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Thread: Jacksonville Beach~~Walk on the Beach Night~Bukkets~May 30 at 7PM
freschfisch
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Jacksonville Beach~~Walk on the Beach Night~Bukkets~May 30 at 7PM
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5/28/2009 5:50:58 PM
the more the merrier Eleanor!
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Jacksonville Beach~~Walk on the Beach Night~Bukkets~May 30 at 7PM
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5/27/2009 7:05:35 PM
how much can fun can a party be that has rules?!
FreschFisch rules...
1. Mingle if you're single (no clickin)
2. Drink and be merry never married
3. If you digg em snagg em
Thats about it for my rules...
What are POF party rules? Can I see them? The link doesn't work...
freschfisch
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Why do some women only date military men?
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5/25/2009 12:59:23 PM
You are definitely out of line miss contemplative.. Can't figure you out. On one side you appear the "Bleeding Heart" liberal no less but on the other you appear to be the angry ex-miltary wife who has had a few too many trips to the commisary!
How about you justify your comments rather than insult the many military members who do frequent these boards...
Obviously nobody joins to die or fight for you but they are mostly perpared for that. Anybody at least who has joined since 2001 knows its an eventuality. They don't even transfer anymore unless they have done at least one deployed tour.
and what exactly is it they are doing over there? Bleeding Heart Liberals see it as smearing the good american name.. However the truth is they deploy in some places to defend the ability to conduct international commerce in a global economy and others to cut down the scourge of terrorism and take the battle to the enemy. YOU DON'T WANT THEM HERE...
That amounts to SECURING YOUR FREEDOM AND PROTECTING YOUR WAY OF LIFE AND ABILITY TO CONDUCT BUSINESS!
SO call it what you want... This country can't close its doors and survive on its own..
And in between those deployments those same service people train and support the logistics of the operations. The majority don't bag ass having been there and seen what you will never know.. They re-enlist honorably and do it again! You know nothing...
Im not military but I work with these kids now and was military once. My family has served honorably since this countries inception and my ex wife retired after 20 years. So I HAVE seen all sides of this situation. I know the deal.
SO the question... why does a person date a military person? Male and female alike.. Maybe it has something to do with....
HONOR, COURAGE, AND COMMITTMENT!
Army Strong / Aim High / Full Speed Ahead / A Few Good Men (and women)
SEMPRE FI do or die... Thanks guys/gals enjoy the day
freschfisch
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Exercise bikes, good for cardio?
Posted:
5/5/2009 6:04:51 PM
msg 18 is the one that gets the prize.!
Buy the bike and a trainer. It'll be great for the winter and get off it and out during the spring summer. You'll probably find your local bike shop will even hold classes on this setup and its free. Find a copy of spinnervals.. google it just like that. The workouts will give you the perfect balance of on and off fitness excercise in your own living room.
And for cripes sake when you are out n about and you are approaching an incline push back on the drops and BACK in your saddle! If you are forward you will crunch and restrict your breathing.... Stand up on occasion to release the lactic acid buildup and you wont cramp. If you are clipped you will pull as well as push and spin right up that hill. Its funny to watch the girl in the spin classes they will pedal 100+rpm in the seat and pretend to struggle standing up without ever touching the tension.! Totally Backward from reality. This is your workout and nobody cares what you look like...
YOUR OBJECTIVE IS to maintain a level of tension that slightly challenges you! unless you are on a real hill your tension is always the same. On a real hill you will adjust to keep the consistency of the stroke and ignore the speed of ascent.
On your off days.. Hike like msg 18 does. mix it up and skip the weights because too much upper body weight will slow you down. You'll find yourself lean and fit enough.
Do that for one year and you'll do that century in 5.5. Two years = 4.5 :)
The best part of it is you'll make a lot of good new friends in a local riding club. Male and female alike.
freschfisch
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Why do so few men take part in yoga.?
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5/2/2009 2:38:57 PM
STEREOTYPING!!!
Its gay, men are baboons and incapable, blah blah
You guys want a better total workout than days in a gym try a 90 minute power class... You won't even notice the girls in there butt....
You'll sweat 5 pounds and it will improve your lifting, running, riding, and sexual stamina. Proven facts...
My focus is on getting through the class... Now I can't do the gentle yoga.. It bores me beyond belief and why do I want to focus while Im mostly sitting or standing still?! I could do that without going to a class! Kum-bay-Yah... barf.. calm me a baboon or ADHD but if Im going to workout I want and expect results!
Guys if you like the challenge for yourself try a "Power" class. You'll learn focus on every muscle fiber in your body (almost) because you will be using them... You won't even notice all that sweet stuff around you until you make it through.. Then... go on a date :) It's kind of like Viagra (but what do I know). Reports say Yogis have the best sex... For most women I think its relaxation. For us men.. Blood flow is important. and most of the time... I can touch my elbows to my toes...
Brave new world guys. You'd be surprised the women that do yoga. All sizes and intelligences not just the earthy girls. Like a girl who knows herself? There you go
freschfisch
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Establishing interest & relationships - A mans job?
Posted:
4/16/2009 2:54:12 PM
OK now that its thoroughly discussed...
I knew this was the perfect person to ask because her profile was very specific about the basic type man that interested her, what her pros and cons were, what she hoped to gain about it all etc. I totally liked the profile except for the statements that I would typically think of as sounding like she was "entitled". So I just asked her the question straight up and used no better language than she did. I knew she would give me the correct answer or shall I say her correct answer.
I read posts like... is there too much competition, why this why that and sorry but it sounds whiny too me. We're males we're supposed to love that stuff! In reality with that defeatist attitude there just isn't much competition at all! I too was getting sick of the reactions and actions of the many females I contacted. I also notice the difference in content of the response based on the type of inquiry I send to them be they average or above as you may qualify them. So there must be some truth to it all.
What I mean by "guys we are still in control" is just that.. You're gonna get out of it what you put into. Nothing is gonna fall to you. Be the competition. I'm no Casanova by any means. Ive been single/alone for many years by choice mostly because Ive raised a child and lived around the world. Ive only dated one person since 2004. I'm alive. When I set myself to task I do alright. The right one will come.
I have no issues setting personal and professional experience aside. You're used to saying its all equal between us. It is on a professional level but in your personal.. YOU are in charge! Whether you are male or female. Whether you are liberal or traditional. Walk with the values you believe. I personally am a traditionalist. I prefer to treat my date. I am by no means wealthy but if I am not in a financial position to do so then maybe I shouldn't be dating. I'm equal to the spirit of the chase. It's part of my breeding. So is being a gentleman by habit/nature. It will be my sons as well!
Now thats not saying there aren't women out there that do this as a game. There are many. Can't you pick them out though? Approach each individually and trust your instinct and be honest in return. One thing I've learned to do in all of this is trust myself. If the conversation isn't reciprocated or one sided I'll tell the person "hey this is a two way street called getting to know one another" and "If you aren't going to reciprocate just close the match". (CUT AND PASTE) They'll either talk or hang up. Who is in charge? To each his own I guess.
Just quit blaming the women for your woes. Many in all honesty as proven here, will tell you the same thing. Must be true! If all of us guys were honest too maybe there wouldn't be so much bitterness. I say quit worrying about what your brother has going on and just be right by yourself.
freschfisch
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Establishing interest & relationships - A mans job?
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4/15/2009 9:22:38 PM
Nope you are wrong on all accounts of your description of what she would be like. I think I only go down to 38 in my search. She is looking for a different type than me.
Just arbitrary. I thought it interesting.
I think the society is so caught up in the gender wars and the workplace that the lines of distinction between traditional male and female roles in this love game are impacted.
Many men in this forum I have noted display a defeatist attitude that is belittling and disheartening. They don't seem to know whether to S*** or go blind when it comes to women. Yes that includes me sometimes...
WOmen still apparently do like the traditional but we have to be real men is what i take. I am asking is this true? at any age? Thats really all she is saying.
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Agree or Disagree: If a person has a good personality you can make yourself sexually attracted
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4/15/2009 8:35:03 PM
ABSOLUTELY NOT
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Establishing interest & relationships - A mans job?
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4/15/2009 8:34:20 PM
I just got a great email from somebody that is really enlightening.
It covers several topics discussed but Im going to put it on its own.
I've always been kind of offended with women who say "entertain me" or "make me laugh". I finally just straight up asked a girl who said this same thing in her profile. I asked nicely for the answer and told her it was a great profile (because it was honest) I thought because she was honest I would get the correct answer.
I cut out the end to protect the innocent. This is for those who wonder same and think there is too much competition or wonder just what they are thinking. Who Agrees? Would you date ethis woman? Me? IN A SECOND!
Here it is
"WHY DO BEARS sh*tIN THE WOOD? i have no idea why u have to entertain me... thats just the way it goes... maybe because thats the way its been done for centuries... its called courting...on a first date i want a man to be a MAN and take control of the evening... show me that he is interested and wants to make a good impression and wants to impress me ... trust me...i will do my part and look and smell amazing and wow u with my charm but i do not want to be asked a million questions and spend an hour thinking about what were going to do... its all very annoying
thats why the males in the animal kindom are always the pretty ones.. because they have to dance around, show off, or beat down the other males to ENTERAIN the women,...and the ones who win out, ie. ENTERTAINS gets the girl
somethings in life are just beyond our control... survival of the fittest...
Please be advised that these are my opinions and i dont speak for most women... then of course im not like most women... "
How did you read that?
YAHOOO! Thats a winner and thats very motivating honestly! Good News...We're still in control guys! hahahahaha
freschfisch
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Sex drive after hysterectomy or menopause
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4/14/2009 7:14:23 PM
What an educational post for me! Thanks girls :)
HRT is used for much more than sexual dysfunction as is mainly being discussed in this forum....
HRT benefits are realized and proven in many common male and female disorders. Its simply restoring your body to its optimal efficiency. With typically healthy side effects.
This stuff was not invented for sexual purposes. Its the only way that educated doctors, primarily endocrinologist, can perscribe it affordably! Your insurance will pay for it for "sexual dysfunction" because it is associated with a mental illness. For that its use is approved.
Its primary benefits are and can be used with medications to control BP, Cholesterol, and Bone Density, to name only a few.
The crazy thing about it all is that studies are inconclusive as to whether its the cart or the horse! Because its common knowledge amongst all health care professionals that Good Mental Health can assist in the treatment of most physical ailments and Mental Health is often enhanced by a great sex life...
Go talk to an endochrine doc. You girls more than anyone should know the importance of body chemicals. You are walking laboratories!
Gyno is in the realm of family physician and pediatrician. They have the least amount of training and are the lowest paid in the field. They also make their money cutting you open and taking your parts too...
I always thought you were a chick Corky... I was more interested in the timing of all of this and when I should run for the hills after what the other guy was saying!!
freschfisch
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Would you get into a LTR with someone just out of the gate?
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4/14/2009 5:52:31 PM
Thats an odd statement really.
It just is what it is until its been a long time. I mean Nobody is exactly pursuing a "short term" relationship! Most people block those people
freschfisch
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Is there too much competition on dating web sites
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4/14/2009 5:11:49 PM
What would be cool is if they'd reveal who a persons favorites were. So we could see the game being played and who was playing! I mean how many favorites can one have? I have one constant that is an old friend and thats it. I had one other once. Its kind of myspace like to see how many friends you can collect? Not that i have a myspace issue.. just not my thing.
There are plenty of indicators in ones profile that let you know what a girl is here for in my opinion. Substance is the primary indicator. If they only have a few sentences, say they like to travel and not much else, or say "Make me Laugh" then they are out! I don't care what they look like!
Apply that logic to the above average as you call them and you'll find the percentages are no higher than the average girls (again as you call them).
I guess what Im trying to point to is quit just visualizing! The characteristic that they hate the most about us! Look for the substance in every profile avg or otherwise of every girl you'd consider going out with. Send em a note. A few at a time because you are gonna get loaded with replies...
Filter them out when they say something stupid or you have to pry info out of em. Have conversation not questions.
There are plenty to go around!
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i need the guys' opinion on this ,please---
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4/13/2009 9:22:14 PM
I have this problem with somebody I have known for 20 years! and I speak to her like daily and it still drives me nuts.
A while back a friend of mine was having a charity dinner and wanted me to come. I chose the other old friend as a date. Knowing that she needs advance notice I asked her if she would like to go. SUddenly I was bombarded with persistent questions about what to wear, whats the this, whats the that, and come on John how do you expect me to answer if I don't know all the answers. OMG! RELAX! I just asked you if you'd be interested in going!
See the personality difference? I either want to go or not and then worry the details where she doesn't commit until everything is set.
Maybe you are her and he is me. Maybe just tell him "sure I'd love to"! and then "what do you have in mind" or "can I help plan". Others expectations however well intentioned can sometimes be overwhelming. Different personalities.. Did I mention my person has been my friend for 20 years? Its worth it..
freschfisch
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Men don't change, women do?
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4/13/2009 7:23:11 PM
Why the heck would anybody marry somebody they thought needed changing is what I want to know!
People don't change they mature and tend to seek different things. I would think if the relationship was healthy and they invested time theyd evolve and become even more compatible and similar. To try and change someone? good luck with that.
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Office friends...am I trippin or not?
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4/13/2009 6:57:40 PM
I don't know dude you violated the trust by checking the phone. I'd say you are out! or should be...
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Looks type
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4/13/2009 6:52:05 PM
Well she'd be my type :)
Yes... they have always been for the most part physically the same for me.
Almost as or taller than I, Auburn/Brunette, hippy, hourglass type. Hippy hourglass type being the predominate trait. I think there are many beautiful blonde haired ladies in the world but it always comes out the same for me. I've noticed it but it is subconcious choice. Weird..
If she is thinking he likes her because she reminds him of someone else I'd have to say forget about it. The guy just knows what he likes physically.
Is that what you're getting at?
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starting over
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4/12/2009 8:50:05 PM
Its a freakin process thats for sure...
Anyone who thinks they can just jump right back into the game is fooling themselves. Especially since it appears you were together a long time.
Dis-enroll yourself now before you subject yourself to harsh reality!
Or don't and read about it and participate in the discussions. Go take a cruise or set aside a period to be you and redefine you first.
What is "our age"? Get rid of that unless you have intentions of competing for the affections of 25 year olds. There is a whole generation of you out here! The 25 yo may look good but he isn't going to satisfy you!
Now that you have done that...
The table is even and set and you shouldn't be in any hurry.
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What is considered unfit?
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4/12/2009 8:29:02 PM
Thats pretty age specific too.
I see a lot of the younger girls these days with the "spare tire" and the boys are digging it. The "Muffin" as Ive heard it called is not so bad on some. There is more of an acceptance in the younger crowd. My guess it is about personal expression which is indicative of the times. NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT!
Throw that muffin on a chick my age? Try to disguise it.. forget about it.. She doesn't take care of herself!
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I'd love a guys opinion!
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4/12/2009 8:18:58 PM
Your profile is well intentioned and nice yes. I could be guilty of some of these things myself but.. Its good you ask. Thats doing it right :)
Spell check it.
Start thoughts and finish thoughts. Sentences don't start with "and".
Separate the thoughts in paragraphs ie. this is me / this is what I am doing (school or work) / This is what I do in spare time etc. / what I want
Good luck and nice eyes :)
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Is he interested?
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4/12/2009 7:40:28 PM
Don't sit on your hands waiting for him to call of course.. No way to tell at this point.
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What do I say now?
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4/12/2009 7:28:18 PM
Well if you've already run out of things to say... What can I say
Personally I hate 20 questions. I can make a conversation flow without it. It can't be just me though and it requires an interested person on the other end that can also just talk about whatever. Have normal conversation and then just always close with a non-sensical question not to specific to anything about a person. If the answer comes from an equally interested person it will be same. If it doesn't then don't sweat it.
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Would you feel threatened if you earn less than her?
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4/10/2009 10:19:52 PM
msg 6 that situation would have been totally unnacceptable to me too. Im sure the guy didn't care but his SO wasnt walking in his boots aned had no right.
No I would care less if my SO made more than I did. As long as she shared! JK...
I have ben in a situation before that because of a wifes career we relocated to a place where employmant was scarce for me. I still have that natural male urge to significantly contribute. Especially as I had a child support payment due every first of month,,, It was a time in that life that seriously degraded our relationship on all fronts. I straight up couldn't deal with that and I don't know how many men now days survive off of their SOs. Once I was back up and gainfully employed though I thought it was kind cool and sexy :)
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When to move on...
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4/10/2009 10:07:22 PM
Gosh I love older women!
Older being my age and up..
Couldn't agree more! How do you start a relationship without that bond? I swear maybe its just me but pheremones are the key. Doesnt have to be the most beautiful woman in the world but you know how some people will just make your stomach hurt in their peresence? I have to have that or I lose interest or would.. Who can have sex with just anybody? Whats the point? Can't teach or grow into that. I've Never settled for less. When I get that feeling the eyes don't wander etc etc. For everyone there is someone and if you haven't found that then keep looking.
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Behind closed doors-Superfreak!
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4/10/2009 9:45:34 PM
OK my mind was on a different planet here...
A post like this sure makes me feel normal though :)
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Expain the phrase My children are my top priority?
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4/10/2009 9:28:28 PM
OMG no I did not read through 36 pages of that stuff...
I know what I am going to say is unique because Im the only one I have ever heard say it.
When I was married / in relationship as much as I loved my son I always thought the love for wife or SO in our cases now is the priority. Doesn't mean ignore the kiddo... They need love and nurturing and that definitely goes without saying. When he / she is grown and gone though what is left to sustain you? Your wife /SO...
The statement is pointless....
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Please help me figure him out
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4/10/2009 9:01:58 AM
Im not seeing the problem sweetie!
Because he calls regularly and sees you rarely then he is probably interested in more than just sleeping with you.
There is a thing about trust. You will undoubtedly like I have many times in life be fooled. Certainly don't sit around looking over your shoulder or trying to figure someone out. If your trust is misplaced its on him not you. Move smartly even if it hurts.
Oh slam me but men typically aren't conversationalists on the phone. We share peices of us in bits because we generally think you already know what we are talking about. WOmen are detail oriented and must talk and feel we understand! We really do understand but are happy to hear you talk (usually). So OK talk and he'll chime in where necessary. I bet he talks a lot more in person.
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Girly Home Decor
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4/10/2009 8:46:37 AM
I love most girly decor myself! But Ive found my home to typically be better decorated and cleaner than most girlies.! Not pink but ok.
My thoughts are it says a lot about a girl with good tastes. It means she has good tastes.. and standards.. Which makes me special because I am priveleged to be there!
You know I don't but I could live in a box personally. I don't require much. I do like nice things though. Its my personality but I gotta admit there is nothing like nuzzling up to a soft girly on 1000 count sheets! and who cares what color they are! Hypothetically Im saying...
Be comfortable in your own home. Its your personality.
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How do I get a second date??
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4/10/2009 7:49:55 AM
I think its timing...
How many times have you wanted to date during the week and planned it and when the weekend came around you were tired or busy and had somehow lost the moment?
But the weekend came and you did it anyway because you are the nice guy and a man of your words... Or you know if you cancel you will not have another shot?
Do you really think you will be at your best?
NO not likely...
I have finally gotten brave enough that if I am at that point I will just ask erespectfully for a different date and time. WTH if they say no thanks then its nothing ventured or gained.
Be straight with yourself. She may also be experiencing same. As a species too we don't deal well with delayed gratification or rejection. Chances are if you get lucky enough to reschedule... you'll have their full attention :)
but don't do that as a habit!
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when is the right time...
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4/10/2009 7:31:19 AM
I like the guy with the malts idea..
Here is me.. busy busy bee.. Most times Im busy enough during the week being me with responsibility. Im a p-poor planner for things like that. Im one that'll ask you out of the blue because I have spare moment. Most people don't like.
I have had a few people that told me straight up "so if you are doing this I'll see you there and we'll see what we see" Turned into great conversation both times. Once I wasnt interested once she wasn't but It cleared the air right away and I remain friends with and communicate still. Not because i try to communicate still but because it turned out they were both essentially in my back yard and constantly run into one another.
I don't think there should be a time limit. Time breeds expectation and disillusionment. Want a Malt get one!
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How many will never marry again and how many change their minds?
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4/10/2009 7:20:46 AM
Well golly people what about any of the good? Your ex just wan't "the one" I suppose.
I think most will think different when not if they fall in love again...
Positive
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If you will please
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4/10/2009 12:57:45 AM
OK ladies thats all good stuff! I appreciate it and Thank you :)
I think I got em all. It is definitely more concise and to the point. I lack pictures... The head i had to cut out is another fish and she may not wanna be associated even though we are best o friends. I'll have to get her to shoot some more.
Again thanks
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I was told I am a bad mother because I smoke marijuana.
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4/10/2009 12:40:04 AM
Well yes but I would have expressed it differently and not made the correlation with your child. Sorry he did that. I would just say no to you because its against the law.
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Eharmony - Knowing What You Are Buying ?
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4/10/2009 12:36:26 AM
I had the most absolutely odd experience..
I met this girl on Match and we dated in a crazy way for 9 months and it ended out of the blue when I had to cancel a trip that I had already purchased tickets for etc..
Anyway she still went on dating sites. Didn't really bother me. I can remember her talking about Eharmony once but it was early on. She said she never matched with anyone period. I always laughed to myself because I thought she was kind of whacked too. But hey she had more good than bad.. or i was just having fun
Well a month after we split I signed up on eharmony and lo and behold guess who one of the first matches i was sent was....
I must be whacked too!
but really I didnt think it was so bad. Of all the sites I have been on it had the most even headed, non-materialistic, professional type females. POF is whacked but it is multi-dimensional. It is interesting to see who takes the time to explore and communicate. This place could make money... Im new.
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Why would anyone want to date you?
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4/10/2009 12:27:17 AM
I don't know..
Have you read my profile? Its not that bad!
Why wouldn't they is the question I ask mostly. DOn't you?
I mean that jokingly but seriously too.
freschfisch
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Single/taken at same time each year?
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4/10/2009 12:23:13 AM
November to February...
I think its the daylight disease. Or lack thereof.. Im a cyclist and I crave daylight. I really do get somewhat blue. When DST rolls back around
I look at it this way... I save a treasure trove of gift giving cash during the holidays!
KnowWonderImSingle
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If you will please
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4/10/2009 12:06:29 AM
I feel good about it.
I turned my pic on to rate a few days back and in 10 minutes I had 2 rates!
They were both 1's!!!
Gee I was crushed! hahaha this place is brutal!!!
OK folks let me have it! Please don't bash the tune! Its me..
John
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