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Joined: 4/12/2009

Msg: 7 (view)

ex's Posted: 7/8/2009 10:20:27 PM
Not all women feel threatened. When I was married, I actually became friends with my husbands ex-wife. Granted, he thought the universe would implode immediately, but it created a drama-free situation. She wanted to know that she could trust this stranger with her child and I couldn't blame her. I've been dumped because I'm still friends with an ex-boyfriend; oh well, their loss. It may even improve my view of my date if he remained friends with his ex; it would show to me that both parties were adults and the relationship ended in a respectful way.

Joined: 4/12/2009

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Why do men say LTR if they don't mean it? Posted: 7/8/2009 10:00:51 PM
This is exactly what I was thinking. He sounds a lot like my ex, who has been diagnosed with BPD. My ex wants a relationship with the right woman but because of BPD, he has the same dating patterns with everyone. Starts out full-throttle and can literally change in hours. We are just now getting to know each other for who we really are, it took almost 2 years for our friendship to develop to this level-and yes, it is still an on/off friendship.

Joined: 4/12/2009

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How long have you been single??? Whats the longest? Posted: 7/2/2009 9:30:25 PM
Single since my husband gave me divorce papers on Christmas Day 2001..later discovered he had discovered meth while I was at work. Dated a guy a few years later for 2 months only to find out that he was married. I e-confronted him while he was in Iraq. Last pseudo-relationship lasted less than 12 days when he told me "he was getting scared of getting hurt again." A few horrific, drama filled months later, he apologized for his behavior, we are now best friends.

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whats his problem???? Posted: 7/2/2009 9:06:14 PM
I would question why you are so adamant about a man (that you don't even really know) hurry up and meet your children. Maybe he wants to see and get to know you as a woman/his date instead of "mom." I couldn't imagine introducing any new men to my son unless it was ABSOLUTELY necessary or by complete accident for at least 6 months. It wouldn't be fair to my son to get to know "mom's friend" only to have the gentleman decide we weren't a match and disappear forever.

Joined: 4/12/2009

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Warning women about piercings? yes or no Posted: 6/5/2009 9:51:04 PM
I completely understand your situation/question. I basically tell people first thing about the various places I have pierced-at least the "normal" or "everyday" piercings that people can deal with and/or see. Some guys run, the others could care less. However, every few ever hear about my below-the-belt piercing because frankly, it isn't any of their business until I decide that it's their business. If and when that time comes for you, I'd definitely tell the lady because, who knows, she herself could be pierced and the last thing you want is a jewelry conflict (barbells and rings do not mix).

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