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Joined: 4/5/2009

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Guys - when do you 'expect' sex? Posted: 4/8/2009 9:58:46 PM
Guys - What do you think of women that have sex with you on the 1st date? How many dates before you think sex is appropriate? Do you prefer a bit of a chase? Do you lose interest if you have sex without a chase?

Joined: 4/5/2009

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Men over 30, unmarried no children Posted: 4/8/2009 9:48:03 PM
Why do you feel to generalize? Base your opinions of a man on the man. Get to know him, see if you have common goals, common interests... who cares if he's over 30 (that's YOUNG, by the way) and hasn't been married. Perhaps he makes better decisions that some and decided not to marry a woman that wasn't right for him, or hasn't felt the connection he needs to start a family with a woman. Since when is not being divorced a sign of failure? If you have a cookie cutter you're trying to fit a man into, it's going to be a long, single road.

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I don't want to play GAMES! If I'm interested, I'm interested. Posted: 4/8/2009 9:40:23 PM
I say it because it's true. I was in a relationship from 19 until I was 30 - there's not much time in there for learning the ridiculous "rules" of dating. I don't see it as a game - I see it as getting to know each other. Where are the real men that can handle a real woman?

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When is taking a drunk girl home from a bar and having sex considered rape? Posted: 4/8/2009 9:37:33 PM
And that could land your arse in jail for a VERY LONG TIME.

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When is taking a drunk girl home from a bar and having sex considered rape? Posted: 4/8/2009 9:36:29 PM
Just don't do it ever again - Ever. You can find yourself in a sh!tload of trouble - Yes, people go to jail for exactly what you are describing. I'm not a judge and/or jury - just stating the facts. Stick to sober women, and women that you KNOW - sober sex is a heck of a lot better, anyhow.

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I don't want to play GAMES! If I'm interested, I'm interested. Posted: 4/8/2009 9:24:17 PM
This is very frustrating for me. I don't play games - never learned how, don't care to, and truly can't be bothered thinking of silly things like how many days I should wait before calling a man back, or not letting him know I'm interested in him. Seriously, folks - this type of thing seems ridiculous, immature, and doesn't make a darned bit of sense. But, I'm the single one here ;) And I like sex (gasp!). A friend of mine (yes, we have had sex) told me I can be very intimidating in bed - I'm very energetic, know what I like, and am comfortable with my body and what makes it happy - how is that intimidating? He suggested that I HOLD BACK in bed in the beginning and gradually build things up to the mind-blowing stuff instead of going right for it. I'm left thinking I should tone it down even though that will decrease my own enjoyment of things - that I should be coy instead of straight-forward (I'm not brash or anything - I am just open and am not afraid of being myself)... So guys - help a gal out - what's with all the games and should I follow my friend's advice?

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