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ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Do girls use guys for sex? Posted: 11/27/2009 9:43:52 PM
It happens. I haven't let one of them move in because we have an agreement that we're just swapping fluids. Your situation sounds more like you guys played it by ear without being open about everything...and you assumed it was more than it was. Or she was just a royal b i t c h and wanted to hurt you so she downplayed the emotional factor.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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birth control and antibiotics Posted: 11/27/2009 9:03:00 PM
You just started to get to know this girl... and you're bare backing it? Kids are the least of your problems dude. Or should I start calling you soon to be Admiral Aids... I'll go with that. Wise up.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Non-P.C. Gun Jokes Posted: 11/27/2009 8:47:31 PM
Handguns, putting lead into children long before Chinese toys made it famous.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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the best michael jackson joke Posted: 11/27/2009 8:33:02 PM
Maybe he didn't diddle kids.... but it was definitely some inappropriate shit going on. Either way, we made jokes about him while he was alive... and we'll continue. Just because someone dies doesn't mean he's automatically a better person for it. I heard they were actually going render him down and make Michael Jackson brand diapers.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Extra Terrestrial Life Posted: 11/23/2009 11:14:02 PM
We're probably not going to find life elsewhere for a long time because we lack to scope/criteria to catalog alien life. Depiction of alien life in literature or any other form of media is simply a plot device. We're too dumb to see life for what it is.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Smoking, who to blame! Posted: 11/23/2009 11:08:11 PM
Hey man I'm a smoker and I grew up in a place you could smoke in the mall not too long ago( Montreal, Quebec, Canada). Things is if they didn't have a quarantined smoking section I still went outside, I( made the choice to smoke not other people. Here in Ontario, Canada you can't smoke in bars or anything, which is fine, but now they're talking about not being able to smoke on public sidewalks and stuff.... that is a little extreme...

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Why are religions so confined? Posted: 11/23/2009 11:04:45 PM
I know religions are simply a system of beliefs set in place as a moral compass to guide members to a better life for themselves and others, but I find myself wondering why people are so ready to assume the mantles of elitism and perceived superiority within said religion. We are all servants of humanity, the future generation that is.Anyway I am a disillusioned catholic.... not in my beliefs but in my church. I believe in the right to believe or not to believe and refuse to judge either way. YET why are devout members of various religions spreading only a message of hate? Shouldn't we relish the fact that we feel as though we are apart of something larger regardless of religion? Celebrate our individual views of the world yet know that we are brothers and sisters? Acknowledge that no one is RIGHT and there are only varying degrees of misinterpretation.... YET every day the world slips closer to being full of hatred and misunderstanding.... Are we going to be tools of hatred? I hope not. Anyway that was a total rant... I just got home from work... in a bar (dramatic dun dun dun). And I've just sat through yet another b i t c h fest about immigrants, religion and everthing under the sun. What's your take on the shitty pity fest the world has become?

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Did I catch him before he tried to use me for sex or did I jump the gun to fast??? Posted: 11/23/2009 9:53:16 PM
Hummm.... we all have needs. Sure he probably had the intention to bed you right off the bat......... but that's 95% of the time. Always test drive before you buy.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Growing meat! Posted: 11/23/2009 9:44:36 PM
Meh... if people were open minded about alternative protein sources we'd supplement our diets with insects. Hell even ants vs beef on a per hectare basis are amazing as "cattle". Just not as appetizing to "civilized" people.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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how long does it take Posted: 11/21/2009 11:36:32 PM
400?!?!?! That's all it cost to get rid of a lying, cheating skank? You lucky son of a gun. Shouldn't take long to get over actually caring.. the real danger is hanging on to bitterness.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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help me indentify this relationship. Time to move on? Posted: 11/21/2009 11:34:33 PM
I read this, "I met this girl at work, same company, but we live 150 miles apart".... and stopped because there really was no point in reading more. Get some common sense and stop the drama.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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The Big Deal About Being Single. Posted: 11/20/2009 11:06:57 PM
Ha tell them to suck it. You could always go down to George street and pick up a tourist dumb enough to be screeched in. Anyway I wouldn't sweat it, I don't date much anymore either. I have better things to do frankly.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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what right do they have?!? Posted: 11/20/2009 11:42:41 AM
Maybe people should have a little more respect for themselves. Don't place so much importance on other people.... because you're whining about something that will never change. It's nature.... attractive = good, ugly = bad. Attractiveness is indicative of genetic superiority. Don't bite my head off. I get called fugly all the time.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Slept with 83 people Posted: 11/20/2009 11:26:46 AM
That is the best quote I have ever heard Idiotluckbox. 83 is a little beyond the realm of a normal sex life. I would kick the cum dumpster to the curb and find someone who was giving out her vagina like Halloween candy. Imagine how dirty she is.... wow. You could always take her camping and crawl inside her looseness for a sleeping bag.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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She is confusing me Posted: 11/19/2009 5:53:37 PM
Congratulations you're her gay friend.

ottawajohnm

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What do Atheist Holla Out During Sex? Posted: 11/19/2009 3:55:52 PM
With my ex I used to use a line from Family guy..... "And boom goes the dynamite..." She did NOT like that. So I switched to SHAZAAAAM.... We're no longer together. hahaha

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Hitting On Someone Elses BF/GF Posted: 11/19/2009 2:50:55 PM
It depends. I mean I find my gf interesting/attractive enough to be with her..... obviously other guys will to. If they hit on her without knowing she's with me that's fine. If they flirt and joke around with her that's fine. But if they try to pull that sleazy dominant male shit right in front of me then we will for sure have a problem.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Is collecting Naked pictures of Women considered disease Posted: 11/19/2009 2:27:18 PM
Porn? Porn is my 2nd favorite hobby. In my opinion there's nothing wrong with it unless it starts to effect aspects of your life.... or it goes into the fetish realm. Not my cup of tea. Your sister in law just hasn't had the awkward exposure to it growing up. One should always knock by the way.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Hes my fallback guy but I want something new. Posted: 11/19/2009 2:16:30 PM
I'd say something brutally honest and soul crushing but these wonderfully insightful people beat me to it. All I will say is you're a big fish in a small pond. In your native environment people might fall for your shit but in the big bad world you're going to get eaten alive. Enjoy your little power trip while you can, cause karma is a ****.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Am I doing the right thing? Posted: 11/19/2009 2:09:23 PM
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA...... are...you....kidding....me....? This has to be a joke right? I don't even have anything to say besides HAHAHAHA..... Plus I feel a little bit violated by reading that..... it was the longest joke ever and the person writing it was the punch line. Do the world a favor and get a vasectomy, oh wait.... from your post it's obvious you have no balls to begin with.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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met my soul mate, but he doesn't want me Posted: 11/19/2009 1:51:52 PM
Ok..... you are psychotic... or at least sound that way. Re-read your post. " He does not want to face it and knows it is the true thing. He has made so many excuses and does not want to face reality." You could always kidnap him and keep him in your basement. You CANNOT TELL someo0ne they are your soul mate. If it's not mutual it just simply isn't. You really genuinely need help. Re-read your post.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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A little confused over this... Posted: 11/19/2009 1:47:35 PM
Ah that is pretty crap man. I would be pretty surprised if it had anything to do with anything you did. Her boyfriend probably found her online...

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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is she ever coming back? Posted: 11/19/2009 1:32:24 PM
HA.... that story was something else. This is quite the pity party you're throwing for yourself. I know it's heartless of me but I find this hilarious.... you selfish whiny little douche. 1- She cared about you but it wasn't convenient for you since you were still psycho fixated on your ex who probably dumped you. 2- You strung her along so you could feel wanted, sure you peppered the "friendship" with half hearted "I'm not ready"'s and "I don't want you to put your life on hold for me" 's but you still leeched every bit of caring out of her. Giving her just enough emotional connection to make her believe it was going somewhere when it wasn't. Hence why she wised up and started to hate you. 3- When she did wise up and cease contact you realised that she didn't need you and that would impact your self worth..... no one would love you then. SO you switched to sniveling snake mode and tried in a few conversations to offer her everything she wanted in the past. NOT because you wanted to but because you were losing your control over her emotions. Scary. 4- The REASON she became so clingy paranoid is because deep deep down she knew you didn't care about her, you were just using her for emotional masturbation. BUT you weren't actually emotionally involved in her so you didn't care about her feelings so you fought to add drama to the relationship. 5- She had sex with the guy in spain. Alot of it probably. You want to know why? Because he offered her fun... none of the emotional tension that you two had. And she realised that that was what she wanted. A fun life. 6- Admit it that you only offered her the trip to spain as a test anyway. "If she goes she can't care about me as much as she says. Woe is me". Bah I would say more but I'm bored.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Intresting course of actions Posted: 10/11/2009 11:53:19 AM
What Keep said. She really has no right to dictate who you date.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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My Story... Posted: 10/11/2009 11:44:26 AM
You dumped him. Plain and simple, sure you rationalized it that you were doing it for the both of you blah blah blah. I know if someone I loved told me they were moving out to "clear their head" and that they didn't love me anymore I wouldn't contact them, let alone give them another chance. You walked out on him once without REALLY thinking, you'll probably do it again. We all make our beds, but very few can stand laying in them.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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omg!!!!!!!!!! I get in trouble for the littlest things!!! :( Posted: 10/11/2009 10:25:20 AM
You're 24? How old is your girlfriend? 16? Everyone knows a girl like tha my friend, they're selfish b i t c h e s. They are only concerned how the world effects them. Let me guess, you're civil at best with her friends? Why would you want to be with a moron who thinks the world revolves around her? Thank god that the princess is out of your life and grow a pair. Quit being a victim.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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To give or not to give your name in the first message... Posted: 10/8/2009 7:18:59 PM
It's not really a big deal. I have one of the whitest most generic names in north america. Not a joke. Both my first and last are in the top 10 or something. Google THAT.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Living in the same town Posted: 10/8/2009 7:05:12 PM
I wouldn't bother. It's nothing to really even think about, why jab a hornet's nest with a stick? Not going where she works isn't really letting her control you.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Sex with ex who has a boyfriend Posted: 10/8/2009 6:58:53 PM
Errrr... I had a situation similar to this, minus the kids that is, and kudos to you for stopping man. You're looking at it all wrong. She may be the mother of your children but what kind of skank would jump to her man's "best friend" then participate in "fun" with said man again? If the girl is anything like my ex you need to ditch the ****.... sure the kids complicate things but that girl is just plain poisonous.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Long story, don't know what to do anymore. Posted: 8/3/2009 2:42:57 PM
After I read "I broke up the relationship after a really nice date. I told her I didn't love her anymore." I didn't feel like reading anymore, but I gave you the benefit of the doubt and read it all. Dude.... sorry but you're a**** Don't get me wrong it's great that you're turning your life around but you really hurt her and I'm with her on this one. You can't just turn a relationship on and off like a light switch. You made your bed... lie in it and leave this girl alone.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Why do some guys write in text speak?? Posted: 8/3/2009 2:18:44 PM
Below par gene pool? Learning disability? They could have been failed by the education system....? Take your pick. People are getting away from the real issue. You're hot.......er.... I mean.... you have... an accent... Good save on my part I think.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Why don't guys answer messages Posted: 8/3/2009 2:16:11 PM
I don't see why I should respond to someone who simply says hi. I understand that that's the way people do things in real life but this is email... you need a hook. I'm not here to meet people but I have to admit I'm a sucker for a laugh and find myself compelled to write someone back if they make me chuckle.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Is it too early to ask where we stand? Posted: 8/3/2009 2:08:48 PM
..........Get............some............self...........esteem? This is a very sad pathetic story. 1- "I've had bad experiences with online dating in the past and wanted to start things off slow." If things were so bad why do them at all. 2- What the shit does date mean when said with quotation marks? Loserish meetings where you two obviously had no connection? 3- "One day he texts me and flat out asks for sex. Stupidly I agree to come over and we have sex." Did he at least tip you before you left? Gotta admire a working girl. Final answer? Refer to the first line and get some common sense. You're being used and you allowed it to happen so you shouldn't expect sympathy. Boohoooooo..... And really - "I really like him but I don't want to become his late night snack." THAT is probably the saddest thing I've ever heard. Not to mention gross.....

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Do girls have backups? Posted: 8/3/2009 1:47:51 PM
Hahahaha... Keeping someone's number while you're in a relationship would be a pretty shitty thing to do. I say relationship because if you're just dating someone there's no real harm in keeping options at the beginning, but shit dude get some self respect. If someone's going to keep you on file why would you care. And for your information all insecure people have backups, because many people have a real problem with being single.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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peer pressure to stay single Posted: 8/3/2009 1:29:17 PM
You're friends were meddling jerks for getting involved, while you are a moron for listening..... simple no?

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Shaved Armpits on a man. Posted: 8/2/2009 10:01:13 PM
Meh.... I've shaved underarm hair when I get a bit sweaty, ie summer. If I start shaving my legs or arms then I'd have to ask what the f**k I was doing.

ottawajohnm

Joined: 1/22/2006

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My plentyoffish experiences... Posted: 8/2/2009 9:57:08 PM
^^^^^^^^^^ right there, golden advice. Maybe you should get to know people genuinely. Each situation could have been avoided with a little "get to know you time".

OttawaJohnM

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Should I tell her? Posted: 7/31/2009 10:40:05 PM
So.... after knowing her for 2 months you'd do anything for a girl.... and you're moving away to better yourself.... You don't even know this girl. Sure you talk, but at least admit that you barely know her, come on. I'm sick of whiney people on here. "I want to tell her I will always be there for her and support her in whatever she decides to do." What the hell is that supposed to mean? That you're hoping you tell her and that she bursts into tears, throws herself into your arms and you guys get married? There is really no long lasting outcome to this situation besides friendship. Long distance crap barely works with an established relationships.... my friend you've got yourself a penpal.

OttawaJohnM

Joined: 1/22/2006

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She said / He said - actual non POF date Posted: 7/31/2009 9:46:15 PM
Maybe the car was a readily available example. She didn't say she expected you to provide the finer things in life. While I am not rich by any means I tend to buy quality, but that rarely means the most expensive, products. Maybe she subscribes to my philosophy that life is for living not being anal retentive in order to build wealth.

OttawaJohnM

Joined: 1/22/2006

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I Need help from the ladies!! (Need Advice!!) Posted: 7/31/2009 9:36:44 PM
Worry about yourself and your child man. Without knowing what the guy did I would be worried with her bring an ex con into the same home as your child.

OttawaJohnM

Joined: 1/22/2006

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ex is trying to be friends with my enemies, help ladies, why would she do this? Posted: 7/31/2009 9:34:49 PM
Your friend is not going to find any answers in anything she does. She is a **... so the best thing is to act like she doesn't exist. Anyone who chooses to interact with her, whether it is a "friend" or an enemy should immediately be cut from his life. My ex cheated on me with one of my best friends.... then proceeded to become best friends with all my guy friends. Since she had a vagina and hot friends she won. So I cut all these peple out of my life and I'm infinitly happier without them. His ex is a poisonous ** and the faster he can leave her dead weight in the dust the better.

OttawaJohnM

Joined: 1/22/2006

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In a relationship, Hanging out with Opposite sex friends makes SO feel uncomfortable Posted: 7/28/2009 7:49:26 PM
I have a lot of freedom for lunch and sometimes I make plans to see a female friend. Why would you automatically hang out with a female friend. Why not a buddy. Why not your significant other. Or maybe you just are not in this relationship and you are just a retard.

OttawaJohnM

Joined: 1/22/2006

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I don,t understand help please Posted: 7/28/2009 7:46:21 PM
What? Right..... "That's what dating is"..... that's complete bull. How long is for some time? If it's very long you guys should have an agreement of exclusivity. If not, it's still not right for her to be seeing her ex....ie someone she already had a strong emotional bond with. You are not competing with just another random guy. She's still seeing him... therefore she still cares for him. Don't be a chump, dump her.

OttawaJohnM

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Does kissing automatically indicate you're a couple?!?! Posted: 7/28/2009 7:33:41 PM
I take it you were on a friends basis with the person before? If he tried to make you feel bad about a little making out I'd take that as a sign that he kinda liked you. He therefore had different expectations of the situation...... Tell him to grow up and enjoy a little fun. bah..... sissies.... god I hate them.

OttawaJohnM

Joined: 1/22/2006

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He has a girlfriend Posted: 7/25/2009 10:23:04 PM
What are you 16? Hahaha. Wow. Extremely pathetic with.... hummm... what is that I smell? Ah low self esteem.... Keep on posting, it amuses me.

OttawaJohnM

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Hooker? Posted: 7/25/2009 12:48:45 PM
Son of a b*****... I just saw CookieLady66's post now.... god damn.

OttawaJohnM

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Hooker? Posted: 7/25/2009 12:48:11 PM
Depends.... on one hand you could buy a hooker... but since you're on a fake account I say you go buy a sheep. The breed of sheeo I leave up to you.

OttawaJohnM

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Old flame getting married Posted: 7/25/2009 12:42:47 PM
Hum....... her life, her decisions. You could have made life alot easier for yourself if you had originally just bought her a doormat with your name on it. Read your first 2 paragraphs, probably the saddest most pathetic thing I've ever heard. Those first two paragraphs are indicative as to why you were the temp guy. Grow some balls and quit being a fairy.

OttawaJohnM

Joined: 1/22/2006

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What ever happened to DATING different people, and perhaps later going steady? Posted: 7/24/2009 11:38:12 PM
Meh. For me the whole dating thing is a little boring.... but if I were to date someone and we were both seeing other people to feel things out, the second any "play" happens other relationships end. Could be fear of stds or self respect, who knows? Thing is that a majority of people would lie to keep their options open, so I wouldn't be in this position in the first place. You may call it old fashioned... I call it respectable. I date someone, if it isn't going anywhere I end it. I wouldn't want to have sex with or even make out with someone who's recently done that with anyone, but then again that's a fairly new policy. Believe it or not I used to lead a bohemian lifestyle...so suck on that.

OttawaJohnM

Joined: 1/22/2006

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I've had serious difficulty sleeping lately... Posted: 7/24/2009 11:14:24 PM
Ah.... sweet sweet "infinite tolerance"..... right. 1-Their culture is different from our culture. She would never be with you because it is not permitted. Accept it. And frankly that last paragraph is offensive... and I'm catholic. 2- I'm pretty sure you built this up a little in your mind. You don't really sound like the well adjusted social type. 3- This chick's marriage was about her family. ALL nationalities/ religions have done this in the past and many still do it. 4- "I and a few others had to make a case for Islam being a religion of peace"... YOU ARE A MORON. Islam is a religion of peace, it's the militant fanatics that have spoiled the world's view.

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