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turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

Msg: 20 (view)

the drunken phone call Posted: 10/11/2009 1:49:30 PM
any contact that is either too late at night or too early in the morning is a deal breaker for me.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Moving In Posted: 10/6/2009 5:10:21 PM
I agree with Landra on this. Best to be married before moving in.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Is it true that a woman needs to let the man be the pursuer? Posted: 10/4/2009 6:45:29 PM
I will be the first to reply to this and say that it is BEST TO LET THE MAN do the pursuing. Enough said.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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a date that lost me on purpose Posted: 10/4/2009 6:40:54 PM
What a loser. Forget about him and move on.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Not sure what I'm looking for... Posted: 9/5/2009 9:34:03 PM
Doesnt' sound like you are ready ofr a relationship. Not knowing what you are looking for is a sign that you are not ready.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Meeting guys in person Posted: 8/22/2009 8:54:32 PM
I always smile at guys that I fancy. It's an invitation for them to come over and chat. If they don't, they're not interested. Oh, and try waving to guys too. THAT WORKS.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Haiku Connection - This is It ! Posted: 8/17/2009 12:30:33 AM
Ah! This is a good thread for me. Here I go. Building a lantern Bustier we are making Eliciting stares.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

Msg: 26 (view)

my bloke of 4 years found met someone on here and now i dont know what to do Posted: 8/17/2009 12:27:11 AM
It sounds to me that you should move on immediately and get rid of this @sshole out of your life.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Women: Your POF e-mail experience? Posted: 8/15/2009 5:25:28 PM
Your email sounds generic. Something that you send to mulitiple people at once. I don't respond to those messages and most of girls won't either. If a girl is interested in you, she'll email you back and offer a number or another way to contact her other than her pof email account. You should probably start reading a girls profile clearly and mention something that you find interesting in it.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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What do women really want in a man besides looks ? Posted: 8/15/2009 5:05:27 PM
-integrity -dignity -the ability to be a good father -the ability to be a loving and supportive husband -social tact and grace -HONESTY -SINCERITY

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Are teachers destined for single lives? Posted: 8/15/2009 4:52:46 PM
I am a high school counsellor and think that the only reason that teachers will lead single lives is due to lack of social skills and grace. Mind you, that goes for ALL professions and people.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Moving too fast stories? Posted: 8/12/2009 8:48:36 PM
Yeah, big warning sign. Move on please.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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After 3 dates he called me beautiful, what do I say back? Posted: 8/12/2009 8:40:04 PM
Oh, you should just say, "thank you!"

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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How much should a man chase you to show he is interested? Posted: 8/12/2009 8:23:01 PM
It's true. If he doesn't call you or contact you, he isn't interested. Move on.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Stupid is as Pot Stupid does Posted: 8/12/2009 8:02:38 PM
Pot is a deal breaker for me.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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tell tale signs in profiles Posted: 8/12/2009 7:15:07 PM
I think for me, the red flags are when a guy repeats themselves and are anal retentive. For example: "I am not interested in going to nightclubs. I repeat, I am not interested in going to nightclubs". It is necessary to only say things once and only once.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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How do i know? Posted: 8/9/2009 12:18:19 AM
Well, I think you better start to develop that intuition of yours or start listening to it. Pay attention to tone of voice in both telephone and email conversations. If you feel something is not right, DON'T MEET.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Good Looking, Nice Credentials - Why No Connection? Posted: 8/8/2009 11:30:07 PM
Because people don't want to end up with Tom,****or Harry. It's good to be selective in who you want to date.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Guys seem interested but dont call? confusing! Posted: 8/4/2009 12:55:15 AM
If he doesn't call, he is not interested.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Another Lesson Learned Posted: 8/3/2009 9:12:32 PM
Oh man, That's really weird. Why did she say "f5ck you" anyways?

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Women going out in uncomfortable shoes Posted: 8/3/2009 1:44:56 AM
I always bring a pair of extra sneakers with me in my purse.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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no friends Posted: 8/3/2009 1:41:30 AM
Nope, I would treat having no friends as a huge warning sign.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Roses or chocolates? Posted: 8/2/2009 2:14:03 AM
What about gummi bears?

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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stood up Posted: 8/2/2009 12:40:54 AM
^ I agree with Spikey Fridge. I take it one step up and ask the guy to call one day ahead to confirm. If he doesn't do so, I take it as cancelled.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Internet dating .... the ones you want and the ones you dont Posted: 8/2/2009 12:32:42 AM
yes The ones that I usually feel a strong connection too don't reciprocate, so I move on. And the ones I don't want to have anything to do with, chase me intensely.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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MID SUMMER DANCE , AUGUST 8, 2009 Firefighters Club, Burnaby, BC Posted: 7/30/2009 9:30:47 PM
This sounds fun! I live near it too!!!

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Do you think putting your child/ren photos in profiles is a turn on? Posted: 7/27/2009 2:45:08 AM
Children in photos are a turn off for some women because they don't want to date someone who has children with another woman. Just being honest.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Dating a Married Man Posted: 7/27/2009 2:36:03 AM
Well, I think it'd be best to end what you have with this guy and move on to someone who isn't married.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Drugs?! Posted: 7/26/2009 3:17:02 AM
I'm sure there are a ton of people who don't admit to their drug use, be it recreational or addiction. However, I've never tried drugs in my life. Therefore, I am entitled to to answer "No" to drug use in my profile.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Why do women date mutiple guys at once? Posted: 7/20/2009 11:39:27 PM
I am a serial dater and believe that unless you have met that person who takes your breath away, it'd be best to keep on dating and keeping the options open.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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So he has been in prison so what right? Posted: 7/18/2009 11:19:59 AM
Why would you even consider going out with someone who has been in jail?

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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how do i handle this future issue? Posted: 6/30/2009 1:02:37 AM
Well, handsome, I can tell you that you're mighty looking in my opinion. With regards to this dental work, it might be helpful to seek legal advice and get your money back that was paid for botched dental work. Lets work on that first before you worry about going public with the teeth. Take care of the mouth sweetie.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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hrmm.. might need some advice. Posted: 6/30/2009 12:54:50 AM
Too bad about falling asleep. You snooze and you definitely lost out here. Both of you obviously didn't make concrete plans to meet again and perhaps she was hoping you'd set out some plans. Because you didn't, she probably thought you weren't interested. Better luck tommorrow.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Long vs short hair Posted: 6/30/2009 12:43:46 AM
It really doesn't matter if a girl has long or short hair. If you've got a pretty face, you're pretty. Rock the bald look if need be.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Why is it that women take things for face value? Posted: 6/26/2009 12:57:30 AM
Because things should be taken at face value. That's why.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Why can't you just say money instead of security? Posted: 6/26/2009 12:50:55 AM
Because money and financial security are two separate things.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Is she being UNAPPRECIATIVE? or is it me? Posted: 6/25/2009 7:48:05 PM
It's too bad she's not into you. You're quite a cutie. Dump her. She's an unappreciative girl. Go find someone else who would gladly accept a painted rock from you.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Seems great, so what's the problem.... Posted: 6/25/2009 7:42:52 PM
The answer to your question is that alot of men don't like intelligent women. Successful and educated women have opinions. Alot of guys don't like girls with opinions. Therefore, they should go date someone with none. These girls aren't going to settle for mediocre men. They are looking for those who are their equal emotionally and financially.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Can someone define serial dating? Posted: 6/25/2009 1:30:28 AM
You shouldn't limit yourself. If six guys all ask you out at once, make sure you have a daybook and pencil them in on different dates. Do it. It's worth it!!!

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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What do girls like to see in a first message? Posted: 6/23/2009 11:24:35 PM
I like it when they have referred to some of my interests in the written profile, especially something to do with travelling and galavanting.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Would you continue seeing someone if you found out they're really sick? Posted: 6/22/2009 10:34:33 PM
I would love him and will continue to see him regardless. Even more reason to be with him.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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He's Just Not that Into You Question Posted: 6/21/2009 9:26:50 PM
You should read the book. It's true. All of it.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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What a Dirt Bag!!!!! Posted: 6/21/2009 9:16:09 PM
GOOD ON YOU for telling this bag that any future appointments will be cancelled. There is definitely something about this guy that wreaks dishonesty. Don't know what it is, but good on you. Take care girlfriend.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Women's 80% kissing intuition... Posted: 6/21/2009 8:06:50 PM
This is true for me. The kisses that have made my head spin have been the greatest guys. I don't know how to explain it.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Average in time taken before meeting in person? Posted: 6/15/2009 11:22:53 PM
I'm spontaneous in this matter. I'd like to meet right away if we both have time to get a beer. There is NO need to drag it out longer. And don't buy this BS about "i'd like to talk to you more and know you through the phone" before meeting. Total bs. You can't know someone exactly through pressing your ear against tiny holes.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Accidently ignored? Or just not interested? Posted: 6/15/2009 11:19:58 PM
There is NO such thing as "accidently ignored". No response= not interested.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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How would you take it if his mom said this...... Posted: 6/15/2009 10:58:41 PM
How low brow of his mother to say that in front of you. I'm so sorry that you had to deal with that. I'd ignore it AT FIRST. Keep an eye out on your boyfriend to see if he is a mama's boy who will take his mother's side instead of yours. If it is the former, i'd say leave because you don't want to marry into a family like this. Life is already damn short enough girlfriend.

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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What's your deal breaker? (re profiles first glance) Posted: 6/15/2009 1:23:37 AM
-drugs (I do not like any drug use. AT ALL. ) -have kids from previous relationship -smoker -doesn't want children -doesn't like animals (often means doesn't like children) -divorced -involved in the drug trade (no thank you)

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Hard Time Dating Posted: 6/15/2009 12:51:37 AM
Lovely to see a beautiful girl having gone through this much adversity. You are definitely quite the looker, but men are definitely interested in much more than looks. Perhaps rewrite your profile in an articulate manner by illustrating some lessons you have learnt about life? Maybe realizing how short it can be after battling such an illness. Best of luck!

turbulence1981

Joined: 4/13/2009

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Need help with this one... Posted: 6/15/2009 12:42:54 AM
You waited too long to contact her. If I don't hear from a guy a few days after our date, I assume he is not interested and will move quickly on. Do not send flowers to someone at work whom you do not yet know well yet. A husband sending flowers to a wife is okay. Boyfriend to Girlfriend is okay. But stranger to stranger will likely slap you with a restraining order.

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