Protecting the kids chat & forums.

It's all relative. I see a theme here. People 28-35 worried that they're getting too old and married life has passed them by and then the over 35's who have been married and now feel a real sense of freedom in being able to live life as they see fit. To the first group: committed or married relationships are not all they're cracked up to be

ye see brian its not all its cracked up to be for those folk whos relationships have failed, there are millions of happy commited people enjoying what some of us singles are hoping for, those people are not writing on these forums, they are too busy enjoying their fulfilling relationships.....

the older they get the more experienced and the more they realize what matteres most. We all have standards, beleive me I do, but I am talking about as ladies and guys get older, they are expected to mature more and that is the assumption

that is partly true, but it does not mean we are easily pleased which is what you implied initialy, we go out with a lot less men in our 30's than our 20's because we wont waste our time with unsuitable people, that to me means fussier and pickier about all aspects physical and personality. So you are still wrong about us being less fussy about physical defects. Its much harder to get into our pants no matter what age the guy is. I personally only date 5 years + or 5yrs -.

The older the lady is, the more chance she will be accepting and she will overlook any physical flaws you may have

so wrong, the older we get the fussier we get, we are happier, more confident more secure in ourselves and more independent and solvent, therefore will not settle for anything less than what makes us truely happy. You really dont get how womens minds work do yo? You are full of assumptions and untruths, and a lot of negativity, i sense real issues with women.

I don't beleive about that sexual peek for ladies at 40 propaganda.

And you dont believe this because? How would you know what a woman is feeling sexually internally, and how that feeling compares to how she felt when younger?. I'm mid 30's and it gets better and better, and because of all those quailities I listed above, confidence etc we are more open, more adventurous and less self concious. its no myth, its not propegannda. Again another untruth and ignorance from your part amillo-bello.

Alot of women on this site need a reality check and need to humble themselves more and realize that alot of them sure many guys would just have a one night stand with them, you know, to have find with them, and then when then the night is done, just dump them, because they are not long term material at all.

This coming from a man who looks at least 10 years older than his profile says, looks neantherthal (and you mentioned cave man as a negative in your profile, why do you model yourself on one? )

I wont bother to quote all the other small minded shallow ugly words because I dont think anyone here needs to read it twice. I can only guess you have such a deluded opinion of yourself you probably think you are atractive, aw thats sad. No woman with an ounce of sense young or old would want to date you. You are the one who needs a reality check.

And really you need to look up the word spiritual, becasue if you think knocking others and judging, making huge generalisations is the behaviour of a spiritual person you need an education.

personally i'd rate single mothers along the same lines as drug dealers scum of the earth

*troll* IGNORE.

As a metal fan it becomes extremely frustrating when reading the phrase "I am into all kinds of music...apart from heavy metal". It's crazy just how many people appear to share this sentiment.

Unfortunatly the negatives are what people see first.

how do you know that is what people see first? Maybe its insecurity that makes you think that, I am sure its your kindness and all those good qualities that peole notice first. Stop focusing on the negs, believe the positives I bet your weight falls off!!

I am happy with myself in fact I quite like me.
Ok I am 50, overweight, short, wear glasses AND I am single!

hmmm, you state you are happy then immediatly list your negatives, that is interesting and maybe telling. You know there is nothing wrong with disliking aspects of ourselves, it gives us something to work on to improve ourselves. I actually dont believe there is anyone in this world who is totally happy with themselves, i know i have plenty of room for improvement. But I dont believe its these qualities I dislike that are the reason for my singleness, imperfect people (ie the entire population of the world bar maybe the dali lama) meet others and have relationships all the time!!
Its EGO that says "there is nothing wrong with me, i dont need to change" humility is more attractive.