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daydreamer57

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IS IT TRUE THAT A WOMAN SHOULDN’T PURSUE A MAN? Posted: 11/7/2009 4:23:09 AM
To each their own...been chased bfore....wasnt any big deal.....an assirtive womans nice...

daydreamer57

Joined: 4/12/2009

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Really need some advice!! Posted: 11/7/2009 4:20:04 AM
I think your of legal age....if your not comfortable...then dont do it.....and if the guys persistant.....then its prob not worth it....I wouldnt expect any woman to get involved unless she wanted to....I have many woman freinds and never crossed the line....

daydreamer57

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looking for intimate encounters on pof Posted: 11/7/2009 4:14:58 AM
Yep...be careful...the meaning of intimate encounters is different with different woman...read the profile....many make the mistake of assuming ....and usually get an A-hole mail back....if any....lol.....I am blatant about what Im looking for...its pretty much the only way to be.....good luck!

daydreamer57

Joined: 4/12/2009

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Insecurity issues Posted: 11/7/2009 4:11:02 AM
Ive been with woman of different sizes and never have I said anything about....their skin or anything that might be out of the ordinary.....most would explain even bfore we would get together....to bad your worried about this...it is after all whats in the inside.....this is one of the curses of weight loss....and the health factor out-weighs this small thing.....tell anyone your dating if it reaches the intimate stage.....they arent worth the time if something as trivial as that keeps you both from enjoying.....good luck....

daydreamer57

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Msg: 57 (view)

Phone Sex and Faking It Posted: 11/7/2009 4:02:06 AM
Only was involved in that one time and it was by mistake talking to a woman on the phone....she took it upon herself to start playing and when it was done...after all her moaning....I was on the floor laughing.....was def a waste of my time and because she was some 3-4 hrs away....wasnt ever gonna meet anyway....

daydreamer57

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Do men think women women wearing glasses are sexy? Posted: 11/7/2009 3:58:41 AM
AAAA...I think they serve a purpose....unless you have contacts of course....

daydreamer57

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Msg: 145 (view)

Would you date a man who lost everything? Posted: 11/5/2009 3:34:38 AM
been there-done that.....doin good now...but have seen guys that load up on woman too...sit back and watch...take ur time....if your any kind of character judge...you figure it out...good luck!

daydreamer57

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What's the point? Posted: 11/5/2009 3:31:30 AM
What part of good-bye dont ya understand?!....while I know nothing about your personality....I would geuss you put up with to much crap....look like a nice woman...ditch him and move on...to much differences.....leads to big ones!

daydreamer57

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caught my fiance having cyber sex and text sex with other women Posted: 11/5/2009 3:26:38 AM
In a normal relationship...nope....you should be his focal point as hes yours....will def be trouble in the future....nip it in the bud or say good-bye!

daydreamer57

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How do you trust anyone on dating sites? Posted: 11/5/2009 3:23:17 AM
its a crap shoot...think about it...how would you trust anyone in a normal dating scene?....maybe in a bar......talk and time unless either are out for a quicky....keep your guard up and take your time....sounds good to me!

daydreamer57

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omg that explains alot!! Posted: 11/5/2009 3:18:47 AM
aaaaaaa....little vague arent we?

daydreamer57

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Msg: 130 (view)

do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith?? Posted: 11/5/2009 3:17:03 AM
While the age would be a problem in a normal relationship....such as things in common....short term...Ive talked to some that like to be with older guys because of maturity....but for the most part alot of age difference...I think would be aproblem long term.....

daydreamer57

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How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 11/4/2009 6:14:53 AM
Un-real....at 52 Ive never been pushed off....but its just my style....like to keep her at bay for longevity....and as for her getting exhausted...thats never happened either....theyve always wanted more....

daydreamer57

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What is it with men & sexually liberated women Posted: 11/4/2009 6:09:15 AM
oh no....To me a sexually liberated woman means she knows what she wants and knows how to treat a man...as for the sleeps around thing....would be double standards and in this day and age....wouldnt be good...besides if the two are adults and the least bit honest...each know where the others comming from....

daydreamer57

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do guys like the smell of a woman's natural vagina? Posted: 11/4/2009 6:05:17 AM
Oh yeah....its a turn on BUT theres a difference in a woman that takes care of herself versus not......been with both and lets just say theres a difference...lol!

daydreamer57

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do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith?? Posted: 11/4/2009 6:03:00 AM
Im sure if its what they want at that particular moment...but as a rule they are very un-stable with what they want...ive been with a couple and they didnt have a clue on how to treat a man....Im no teacher either...one even latched on big time and Im no heart breaker.....I always make my intentions known....most woman dont know what its like to be appreciated ....intimately anyway....

daydreamer57

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Question for MEN Posted: 11/3/2009 5:29:43 AM
Your a bit old to be worring about what someone thinks...and so is he for that matter...if looks are that important and whats inside is missed than its no good for either of you....Ive dated woman that couldnt pass a mirror without a look and they were pretty shallow but it was their life....then Ive dated woman that like me cleaned up good.....most had their head on right and we enjoyed each other....as I said bfore....your not in school any more....youve gone thru lifes struggles....who do you owe anyone cept yourself!?!good luck!

daydreamer57

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Orgasm Help Posted: 11/3/2009 5:22:14 AM
Wouldnt think any woman would need help with masturbation....but ....it starts in the mind....maybe a drink....little music....warm bath.....your imagination...not rushing to the inevitable point....keeping yourself on the edge....try it...I do it when with a woman...keep her right there till shes about to crawl outa her skin...lol...

daydreamer57

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Why to worry about when to give sex? Posted: 11/3/2009 5:13:26 AM
LOL...gotta laugh....as for the actual act...its no big deal....sex starts with massaging the mind....comfort....chat....and then ones ability to actually know a persons body and what they want....Ive never been with a woman that wasnt satisfied....not a bragger by any means but appreciate woman and found it amazing how many have gone thru life without experiencing an orgasm....most arent aware of what their bodies are capable of...its un real....that a woman can be married,raise a family,and not enjoy what they have.....

daydreamer57

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Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Posted: 10/26/2009 6:14:01 AM
Oh yeah...she had a bute...then cried....cripe I thought I did something wrong....but she was very happy with the experience....caught me off guard...thats for sure...lol.

daydreamer57

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Those Golden Shower Posted: 10/26/2009 6:10:19 AM
All in preference I guess...Im an oral freak....love it and specially the teasing I like to do....never had the taste to get a warm shower such as what your talking bout....

daydreamer57

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Here is my theory on why I am the ONLY one he has ever been faithful to Posted: 10/20/2009 3:46:09 AM
Flattering yourself will get you no where....must not be many hats that fit your head either....lol.

daydreamer57

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i like phone sex Posted: 10/20/2009 3:39:16 AM
Are you kiddin me!!....hapened to me once and I was on the floor laughin...Might ba an alternative to the real thing and maybe in a way safe sex but also think its very lame...rather be next to her.....touching,tasting,smelling...thats what its about!

daydreamer57

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Do guys worry too much about the physical? Posted: 10/19/2009 6:00:20 AM
Its normal for a guy to be worried about the physical...specially younger ones....Im in my 50s and know thats a myth....I can and have enjoyed a woman with soft touches,talking,kissing,foreplay....sounds like a player?...nope....womans minds are a tadd deeeper than guys....if you have her interests and can relax her and give her that safe feeling....it doesnt take much....been some nights after a great dinner...Ive kissed her....massaged her....little petting...and she fell asleep on my lap.....its pretty comforting actually...but if your young and wanting to score....better go to a meat market....lol

daydreamer57

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Ugly Vaginas? what would stop you from being intimate when you see it Posted: 10/19/2009 5:52:57 AM
Absolutely not....Ive never seen what you are calling an ugly vagina...they all have their appeal...the problem I have is woman that might lack cleanliness skills....I shower sometimes three times a day and specially if Im about to date a woman....Ive dated woman that after and when we were going to get intimate didnt appear to be as clean as I would think....why I know this is I might date the same woman a second time and when we are intimate she appears to be more hygenic as I am big on oral and its very noticable....as for vaginas....in the end thats where its at and ends....calling a vagina ugly would be like a woman making fun of a guys penis......not good and very imature...later!

daydreamer57

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So he has been in prison so what right? Posted: 10/19/2009 5:42:07 AM
Well...usually I read the authors profile to see what their about but your not available....you might have an idea what this guys deal is but most do hide what they really did or their history...dont be nieve....I work in a prison...seen it all...and if you have any children...keep-em at bay.....till you think you know the deal.....I have a theory...first time in the big house----hes got a chance at a real life when he gets out.....any more---nope hes a loser and will never fly right....Good luck and keep your eyes open!

daydreamer57

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A real woman Posted: 10/19/2009 5:32:57 AM
While im not looking for a life time thing...Im always seeing this real man and nice guy wanted captions....I know there are many players on these sights....but in the normal dating thing....one doesnt really know who they are really with till they've dated a while...most of these profiles wether male or female try to sell....and some even insult...lol...

daydreamer57

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looks or profile, what attracks you first? Posted: 10/16/2009 4:32:05 AM
I do read the profiles...most say the same and as Im not looking for a life time deal....if I even get a response to a compliment....its what she says or how she says it that would give me an idea if I would pursue....to many are on here because they are dreamers or not happy with the marriage....fantasize...what-ever...lol!

daydreamer57

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Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy? Posted: 10/16/2009 4:28:05 AM
lol....Work in a prison and see a ton of what you might call "hot" woman visit these scum bags....its either the bad boy thing or they have a ton of money stashed...figuring they might get a little.....oh then theres the ones that have children by them...never could figure it out....alot is intimidation...then theres the females that think their something...as in stuck-up or cougars.....have only run into a couple of those....and just walked away...laughing....

daydreamer57

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Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters! Posted: 10/16/2009 4:21:25 AM
Grow-up...there are laws against child molesters....a woman over 21 should be able to distinguish men that are looking for just the physical and if they do get what you called tricked....well...they can walk away.....unless the idiot starts a stalking thing...then the law comes in.....Im on here for intamacy and not a full out relationship and the few I have met....Ive walked away because they are looking for security....and im not....and yes..as ADULTS men and woman should make it clear on whats expected....but games are played....called human nature and it stinks!

daydreamer57

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Bad in the sack Posted: 10/16/2009 4:01:37 AM
As a guy that does put woman bfore myself....it would be very hard for you to fool me with a bogus climax....lol....im no big head but know very well how to treat woman and pride myself not only on the physical but the mental which is VERY important to not only woman but men also.....

daydreamer57

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can it be fixed Posted: 10/15/2009 3:46:03 AM
Two months isnt a long time and in reading and seeing your profile....not sure why you would have an asteem problem....at 49 you dont have to explain anything to anyone....but should enjoy your life....been there-done that....you have the physic of a 25 yr old and are attractive...course whats in your head is another thing....YOU have to be comfortable with your self and who you are with...if your questioning it with this guy....might be a problem...relax....and enjoy...dont pick it apart....might end up loosing....looks are only skin deep.....

daydreamer57

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Virginity for Sale Posted: 10/15/2009 3:39:03 AM
In these days nothing surprises me...and no I wouldnt pay for virginity...never had to deal with a virgin and never wanted to...

daydreamer57

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Sucking during and after sex? Posted: 10/15/2009 3:37:02 AM
Enjoy yourself...its rare and very nice....a woman thats complete as I say enjoying you and her without boundaries.....Ive been with some like that.....GREAT!

daydreamer57

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Why wont they swallow? Posted: 10/15/2009 3:30:48 AM
A woman thats a squirter is somewhat rare unless they do and dont know it....Ive run into a few and find it very erotic.....and YES...I do suck it up so to speak...as a woman does...well...some of them...but like a woman sucking you to completion...its a personal choice...wouldnt expect her to do that unless she was comfortable....

daydreamer57

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sexually frustrated Posted: 10/15/2009 3:25:39 AM
Well...at 21 in your age group most would wet their pants if ya touched their leg...lol...I can only speak for myself without any conciet have always given woman the most and put them bfore me on the orgasm scale....and to the can he do it more than one time thing....I have...but...there is re-coup time and in between we have kissed and fondled for the next time....your still in the age group where all those guys are still playing video games and dont even like to work....shop around ....hes there somewhere....and have fun...enjoy your life and dont take anyone to serious.....mistakes get made that way!

daydreamer57

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Why would a lady post a prego pic on a dating site? Posted: 9/21/2009 6:21:47 AM
Yep..but I gotta believe this womans prob horny and hubbys not giving it to her....its like these woman putting their children on these sights....they have no idea whos looking and planning dumb stuff....go figure

daydreamer57

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When eating pu$$y Posted: 9/21/2009 6:17:48 AM
Your young....but theres one behind the other one and depending on how a womans treated this could go on for quite some time.....alot has to do woth preparation...nope Im no Dr just learned thru life and enjoy it all....enjoy yourself!

daydreamer57

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What do you enjoy about one night stands? Posted: 9/21/2009 6:14:27 AM
I find one night stands dont bring out the real person....takes more ....to bring out the real person and how they act....but for the person that does like it ....prob just an itch scratcher.....meat market thing....

daydreamer57

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Cheating...do men really do it more than women? Posted: 9/21/2009 6:10:54 AM
LOL....everyones capable of this...woman and men....doesnt matter...if one or the others not happy they look....when I out Ive run into woman who are looking for the night because daddies at home crashed on the couch....to tired....doesnt wanna go out....same with guys....shes tired...bored which happens to both....gotta keep the adventure going when your married....

daydreamer57

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She asked for money at the end of the date! Posted: 9/21/2009 6:04:23 AM
Ya shoulda asked for a menu at the begining...prob woulda been a satisfied customer then...and no...Ive never had that happen...lol

daydreamer57

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Where have all the nice guys gone? Posted: 9/21/2009 6:01:13 AM
While Im not here for a long term thing...and do make it clear to whom I talk too....Im sorry for others actions but dust off and move on...their in every corner of the earth...the rudeness is all around....You will find what your looking for....on occasion...I have but as a general rule,other than the usual game players most are looking for a life time deal....personally I dont think this is the way to go....fate has alot to do with that....meting by mistake you might say.....good luck from someone who really means it!

daydreamer57

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Texting over Calling or Both?? Posted: 9/21/2009 5:54:44 AM
I think those itty bitty key boards have taken over everyones itty bitty brains...and no I dont text...might pass something thats funny on but...I do call and like to talk to a real person unlike the rest of the world....later

daydreamer57

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sex drive in women over 40 Posted: 9/14/2009 4:05:20 PM
Listen....woman that are treated right dont loose their drive.....who wants to get intimate or what-ever with an A-hole.....yeah...yeah...yeah...there is a chemistry thing that could go arye but all in all if they feel the genuine feeling and carring they love it...goes for a man too....no one wants to be with someone thats just going thru the motions....noooooo goood...later

daydreamer57

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Msg: 74 (view)

A question about Oral sex Posted: 9/9/2009 6:23:20 AM
I havnt ever been with a woman that when treated right hasnt enjoyed the act....never.....some might fight it alittle but once I tease and kiss and touch all the right places they surrender andd enjoy it all....as for recieving oral.....most have reciprocated but again its a personal choice....ive never pushed it

daydreamer57

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looks or profile, what attracks you first? Posted: 9/9/2009 6:05:25 AM
While Im not on here for a life time thing...looks arent everything...and knowing where a persons at in their life IS important....but in the same token when meeting a person the first glance and look seems to be the human thing...lol....Ive caught woman looking at me as I have them...we all have our likes and dis-likes....physically anyway...

daydreamer57

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Msg: 56 (view)

Is It Ever Ok or Is It Just Plain Rude Posted: 9/9/2009 6:00:52 AM
I consider my self decent and when ever meeting anyone .....am cordial...but as many of you know during any meet...usually the first couple of minutes give you some kind of idea about the future of any more meetings.....Ive always been decent...doesnt matter what the circumstances were...and could have people rolling on the floor with stories on some of the meets Ive been on....

daydreamer57

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Penis Enlargment Posted: 9/3/2009 4:25:13 AM
Obviously.....some have no life here....

daydreamer57

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Msg: 102 (view)

sex drive in women over 40 Posted: 9/3/2009 4:22:01 AM
lol....doesnt matter what the age is...if they are treated with respect and right in the bedroom....they want more.....been there-----done that...

daydreamer57

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Msg: 93 (view)

Male/Female Friendship Posted: 9/3/2009 4:17:18 AM
When Ive ever had a female friend....we might of played with words but never crossed the line......usually when that lines crossed one or the other gets their feelings hurt and then the wars on.....its a comfort zone and the pair can complain,piss and moan at each other without the physical which puts a whole different mix to things.....

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