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 Author Thread: WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY????????
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 155 (view)
 
WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY????????
Posted: 3/23/2007 3:31:24 AM
Older guys are sexy the way I found older women sexy. I had a crush on my music teacher while I was in high school and I have always loved the maturity of an older woman, especially the sexual experience in bed. So, turn that around and women can love older men. I have a hard time considering myself an older man, after all, we are all still kids in heart. My age range for hanging out is 26 to 55 so a variety of women young and old enjoy hanging out with me.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Emoticons.
Posted: 1/11/2007 4:18:07 PM
Here's a good one:

(__! half assed.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Emoticons.
Posted: 1/11/2007 2:52:28 AM
How about this one:

() a skinny ass.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Emoticons.
Posted: 1/10/2007 8:22:25 PM
(__ _) a drunk ass.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Emoticons.
Posted: 1/10/2007 2:35:59 PM
(__ __) a nice ass.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 123 (view)
 
Favorite Shirts with Words
Posted: 1/9/2007 2:27:28 AM
FCK the only thing missing is U!
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Emoticons.
Posted: 1/9/2007 2:14:09 AM
I just saw this posted on another website and thought it was hilarious. At the risk of being accused of plagiarism, I will post this for your enjoyment. Sue me if you want to.

We all are familiar with the computer symbols called emoticons where
:) means a smile

:( means a frown

and sometimes they are represented by

:-) or

:-(

How about some "ASSICONS?"

(_!_) a regular ass

(__!__) a fat ass

(!) a tight ass

(_*_) a sore ass

{_!_} a swishy ass

(_o_) an ass that's been around

(_x_) kiss my ass

(_X_) leave my ass alone

(_zzz_) a tired ass

(_E=mc2_) a smart ass

(_$_) money coming out the ass

(_?_) a dumb ass




(__) a bad ass

(__) a hot ass
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 120 (view)
 
pocket pussies and dildoes
Posted: 11/24/2006 8:10:43 PM
I've heard everything now. I was thinking of inventing poosy on a stick, but how do I market the damn thing? I have found that being in a relationship with lots of sex kills the thrill of porn and gadgets. I just can't get into it when I know all I have to do is tell my woman I'll be right over. Hell, I can't even flirt unless I'm horny which I'm not at the moment. I say knock yourself out, but there ain't nothin' like the real thing baby.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 183 (view)
 
song
Posted: 10/22/2006 4:45:58 AM
Without a doubt my favorite song that I love when I'm down is "That's the Way It Is" by Celine Dion. Inspires me every time....
...when you want it the most there's no easy way out.
...when you're ready to go and your heart's left in doubt.
...don't give up on your faith love comes to those who believe it,
...that's the way it is.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 322 (view)
 
Jokes, Jokes, Jokes!!!!!!
Posted: 8/16/2006 7:55:56 PM
If women with big breasts work at Hooters, where do women with one leg work? IHOP!
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 321 (view)
 
Jokes, Jokes, Jokes!!!!!!
Posted: 8/16/2006 7:54:23 PM
Did you hear about the two antennas that got married? the wedding was terrible, but the reception was great!
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 147 (view)
 
Best bumper sticker
Posted: 8/16/2006 2:54:04 AM
Or how about this one:
Kids in the front seat cause accidents.
Accidents in the back seat cause kids.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 146 (view)
 
Best bumper sticker
Posted: 8/16/2006 2:51:40 AM
I've got one that tops all of you.
"I'd rather be shot by Vice President Cheney
than accept a ride home from Ted Kennedy."
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Why do Men get to choose?
Posted: 8/14/2006 2:00:24 AM
Op, after looking at your profile I would say that I wouldn't even give you a chance and not because of your looks either. The pictures of you giving the bird are an immediate turn off whether you're a BBW or supermodel thin. I get e-mails all the time from women with screen names such as "witchywitch", "grumpy 101", "megawitch","dethmode", and so on. All of these profiles were filled with negativity and some of the women were even pretty. But, it is all about the attitude and any negativity turns me off. I dated a girl who was definitely a BBW, had the best sex I ever had and a healthy relationship. Unfortunately, she moved to another part of the country, but I still miss her. OP, lose the attitude, take the time to post pictures that flatter you (go to a professional photographer if you have to), be positive and upbeat in your profile. Your screen name is definitely a turn off too, misplacedmysery? I mean, come on. Ask a friend who is successful having men choose them and ask her or him to critique your profile, and you may find that more men are choosing you. Good luck to you and everyone in this thread.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Would you 'sell' yourself?...
Posted: 8/8/2006 2:49:47 AM
I have learned to 'sell' myself in a different way. We basically present ourselves to the opposite sex because we are looking for something. Whether it be sex or marriage or a committed relationship. So if you look at it that way, we are a product that we are trying to get the woman (or man) to choose. I "sell" myself through my personality, body language, tone of voice, confidence, touch and so forth. Not by buying things to try and buy a woman's affection, which never works.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Would you 'sell' yourself?...
Posted: 8/8/2006 2:39:45 AM
I know of guys who try and buy a woman's affection. They think that by taking them to fancy restaurants or buying them expensive gifts or by showering them with attention, that the woman will be attracted to them. They are basically trying to create attraction, but actually do the opposite and kill attraction. But, there are women who use men for these purposes and the vast majority of the time she actually has no feelings for the guy, but allows him to sell himself because, hey, shes getting alot of free stuff and usually he doesn't get anything, not even getting laid. I'm not even sure if I understand this thread, but that's my story and I'm sticking to it.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 232 (view)
 
Does having sex when you meet for the first time ruin a chance for a real relationship?
Posted: 8/2/2006 3:26:31 AM
OP, personally I think it depends if the relationship started online or not. Others have brought up this point and I agree with it. I met a woman online who lived in Las Vegas. We e-mailed each other and started chatting for a week and then started talking over the phone. We would spend two hours everynight talking to each other. After a month, I flew to Vegas to meet her for the weekend and we never left the hotel room. So, technically it was a first "date", but we had spent considerable time getting to know each other and the spark was there in person as well as online. On Saturday I met a woman after 2 weeks of contact for the first time in person and she invited me into her home afterwards. We both knew what was going to happen except her son had two other friends over (I posted this experience recently in this same forum) and the experience was really weird so I wound up going home. But if a woman had sex with me on a first date I wouldn't say no. I've had this experience where originally I thought less of a woman, but changed my mind as I got to know her. Sometimes passion takes over in the moment, but keep an open mind.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Dating a woman who lets her son smoke pot with friends at home.
Posted: 7/30/2006 9:24:50 PM
Thanks for the generous advice on this topic. The horny guy side of me knows this woman is a freak sexually, the kind of girl we guys dream about. She is a gorgeous woman.The other more sober, realistic side knows this is all wrong and only heartache and misery will result if I carry this out to the only logical conclusion. I used to be able to hit it and quit it, but now I have a conscience. If I sleep with her, she will definitely get more attached to me. Have to use the right "head."
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Dating a woman who lets her son smoke pot with friends at home.
Posted: 7/30/2006 5:59:38 AM
I had an interesting experience that I'm not sure how to handle. I went out with a woman last night that I met on another site. She has a 15 year old teenage son who has been giving me the run around ever since I've been chatting online with her. I have the sneaking suspicion that she let him watch while we were chatting. I met her in person last night and we went out to dinner, basically hit it off, chemistry was great and after I drove her home she suggests that I come in and look at her son's new tattoo. I'm thinking like, dude!, she really likes me. Her son had two other friends there as well and these boys were wild. Showing me their bongs, sex toys and XXX videos of their 16 year old girlfriends. And I'm thinking like what kind of woman would let her son do these kinds of things. And all of these guys were flirtacious as hell with a 46 year old woman as well. I like this woman alot, but this issue bothers me. I would never let my children use any kind of drugs. She told me that it lets her know where he is and she can keep an eye on him. Anybody have a similar experience and how did you handle it? Or does anyone agree with what she is doing and agrees with it? As to whether or not to continue seeing her, I'm not sure. Thanks for the feed back.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 143 (view)
 
The Stupidity of the Coffee Date.R/O
Posted: 7/29/2006 2:48:28 PM
I agree with others on this thread that the coffee date is a safe place for a first meeting. And because of the vagaries of online dating, unfortunately, we have to make a decision as to whether or not to seek another meeting. I have found that if the coffee date goes well (she isn't missing an arm and a leg, and she resembles the person from the profile), that if I suggest we go to a comedy club or maybe dinner she will agree to continue the date. Each person is different and remember, most women are nervous meeting a complete stranger for the first time no matter how well you hit it off online. If the woman is the same in person as she was online, I almost always agree to a second date. I take into account nervousness or just the feeling out process of each other. I have read and re-read her profile, IMed her a few times and called her several times before actually meeting her face to face. I already have a feel for who she is or I wouldn't be wasting my time with her. Hooray for coffee dates and may each one of us find our life's partner.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Signs to look for ( Being kinky in bed )
Posted: 7/26/2006 4:27:04 PM
^^Me thinks I was speaking tongue in cheek alis kat. I don't mean to generalize, I'm just having fun with this topic. What I have found is that the more confident and funny I am, I attract the kind of woman I am looking for and the sex can be great. I never realized until very recently how much women love sex. And I do believe in a committed relationship. Sex without emotion is meaningless. Only fulfilling a biological urge. Thanks for the great posts on this thread.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Signs to look for ( Being kinky in bed )
Posted: 7/26/2006 3:39:44 PM
Someone who posts on their profile "nice christian woman looking for man who loves Jesus to settle down and marry" obviously isn't into kinky sex. I would say that is a clear sign. Or someone who posts "dominant woman seeking submissive male for bondage and discipline" would probably qualify as kinky. Or "male seeking sex partner with his rubber ducky, do you float?" Read the profiles carefully and be clear what you are looking for.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
whats manly to u?
Posted: 7/25/2006 8:29:02 PM
Being manly means:
Being the man your parents never knew existed much less warned you about.
Being both naughty and nice, someone you can go to church with and go wild in the bedroom with.
Being manly means appealing to the things all your friends look for in a man, but am also unpredictable and I keep you on your toes.
Being manly means being masculine, strong, assertive where necessary, leadership ability. Lead by example.
Being manly means teasing you like my kid sister and not being a teddy bear for you to cry on every time you get hurt.
Being manly means surprising you by treating you like a princess when you don't expect it.
You brag to all your friends what a great lover I am and how I know how to touch you in all the right places.
Being manly means dressing up to go to the theatre with you or taking you to the rowdiest biker bar.
Being manly means loving the softer things in life, but I won't go to Bed, Bath and Beyond or Victoria's Secret to go shopping with you.
Being manly is surprising you with cooking elaborate meals and having you for dessert.
I will keep you on your toes, but deep down you feel secure and comfortable with me. i will never deny you adventure or romance or passion, but I will give you a good smack on the ass once in awhile.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Is oral sex on the first date a killer?
Posted: 7/18/2006 6:31:05 PM
Hi singleinflorida, the horny guy in me says come on over to my place. The concerned caring guy says, girl, go some place like a coffee shop for one hour and then decide whether or not to give a guy a second date. Make it clear that is all that is going to happen. A concert, a walk in the park or visiting a museum or my personal favorite, comedy clubs are all fun places to go on a date. Drive yourself and meet the guy there or take public transportation. And always use protection girl. Don't be ashamed and learn from every experience.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Returning gifts when the relationship ends
Posted: 7/18/2006 4:23:33 PM
There is so much love in this post, I can definitely feel it. I feel for you girl, I don't think that you deserve this level of nastiness. Never judge someone unless you've walked a mile in their shoes. Having said that, return the tickets. You'll probably feel better when you do it and you'll be ending the relationship on a positive note. Always a good thing.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Guys, are you a wuss..and ladies is your guy a wuss?
Posted: 7/18/2006 4:55:37 AM
I see alot of men in these forums who complain about not being able to get a date, or criticizing women when they don't want a sensitive and caring man. I think the problem stems from a misunderstanding of how attraction works between the sexes. I am not a dating guru, all of my information was gleaned from other sources and I might say that it was happily put to good use. My outlook has dramatically changed as has my love life. So in the interest of promoting the happiness and well being of the male and female species, let's find out who is a wuss and who isn't.
1.) Guys, do you constantly call a woman or send text messages all through the day?
2.)Do you call to tell a woman how you feel about her especially early in the relationship?
3.)Do you tell her how beautiful she is and how lucky you are to have met her?
4.)Do you drop everything you are doing and run to her whenever she asks you to?
5.)Does your whole life revolve around this one special girl and she consumes your thoughts the entire day?
6.)Are you surprised when the woman loses interest in you and doesn't return your calls anymore especially after you bared your soul to her to tell her how you feel?
7.)Are you hurt when guys who are obviously bad for a woman wind up going out with the girl of your dreams and even have sex with them when all you got was a peck on the cheek?
8.)Do you find that women always tell you what a great guy you are and they always want to be friends?
9.)Do you think that if only she could see how you feel about her that she would love you for who you are?
10.)Do you try harder to make her understand how you feel even though she no longer returns your phone calls or instant messages?
11.)Do you masturbate frequently because you cannot meet a woman who will have sex with you or if you do get lucky, she just lies there like a piece of lumber?
12.)Do you buy her flowers and shower her with gifts, expensive restaurants thinking she will like you?
13.)Do you think that if only you were more fit, had a different hair style that she would be more attracted to you?
14.)Do you find that if you do get a date with a woman, you rarely get a second date?
I could go on and on, but unfortunately I have to go to work. Let's see what kind of responses we get and feel free to add your own question to the above list. Ladies, please add your input on how your man is a wuss too. Good luck to everyone on POF, may you find the happiness you deserve.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Have you experienced making love to your first love?
Posted: 7/15/2006 9:14:12 PM
I can't help it, this thought just popped into my head. I made love to my first love all the time when I was a teenager and when I got divorced. My first love was Frieda Thumb and her four sisters.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Is it still expected that men pay for everything
Posted: 7/15/2006 8:58:34 PM
Thanks for posting this thread. I basically keep an open mind about whether to pay or not. I have found that when a woman has a great experience with me on a date she will often ask me out to something that she likes to do and will pay for it. I took a fantastic girl out to the New York Comedy Club here in the city, we laughed our asses off, basically had a great time. She called me the next day to tell me she had bought tickets to a Cold Play concert and invited me to go. Or we will be at a restaurant and I may suggest we split the bill and I will pay for the movie and popcorn. It depends on the chemistry and the girl.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Everything I learnt about women, I learnt by screwing up..
Posted: 7/15/2006 8:34:43 PM
-p-, even if you are in a committed relationship, but revert to your previous wussiness a woman will eventually lose interest in you and may even resent you for not being the man she was originally attracted to. The key is to remember why she became attracted to you in the first place and to amplify those qualities and then a long term relationship will ensue. There are so many wusses out there why would she leave you? Players understand this point very well, about creating initial attraction. We can understand it too, but use the information to create a lasting and loving relationship. Or use it to just have fun and enjoy the dating process. Or we can go over to the dark side and go from woman to woman never finding happiness. I choose the former, and that is why I am here at POF.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Everything I learnt about women, I learnt by screwing up..
Posted: 7/15/2006 7:56:41 PM
Thoughtful insight there SimmahDahnNah, I have never been a jerk to get a woman to be attracted to me. Granted, there are alot of jerks who create attraction at the onset, but lose a woman's interest very quickly. Or there are women who continually get into relationships with these kind of guys over and over because they're addicted to the emotions. The amazing thing is, I am the nicest guy you will ever meet, but unless there is attraction, nice guys have no chance especially with an attractive woman. I learned how attraction works, learned how to build on it, then I can be a nice guy but always am the man.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Everything I learnt about women, I learnt by screwing up..
Posted: 7/15/2006 6:40:08 PM
Good thread -p-, but everything I learned about women I learned when I stopped being a wuss. Everything I thought about attraction or what created it was completely wrong and I see alot of the same mistakes I was making in your list. It took me alot of heart ache and lonely nights before I made a decision to find out why I wasn't being successful in relationships. The most painful self realization was that I was doing alot of the things that kills attraction between a man and a woman. And alot of those things are on your list unfortunately. So you may be giving bad advice to fellow male travellers on this dating journey. The key is to create attraction so the woman has feelings for you. She DOES NOT have feelings for you based on what you do for her. In many instances women themselves have no idea why they are attracted to someone. In those cases you see women who go out with someone who obviously is bad for them, the man who is the nice guy always loses out. All of the things you listed are what nice guys do and it KILLS attraction. Create attraction first and stoke it, building a fire and then you have a woman who will leave another man for you, who will chase you. Believe me, it's more fun being chased than trying to figure out that no matter how much I do for a woman she never seems to have interest in me.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
pity sex?
Posted: 6/22/2006 8:38:05 PM
I think the more appropriate term is "mercy fuc". I had a date once with a girl on another site, but it wasn't doing it for me. I drove her home and she practically begged me to come upstairs to her apartment, but I begged off saying I had to get up early the next morning to work (I did). This was after a period of sustained abstinience and I remember thinking "man, you haven't gotten any for a few months and now you're turning it down." I knew if I went upstairs with her and made out, she would definitely get more attached to me. I almost did it anyway, I tried to justify it by telling myself I was helping her self esteem. In the end, I kissed her good night and never contacted her again. Everyday now I see she has been looking at my profile (a site that lets you know who has viewed you) and part of me feels sorry for her. I would say definitely not do a mercy fuc, move on and be happy. Best wishes to everyone in this thread.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 220 (view)
 
When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 6/18/2006 8:58:37 PM
The most important part of any relationship is whether there is attraction or not. If you know how to create attraction, you can have almost any woman you want. DO NOT ever ask a woman what she wants in a relationship, because they usually say one thing and yet respond to another. Don't do what a woman says, but watch what she does. Women are driven by feelings and if you know how to make a woman feel good, you can be very successful. I actually experienced a situation where a woman on another site left a doctor with a 6 figure income who offered to buy her a new house, to be with me. I had only a studio apartment and didn't even own a car. You caqn use this knowledge for good or bad. You can learn to be a player and continually break women's hearts (which some men do unfortunately) or you can use it to attract the one woman you really like and keep her for life if you want. Or you can just have fun enjoying the dating scene as long as you're clear about what you are looking for. I sometimes have the problem of not knowing how to turn off the attraction "mechanism". Women who I have no interest in keep coming on to me. It's a good problem to have considering all of the failures I used to have. Good luck to everyone in this thread.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Boogers and broccoli.
Posted: 5/23/2006 3:30:49 AM
Hell, I'll never be able to look at boogers the same way again.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 25 (view)
 
worst song
Posted: 5/23/2006 3:26:15 AM
"You're Beautiful" ranks right up there too. I saw the video too for the first time, leave your clothes on James. And if I sang that bad I'd jump off a bridge too. I wish I had his money though. Maybe I'll marry a rich woman instead.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 24 (view)
 
worst song
Posted: 5/23/2006 3:21:11 AM
I think the worst song ever written was "We Built This City" by Starship.....YUCK!!! Goes back to 1985 I think. I even think it was rated as the all time worst song by some trade publication or something.
"Say you don't know me or recognize my face
Say you don't care who goes to that kind of place.
Knee deep in the hoopla sinking in your fight
Too many runaways heating up the night.
While Tony plays the mamba listen to the radio, don't you remember
We built this city, we built this city on rock and roll....

If it's so bad, why do I know all of the words to the song? I don't know, so spank me.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
what am i doing wrong?
Posted: 5/22/2006 4:32:19 PM
Hi nazmar, I've found the secret to meeting women is through attraction and once I began to understand this, I changed my approach. My biggest problem was being too much of a wuss, it took alot of hard learned lessons to finally admit and realize that I was doing things to turn off the natural attraction process with women. While looks can be important, the main reason women are attracted to men is because of how they make them feel. Think about it, how many times have you seen a pretty average or even downright ugly guy being a hit with the women? It happens all the time. And why are women always attracted to the bad boys who even they know are no good for them? Women were sending Ted Bundy their panties and marriage proposals while he was on death row for serial killing. I'm no expert on this, but my dating life has changed dramatically once I understood the attraction process. It's NOT about looks, it's NOT about buying them things, it's NOT what you do for them, it's NOT about being sensitive and caring, it's NOT about telling women how you feel about them, it's not about being there for them emotionally, ( I could go on and on ) it's how you make them feel. Women are naturally attracted to masculine alpha type males. There are two sources that literally changed my life and showed me the error of my being a big time wuss. doubleyourdating.com by David DeAngelo and thedatingwizard.com by Michael W. are my two main sources and they both make the same basic point about the rules of attraction. Once you get it, you will find the women leaving the other guy to be with you. I knew this one woman on a dating site who left as doctor with a six figure income and who had offered to buy her a house. I was living in a studio apartment and didn't even own a car. The few times I was able to get lucky with women and have sex was totally boring and unsatisfying until I began to understand how attraction works. Now, I never knew women loved sex more than we men do. I'm doing things I used to watch in pornographic movies. Nazmar, get a hold of the info and put it to use, you'll be glad you did. I'm no model either by the way, but I am more "busy" than when I was skinny. Good luck to you and everyone in this forum.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 161 (view)
 
When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 5/12/2006 3:50:58 AM
Spidey, I agree 100% with you. I think you read the same resources I did about how to attract a woman. It's not about looks, it's not about what you buy her, it's not about what knid of car you drive, it's not about what you do for her, it's about whether or not she's attracted to you or not. And women feel attraction to a guy who is the "man", not a wuss. I had to learn the hard way and change my wussiness after my divorce, and now women chase me as much as I chase them. I am not a player, I'm just a normal guy having a good time. doubleyourdating.com by David DeAngelo and thedatingwizard.com by Michael W. literally changed my life, I recommend it to any of us love starved guys in this forum in similar circumstances. It can work for you too, you'll be satisfied.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 159 (view)
 
When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 5/11/2006 3:33:51 AM
I agree with earlier comments about being a wuss. Women, especially pretty ones, are used to men sucking up to them and doing and buying things for them. This kills attraction in the woman even though they may not realize it, and you get relegated to the "let's be friends" zone. The only way to change that is to change your wussiness and you may then find that woman is attracted to you and not the other guys. I found two excellent resources that have helped me tremendously. I used to be a big time wuss, because of 12 years of marriage and once I got divorced, I had to learn the hard way that maybe I was doing things that were turning off the natural attraction things in women. My two resources were (I think this is the web site, if not do a google search) doubleyourdating.com by David DeAngelo and the datingwizard.com by Michael W. Their basic point both of them make is that attraction is everything, not what you say or do for women, not what you buy them. It's whether they're attracted to you or not. They both make excellent points about how to attract women and how women have always been attracted to the bad boys. I'm not saying you have to be a player, you obviously have several very good traits that women would love if you just had the chance. But if they feel no attraction, you have no chance. I tell you from a reformed wuss point of view, it works. Now I have no problem finding and communicating with women and have even found that they call me as much as I call them. Good luck to everyone in this forum.
 agr8dude
Joined: 1/19/2006
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Boogers and broccoli.
Posted: 1/23/2006 6:31:16 PM
What's the difference between boogers and broccoli?
Kids don't eat broccoli.
 
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