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commonsens

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are women playing GOD when they become pregnant Posted: 11/16/2009 3:49:26 PM
ladyc4, you won't make believe that ANY woman who clearly say "pay or you're never see your kids OR don't date that girl or you never see your kids" is a mother; it's a very troubled individual who pass her own issues before anything else, even her own kid. Now, no matter the situation, a father should provide for his kids, accident or not....but providing for his share of his kid's needs do not mean to pay "madame" a new car.

commonsens

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Emails with EX Posted: 11/16/2009 3:39:53 PM
Have read you last post: You have all you needed to know: now get your testicles back (and the little dignity you have left) and flush that cheating woman; no need to piss around the bush.

commonsens

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Emails with EX Posted: 11/16/2009 3:34:10 PM
1-3 times/day? Dump her right now. If she is not cheating (a mega exception in such cases), she clearly show that she has a pea brain and no respect for either you, herlself and the couple.

commonsens

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are women playing GOD when they become pregnant Posted: 11/16/2009 3:22:51 PM
bingo, learn to read before commenting: as "that kind" doesn't mean ALL, but a specific type . and use a condom.....this way, it will be almost impossible to trick pregnancy if you protect yourself first. dhu! A women who is greedy and (insert any other adjective here) to pass over the needs and happiness of her own kids for getting money and/or to piss of her ex (revenge) is NO mother. A guy is is stupid to sleep with a women without protection and without fully know, for a long time, the person before inserting is primary brain in her, deserve to have is wallet emptied. NO kids deserve any of those two idiotic parents.

commonsens

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honest answer... Posted: 11/16/2009 2:59:02 PM
thank you granted ostrich. am just someone who knows a lot more then you, as I see hundreds of couple per year claiming that kind of crap in the first years...to end up a train wreck. ;) exceptions do not make the rule, they confirm it. Edit: wishes granted, your continual little infantile attacks, well confirms what we all know from you for a long time. Please seek help.

commonsens

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are women playing GOD when they become pregnant Posted: 11/16/2009 2:56:42 PM
well if a guy is stupid enough to get that kind of ****y leech pregnant, then, they must pay to have think with their penis instead of their brain...and not used a condom. True that if justice did existed in this world, women who use their own kids in such manner to get money should have their kid removed from them for ever. next time: THINK before acting.

commonsens

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honest answer... Posted: 11/16/2009 2:51:18 PM
load of crap: the true translation behind all this is: This way, I have no obligations and no responsibilities; no commitments, just self centered indulgence.

commonsens

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I can't take this anymore! Posted: 11/16/2009 2:44:27 PM
another pity thread from a women who cannot realize that she hold her own power, that by letting herself influenced by any actions her ex does, empower him to control her. So your out of this house, you have your life, your place.....does this little paper really give any power or hold any importance? NO, only if YOU give it importance; as you have your life back and hold the true power over YOUR life. Grow up sister and live your life. paper later, on your own terms.

commonsens

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What kind of guy do you want to marry? Posted: 11/4/2009 8:43:04 PM
who cares?! What you want and what you are willing to give, is all that's matter.

commonsens

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Should I make a second attempt? Posted: 11/4/2009 8:39:45 PM
If you left a message on your 2nd and 3rd phone call (voice mail) asking him to call you back, then do not bother; if you didn't, try one last time.

commonsens

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STD/Mutual Testing Questions Posted: 11/4/2009 3:22:11 PM
excellent point Wanderingsoul! Smart people get tested BEFORE entering the dating game; both for their protection and others. If you are close enough to a person to kiss that person (or making out), then you should be close enough to her to be able to ask; but it is true that at that level, no one really thinks of it.

commonsens

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How do you trust anyone on dating sites? Posted: 11/4/2009 3:11:28 PM
There is no real difference between "online" dating and traditional dating as the "path" are almost identical and will end up to the same conclusion: meet the person and decide. The only "advantage" online can provide is both exposure and pre-screening, in a limited way of course, but a smart person can spot some of the red flags pretty quickly before the physical meeting. Cafe or restaurants do not have a "delete", "ignore" or "block" button.....so score a plus for online, to my taste.

commonsens

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caught my fiance having cyber sex and text sex with other women Posted: 11/4/2009 3:03:50 PM
cheating is cheating: bye bye cowboy!

commonsens

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Seperated,deffinatly getting divoriced ,but still having sex Posted: 11/4/2009 1:35:06 PM
well if you are religious, you cannot have sex with anyone until you are divorced! Even if you are not, why not make the divorce procedure ASAP and take that time to get in touch with yourself and your life before engaging with someone new; what's a year without sex? not the end of the world! especially keep yourself away from your ex!

commonsens

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What is your opinion on this relationship? Posted: 11/4/2009 1:30:00 PM
competition, evaluation, comparation..... geeesh! Are you God? is He God? no? then you are both the same value and strength, both of you are worthy and equal. Anything else is meaning less.

commonsens

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STD/Mutual Testing Questions Posted: 11/4/2009 1:14:55 PM
Having a partner or not, it is always a common sens (no pun intended) to have a yearly check up at least (no matter your age or condition). Now as per the question, I do not see why will a person refuse to pass test in the first place. Liars and users will claim it is a question of trust: BS~! Only people who has something to hide never show proof of anything. Get tested and have peace of mind (both ways). Don't? get yourself another partner!

commonsens

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Perpetual Victims of Repeat Relationship Issues Posted: 11/4/2009 1:08:42 PM
I will pass over the one where people who have repetitive problems or situation due to their constant selection of same stereotype of partners/situation; as it will be developed ad nauseam here. One thing I will point out, for the sake of making some people think, is the second group, where the person is the cause of her own problematic, repeat the same behavior and actions (thus receiving the same reaction); as those people never see themselves as the initiator but as the victim. This group is far more common then we think and , as a self absorbed society, we always look for the reasons of a problem from an outside perspective instead of the inside, when in fact our own actions are the root of our problems, and nothing more. Change yourself and your world will change.

commonsens

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cheating with a stripper Posted: 9/3/2009 5:28:25 AM
Ask yourself this question: If he didn't contracted Hep B, will he have told you? Trust has been broken and as a crystal glass, it is shattered all over the floor never to be whole again: do you want to live without trust waiting for the next drama to occurs? Now you have a choice: Stay and forgive a sick cheater, who will do it again, as cheater once , cheater always; or dump him making him realize that any actions do have reactions and consequences. As motown said, you listed yourself as single: interesting concept for a married woman to come to a dating listed herself as single and "looking" for attention, oups! me bad, I mean "advices"...... Do I smell the call of popcorn?

commonsens

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Building a new relationship while keeping a friendship with an ex? Posted: 8/30/2009 5:44:29 PM
Seams more like : The art of opening a new door while leaving the window open.....

commonsens

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Why women want guys to come to THEM Posted: 8/30/2009 5:42:52 PM
The only thing am running after is my lunch; and I wrote women off my diet for a while as they always give me heart condition.

commonsens

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Where do I start? Posted: 8/30/2009 4:36:24 PM
Honesty is always the best policy. Yes you have it, and Yes you are confident and you deal with it. says a lot of good things about you. You never asked or did anything to have Aspergers, but you are taking the bull by the horns and take steps to live a normal life without having this dominate all aspect of your life; hiding it will not cure it, be open about it will accept it. Look at it this way: you will weed out the people that can't deal with it right away and therefore, only the people who can will remains! Place yourself in someone else shoes; if the girl has something, let's say a STD, will you want to know about it right away before getting intimate with her? What will you think of her if she tell you afterward that she has it? You have your answer.

commonsens

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Male/Female Friendship Posted: 8/30/2009 4:27:15 PM
Yes a man can be a platonic friend with a woman and verse versa. True , raise a eyebrows as it is totally BS if the girl has like 180 male friends for 3 female (or course the opposite applies) as she/he is in fact hunting.

commonsens

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What does NO BAGGAGE mean? Posted: 8/30/2009 7:28:09 AM
Baggage are of two nature: unsolved issues or problems and questions marks that have not yet found a complete answer. As those issues or problems are not dealt with properly, they are carried with you until completion. The level of negativity of a baggage depend on the issue or problem itself. For example, you have dealt with a situation and didn't applied the correct solution to it; yes it has been dealt with, but some remains as your conscience is telling you that you could have dealt with this far better. On the other end: past situations where you are not sure of the reasons WHY or of the IF. For example on this one: a past relationship where you ask yourself why it happen this way, what where the variables, influence or reasons; for example. Some baggage have destructive effect and must be dealt with promptly and some simply need strenght of character to replace them in their correct perspective, answered and/or put to rest/voided. Everyone has baggage of the unsolved issue or problem type; only narcissic people do not have baggage of the unsolved question mark type.

commonsens

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On persistence Posted: 8/30/2009 7:15:01 AM
Resistance, persistence..all implies a voluntary game of cat and mouse; and that's where all the screw up happens. When two persons really are meant for each others, things come naturally: they talk, they listen, exchange and share, sometimes without even noticing it; time stand still and fly, both themselves within each other.

commonsens

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Birth Control Pills...PLEASE NEED PEOPLE OPINIONS Posted: 8/30/2009 2:48:27 AM
OP What you just implied is a criminal offence.

commonsens

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What's going on? Posted: 8/30/2009 2:42:25 AM
well he only want a party girl....pertygirl4u

commonsens

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Are the pre-marriage rituals BS? Posted: 8/29/2009 3:30:00 PM
If you think that all or any rituals pre-marriage is BS...then why commit to the ritual of marriage? dhuuuuu! oooooohhhhhhh! symbolism! (wink wink!) Rituals are rituals. individuals are individuals.

commonsens

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relationships Posted: 8/29/2009 3:27:20 PM
about can two people go back to a relationship after they break up. because they are desperate birdbrain incapable to commit to memory the why it break up even after they tried everything and are to afraid to be faced alone to themselves?

commonsens

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Do women think about sex as much as men? Posted: 8/29/2009 3:21:05 PM
The only person am talking sex with is the woman am actually having sex with. so I can't help you there buddy, has I also not listen to what others do: I listen, experiment and discover, again and again and again and again...with that woman.

commonsens

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Am i being selfish? Posted: 8/29/2009 3:16:51 PM
thanks Gonesailing and Landra to take the words out of my mouth.

commonsens

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when a guy gets really close then backs off.. Posted: 8/29/2009 11:26:31 AM
never approached something, anything, to get a closer look, identify it, have a different perspective of this thing and then realize that it what not what you where thinking it was or that you where not prepared to encounter, want or deal with this? same applies here.

commonsens

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Who decides what is reasonable? Posted: 8/29/2009 11:13:15 AM
But the one that gets me, and I wonder if I’m crazy to think this way, is who gets to decide what’s “unreasonable” to get upset about? As a lawyer.... (....... ) Not god, not law, not people. it is to justice, integrity, morality, common sense, honor and respect, to all, to say what is reasonable or not. You're not crazy, it is that a part of you is a lawyer; and it shroud everything reasonable and just.

commonsens

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Justifying Cheating? Posted: 8/29/2009 10:19:36 AM
I can't believe the crap am reading in this Forum. Lawyer talks, rights and obligations, action-reactions, causa-effects etc etc Wake up people! With that sort of mind frame, no wonder most of you are single and will stay that way unless your lawyer is present and a detective follow both members at all times, negotiating power and assets, applying vengeance and revenge, looking paranoiacly for "something" etc etc What a disgusting world you guys must live in! and All of this is first based on the ME principles and nothing else! (well, fear for some too, but we enter the realms of defects...) So she takes an hour to get dress instead of 10 minutes? is your life will stop? and who will die if the toilet seat is up instead of down? Those are MINOR disagreements and yes, I agree that the other person should be more tote full , but hey! you want to have altruism from others and act selfness at the same time? Come On! Is there anything in the universe worth losing integrity and self respect for? NO! So why cheating or lying? I tell you why people really do it: GREED. To obtain something that you do not have while not letting go what is deficient. Sure, the guy is an jerk, but the house we live in..Sure, she is cold as a fish in bed, but she take care of the house; and all of those pathetic excuses I hear everyday: Self centered people who refuse to end or truly solve a problematic and prefer to indulge into a placebo or acquisition without realizing the true cost or impact of there decisions. DHU! it is like saying there is Justice in laws! Or that rights and freedom do not come with obligations, responsibilities or even work; That one thing can take precedent over everything else and that it is justification enough for every negative actions or reactions. A couple is made of 3 entities: 2 complete individuals and the couple itself. Yes there is mutual consent and agreements between the two, but also there is the tolerance and adaptation part that all couple must work on, without mentioning communication, TIME TWO as there is two individuals that form the third entity: the couple. There is also a value to things, and some things like trust, integrity, self respect or honor; are priceless to have, easy to lost and cannot be bought back; either you have it or you don't. Who is to decide what is right and what is wrong in those cases? it is not god, not laws, not even you! It is by morality, integrity, common sense (no pun intended), respect and justice. Those knows no age, wealth, religion, politics, locations or even social cast; they are universal, untainted and absolute. Is cheating Ok by any of those? NO., not even by any standards or perspectives!

commonsens

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I only see my boyfriend once a week Posted: 8/28/2009 6:41:21 AM
patience is a virtue....

commonsens

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Decoding the Female Language Posted: 8/27/2009 11:02:33 PM
I have never discarded a guy for not getting "hints". here come the echo! no Zangie, no one mentioned you: you're not the one who spreaded over 23 pages extremely clearly that she will discard any guys that do not get her "hints", but also says the exact opposite within the same thread, then change again tune....and played a little game in the background at the same time. So yes: shhhh! in a way.. :)

commonsens

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Is there a bounce back from this? Posted: 8/27/2009 8:48:52 PM
The art for making a tempest in a glass of water. how about simply look at it in the correct perspective and laugh about it too?

commonsens

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Decoding the Female Language Posted: 8/27/2009 5:56:10 PM
I know! am the one who started the popcorn thing before you even registered on this site. the bottom line is: instead of discarding people for not getting your hints, try to adapt your methods for something more direct; as most "serious" guys in 2009 do not play that game of hints; for various reasons. well, unless you want to hunt in the pool where the majority of the players are...but do not cry after that you have been played!

commonsens

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Decoding the Female Language Posted: 8/27/2009 4:17:57 PM
And your name was printed where savona? so to believe that it was a direct response to your little self...well...if the shoe fit.... Do you think it is self centered to chose a look, so then why am I self centered to chose a style of man? And your completely out of the track, so, since you cannot read properly, let me repeat again with highlighted words: It is self centered to think that someone has to , or must to, get your vague "hints' ( hints that everyone use everyday for any reasons) when you try to reach someone else ; therefore it is time for you to realize that is not only the fault of the receiver that he cannot decipher your "hints" and you may want to try another technic. how hard a concept to understand that if your language is not understood that you may want to change language or methods????? Especially if you are using a language that is meaningless nowadays. I also understand the concept of NO "me-myself and I" is hard for some to get. I do not have to put that crap of "i want- i do not want" on my profile: am not self centered to think that all revolve around me, first, and second that I never discard anything or anyone because everything change and evolve...well....most of the things....except some people it seams; and third, am an open mind and knows that no one is perfect. f you can't understand the touch of my hand, a smile directed at you, and you think I can't say anything more intelligent than mind less chatter .... then pass me on by. I cannot be under the impression that you cannot say anything more intelligent than mindless chatter....as you are just smiling blankly with your hands in your corner instead of talking with me. I have read a number of profiles of men posters here and many (not all) describe a look of woman they want. so why not put it in your profile that you don't ask women out right beside looks and height proportionate ? Yeah I know, you also visited mine where I state NOTHING and clearly say that am just here for the forum....so your argument, outside trying to b!tch or diminish is? Enjoy your own medicine.

commonsens

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Decoding the Female Language Posted: 8/27/2009 1:20:05 PM
If you are so self centered to think that everyone will get, or must get, your smile and hand gestures when you try to reach someone, maybe it is time for you to realize that it is NOT entirely the fault of the receiver but maybe it is that your "lingo" is far too much vague to be understood in 2009 and therefore you might want to try another more challenging technic..like speaking.

commonsens

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What would you guys do? Posted: 8/27/2009 1:12:55 PM
Ask yourself this question; WHY is she stuffing herself with Mc donald in the first place? - bad/no taste? - eat her emotions? - bad time organization/administration leading to no cooking time (all variables) 2) are you panicking way to fast? gaining weight is one thing, 5-10 pounds is nothing, 50 is another thing. If she is everything you just said she his for you, then stick around , talk with her, be a partner, comprehend and understand.

commonsens

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Decoding the Female Language Posted: 8/27/2009 1:06:32 PM
Still on this topic? Simple solution: Throw a linguistic dictionary at the head of the person you want to communicate with. you're darn sure he/she will understand the meaning of your lingo, one way or the other!

commonsens

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What would you think/do if... Posted: 8/27/2009 6:48:42 AM
Don't worry Op, the way she is, she will "upgrade" you in few months for a better looking or bigger wallet guy. And it's Ok , as you will have talked about it and you will have agreed to been walked over.

commonsens

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What would you think/do if... Posted: 8/26/2009 6:09:17 PM
She did what?!?! Ok now I heard everything! Dumb that (insert several cursing and negative comments here) women right away! she have no respect, is materialist, self centered, vain ..and that's just the beginning! RUN FOREST RUN!

commonsens

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Eight year age gap ok? Posted: 8/26/2009 6:05:56 PM
8 years is nothing. maturity gap is everything.

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SOS Posted: 8/26/2009 6:03:34 PM
Samuel. On you end there is nothing for you to do but to add to your profile a note to "x" saying to contact you asap as you forgot the address. And if she valued your friendship, after a period of silence she will look you up where she knows where to find you and see the message. Didn't you gave her your e-mail address when she has given hers to you? tut tut! tut! Now simply wait and cross fingers. I find it a but weird thought; has I have messages still in my inbox from people who has deleted their account and they didn't disappeared.

commonsens

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Propositioned by secret swinging ex's friend Posted: 8/26/2009 5:59:46 PM
(finally found time for some popcorn) If that story true (am in no mood to find out), Abbicci had her finger right on something.

commonsens

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Can You Feel The Loneliness? Posted: 8/24/2009 7:25:06 PM
Ever heard the phrase “no one is an island?” Everyone IS in fact an island. autonomous, self sufficient and independent. The day you figure this one, you start to tour that island, see it's potential and limits, stretch it's shores, make it better and better, learn to know it as it really is and what it can become. When you are able to be” by yourself”, self sufficient and whole, then only are you able to take sail. As you progress on the ocean of life, you will encounter other islands: share with some, learn from other, obtain a new perception and make your island even better, more resourceful, growing. This way, no matter how many islands sail away from you for a reason or another, no matter the storms you will encounter, you always remain complete and strong at the core. You will never lose anything, nothing will be able to bring you down, and you will be able to see that everything is temporal, and the time that it was with you, it added something to you that will remain for ever within you. So you are always alone in life; the question is: will you only bare sorrow for the days that your are alone or live fully and be slightly elevated the days you are not? Love to live and not live for love.

commonsens

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What would you do? Posted: 8/21/2009 3:30:04 PM
Drop your shields, give it some little time and you will then see and decide.

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Is it really that odd to not have a pet? Posted: 8/21/2009 3:26:44 PM
If a person judge you on the sole fact that you have a pet or not...you do not want that sick person, point!

commonsens

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Why are woman so sensitive to rejecting their overture? Posted: 8/20/2009 7:34:27 PM
I all depend on the person, but let look at some numbers to give us a rough picture: Of all the various proposals I receive: I "reject" 99% of them for anything else but platonic friendship and make myself very clear in a decent manner to them. - some of them do not reply a word and disappear. - some reply that they understand and keep in touch. - Some of them "argue their case" trying to force the issue. - some reply with insults and attacks. The majority deals with it in a proper way to a ratio Ill estimate of 45%, 29% will disappear, 15% force their case and 10% goes for the throat with the insults. I consider the one disappearing as they are looking to found someone special and therefore returned on their quest, which is normal. On the ones forcing their case, there might be several reasons, but I will also take it as normal..to a stretch. But interpreted in a different way and saying that above falls under the "not dealing with it properly", then yes, view that way the balance have tipped the other way. So? Are most women deal badly with rejection? not really, they are learning that it is OK to make an overture and that it might be either not the right person combination or not the right time. As for the favorite goes: i've been saying it for years now: means nothing but you can use it as an administrative tool to keep in touch.

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