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WOMEN: What is the ideal height difference between a man and a woman? Posted: 6/11/2006 7:13:27 PM
Ahhh, Viksen, that is NOT true......................when you are about the same size (within 2 inches), everything lines up perfectly; especially the lips, so you can get those long deep kisses while everything else fits just right!

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To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF Posted: 6/11/2006 7:41:46 AM
This entire string makes me want to puke.

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Fell in LOVE TOO FAST - now peddling backwards? Posted: 6/10/2006 2:56:22 AM
Hey DK---Ouch, Ouch and Ouch. Similar story. Fell in love fast, we spent hours/days together. I took time off to be with him. I drove 2 hrs from PA to NY to do this. We had amazing times together with lots of great conversation, intense belly laughing at stupid things and exchanges of what the future would hold--those, by the way were mutual exchanges, not one sided. I told him I loved him. He had some preconceived time schedule in his mind about that. He had been apparently emotionally brutalized by a previous woman. So I went ahead and asked for the "exclusive" thing too. I got comments like "It'll be exclusive when I say its exclusive" and "I'm dating ONLY you, for now". Why did he throw in the 'for now' part every time. Then throughout the "relationship" , he kept leaving evidence of looking for others. The fly-by web cam i.m. person who just happened to know that he cammed, the fly-by dirty instant messages from people who were supposedly just randomly im'ing. All the signs were there. He was NOT in the relationship to be exclusive. I was his temporary woman until the next one came along. What hurt more was that he lied about it all and then accused me of being paranoid. I think he got his jollies off that I was a "one man woman". The irony was that his byline was "honest guy looking for an honest gal". Now the flipside of this was that I too had been in an abusive relationship. I too had built up the walls to protect myself from this kind of person. From the beginning he told me to trust him and then bombarded me with the great conversation, lending a strong shoulder to cry on, taking me places I had never been, spending amazing times with him. So I actually let the wall tumble slowly and I let him in; heart mind and body. But here I was again, wondering why I should bother when all it does is bite you in the butt again. So when the mind games of "for now" kept repeatedly showing up, and him making me feel crazy for being jealous and wondering what was going on started and finally, he gave me the ultimatum of " taking a break from the relationship and sitting back and really deciding if I could ever trust him; but don't call me back unless you can" came over the phone, I decided to do just that. I LEFT HIM. It hurt. But I knew I'd get over it; albeit with a hole in my heart. And, frankly, if that guy decided to come back because he realized I was possibly the best thing to happen to him (which I believe I was), well then we'll talk, but this random back and forth crap and the crazy making games will not be a part of the equation. Have I gotten stronger as a result? Nope, just more wary of the flim flam man. Will I allow myself to get involved with another person--you bet. I deserve a good person; because I'M a good person and not everyone is dishonest. I wish you luck and will warn you--it'll make you nuts. But if you love her and she's not seeing anyone else or attempting to see anyone else; then I'd hang in there. Its hard to find someone that you feel wonderful with. They are far and few between. If her kids love you,you've got a better chance. But remember too, now there are more hearts to be broken if she rejects you. Or worse, she may stay in it BECAUSE of the kids--that doesn't only happen in marriages. I don't envy you your position in life. Unfortunately, I doubt that anything I just wrote will help you. It's just random rambling.....good luck.

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Broken Verizon Wireless Phone - How to Replace w/o $$$ Posted: 4/15/2006 8:45:45 PM
Had a Samsung XXX with camera, voice etc. The hinge broke and now the phone is basically hanging by the left hinge wire. Anyway, how can I get a new phone without having to pay the full $200-300? Have heard (on POF) awful comments about buying refurbs. I have 5 months until my 2 yr contract expires and I want to change carriers entirely. Any suggestions? Also, can "Verizon" phones be used with other carriers wireless service plans?

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Does perfume really work? Posted: 4/9/2006 1:42:26 PM
OMG yes, it DOES work. Stetson, yummy. From the feedback I've gotten, ET's ' Passion' has the same effect on the guys. P.S. I don't think there's anything worse than someone who smokes a few packs of cigarettes a day and lives in a house full of smokers YECKKKKKKKKKK. Smell hits you about 5 feet before they get anywhere near you; theres not enough cologne or Febreze in the world to cover up that stink ! Won't even discuss the breath ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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How do you tell a man..... Posted: 4/5/2006 6:12:58 PM
OMG, LMAO, not sure which is funnier the OP or the responses. I just keep thinking about that tongue. EWWWW, then, AHHHHH. SORRY DUPED IT!

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How do you tell a man..... Posted: 4/5/2006 6:00:48 PM
OMG, LMAO, not sure which is funnier the OP or the responses. I just keep thinking about that tongue. EWWWW, then, AHHHHH.

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What would you compromise? Posted: 4/5/2006 5:51:25 PM
I've compromised on bald vs covered (like either one now) I've compromised on wealth (and realized it doesn't matter unless he's flat broke) I've compromised on spirituality (because I believe we all have goodness in us) I've compromised on smoking (and then coughed my way through dates, but enjoyed myself anyway because they were considerate smokers as much as possible) I've compromised on looks (because the personality remains) But I won't compromise on integrity, personality, kindness, family, and fidelity. So if I'm alone because of my lack of compromise, then so be it. Too bad, so sad.

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JOKES!!! Men vs. Women...Let The Bloodbath Begin!!! Posted: 4/5/2006 5:20:18 PM
SICK SICK SICK - GOTTA LOVE IT!

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Fell For It Again! Posted: 3/30/2006 10:00:13 AM
No surprise here.........that idiot opened an account today and already closed his account. lonelydad3 35 - User closed account Mar 30 2006 7:12AM

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Fell For It Again! Posted: 3/30/2006 9:55:49 AM
Lonelydad3--I wonder if you have any daughters? Is that the kind of crap you want for them? What the hell is wrong with you? These are PEOPLE! I'd hate to be in your corner of the world wherever it is. Did your parents have any kids? I hope someone, anyone, that you slept with had some sort of germ that will make your XXXX fall off! What a jerk!

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Fell For It Again! Posted: 3/29/2006 7:16:07 PM
Jeez, I'm trying to think of some guy partners. Hmmmm, Millie & Vanillie? Zigfried and Roy? Penn & Teller? Anyway, we all bit@h about the other halves (whatever they may be), but we always go back to find the right one. Cross the country, JN? Anyone I know?

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Fell For It Again! Posted: 3/27/2006 8:30:27 AM
OK, I've calmed down now and am still waving goodbye, but have to share that I went on a malebashing humor forum and saw this one: Whats the difference between a man and a vibrator? The man will mow the lawn. And no, I'm not going to turn into a male basher. I, frankly, love men; just not the ones I've met so far!

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Fell For It Again! Posted: 3/27/2006 1:17:13 AM
Response to EastSideEddie This guy is in the category of men who like the hunt more than the meal. It is a sign of insecurity that he wants to constantly be reminded that he's still "got it". Having someone on an emotional yoyo feeds that need. Wave goodbye as you are walking backwards and never look back. This will go on forever. People can pretend and appear to change for brief periods, but in the long haul they can't change who they really are. Don't be a pawn in his little chess game. Be the queen. ***** Just came from a great weekend with a guy that I've been seeing for a couple of months now. No promises except that we were giving it a chance; not seeing others for the time being, but no firm commitments. That aside, a friend directed me to a website where his profile claims he is "looking for hot sex with someone as hot as he is". Meanwhile, this guy has to inject some liquid form of a Viagra substance directly into his, well, you know, and I can't even begin to list the other physical problems as well as personal problems he's experiencing. I've been the dumbass listening to him and consoling him. OK, I'll admit, we "clicked" immediately, BUT Guess what, ESE, you're absolutely right, before I reach the point that so many other POF'rs here have reached--where my heart is laying in the road bleeding out--I think I WILL just pick it up right now, wave and start walking backwards as you said. He's definitely insecure, and I was the sucker building his ego. So here I go again, back into the pool. With yet another brick in the wall that seems to be growing taller and taller every single day. Not looking for pity, just a real man with a real heart who'se looking for a real woman with a real heart. I have so much to offer the right person. I know there's someone out there for me. I won't give up, but I'm going to need a good mountain climber to climb this enormously high wall. And if that mountain climber doesn't show up? Well, then I guess I have a room for rent in my house! (and, of course, the endless supply of long life batteries)

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Interview from GMA re Internet Dating - Thoughts? Posted: 3/26/2006 9:19:02 PM
Good Morning America (GMA) had a brief spot about internet dating. My interpretation was that internet dating has become pretty awful. Not because things are so different from "back in the day", i.e., going out, meeting people, getting to know each other and allowing time for a relationship to develop. Instead, the person being interviewed felt that people surf the singles sites, find someone, go out and have a really great date and then they go home and surf the web to see if they can find someone better. I've heard friends say they feel like its addictive. Some friends of mine are in serious relationships and still surf and actually consider contacting any new face they see. I think the GMA spot was a pretty good snapshot of this whole internet dating thing. What do you think?

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For Women Only ! Is there sex after hysterectomy ? Posted: 3/24/2006 5:22:34 PM
Modzmolly- 2 things for you. First go to you doctor and get a replacement therapy going. Generally there are natural pharmacists (homeopathic?) who can mix an incredible cream of progesterin and I believe yams. This blend will take away any of those nasty side effects. There is also an estrogen cream that will get your hormones going again; the stuff works, but its messy. Gets absorbed into the system through your skin. Second, go find a man that will work with you and turn you on. I went through a period of "no urges" and realized it wasn't me, it was them. Once I found someone who knew what to do, there were major urges and it felt awesome again. Believe me, I feel like a total woman; no periods, no problems and now that the kiddies are gone, no more locks on the doors! YEE HAA

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Is he just not that into you if he says he is being stalked so I can't have his number? Posted: 3/12/2006 8:25:41 AM
Dated one of those (or was it 2) OH MAN WHAT A RIDE. Drama, chaos, anger, bitterness, sudden surprise of the wife showing up, I even had to file a personal protection order from one wife that I didn't know about. No phone? RUN, don't walk.

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8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Posted: 2/10/2006 7:37:32 PM
smallhagrid, great points you make. But I disagree; I AM looking for a good man. Don't mind a homebody; that doesn't mean he comes home, expects dinner and then falls asleep- with his hands down his pants. Don't mind if he wears jeans: I actually love jeans on a guy, but occasionally a suit is needed, just like I have to wear a dress to some events (shit happens). I have never looked for a guy that makes the big bucks, however, I am not going to support a man. My salary and his should make us both comfortable and able to enjoy the simple pleasures in life without going broke. I'm willing to go "dutch" if we have to--remember I want this man in my life as much as he wants to be in mine---why should he always foot the bill--I work too? So in response to your disappointment, YES, there are women who are looking for good men. I will not, however, ever compromise feeling loved and cherished, because that's what I want to offer my man in return. And NOPE, I'm not a dreamer. I realize I may be alone for a long time, but I'm willing to miserable alone than be miserable with someone that isn't good to me and with me. For both of our sakes, I hope we find them. Michelle

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