust” few times.
Even to this day....after a first date...the first thing my forty something girlfriends and I will ask each other "Well, can he kiss?"
OP, I don't always agree with "Landra” or her delivery either.... but I think she nailed it with this.
You see it as romantic, he sees it as a way to potentially get sex.
Sweetie, you will kiss a lot of frogs before you find the "Prince"....and as gorgeous as you are.....there will be lots of frogs!
belle_01
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The selling of one's self
Posted:
9/29/2009 11:07:59 AM
TY, OP! You helped me finally figure out my problem....my sales pitch sucks!
You sent a resume? That is some funny shyt right there! Did you include personal references as well?
IMO: I think your rant might be because... your "sales pitch" ISN’T working for you!
Oh puhlease OP, take a look at your picture. What is that all about?
Yeah! ^^^^ what she said!
belle_01
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Am I a cougar?
Posted:
9/29/2009 8:08:42 AM
OP: Some will say you are, some will say not....what matters is the (age difference) ….. or will it be.... a problem for YOU?
Not going to join the pissing contest on whether you look 48 or not....at least you do have pics posted,
and he has seen you in person.
Btw: I think you are quite attractive and obviously he does too. I say to hell what anyone thinks........life is short, do what makes you happy! 10 years older ain't shyt!
Good Luck!
belle_01
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Daddy Issues!
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9/25/2009 8:34:47 AM
Your thread is confusing, even my WTF to english translator threaten to toss me a beating for asking her to translate.
Mahogany, you crack me up!
OP: Where very young children are concerned and only under circumstances where the biological father is NOT in the picture, nor involved in said child's life should this even be an issue.
As much as my ex gets on my last nerve, never would I have encouraged my children to call a 3rd party Dad, Daddy etc. My ex is THEIR father, and should be respected as such.
Might I offer a suggestion, why not, if there is going to be a significant other you are going to expose your child too.....try a alternative like "Pop", or Daddy (insert s/o first name) as in "Daddy Ray". Reserve Dad, Daddy for the child’s biological father, be as respectful as you would like to be treated. Don’t let your own personal feelings override what is best for your child.
belle_01
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What You've given up for a good F*CK.......
Posted:
9/24/2009 7:53:38 AM
AFL? Girl! You crack me up!
What You've given up for a good F*CK.......
A girls night out......AND it turned out to be a NOT SO GOOD F*CK!
Damn!
Could've shot tequila!
belle_01
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is it wrong to have sex on the first date
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9/24/2009 7:16:12 AM
I don’t base that decision on what “others” think….EACH THEIR OWN! Everyone is going to have a different opinion.
The awesome thing about reaching my grand old age is......I don't HAVE to rely on anyone else.....I leave that decision entirely to me, myself, and I, thus far…has worked out well.
Best advice I can offer…. Use good sense, do what YOU think YOU can handle (emotionally and physically), and for gawds sake.....practice safe sex.
I think the mature and secure guys think ...she is not a slut ... I dont believe in labels ... we had sex maybe a little sooner than normal because she was into me and I was into her ...and we are both mature and secure people who made the choice to follow our feelings ...even with the knowledge that the other could interpret it wrong and label us ... wait thats exactly the kind of girl I want a relationship with ..someone who is into me and non-judgmental and is comphy with her sexuality ... how soon can I make a second date with her ???.. would it be wrong to propose on the second date ??? or maybe after the great sex on the first date ???Or maybe she wont mind if I just dont ever leave ... this is what happened with my wife we had sex on the first date .. I took her home about a week later to get her belongings ...our first date lasted about 24 years ...we are on our second date now for the last 5 years
Deerdog1? I agree with "Closer2U"....I'm glad men like you exist in the world as well!
belle_01
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Do women really prefer rough sex?
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9/24/2009 6:49:34 AM
Start slow and easy, finish hard and fast..... oh wait.... no....
Hard and fast, finish slow and easy.........wait....I dunno........crap!
What was the question again?
IMO: Both! Why? Because, I can and do! All about the mood.......
belle_01
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Patrick Swayze's view of relationship/love
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9/23/2009 7:31:12 AM
WOW! Amazing how a few people can take a nice "refreshing" thread (from the usual redundant crap) that is usually posted on here....and turn it into bashing, cynical drivel.
Thank you, OP for posting.
I, for one....liked Mr. Swayze....
I loved many of his movies...."Road House,” "Ghost"....favorite being "Dirty Dancing.”
That particular movie came out before my two daughters were even born, but yet they love it just as much as I do.
I don't care whether he was/is famous or not....I still admire the fact they had a marriage that survived a "Hollywood" career let alone the everyday trails that even "us" normal people face in any marriage. 34 years is impressive as hell to me.....no matter your status in life.
I am also impressed; he didn't have the crap associated with him that seems the norm in "Hollywood" these days.
I believe, he and Lisa had a wonderful relationship.....this statement should and does speak for that. IMO!
PATRICK: “A relationship survives because of keeping the friendship alive and learning how to fall in love over and over again; never taking the other person for granted and seeing things in new light with new eyes. We are big believers in, arguments are okay as long as its not about your ego, but its about a mutual goal- trying to create something special”
R.I.P Mr. Swayze
belle_01
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Dancers Make Better Lovers
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9/23/2009 7:00:07 AM
I think semi-drunk chicks who've been dancing all night are better in bed----it ain't the dancing it's the lowered inhibitions! Booze---helping nerds and fools get laid for ages!!!
I agree! I am guilty of being one of those semi-drunk chicks on a few occasions. And, yes, definitely lowers my inhibitions.....so says the boyfriend.
On the opposite end:
Personal experience tells me this is not necessarily true!!
Definitely!!!! Not true!
Boyfriend (in his own opinion) has two left feet on the dance floor.....but in the bedroom.....he can "dance" the socks off me....plus a few other items of clothing.
belle_01
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why woman get mad!!!!!!!!!!
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9/22/2009 8:51:14 AM
^^^^^ And, now I know!.....WHEW! Mystery solved!
All this time...I have misjudged these poor men.....I feel just horrible!
belle_01
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why woman get mad!!!!!!!!!!
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9/22/2009 8:32:17 AM
I am not intentionally trying to dress in a sexual way, some clothes are just more revealing than others. I know it is human nature for men to look, I would not be offended by that, I have even had women look, its natural, no problem, the problem with me is when I first meet someone, and they just keep staring...HELLO, that is just rude, I am sure if you ask any large chested women, we only get upset, when they lose focus on us all together.
Being a large breasted woman as well, I agree with the above. I don't deliberate dress with the intent of them hanging out to draw attention (yes, I know some do).....but nor should I have to wear a dang turtle neck to hide em because a few men can not exercise control.
Hell, by all means look.....It is human nature…. But DO try to focus on my face when we are having a conversation...and not direct your speech to my chest.
But, in all sincerity I have found the majority of real "men" know how to be discreet.
Mmmmm but some could also argue men (exception being athletes) who wear "Speedos’" to the beach to be attention seekers.....too! Just sayin'
I have found most of the responses posted (from the gentlemen) to be quite humorous....and was expected. I know we women can send mixed signals..... BUT... IMO the following was just flat out nasty and tacky as hell.
Oh yeah....I can already smell the bloodsoaked tampons coming in..
belle_01
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A (different) woman's views on sex/Sorry it's so long, but worth it, sooo worth it!
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9/18/2009 9:30:59 AM
OP, I read your post once....and like the masses I was "like" HUH?!? Then, I read it again.... this time with my head tilting back and forth sideways like a dog does when it is trying to figure out something...and nope, I was still left confused.
I was able to decipher a bit more after reading the sub sequential posts by my fellow forum POF'ers....so, for sh*ts and giggles...I will play!
Yes, I am curious what an orgasm feels for a man and how it differs from mine. But, if it's any better than what "I" experience.....then OMG!
Yes, I would like to see what it is like to urinate standing up, and make patterns in the snow..... Knowing it will not RUN down the side of my leg. LOL.
No, can't say I'm all that enthused about having a man's d*ck forcible shoved down my throat. Don't mind the hands in the hair, no problem him using those hands to guide me, no problem with him telling me what he likes....but forcing it...could possibly FORCE me to BITE and hard!
Sooooo NO, I will not remove my teeth to make “deep throating” easier!
Yes, we all (both genders) have sexual urges, but I think after most reach an age of maturity....we ALL for the most part can control those urges without humping anything that twitches.
Yes, I think you might be watching a tad too much porn, not advising you NOT to watch....but you seem to be basing from what I can understand, your "epiphany" on what paid actors/actresses are doing on a screen. Hun, get OUT there in the real world, educate your self on birth control/safe sex, and explore for yourself.
Happy
belle_01
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Electro Stim?
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9/17/2009 11:07:37 AM
This thing will never come close to my body, since it will not be coming in my front door.
I must have an over active imagination....after reading this....I had a visual of the "thing" with legs attached....knocking on my door...me answering....the other visual was of me running down the street with the "thing" chasing me.
But the Samurai is just over the top for me
I agree with you , OP!
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