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 Author Thread: Is there anyone out there that would date shorter men
 Omphale
Joined: 4/7/2009
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Is there anyone out there that would date shorter men
Posted: 5/26/2009 9:58:53 PM
Absolutely I would. This is unusual. I saw a program on 20/20 years ago that was fascinating--and sad. They took this group of actors, all attractive men, some short, some tall. They gave them fake bios. They had them stand in a police-style line-up where women could view them behind a one-way screen. The women were told their bios: basically the short guys were given GREAT bios, such as, "Gino is a doctor/writer/romantic, etc., whereas John (a tall guy) is unemployed, still lives with his mother, just got out of jail", etc. You get the idea. ALL of the women only wanted to go out with the tall guys--even if they seemed to be losers, or have very little going on. And, believe me, ALL the guys were very handsome. It made me sick. I would never reject someone on a height basis! I realized them that I am an anomaly in the world of women. These women treated the short guys like men would treat obesely overweight women! I would love to date ANYONE cool, regardless of height. Open up your options, ladies.
 Omphale
Joined: 4/7/2009
Msg: 179 (view)
 
What are women really looking for?
Posted: 5/25/2009 9:10:28 PM
I can only speak for me, but I don't give a damn about your job, money, where you went to school, your car, etc. I want someone who's a GREAT conversationalist, (probably means he reads a bit!), makes me laugh a lot, has a touch of or a LOT of old-school/gentlemanly/European manners, has a great sense of TOUCH, loves to give a lot of time to foreplay (actually, come to think of it, regards most of what we do as foreplay!) and loves, loves, loves to make me smile and purr...the kind of guy for whom every day, whether he's poor or rich, is kind of a mini-adventure... Yes!
 Omphale
Joined: 4/7/2009
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Just an open letter to women and men
Posted: 5/25/2009 8:11:43 PM
Just SHOW UP, male or female, matters not one whit who goes first, just DO it, say something to that person you are attracted to, comment on something about them (DON'T keep it to yourself like the rest of oh-so-reserved Seattle, for instance, or the overly, painfully hip who feign ennui) but do it with verve and a smile, and if it doesn't work out, that's their problem, not yours, move on. I love to walk up to people and talk to them, nothing ventured, nothing gained, right? If I waited around, batting eyes, etc., for the guy to "do" something, well, come one, that's so stupid. Whoever gets the idea first acts on the idea first. And do cultivated the idea of a little absurdity to the whole process so you keep laughing...it IS hilarious from a certain point of view. Don't let pompous/sad/angry/stupid people slow you down...just keep doing your thing, someone will appreciate it.
 
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