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PRdomesticgoddess

Joined: 4/11/2009

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do i come across as being a slut?! Posted: 11/10/2009 8:40:11 AM
Thank you everyone! I appreciate you taking the time to review and comment on my profile. I have taken into consideration on the improvements I can make and will be working on profile. Once again, THANK YOU!!!!

PRdomesticgoddess

Joined: 4/11/2009

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do i come across as being a slut?! Posted: 11/9/2009 10:55:31 PM
Okay, I don't get it! Please tell me do I come across as someone who is easy and just looking for sex. Please be honest....Is it my pictures? What? What am I doing wrong in my profile? Alot, not all of the guys who contact me or respond back to my message seem to think so.

PRdomesticgoddess

Joined: 4/11/2009

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What do you make of this? Is this BPD? Posted: 11/9/2009 8:38:04 PM
RED FLAGS slapping you in your face!!!!!!!!!! RUN, FORREST, RUN!!! Been there.....done that.......its only going to get worse. But, you seem to have your mind set (denile) Only you can make the choice to get your head out of the sand. Hopefully, you will realize it before it gets worse..........and it will get worse. Maybe not right away or even not for 6 months, but it will get worse.

PRdomesticgoddess

Joined: 4/11/2009

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What do you do to help relieve your childs stress? Posted: 10/21/2009 8:33:02 PM
Thank you to all who have responded! There were alot of great ideas, some I use and some I have not thought of. ValkyrieHJR: please start your own thread next time instead of hijacking somebody elses thread.

PRdomesticgoddess

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What do you do to help relieve your childs stress? Posted: 10/21/2009 1:07:46 PM
My 3 yr. old has developed a few tics. I have learned that it is caused by stress. It also gets worse during times of stress. I would like to know what works for you in helping your young child deal with stress. Any advice you have would be greatly appreciated. Please keep in mind that he is only 3 and he has Expressive/Receptive Language Disorder which means he is not easily able to communicate his wants and or needs and has a hard time understanding what is being said. Thank you in advance!

PRdomesticgoddess

Joined: 4/11/2009

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getting hooked up by friends???? Posted: 10/1/2009 8:09:36 AM
No, I will not swear off online dating or meeting guy just out and around after a couple of bad experiences. I have had my share both ways, and have not given up. But as mentioned previously, a lot of the time friends and families have no clue as to the type of person you would be interested in. I rather weed through the bad ones that I picked out then a friend did. It can get in the way of friendships as well. My friend and her bf felt horrible about how badly his friend behaved. Although I do not find his behavior to be a reflection on them our friendship has started to change. I think they are both just too embarrassed that they thought he would be good for me and it ended so badly.

PRdomesticgoddess

Joined: 4/11/2009

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getting hooked up by friends???? Posted: 10/1/2009 6:58:02 AM
About a month ago my friend and her boyfriend tried to set me up with one of his friends (Pete) Pete and I talked on the phone for about 3 hours during the course of a week. Well I agreed to meet him, the four of us got together at my friend house for a cookout. We all had planned on having a few beers. Well Pete brought a bottle of tequila and proceeded to get wasted within 2 hours he could barely walk. The whole time I was around him he kept on trying to impress me. He kept starting physical fights with his friend, told me about his gang activity , and kept following me around like a puppy making inappropriate comments about my body. I told him SEVERAL time I was NOT interested but he just doesn't seem to get it. He still calls me to see if I changed my mind. Just the other night he had a friend call me at 3 am to try and convince me to talk to him. That will be the last time I let my friend set me up!

PRdomesticgoddess

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One take on why some men won't date a woman with kids Posted: 9/18/2009 8:15:55 PM
When I was 19 I met my ex. He had a 15 month old son. I immediately fell in love with both of them. We spent the weekends and afternoons and holidays that alex* was there together right from the start. Within a year I had taken on the role as a third parent to him. Alex and I became very close. When I started working at a daycare , his mom enrolled him there. After a few months I stopped working there. His mom took alex* out of daycare so I could care for him while she was working. I ended up spending more time with him then his mom and dad put together. When Alex* was 3 I got pregnant. My love for Alex never changed and I loved him the same as I loved my bio child. I was responsible for Winston as if he were my flesh and blood. I took him to the doctors, to therapy ( he is special needs child) volunteered in his classroom weekly, went to school meetings, had lunch with him.......the whole nine yards. Right before his 7th birthday his father was removed from the house.(due to domestic violence) His mother and father would not let me see him. I felt as if I lost a child, I was completely devastated and heart broken. I still am to this day every now and again I will see him from afar and it hurts so bad not to be able to hold him and talk to him. I know he suffered from his loss of me as well. His behavior became uncontrollable, had problems at school and did not want to be at his dads house anymore............................. Because of this experience I do not think I could date a man with kids again..... If we were to last for a while I don't think I could handle the loss again....................Sorry so long!

PRDomesticgoddess

Joined: 4/11/2009

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Please help, Dad is putting kids in the middle. Posted: 5/27/2009 9:16:51 AM
I tried getting restaining orders but none were ever granted. His parents will pay for lawyers for him. I don't have the ability to pay for a lawyer,and legel aid has turned me down 3 times. I have recieved help from the Domestic Violence Shelter with filling out restraining orders but that is about as far as they can help in court. Everytime i've gone to court Dads lawyer shoots me down, or I did not word the forms right or my responses to the questioning.

PRDomesticgoddess

Joined: 4/11/2009

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Please help, Dad is putting kids in the middle. Posted: 5/27/2009 8:16:49 AM
My husband and I have been seperated for almost three years, due to Domestic Violence. Even after all this time and all I have done to avoid his abuse it keeps happening. I've tried getting restraining orders and all the other obvious things. Just a few days ago I filed charges on him for harrassing phone calls. He has court ordered visitation 3 afternoons a week. At times i have kept the kids from seeing him due to his behavior. He will talk badly about me in front of or to our kids(ages 7,5,and3)and speak to our 7 year old about issues we are having. Ex. A few months ago dad was trying to get back with me and kept on and on about it for days, when I told him there is no way I would ever get back with him... well he was taking our son to cub scouts and literally the whole way there he cried his ass off. Telling our son that mommy doesn't love him. So, when I pick up my son and he gets in the car he starts crying hysterically and wants to know why I am so mean to his dad. Dad will also tell the kids that I go out drinking(I hardly ever go out), don't want them, the list goes on and on. My son is starting to speak to me the way his father speaks to me. My Questions are how can I protect my children emotionally from their father? what should I say or not say in response to what they are hearing about me? Will we ever be free from him and his abuse?(ok, maybe you can't answer that one). Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

PRDomesticgoddess

Joined: 4/11/2009

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