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 Author Thread: Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
 stihlgrl
Joined: 4/10/2009
Msg: 2328 (view)
 
Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 6/30/2009 9:43:02 AM
yes, i have met a person on POF with no picture. In fact the reason we met was b/c they didnt have a picture... I Have a camera we met to take a decent picture and then e mailed to them. Every man needs a decent picture of himself showing a pretty smile, eyes,hair combed and shirt ON! Yeah the self taken in the mirror shots and the web cam shots will work in a pinch but do they really emulate who you are? woman are visual creatures too.
 stihlgrl
Joined: 4/10/2009
Msg: 459 (view)
 
Any bbw hypocrites?
Posted: 6/30/2009 9:27:39 AM
yep being a big girl i may be a hypocrite to some.. I do like BHM (male version of BBW) but there is a huge difference between a BHM and a man who is a cross between Jabba the hut and Shrek. As long as his weight doesnt slow him down or create special needs, im ok with it . he should not be sloppy fat. come on gals you know the difference. when the guy says you have such a pretty face/personality yet refuse to associate with us b/c the men think it will make THEM look bad. the same may apply on our end too. think about it
 stihlgrl
Joined: 4/10/2009
Msg: 102 (view)
 
When your man checks out other girls
Posted: 6/30/2009 5:31:47 AM
come on ladies.... We all know that blatantly checking out other women by your date is totally disrespectful to us. We need to either appreciate the fact he IS out with you and not the one he is oogling at. He did choose you first.
If you dont like it you do have options.
you can always embarass him by either handing him a napkin to wipe his drool
you can say... " should i go over there and break the ice for you?"
you can say yeah she is gorgeous maybe shes my type?
you can always mention the fact that the green grass on the other side of the fence may be astro turf.

but whatever you do you need to realize hes a man and that's just in their nature.non shalontly blowing it off , recognizing it, or discrete embarrassment that you noticed the unacceptable behavior without making a scene usually quells it.

It has been my experience that some men do this behavior intentionally just to verify their date/you, are paying attention to them. they want you to catch them oogling another woman. Its all about the catch and reeling a 50# fish in on 8lb test line.
 
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