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Joined: 1/22/2006

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a thread for those who forgive cheaters Posted: 12/13/2008 4:25:12 PM
My so called bf...was staying out all night for a week saying he was sleeping in his car....(bullcoughshit) I got so sick of it, but he wouldnt let me dump him. He said he would find where I was living and move in. Nut job yes.....so I told him that I cheated on him, hoping he would move out...well nope he didnt. Instead he tells me that he doesnt care and loves me and doesnt want to loose me. So, thinking that I am stuck in the stupid relationship i forget about it and move on to see what happens...well what happened is he went out and slept with someone. NOW I dont want anything to do with him, but he blames me by saying that I cheated on him and he did it out of payback. I cant forget or forgive him and hes still having secret conversations with girls, one I made to show him he cant be faithful. So Here a question for you!!!! How in gods name do you dump someone that wont let you dump them? Hes Hott, but thats all hes got going for him in my eyes.....ok people tell me how pathetic I am!

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Work vs. Stay at home.. Posted: 10/3/2008 10:35:26 AM
What ever ANY of you do, do not fall for the eBay start up kits. The company Auction Success Group is a scam. They called me for over a week, making it sound great. The guy changes his name with every new customer he talks to. I had the pleasure (if thats what you want to call it, lol. ) to deal with Jeff Gibson. He told me that they only approve less then 1% of people for this. They ask you for all your avalible balances on your credit cards and thats pretty much what it will cost you to get started. Mine was 1,530.36 .... and thats for they say coaching, web site set up and software. Its all a scam. The guy even went to low to say he was a single father of an 8 year old, because i was a single mother of two. He tries to relate to your situation to get more trust from you. I called eBay and they told me that they do not work with this company and that its a scam. Please if they call you DO NOT FALL FOR IT!!!! The numbers that will come up is (801) 716-3032, (801) 759-5613. Good luck all.... If your a single mother or father looking for a job to do with kids...... SCHOOL BUS DRIVING!!!! I do it and bring both my kids with me. ITs the best job...i worked in banking for 8 years and now do this and i make only about 200-300 less then when i worked at the bank FT and i work 2 hours in the morning and 2 in the afternoon! Its so worth it!

Joined: 1/22/2006

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work at home internet businesses Posted: 10/3/2008 10:34:36 AM
What ever ANY of you do, do not fall for the eBay start up kits. The company Auction Success Group is a scam. They called me for over a week, making it sound great. The guy changes his name with every new customer he talks to. I had the pleasure (if thats what you want to call it, lol. ) to deal with Jeff Gibson. He told me that they only approve less then 1% of people for this. They ask you for all your avalible balances on your credit cards and thats pretty much what it will cost you to get started. Mine was 1,530.36 .... and thats for they say coaching, web site set up and software. Its all a scam. The guy even went to low to say he was a single father of an 8 year old, because i was a single mother of two. He tries to relate to your situation to get more trust from you. I called eBay and they told me that they do not work with this company and that its a scam. Please if they call you DO NOT FALL FOR IT!!!! The numbers that will come up is (801) 716-3032, (801) 759-5613. Good luck all.... If your a single mother or father looking for a job to do with kids...... SCHOOL BUS DRIVING!!!! I do it and bring both my kids with me. ITs the best job...i worked in banking for 8 years and now do this and i make only about 200-300 less then when i worked at the bank FT and i work 2 hours in the morning and 2 in the afternoon! Its so worth it!

Joined: 1/22/2006

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I now understand why guys don't like dating single moms Posted: 12/17/2006 2:40:07 PM
I know the feeling....im a single mom with a 17 month old and a new born...my husband of 5 yrs had affair throughout the marriage and got another woman pregnant...so i left. Life is hard but makes u a stronger person for it. What u need to do is keep ur head up high, who cares what others think. Make goals for yourself.....the past is the past no changing it. The future is what to focus on. You can make ur life better, but stop thinking of the past and move on to your brighter future! :)

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Single mum how to get back on the dating scene? Posted: 12/17/2006 2:00:55 PM
Yeah, Im a single mom of two. I have a 17 month old and a 2 week old. So, I was asking myself the same question. I was suprised to see how many guys dont care if you have kids or not. They have always told me that if they care about a woman enough they dont care if they have kids. There are men out there.....it takes time to find the right one. Your a beautiful woman, you will have no problems finding someone. Just make sure you REALLY SCREEN them...cause there are a lot of perverts out there. I talked to a few that seemed more interested in the fact that i had kids then talking to me. SO you need to make sure that they are not after your kids. SO be safe.....good luck.....

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Would you ever get married again? Posted: 12/17/2006 1:41:46 PM
Depends on the person i guess. I would for sure want a LONG engagement. Thats for sure. After what i went through with the marriage here.....it really sucked and the legal stuff is expensive.....YUCK lol!

Joined: 1/22/2006

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can you be friends with a ex Posted: 3/4/2006 11:27:30 AM
Sceptik....I lived with my ex after we broke up and we got along great. There was no rough times. I am so happy he is still a friend of mine...he was the best roommate i ever had. We dont live together anymore. But we are good friends and always will be....so I agree with you!

Joined: 1/22/2006

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can you be friends with a ex Posted: 3/4/2006 11:24:14 AM
Yeah it depends on how the relationship ended. I am friends with a few of my exs...although it does sometimes take time. I think for most of them, we started dating cause I liked something about them. But for sure it takes time to be able to do so, I think anyways! :)

Joined: 1/22/2006

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when your hot n when your not Posted: 3/4/2006 11:20:03 AM
I don't let little things like that spoil my night I agree....if a guy doesnt like the way i look, then ahhh well. I go out to have fun, not to turn the perverted men at the bar on!

Joined: 1/22/2006

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My BF/GF hit my child.... What now? Posted: 3/2/2006 1:39:01 PM
OMG!!!!!See if that was me....I would leave that person. I dont even hit my baby. There is other ways to disapline.

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Help me!!! Posted: 3/2/2006 1:29:41 PM
I agree with you!!! I was so stupid to say that.....I shouldnt have. He just didnt act like a person that i wanted around at the time. But if he would have told me that he met someone, then at least i would have known. I thought this would have helped us figure out what we both wanted in life. I didnt think he would lie to me over and over again. I really hoped he respected me enough to communicate with me. He would not tell me anything. He told me that there wasnt anyone else. I guess i was hoping for him to come to realize that me and his daughter was were he wanted to be. He has drug issues and i wanted him to stop doing them. I totally agree this was the wrong way to do it. I guess i wasnt thinking. Thanks for your opinion! :)

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Help me!!! Posted: 2/24/2006 8:07:36 AM
Ok, here is the problem......I was married for 3 years. I have a 7 month old baby. Me and my husband have been living apart since september. But we were trying to make things work. Then we decided to go and date other people but if it went past the frist date that we would talk about it. Well neither of us talked to each other about being serious about other people. We were sexually together on halloween and just here on V Day he said that he didnt want to be with anyone else. He said he wanted to work things out, and I agreed. We had also been talking everyday leading up to V Day and I though things were good. Well on the 17th 3 days after V Day.....I find out he has been sleeping with a girl. And he denyed it. He told me that they were just friends and it was a one night thing. She kept on calling him and writing to him (he works on a pipeline in Manning) Now I have just found out that she is 4 or 4.5 months pregnant with his kid. She doesnt even know how far along she is. Now Im devestated. He doesnt even spend time with my baby, he cant even support her. Please tell me what you think of this and give me advice........I need to know that this isnt my fault...or is it?

Joined: 1/22/2006

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 1/29/2006 4:20:40 PM
Yeah, i did it once. And it might be shallow, but come on seriously....you need to have some sort of attraction there. You cant be like, ok lets meet, after talkin for a while and making this connection mentally and then when you meet theres no physical attraction. Then you can hurt both yourself and the other person. I think in order to meet someone then you have to be attracted to both their personality and physical being. I have talked to many guys without seeing their pic, and then it turns out that Im not attracted to them and they are to me. Then how do you tell them ok, im not into you in that way cause there is no spark there. I think thats wrong. You end up hurting them in the long run. I dont want a guy to talk to me and get all attached to me and then meet me and him not attracted to me in a physical matter. Then its harder for them to tell you how they feel. But if there is a pic for both and you are attracted to them, then you can see if the personalitites go together too....

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