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Msg: 27 (view)

Why are not more posts here on the Utah Forum? Posted: 6/22/2006 1:04:06 PM
Utah guys POST YOUR PICTURES on your profiles!!! just about every other profile has no picture !!!

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Msg: 26 (view)

Why are not more posts here on the Utah Forum? Posted: 6/22/2006 12:32:44 PM
I think the reason why there are not many post in Utah is because most the people here are married I mean there is not much singles shit going on it is either you are in some kind of realationship or you are doing drugs that is the stats. for utah god i hope not!! allthough i dont see alot of new profiles from utah for days and weeks at a time on here, espically from the cedar city area...eeeekkkkk...how hard will it be to find someone ....will my only source of fun be a 6 pack of beer and some cow tipping? not that ive ever done the cow tipping thing ..but a city friend of mine swears thats what ill be doing for laughs in utah...

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Tom Boy's, a Plus or a Minus in Men's Books? Posted: 6/22/2006 12:14:55 PM
I think there's nothing wrong with acting like a tomboy but dressing like one is not cool! Well until I started reading this forum I never really thought about how I dress. Or if im considered a tom BOY or tom GIRL . I can do minor repairs to my jeep, dirt is dirt and will wash off, I camp I fish, and I love watching football on Sundays, I drink beer out of a bottle, and I have team stickers on my jeep, and I collect any thing that has to do with my team. I wear football related clothing (during the season) I wear Jeans!! And t-shirts most of the time.some time ill wear a dress shirt. My shoes consist of different colored hiking boots, tennis shoes, and flat sandals. I do wear pink and baby blue and usually my boots match my shirt accompanied with jeans and a leather belt. I wear make up and use hair products, my nails and toes are painted and usually have art work on them, but I do them myself I don’t ever go to a beauty salon. I wear jewelry but not allot, the same 5 pieces every day. I work in a construction office but not on a construction sight, however am not afraid of a power tool.... so what’s the verdict>> tom BOY...or tom GIRL??....

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Msg: 228 (view)

Tom Boy's, a Plus or a Minus in Men's Books? Posted: 6/22/2006 11:41:31 AM
Acting like a tomboy= plus Dressing like one = minus so are you saying that pink collored hiking boots are ok..but not the traditional brown??lololo what about football fan wear? is it a turn off when a girl is wearing her favorite QB jersey what do you consider TOM BOY clothes?

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Msg: 28 (view)

5 1/2 years meant nothing to her Posted: 6/19/2006 11:28:23 AM
How can u just wake up one morning after 5 1/2 years and no longer love some1 like you did the night before well it happened to me after 20 yrs. we werent even fighting, and he kicked me and both our teenage kids to the curb. at first I was devistated but its been 2 yrs now, and i have learned it wasent ""ME"" shortly after he got caught, I found out this other woman was loaded!! lots of $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$... so in the long run he lost ,not me, as niether of my children even wish to talk to him..and im moving on too..id rather have love and happiness than money.

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can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers? Posted: 6/13/2006 7:54:37 AM
someone who currently smokes pot, its immature, and stupid, lowers sperm count, and leads to memory loss, and once again is just plain stupid. Well unfortunately you have less of a clue about pot smokers than actual pot smokers.. You say pot smokers are immature and stupid .Be realistic there are thousands and thousands of pot smokers in the world some of them which are business owners, doctors, dentists, mail men and believe it or not lawyers and even judges There are probably everyday people you deal with who smoke pot .You just don’t know it. People chose to smoke pot for many different reasons and the age of pot smokers range from a teenager to a grown adult in their 60's. I know someone who has his own Very successful construction company and in the process of opening 2 more in 2 different states and he has smoked pot since he was a teenager, and has two children!! hummmm I wouldn’t call him stupid! Very smart man actually! You probably should think next time you want to bash a pot smoker. He could be your doctor!! lolololo

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Msg: 243 (view)

can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers? Posted: 6/12/2006 4:09:00 PM
What bugs the heck out of me is when pot smokers don't have enough guts to at least post the fact well because if they say yes they do drugs then it leaves the imagination open and I personally could care less if someone smokes pot as long as they arent high 24/7 but I refuse to deal with someone who is a meth head, or a pill popper, so when these sights ask such a question, they should allow the person filling out the profile more choices for explanation..only having a yes or no option..of coures they will say no, hoping that they will get to explain later on...

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Msg: 94 (view)

Guy I met online keeps asking for money Posted: 6/12/2006 3:47:36 PM
Tell me Toni, is he cute? $500 may not be a lot if it helps you secure a real hottie! I'm sure he'd be happy to "work it off" if you know what I mean, wink wink.[/quote well of course hes cute his picture belongs in a ad for underware, lolololo just like the rest of them...and heck $500.00 isent alot until you collect it from 1,000 people..lololo yea im sure he would work it off if she could ever actually find him and choke him till she gets her 500.00 bucks out of him...hahahhaha

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Msg: 92 (view)

Guy I met online keeps asking for money Posted: 6/12/2006 3:33:27 PM
Seems at least Yahoo is full of this kind of stuff. this is very true, and usually they get your IM from the yahoo directory, they dont have a profile, and the picture is fake as 3 dollar bill..lololo they allways are in love with you on day one, when i was new to all this i was blown away by the flattery, now, i just laugh and basicly tell them up front there will be NO MONEY SENT EVER!! and i usually dont hear from them again..

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Msg: 90 (view)

Guy I met online keeps asking for money Posted: 6/12/2006 3:05:47 PM
Here's the thing. He supposily is a professor who just got his Ph.D. The school supposily sent him to Nigeria for a teaching position. He told me that he paid his own way to Africa and once he got there, decided that he didn't like being there anymore. He didn't like the conditions of the country or the poverty of the community he was in, therefore, he wanted to come home. he is a scammer..if you get Im,s from someone whos not on a dating sight just out of the blue, i have found that first off thier picture looks like something out of a magazine, secondly they all are either in nigeria, africa, or england..(so they say) they all have a story and about 5 days of conversation they start with the ""story"" AND USUALLY ITS ALLMOST THE SAME STORY EVERY TIME , last year i talked to someone for a long long time he gave me some song and dance about how his client in the states who worked at a university owed him money but couldent send it over seas what ever law,s of africia he spouted. asked me if his client could send me the check, and if i would cash it and send him a money wire..Well i told a friend about this he told me to go ahead and let him send me the check and have it checked out by my bank without depositing it..and sure enough the check was counterfit and i wrote and told him...he tried to act like (his client) scammed him, about 6 months has gone buy Never heard from him again ..TILL about 3 days ago..this moron pops up on my Im calling himself a different name, but with the same picture on his yahoo directory and he completly forgot who i was..well untill i let him know..then he blocked me hahahaha

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Msg: 48 (view)

~ Non smokers who are Fanatics ~ Posted: 6/8/2006 8:28:46 AM
well much eaiser said than done, there is alot of things going on at this moment, i have had a very stressfull year, moving out of vegas and to Utah will be the start of a whole new life for me. I will quit smoking thats not even a factor. i was just hoping to get some advice, i guess ill re word my profile and see what happens

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Msg: 29 (view)

Smoker - should I bother contacting non smokers? Posted: 6/7/2006 3:03:44 PM
so do you think its possible to find a non smoker if your a smoker...I smoke and would like to find a non smoker, Having a partner that dosent smoke will make quiting sooo much easier but getting a non smoker to even think twice about dating a smoker seems to be a problem. I can understand if a non smoker dosent want to date someone who has no intention of quiting, but what about thoes of us who are wanting to quit, I dont want to lie and say i dont smoke thats just wrong. But i want to date a non smoker..what should i do.

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Msg: 28 (view)

~ Non smokers who are Fanatics ~ Posted: 6/7/2006 2:44:24 PM
ok so what if your a smoker, and want to quit for your own health reasons, I my self smoke i am trying to quit i would like to date a non smoker because quiting would be that much easier. I would never smoke if i was on a date with a non smoker, and would be less likely to smoke knowing i was going to be around him . in my profile it states that i would love to quit smoking, so are there non smokers that will date a smoker if they are in the process of quiting, and wouldent smoke around them? I know that dating a non smoker would help me quit but it seems that if i contact somone whos a non smoker i get some rude replies about the smoking. I am in the process of moving and changing my life QUITING smoking is definatly on the (to do ) list how can i attract a non smoker,,i dont want to lie and say i dont smoke

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Msg: 41 (view)

women on this site are kidding themselves Posted: 4/26/2006 2:41:55 PM
everybody has a diferent idea as to what is perfect for them . Most of us know there is no such thing as the perfect man or woman as we all have faults,Im not ashamed to say im looking for the perfect man ((PERFECT for ME)) that is . I do not look for the worlds aproval on who im dating or who im looking for nor do i think the perfect guy is allways tall, dark ,hansome ,or rich. My perfect guy is the one to who im the perfect girl for . its all in friendship, trust, respect, personalties that click , and yes physical attraction too, but that does NOT mean you have to be a perfect 10 ..to be perfect for someone.

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Msg: 53 (view)

Question for the ladies Posted: 4/26/2006 1:53:21 PM
well i guess that would depend on the reasons for not having them. If the car and license had been taken away by the courts because of excessive DUI's ect..then yes i would think twice about it..not because he (dosent) have them but because that would show me the type of guy he was. If the reasons were financial and couldent afford these things, then i would be ok with that, but if the reason behind not being able to afford a car was because he dident handle his money wisely, and or blew it all on drugs, and gambeling ect...then agian the reasons would be the factor here.Sometimes its not what someone does or dosent have that should be important, but the reasons they have or dont have that give you a bit of insite on what kind of person they are

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Msg: 62 (view)

over 30 and still living at home Posted: 4/26/2006 1:38:34 PM
LOLOLO this is funny, I dated a guy for a couple weeks and in the begining he gave me some story about his mom comming from out of state to live with him as she was getting old, and needed some help. At that time im thinking.(what a sweetheart he takes care of his mom) well then it came time for me to meet mom, as we began to talk it was told to me how she had come from out of state 4 yrs before and purchased the home. i was in shock..as i just descovered that not only was this guy 41 and living with mom, but a out right lier,and in debt to mom for a few thousand dollars for not paying his share of the rent!! Needless to say I dont see him anymore hahahahaha...did the dumb ass think i would never find out? Did he lie to impress me? Why take me to meet mom after telling such a lie? His answer to this ...I FORGOT I TOLD YOU THAT>>>ohhh brother!! lololololo

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Msg: 97 (view)

Not interested..would you like to be told?????? And if so, HOW? Posted: 4/18/2006 3:18:08 PM
hey jaglaw.. I totaly agree with you there. I always feel more confortable talking with someone for some time before i even think of exchanging #s or meeting them. Its crazy but it seems that if you tell a guy that you would like to chat a while first, i usually dont hear back from them i actually had a arguement with a guy who wanted me to meet him the very same afternoon we first chated..he totally creeped me out..and kept comming up with reasons like ((i could die tomorrow) and you only live once..ect...and the more i said no, the more he persisted finally i told him i wasent changing my mind, and he basicly called me a few choice names and i called im a freak and blocked him from writing me..I definatly like to chat and get to know someone for a few weeks or couple months first.

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Why are not more posts here on the Utah Forum? Posted: 4/18/2006 1:07:00 PM
Hi Utah, well im getting ready to relocate to Cedar City Utah in June. I have lived in Vegas for 25 yrs and allthough im sick of the city , Im wondering and woried if theres enough going on to keep me busy.

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Things that annoy you about dating/forum sites: Posted: 3/14/2006 1:52:51 PM
And come on girls, be realistic! if you are 38 over weight and have 6 kids, Bradd pitt isn't going to respond to your ad! well i guess the same go's for the guy's...if a profile says ""looking for slim to med build,"" and active, then why do 400 lb couch potatoe's allways ""THINK"" they are a good match. Thats what makes people think thier profile dosent get read.

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Things that annoy you about dating/forum sites: Posted: 3/13/2006 3:36:37 PM
yea no doubt...you mean the womans sights say age 18 to 99..god i would hope that they just forgot to actually put a age in there!!

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Things that annoy you about dating/forum sites: Posted: 3/13/2006 2:27:11 PM
hey Donster, since im female I dont read other Female profiles, however you definatly have a great point. Finding the (one) could be quite a big expectation for a dating sight,however I would never put a profile on here if i were allready in a relationship weather it be a good relationship or not, I have friends, so i wouldent need to find "friends" on the net. I also agree that most of the men are looking for **** as you put it...lol...you most definatly have to find your own happiness within yourself or youl never be able to find it on a dating sight!!

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Msg: 29 (view)

Things that annoy you about dating/forum sites: Posted: 3/13/2006 1:10:57 PM
DAISIE!! ...your 100% right..most men DONT read profiles, they simply go by the picture! It is quite anoying. My profile says quite a bit about me and what im looking for and yet i seem to always get some guy E-mailing me saying ""great pict..wana chat"" and if we start chating it becomes a question';s & answer session and all the answers were in my profile to begin with. or like you said they arent anything like who your looking for and if they would of read the profile before contacting you they would of known that. If im looking through Pictures and i see someone attractive that i might want to contact, i always read the profile and make sure that it has some sort of potential before i ever make contact..unfortunatly most the guys dont put enough information in thier profiles for you to know much about them most of the answers to thier profile questions are "dosent matter" or "any" or "perfer not to say"" and what really cracks me up is when a guy lists his age as 45, but is seeking a girl from 18 to 99 hahahahahahaha....so in otherwords...anything with a pulse will do huh???

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Blurry photographs in profiles...or NO photo at all Posted: 3/13/2006 11:32:01 AM
what i dont understand is why there are so many mens profiles have no picture. I get e-mails from men and there's no picture on thier profile. This is so frustrating, I will request a photo and i usually get the same story, either they dont have one , or say they cant figure out how to post one.So they start verbally describing themselves hoping that will be sufficent .Well,I actually chatted with(for a couple weeks) and agreed to meet someone that dident have a picture posted, and He looked absolutly nothing like he described to me..When i asked him about this, he said he never actually thought we would actually meet. I learned a lesson!! I do not waste my time with guys who dont have a photo posted and if you cant figure out how to post one get someone to help you. Also profiles that have no information about you and youve answered every question with it ""dosent matter"" or ""any"" and your age selection being from 18 to 100 ginda give's off the impression that any warm body will do and that you realy dont care what shes like . If your really serious about finding someone that you click with , you need to have a picture and actualy take the time to fill out the profile .

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Msg: 35 (view)

'GOLD DIGGER' women who check for income amount... Posted: 2/16/2006 2:52:27 PM
NO DOUBT, I WAS WITH MY EX FOR 20 YEARS, AND HE BAILED ON ME AND OUR 2 CHILDREN TO CHASE DOWN A WOMAN WITH MONEY, AFTER I LEFT, HE MARIED HER. SHE ALLREADY HAD 3 CHILDREN (OLDEST BEING 8YS OLD) AND 2 EX HUSBANDS, AND NOW SHES PREGNANT HES IN HIS EARLY 40'S, HIS DREAMS OF RELAXING AND FISHING JUST SAILED OFF TO SEA !! HAHAHA BUT ITS NOT JUST WOMEN WHO SEEM TO BE GOLD DIGGERS NOW DAYS,I HAVE BEEN SINGLE A COUPLE YEARS AND IT SEEMS THAT HAVE MET A FEW GUYS THAT ARE JUST WANTING A WOMAN TO TAKE CARE OF THEM, WHILE THEY SPEND ALL THIER MONEY ON OTHER THINGS. I MYSELF COULD CARE LESS ABOUT THE MONEY, AS I TAKE CARE OF MYSELF JUST FINE, A GOOD SOLID FRIENDSHIP, AND TRUST SHOULD BE THE BASE OF A RELATIONSHIP. AND I REALIZE THAT THAT ITS NOT THE 1800'S ANY MORE, BUT IN THE OLD DAYS MEN TOOK CARE OF THIER WOMEN AND THIER CHILDREN AND THATS WHAT BEING A MAN WAS,,AND ITS QUITE IRONIC THAT AS WOMEN HAVE EVOLVED AND BEGAN BECOMING STRONGER AND MORE INDEPENDANT AND ABLE TO CARE FOR THEMSELVES, THAT MEN (i dont mean all men just some ) HAVE ACTUALLY DONE THE OPPSITE AND HAVE BECOME NOT ONLY MORE DEPENDANT ON WOMEN, BUT ARE ALSO LESS OF THE PROTECTOR, THE PROVIDER, AND HAVE WAY LESS NEED FOR FAMILY LIFE AND VALUES. this is just an observation guys,AS I LOOK AT THE WORLD TODAY, AND THINK BACK ON HOW MY DAD AND MY GRANDPA WERE THEY WOULD BE APPAULED AT THE NEW AGE SO CALLED ((man))

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