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noneed2look

Joined: 1/26/2006

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what put a major smile on your face today? Posted: 3/18/2006 12:40:40 PM
Waking up with the one I love.

noneed2look

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I was raped and now I'm worthless...advice? Posted: 2/22/2006 4:19:36 PM
I understand you hurt, and want to make sure you are worthly of love. What kind of person can let something like this happen? Why didn't I realize that this is what was going to happen? Why didn't I just do what he wanted (or maybe I did)? These and other questions maybe in your mind. First let me say, YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Please remember you are not at fault. IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT! Anyone who tells you that you need to change is someone who has never had it happen to them. When we say NO we mean NO. You can be alone in the park, or in the middle of your high school and be raped. It is never your fault. Forgive yourself and let yourself heal. Get help--Any help---Even from forums can be good-- Anytime you can talk freely about what has happen to you, you are dealing with what has happened and then you can start to understand that it was not your fault. That is one of the steps in healing.

noneed2look

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tatoo question Posted: 2/12/2006 11:41:10 AM
Ok this is NoNeed2Look not my husband.... As he said the frist time he had his chest done it hurt him. He learned he could walk with no legs He did have to have it darkened and it seemed that the second time was nothing to him. I have 5 tatoos myself and 2 of them didn't hurt at all. The amount you feel is the amount you build yourself up to feel. Just like getting a shot if you think it is going to hurt it will and if you think it isn't well then it will not hurt nearly as much. (By the way getting a tatoo hurts but nothing like having a baby, dumping a Harley or having a tooth pulled with nothing.) As for what you want done and the location. It is your body, your life and your lifetime that the tatoo is going to effect. Yes get advise from friends and the artist who is going to do the work, but in the long run it is you who will sit in the chair or lay on the table having the work done. Make sure you will not be sitting in a doctors office having it removed in a few years.

noneed2look

Joined: 1/26/2006

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tatoo question Posted: 2/11/2006 10:37:43 PM
I already have one on my sturnum, and the first time I had it done, it did hurt a little bit, especially around the pecs. There are several nerve bundles there too, so the pain travels a bit. I went back to have it totally redone a couple years after, and it really wasn't that bad the second time. I guess I have just really gotten used to getting tattoo'd. I have several now including one on my back between my shoulder blades of a dragon scene, and am planning one to take up most of the bottom of my back... also a Dragon scene. Good luck with what you decide. Keep the rubber side down. Sorry, I though it was me logged in (noneed4looking) but my wife was in so... oops

noneed2look

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Tourists vs Bikers who likes either???? Posted: 2/10/2006 7:39:55 PM
Looks like work has all of us this year.

noneed2look

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Relations good until their parents forced them to dump me since my religion and color was different Posted: 2/10/2006 4:08:30 AM
I know this is a very delicate and difficult issue. It is not just race or religion. My husbands stepmother pulled him to the side and offered him an appartment, job and a "playmate" wink wink.... If he would not marry me. He walked out on her and married me. It had a little to do with the fact that I was not Catholic (I was in CCD at the time) but more to do with her belief that I was not the one for him. His family took him out of the wills until just a few years ago. (About the same time she, my husbands stepmother, was no longer in the family.) Looking back on it (16 years ago) I can laugh as she is no longer married to my father-in-law. The real point is however that as you said: I would tell my parents it's unfortunate that they choose to close their hearts to someone because they can't tolerate difference and that in effect it is THEIR decision to make - whether they will accept the both of us as we are or decide that their prejudice is more important than love. If they truly love you it is their decision. Nothing stands between true love not color, money, religion or family.

noneed2look

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Who has more fun Men or Women? Posted: 2/9/2006 2:52:41 PM
Ok who has more fun and WHY? I think women do, becuase men are trying to keep, win or just get to know us. Now it is your turn.

noneed2look

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Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..? Posted: 2/9/2006 2:48:59 PM
Never did never will Any questions read my profile.... Had it done to me more times then I care to talk about Wouldn't even think about it.

noneed2look

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I'm in my happy place Posted: 2/7/2006 3:58:04 PM
The person makes it romanic.

noneed2look

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How many 40 year old men still live with their mother? Posted: 2/4/2006 5:44:12 PM
A very good friend of mine that I have known for almost my full life, lives with his Mom and GrandMother on and off. I always looked at it like he was doing something nice. His father walked out before he was born and his mother had to go back home. When we were in the 3rd grade his GrandFather died. Those of us who know him smile and just nod when he makes up a new reason to move back home, or why he can't make his relationship last with the lady in his life. Those who take the time to know him know that he is the only one his Mom and Grandmother has. The Ladies that have made it the longest with him understood and helped out. Grandma is in her last 80's and Mom is in her late 60's now and they need help in the winter with the snow, car, coal burner..... He only moved away from town when he knew someone else was there to take care of them. So to get to my point. Sometimes you have to look deeper into the picture to see the real reason a man is still living at home at any age. He lived with my husband and I when we still lived in PA. He knows how to treat the ladies in his life and the ladies he dated he treated GOOD!! For him his Mom and Grandma come 1st no matter what.... They can't make it without him.....

noneed2look

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Parents of teenagers...advice needed! Posted: 2/3/2006 6:52:14 PM
He'll do what I asked him to do, but he'll slam things around while doing it. You weren't at my house a few years ago were you??? Sounds just like my son when he was 13 to 16. I ask my doctor, priest, friends everyone and the only answer I trusted was this. Welcome to the world of adulthood, NOT but that is what his body is saying. He sees girls in a new way and he can't do anything about it. All the things he believed in just changed over night. He now looks at you and realizes that men may look at you the way he looks at girls. Moms don't get looked at that way and should never try to be looked at that way. He has no idea and there is nothing we can do or say that will make him feel any better..... The key is to not let him know you know. Love him, however you can, do something just for him everyday. But the best thing to do is get him actively involved in something after school. He has to learn to handle those feelings and the best way to do that is to get him to learn how to handle other things. Sports, music, acting or helping others. The other rule I lived my was to the PMS rule. He has PMS for the next 3 years. Not girl PMS but boy PMS PLACE MOM SECOND Good luck, there is no sure fire way of dealing with it, go with your heart and you'll do fine.

noneed2look

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Ladies, What Turns You On? Posted: 2/3/2006 6:37:11 PM
My husband.... Candle light, soft music or a good movie, lighting over the ocean, fresh cut wood, the smell of AXE. OH YES I AGREE AXE IS THE ONE....

noneed2look

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what put a major smile on your face today? Posted: 2/3/2006 6:28:06 PM
Thinking about how my husband picked me.....

noneed2look

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Advice needed please help…. Posted: 2/3/2006 5:31:24 PM
IF he truly feels bad; he can always do something FOR or WITH you in order to right his percieved wrong...no? GUILT....can be destroyed and turned to pride. He is taking me to a show this weekend and has made time every night after I made this post to talk to me and be with me.... I have to state he ended it before I knew it happened. HE PICKED ME!!! That alone is something I am taking great pride in... He had other little issues that we are working on but I want to be there for him. As they always say it takes two to end a relationship and it takes two to save one.

Noneed2look

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Advice needed please help…. Posted: 2/3/2006 4:43:44 PM
I don't understand how his grandfather passing would make him paranoid about your being mad at him. Very confusing. I only found out and we only started working on the issues of his disloyalties 2 days before his Grandfather died. Sorry I didn't cover that.

Noneed2look

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Looking for fans of David Eddings, The Belgariad, or The Mallorean series' Posted: 2/3/2006 4:31:53 PM
Note that David Eddings wrote The Elenium series to his wife. I enjoy the smooth flow from novel to novel. The Diamond Throne, The Ruby Knight to The Sapphire Rose. I would have to say of all Eddings works my favorite is the The Elenium. Sparhawk the one whose fate the GODS do not know. Eddings makes him not overly perfect giving him the crooked nose. The fact that it is his childhood friend, Kaltan, who broke it during training to be knights. Sparhawks horse, Faran is foul-tempered and listens to only those he wishes too, when he wishes to. The enjoyment of seeing each set of his journeys displayed in a clean pure picture. Playing like a movie in my mind. Kaltan, Kurik his squire and his son the young thief Talen, Flute a mysterious girl who rarely speaks, Vanion his commanding officer, Ulath a companion, and finial Queen Ehlana Sparhawks wife. Each, in there own design, keeping different readers turning page after page. Engolfed in the adventure to free, cure and love. Depending on who you read yourself to be. I think I will read them again this year. A gift to myself, to see Sparhawk save his Queen.

Noneed2look

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Advice needed please help…. Posted: 2/3/2006 5:56:27 AM
Thank you, I'll look the book(s) up.

noneed2look

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Advice needed please help…. Posted: 2/1/2006 6:36:07 PM
If you read my profile, you will see I am married. I joined plenty of fish to find people I and my husband could talk to. Some things priest, family and friends just don’t get. Here is my dilemma, I and my husband work different shifts, I try to be home when he needs me. I know that he is going through a hard time. (His Grandfather who raised him just pasted away.) He at one point put what he needed and wanted before our family and marriage. I have forgiven him as he says he is truly sorry. However, I have to watch everything I say and how I ask him questions. He panics and takes a lot of what I am saying as though I am mad and he has to defend his action to me. I am making myself notes when I need to call him at work so as to make sure I word my questions so that he understands that I am not upset just trying to find, fix or do something. It is getting hard but I think he is worth it. How can I help him understand that if he isn’t doing it anymore he has no reason to think I would be upset and therefore he would have no reason to feel that when I ask a question I am mad. How can I help him so he can forgive himself and then be able to deal with the loss of the man that raised him????

noneed2look

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Am I less of a man if I sit down on the toilet to pee? Posted: 2/1/2006 1:34:33 PM
Yes women stand to pee in public bath rooms.... That is to say clean women stand it public bath rooms. It is not that I am going to get something but that I don't know whos a sat, peed, sh or anything else on the seat and that isn't cool..... And yes I have seen the pull and place paper covers in public bath rooms.

noneed2look

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~ Should cyclists be licensed to be on the roads in big cities ~ Posted: 1/31/2006 7:38:59 PM
I don't think that cyclists should have to be licensed it would just be an other way for goverment to tax the people. I do however believe that they should be held to the same standard and rules of the road as all other drivers if they are not on a maked bike path. In the event of a cycle causing injuries it depends on the coverage however most home owner insurance policies would cover damages caused by the bike. I live at the beach and ride my bike (on bike paths not the road) to as much as I can. I will return to riding it to and from work everyday as soon as my legs heal from dumping my husbands Harley Davidson. I must say it costs way to much to drive the car these days with the price of gass. I would pick in this order my cycle, my Alpa Sport, my husbands Harley, then my car. Note that it is in the order of cost to drive. lol

noneed2look

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What kinds of smells do you like? Posted: 1/31/2006 7:12:39 PM
My husbands side of the bed my sons pillow the lumber yard camp fire teaberry ice cream blueberry candles the rose garden when it is in bloom pine cleaner coffee the coffee line at the store I LOVE THE SMELL OF COFFEE!!!!!!!! gives me a rush my husbands cigar Axe body spray

NoNeed2Look

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What do you really FEAR! Posted: 1/31/2006 5:30:32 PM
my childhood...

NoNeed2Look

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Tourists vs Bikers who likes either???? Posted: 1/31/2006 2:45:11 PM
I understand that we here at the beach need both Tourists and Bikers. Both provide most of the Grand Strand with our jobs. I would just like to see them treat the Grand Strand (a place some of us call home) a little like they would treat there homes & towns. As for Vacationers how they leave there condos, hotel rooms, motel rooms, and the houses they rent on the beach, I can only say I am glad I have an office job and not housekeeping. I understand that they are on vacation but pick up your trash and don't leave your garbage on the beach. As for the bikers, I have mixed issues on the subject. Like any other week of the vacation season we have some bad apples. For the most part they spend alot while they are here, and alot of people (old and young alike) sit to watch the bikes go by. They tend not to trash the beach but they do trash the areas by the vendors. I too can not sleep for 3 days out of the season however they pay the bills for the full month of May. Hummmm it is sound vs trash...... What is your view point? They both make us $$$

NoNeed2Look

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Why did you get your tattoo? Posted: 1/31/2006 2:01:49 PM
People get tattoos for many different reasons. I myself have 5 and each one was gotten for a different reason. My first at age 24 is a on my right arm. My husband and I had the same tattoo done, my husband has his on his left when we walk side by side they face each other. I had this one done to remember our engagement and the day we announced to his family we were getting married. My second on my right ankle, at age 26 was the side of me running free and flying high starting to grasp all the sh** from my childhood and first marriage. My third at age 27 was in the middle of my lower back as a symbol of true respect and love, and to remember when my son asked my husband if he could adopt him. My fourth at age 38 is on my upper right thigh, in memory of my father after he had pasted away. My fifth at age 39 on the nap of my neck, I wanted this tattoo a blue rose vine for two reasons. I now have the vine of my life branching in two direction within the image are roses 1 rose for each the children I carried to full term, 1 for my husband and hidden in the vine like leaves and part of the vine is my husbands initials. The second reason was to end the neck pain and migraine I had, (the pain and migraine never came back after the tattoo it worked like a charm.)

NoNeed2Look

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Middle aged people who get tattoos. Trying too hard to be young? Posted: 1/31/2006 1:51:58 PM
People get tattoos in different places for many different reasons. I have 5 and each one had been done for a different reason and at different ages 24, 26, 27, 38, and 39. I had my lower back tattooed before it was in style and my nap of my neck done at age 39. Neither had been due to mid life or fashion issues, both were symbols of a time in my life I never want to forget.

noneed2look

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Importance of a woman's salary? Posted: 1/31/2006 4:33:57 AM
...but what's a "NIC" do? A Network Information Coordinator Job Description, well let me put it as short as I can. I am in charge of everything that has to do with a computer in our Office. Software, hardware, networks, ect.... I must know all phases of our company from the cleaning department to the 1099's we just printed. If it has to do with the Network or any form of Information I have to Coordinate it. I am the Tec Support, Programmer, Network Engineer, DBA, IT, Webmaster, Trainer, ect.. I am paid as much as my company can afford, I would know, I see all the accounting, having to know all phases of my companies business. I am proud of what I make it is not as bad as it could be and if I wasn't happy I could move to a different area and make a great deal more. There is something to be said about truly being needed. I however know that I am making a great deal less then what I could be making. I also note that my employer did not try to hire a male for the job. I do not know why. (Could be a % thing, or it could be they knew that a woman would work for less.) I hope that helps.

noneed2look

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Longest you have been in a relationship (with opposite sex) without it turning physical. Posted: 1/31/2006 4:00:38 AM
Well I see that I have started something here LOL. The reason I waited when I dated was to try to find out the true person I was dating. Been in a lot of bad relationships and wanted it to stop. I first wanted to find out I was safe, he was clean, and I wasn't being used. For my shortest wait I was the one who wanted someone to use. LOL getting even I guess.

noneed2look

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Importance of a woman's salary? Posted: 1/30/2006 6:49:49 PM
i'd get rid of my male employees and hire women to replace them. LOL Maybe that is why they hired a female.....

noneed2look

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Importance of a woman's salary? Posted: 1/30/2006 6:19:08 PM
I think it's that women make 70 cents for every dollar men make. I can't even touch that. As a Network Information Coordinator I am making less then 50% what the men in my profession make. This also has something to do with the area I am in. I am the only NIC in my office so I can not say whether they would pay a man more.

noneed2look

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shoes? Posted: 1/30/2006 6:01:11 PM
True no horse sh** in the house please.

noneed2look

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shoes? Posted: 1/30/2006 5:57:16 PM
The other factor is if the man keeps his shoes clean and polished. The business man who keeps his work shoes with a good shine he will keep his books (accounting) well. But a farmer with clean shoes can't grow dirt. I looked for boots when I went out. Had to be black and pointed. Good SH KICKERS... The kind of boot that you could ride a horse or a steel horse and then kick the sh out of anyone who needed it at the moment.

noneed2look

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Longest you have been in a relationship (with opposite sex) without it turning physical. Posted: 1/30/2006 5:47:48 PM
Just want to know what is the longest you have been in a relationship with out letting it turn physical even if it could have. I would have to say that for me it is 27 years and still going. I met my husband when he was 8 and I was 11, we hadn't seen each other untill 13 years later, we then built our friendship and dated for 3 months before it went physical.... The shortest was really short lol and lasted even shorter.

noneed2look

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My Personal Quote on Life Posted: 1/30/2006 3:37:27 PM
You are born a child You die a child You choose to be a parent I was born my fathers child I will die my fathers child I choose to be my sons mother I can only hope I am as worthy to be called mom as he was to be called dad.

NoNeed2Look

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Wrote this for my Wife, Please tell me what you think? Posted: 1/30/2006 12:41:02 PM
He sent you here to watch over me, To keep me out of harm, These things you do from love, for free, You are my lucky charm. Thank You..... I loved it. I understand your poem is truly from you... It shows the true you. My Mixture 1 cup of hugs 2 cups of kisses 3 cups of changes 4 cups of time 5 cups of happeness 6 cups of knowledge 7 cups of love put it all together and you have THE MAN I LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

noneed2look

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Am I less of a man if I sit down on the toilet to pee? Posted: 1/28/2006 8:45:17 PM
What if you sit on the urinal to pee? This would make you Polish, not less of a man. (Noneed2looks hubby)

NoNeed2Look

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What’s gone wrong with America? Posted: 1/28/2006 7:55:06 PM
“When the people start leading our leaders will follow.” I agree 100 %

NoNeed2Look

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What is it that makes us look for love, and companionship. Posted: 1/28/2006 7:32:20 PM
What is it that makes us look for love and companionship depends on where we are in life. At some point in my life one or all of the following have been true. 1. The need to continue on. 2. The need to be more then ones self. 3. The need to fit into societies expectable lifestyles. 4. The need to have someone to share lives experiences with. 5. The need to have someone to grow old with. I think the one thing that has always stayed the same is the need to share, share everything. I can’t say that it is true for everyone however for me sharing my life with someone even in the bad times is fulfilling.

NoNeed2Look

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Importance of a woman's salary? Posted: 1/28/2006 7:07:57 PM
I am not sure I would feel comfortable if my spouse was telling everyone "I bought him a Harley Davidson." It would be nice to say, " We bought a Harley and enjoy it immensely." You are correct I am sorry. We bought the Harley. I have been very upset with him as of late and would not have worded it that way in the past. Thank you.

NoNeed2Look

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Am I less of a man if I sit down on the toilet to pee? Posted: 1/28/2006 6:13:04 PM
Most men are all drama when it comes to the subject. You are no less a man if you sit you are cleaner. Think about the plus side to sitting. 1. no need to turn the light on at night....Can fall back to sleep faster and no dots in your eyes. 2. no smell in the morning when you missed the night before. 3. When you are drunk you don't fall as far. 4. wet wipes by the toilet for any spashs that may happen to hit you and your alway clean for a party..... My husband sits and I love it.

NoNeed2Look

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Importance of a woman's salary? Posted: 1/28/2006 5:27:16 PM
I think that you should be looking for someone within your salary range. Truthfully both men and women can be leeches. If you find someone in your salary range both of you can enjoy the knowledge that you can stand on your own two feet and don't need each other for the money. When that happens you know you have a good relationship. I have a question however. I make more then my husband. Could you handle that. Most men find it hard to take. He loves it for Val. Day 2004 I bought him a Harley Davidson. We enjoy the competition.

NoNeed2Look

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Chemistry Does that explain why woman find it easier to end relationships than men? Posted: 1/28/2006 1:31:32 PM
I have to say that it is hard for anyone to end a real relationship. Chemistry (if that is what we are going to call it) to me is the feeling that when the man I am with and I are apart a little piece of me is missing, almost like an empty void in me. I have been on both sides of the story, no one can say it was easy if they really cared about the other person.

NoNeed2Look

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u can't have a plutonic friendship with opposite sex Posted: 1/28/2006 1:10:01 PM
I think it also has to do with the facts, and if you count cyber, phone or e-mail. But on to the real subject. I have male friends at work and ones that are husbands of friends it is easy to have a plutonic friendship with them. I also have a friend (male) that I have known for 27 years. We meet in 7th grade. We never have and never will. There have been times when we could have, late nights, long talks, drunk off our buts, lonely, we even lived together for over a year. We are friends not lovers. It is all in how you see yourself and your friends. We have gone out dancing, out for dinner, to the movies, gone X-mas shopping together, I even helped him furnish his appartment when he came home from the Navy and his wife left him and we have a great time. He is more like a member of my family then anything else. I even dated someone in his family for a few years, it is great to know that even now we are still friends not time or miles keep us apart. When my son graduated from high school he flew in to see it. We sat and looked at each other like it was only yesterday when we were graduating. So YES you can as long as you truly are friends.

NoNeed2Look

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Girlfriend or Motorcycle?? Posted: 1/26/2006 7:01:28 PM
I must say this forum has helped me a great deal. Thank you maybe I can help you. My husband and I hit some hard times (money issues) and he offered to sell his 2004 HD I told him NO WAY!! If you love to ride then so should she. A bike ride is a low budget date with a high return. You get the chance to relax, as my husband says "Blow the stick of the office off" and she gets some one on one time. But that is just me.

NoNeed2Look

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Is having online sex considered cheating on ur partner..views pls Posted: 1/26/2006 5:00:31 PM
I believe that cheating is cheating. So yes, online sex is cheating. Even if you never talked before, even if it is a one time thing. When you find you need to hide something from the person you say you love, then you need to rethink about that love. Love is being able to share the good and the bad. Talk to your partner if you aren't happy, they may not be as well.

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