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isntafraid

Joined: 4/9/2009

Msg: 4 (view)

Help me please need a guys advice Posted: 10/11/2009 4:40:59 PM
Dude sounds weak, I'd move on, sounds like he is scared to say something.

isntafraid

Joined: 4/9/2009

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Not sure what I should do next ... Posted: 10/11/2009 4:21:52 PM
Always walk away from drama. Its hard to do- but when you are 40, you will be better for it. Not saying settle for someone, just make sure the man isn't involved. I hate to mess up the wanna be playa men, but account for their time- txt them, expect a txt back in a timely fashion.

isntafraid

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Have you ever been caught Masturbating? Posted: 10/11/2009 4:17:09 PM
no but i enjoy it.

isntafraid

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What was your MMF BISEXUAL threesome like? Posted: 10/11/2009 3:52:15 PM
A mmf? I couldn't pretend to enjoy that. I was raised pretty liberal- I am down for FFM, but thats it. Moar power to the others, I am freaky, but cant get into that- man hope liberals dont call me a hatemonger\- I dont care what others do in their bedroom

isntafraid

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Why wont they swallow? Posted: 10/11/2009 3:43:35 PM
I have swallowed squirt, though most of the time I have penis inside, so consumption is not possible- I have shared squirt with the woman who does it plenty of times. I hate the feel and texture of my sperm- but anything a woman produces is cool with me - I like to have fun.

isntafraid

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Msg: 21 (view)

Perfumes, my boyfriend bought it and now there's an issue Posted: 10/11/2009 3:41:05 PM
Colonge/perfume goes on your neck and wrists.

isntafraid

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Sucking during and after sex? Posted: 10/11/2009 3:39:54 PM
U have no choice? Are you a man?

isntafraid

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Msg: 164 (view)

Who Does All The Work In Bed? Posted: 10/8/2009 7:49:19 PM
I've always done the most work, though I do like a nice ride to slap sum bewbs around. Even when I am on top, most every woman hasn't been "inactive" lol. If you are getting tired learn to roll and put her on top. Actually I could live the rest of my life with me doing all the "work"(work, c'mon...) I try to run 3 times a week, work out so I can have lotsa fun in the bed- I love working on a woman- makes me feel good- I have never felt a woman to be lazy in the bed.

isntafraid

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How do I politely tell a guy that I'm not interested Posted: 10/8/2009 7:12:29 PM
No, not ever never in 10 million years will prolly work. Tell him he is a cheater, enjoy his AIDS then hang up then ignore him.

isntafraid

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Why did he not want to meet? Posted: 10/8/2009 6:44:49 PM
So I chat with this guy on line for three weeks, and we speak on the phone twice. He says he would like to take me to a game. He says he would've come over and help with plumbing emergency. But when it gets down to it, and I ask him to meet me in a very public place, he doesn't respond. I have tried to IM the day after and he's not online. So where did I go wrong? He was a fake. Move on. Be glad he didn't show up. Bet he was scared to talk on the fone too. I wonder how long the fone calls were?

isntafraid

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How long to keep it in My Pants? Posted: 10/8/2009 6:35:54 PM
Ima tell OP, most if not every woman has been with a bigger man. Deal with that fact. You will prolly never be her best, longest, richest or anything else. Once you come to terms with that, realize she likes you for YOU, not anything else (unless you lie)

isntafraid

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Men & woman of a certain size??? Posted: 10/8/2009 6:32:13 PM
Sounds like OP had/has a crush on a skinny fit man and he dissed her and she thought they would be soul mates. Check out sum bigger guys, bet you can find one. You said you were proud of you size, great, go out and have sum fun and meet someone.

isntafraid

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How many is too many? Posted: 10/8/2009 5:26:54 PM
I don't want to know. Me and my current gf have had this talk and we were both honest- but be sure you can handle the answer. Some dudes get weird about it ( i have had talkes with my freinds "she's had 50 guys" or whatever) If the lady is with you now and you love her, be happy.

isntafraid

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what would you do? Posted: 10/8/2009 5:23:13 PM
That's cool if he was upfront. I had a bartender want to hook up with me one night and she told me the same thing. Thing is, even with a condom, you can still catch it... I am disease free and wanted to stay that way- We are still friends because I was nice about it- Herpes is a common std, single ppl got to be careful and hold those urges until you know about your partner.

isntafraid

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I am not sexually attracted to my own ethnicity Posted: 10/8/2009 5:20:16 PM
You have a fetish for other ethnicities. Reminding you of your mom and sister is weird. Try to look past skin color and focus on the person inside. I get looks and have been with more than one race, but that was never the ultimate yes or no to me. If it becomes an obsession, seek help.

isntafraid

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Just a little advice would be great Posted: 10/5/2009 9:44:21 PM
go head first into anyone you are attracted to- you only live once. Give your number- I usually have women give it first, but I am not a stalker, weird person ect...keep that in mind. I wouldn't allow a woman to pay anything on a date- If we hated each other, I am still paying... Meeting up is a personal choice- How long ? I have met women the same day. Be nice about turning someone down- say you are looking elsewhere.

isntafraid

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Dating is all about income Posted: 10/5/2009 9:37:46 PM
I play online poker for a living- not rich by any means but when the question of my profession comes up- it awkward. That being said, I have been out with women who have owned their own private planes. I am sure her shoes cost more than my Camry. If money is an issue, I let it be known that the money I earn is money I spend on ME. I am not an ATM.

isntafraid

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A (different) woman's views on sex/Sorry it's so long, but worth it, sooo worth it! Posted: 10/5/2009 9:05:13 PM
You seek an open an honest man. It's hard to find your soulmate, but they do exist... I never EVER wanted to get married and at 31, I am dying to put a ring on my gf. She has a great attitude, we communicate sooooooooo well, sex is crazy good- if we want something, we tell eachother. Giving BJ's shouldnt feel bad to you- do whoever you want. I am a stickler for traffic rules also, I always use my blinker ...

isntafraid

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fussy 30 somethings Posted: 10/5/2009 8:59:18 PM
I gotta be wowed- no question. I look for an outgoing attitude and an explosive personality. I am both and have always seeked the same. Don't compromise.

isntafraid

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Men in their 30s... Posted: 10/5/2009 8:48:53 PM
Sugar daddys is what I think when I see an older man with a younger woman- When I am 50, maybe I will change my mind... I agree with the guy above- those dudes look pathetic (as do the women..but you LOVE him, right? lol....)

isntafraid

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Broadcasting that ur disease free in ur bio. Posted: 10/5/2009 8:46:19 PM
But advertising that you're 'clean' is like a backwards advertisement for random sexual encounters. cool. take note men. clean means your ready to bang freely! This whole site is a long Seinfeld episode. Goodluck 2 ya! lol.

isntafraid

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Pussy Pumped- Horny? Posted: 10/5/2009 4:52:38 PM
do it have fun!!!!!!!!!!!

isntafraid

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over 40 and never married...is this a RED FLAG! Posted: 10/5/2009 4:49:55 PM
marriage is a hindrance- God bless them for not succumbing to the social norm.

isntafraid

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How long will he take to get over this? Posted: 10/5/2009 3:57:02 PM
viagra tiem. if you need it take it.. jeez. OP is too pretty (but sweet) to hang on to this man, he needs to realize he needs some medication to be ready to go.

isntafraid

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When a woman is squirting...exactly what is squirting out and from where? Posted: 10/5/2009 3:50:47 PM
can see the gland- the skenes glad, it is on the opposite side where the urine comes out. She gets upset when ppl call it pee or anything else- its not though I have had women pee or poo when having an orgasm. From some of the posts here and my TRY THIS thread some of their lovers would need SCUBA gear and a wet suit. We're not talking wet "SPOT" here. We're talking flood. Incontinence pads and huge beach towels are used to contain the flood and/or SPRAY. Once those are removed from the bed - fine but anybody who can sleep in THAT kind of lake was an OTTER in their last life. Man I am ignorant- How does this respond to my post?

isntafraid

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Any way to find + herpes people on this site? Posted: 10/5/2009 3:42:56 PM
according to the guberment (us, CDC http://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/STDFact-herpes.htm) stats almost 1-5 has some kind of herpes, not sure if people don't know or are embarrassed? You are doing right being honest- I had a girl tell me she had herpes..I did sum research and found that I could catch it even wearing a condom. We are still friends, I am glad I held off that night. Most of us have had spur of the moment sex or what I call "suspect" sex when we were younger, a lot of us rolled the dice. Some people don't let the disease stop them from being with the person they love, but I hope people are honest...

isntafraid

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Does this make me a cougar? Posted: 10/5/2009 3:35:01 PM
My gf is 36, I am 31, she says she is a puma, not quite a cougar.lol

isntafraid

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Msg: 68 (view)

Does this make me a cougar? Posted: 10/5/2009 3:34:05 PM
Do it,have fun. Hope it works out.

isntafraid

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Do Big Trucks turn on the Ladies??? Posted: 10/5/2009 3:32:31 PM
I am a big guy who likes small cars- used to love civics, CRX's ect... I am 6'3"- But I have women friends who love big trucks and big tires ( I live in SC if it matters) I wouldn't say a big truck ( or any fancy car) is a date breaker- but I am sure it helps.

isntafraid

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Great first date .. Then Poof Posted: 10/5/2009 3:30:03 PM
I had a woman not call me once- man that sucked. She looked like a barbie..Maybe she was feeling generous that night. I gave her my number and was hoping, she was rich, lived on the lake, hot as can be, drove a jag....oh well... if she didnt have fun that night, i sure did and remember it- man she had sum nice shoes...

isntafraid

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Great first date .. Then Poof Posted: 10/5/2009 3:23:59 PM
I have done the poof- can't lie. I didn't like the woman, she was into me...That was waaay back in my early 20's. I shoulda manned up and been honest- I just didn't want to hurt the girl- but NOW I realize by not getting back with the girl, I was doing more damage.

isntafraid

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How do you react.... Posted: 10/5/2009 3:21:00 PM
We started making out, and he pulled out a MAGNUM. I'll admit, I got a bit excited..... Best selling brand of condom is the magnum- Excellent marketing by trojan. What man who is concerned about his size would buy a normal condom?? A normal condom will ssssssstttttrrrrrreeeeeettttcccccccchhhhhhh over anything- try it- fill it up like a water balloon, see how strong it is...

isntafraid

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Broadcasting that ur disease free in ur bio. Posted: 10/5/2009 3:16:57 PM
I'd ask to see a current test result also before I went bareback(women like it unwrapped as much as men)- I don't want a disease. I always said I was drug and disease free- which was true.

isntafraid

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Broadcasting that ur disease free in ur bio. Posted: 10/5/2009 3:14:32 PM
I use to post my test results, lol. Scan the results... I am a germaphobe....

isntafraid

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Men in their 30s... Posted: 10/5/2009 3:13:21 PM
Me? No. I am done with immature people. Maybe I am stereotyping. I am not focused on age, but someone waaaay younger than me would raise a flag (especially for a long term relationship) Men looking for way younger women always raise a red flag to me-

isntafraid

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Are they really studying this in the UK? Golddigging is not a myth. Posted: 10/5/2009 2:13:58 PM
My uncle is a millionaire ( who doesn't have a rich uncle, right?) He drives an '86 VW fox. Never heard of it? No one else has either.

isntafraid

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When do you broach the topic? Posted: 10/5/2009 2:10:39 PM
Chasity? First date.

isntafraid

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What is the maturity of men 30+? Posted: 10/5/2009 1:15:26 PM
Dude above has a plan! I need to talk to him about mutual funds lol!

isntafraid

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What does it mean when a woman says... Posted: 10/5/2009 12:42:01 PM
I'd go with number 4 if you hear that alot. Confront the woman- ask her if she wants to break up- don't let her cheat on you.

isntafraid

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What is the maturity of men 30+? Posted: 10/5/2009 12:32:16 PM
I'm 31, never knew there was bachelor ways! Maybe I am stuck? Oh noes! I wanted to get married around 26-27- it hit me hard- but I didn't push it. What is financially secure? I am constantly behind a month on my electricity bill- do women really care?

isntafraid

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new g/f cant handle her alcohol Posted: 10/5/2009 12:25:14 PM
An alcoholic teacher. God save the kids!

isntafraid

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Big men, tiny women Posted: 10/5/2009 12:22:17 PM
I go for personality. My gf isn't "fat" but she isn't a stick either. She is the best ever. I have known a girl since highschool, small, petite, blonde, men consider her HOT- I think she is a sorry lay- I couldn't be with her in a relationship because of that. Appearances aren't everything.

isntafraid

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Why some women don't like receiving oral Posted: 10/5/2009 12:19:37 PM
My current gf can take it or leave it- I am the same way- it's ok though I like full on sex waaay better.

isntafraid

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How much money does a man need to make to keep you interested in him? Posted: 10/3/2009 10:30:20 PM
I'm glad my gf owns her own business. I have never provided anything to a woman. she can like me for me or move on. I'd be happy with my current gf in a trailer park and I know she feels the same.

isntafraid

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Should I have told her? Posted: 10/3/2009 10:27:43 PM
Ive had women do the same thing. I can't believe their husbands dont spot their behavior! HE's RIGHT THERE! I will swat their leg or hand (which is grabbing my stuff) away. I don't want the hubby to know, I don't want to have to fight someone. I have had to leave a social event because of a drunk wondering wife.

isntafraid

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How often do condoms really break? Posted: 10/3/2009 10:18:13 PM
Condoms break after wear- the longer you use one, I am talking about time, the more likely if will break. They tend to break during orgasm also, they can't handle the extra stress. It sucks so bad- 50 dollars for the morning after pill...

isntafraid

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When a woman is squirting...exactly what is squirting out and from where? Posted: 10/3/2009 10:15:35 PM
My gf, i can see the gland- the skenes glad, it is on the opposite side where the urine comes out. She gets upset when ppl call it pee or anything else- its not though I have had women pee or poo when having an orgasm.

isntafraid

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Msg: 132 (view)

Breast Size [Do guys ever notice the difference?] Posted: 10/2/2009 8:51:32 PM
Not all women. I think you are stereotyping. I am a boob connoisseur. I have seen many epic big bewbs, same size. Def not the majority.

isntafraid

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What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin? Posted: 10/2/2009 8:09:21 PM
I tend to last too long. My gf moans, screams, ect- I tell her to shut up while I am working on a nut.

isntafraid

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Msg: 268 (view)

My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****) Posted: 10/2/2009 8:06:12 PM
To OP, guy can be fat but woman must be fit? Not all guys have a gut by 40.

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