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RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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2012 Posted: 11/23/2009 10:08:34 AM
I recently saw the movie 2012 this past weekend, and must say that the movie wasn't in the least convincing. If you've all heard by now, supposedly the world will come to an end in December of 2012 (my b-day month ), and I believe this movie was based on that. This is all based on what Scientists have said. I found the movie to be highly corny, and even though something like that could possibly happen, I didn't view the film any differently from movies like Armageddon, and Deep Impact. I wouldn't recommend this movie to anyone who hasn't seen it, but are there some of you who actually buy into this?

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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Baseball Caps, Pecs and Six-Packs, Sexual monikers Posted: 11/21/2009 9:31:09 AM
I don't mind eye candy, just as long as there is more to the guy than what he has to offer on his profile. Frankly, I prefer men with substance and good intentions.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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Hitting On Someone Elses BF/GF Posted: 11/18/2009 9:32:31 AM
Highly disrespectful. I think some people do things like that, simply because that person is taken, and they like the idea of flirting with someone elses SO.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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Relocation???? Posted: 11/18/2009 9:24:12 AM
I am currently talking to a guy that lives in Los Angeles, which is about two hours away from the city I'm living in now. Even though it bothers us both that we are too distant from one another, we will try to do the best we can to build a relationship. However, I couldn't see myself in a long distance relationship with a guy from another state. It would be too much to handle. As for cheating, the two of you will just have to trust each other, and hope for the best.

RushLuv

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What's up with this??? Posted: 11/17/2009 1:09:21 PM
If you're interested in me, send me a message and i'll respond Hmmm. Based on this quote alone, it seems as if something like this would only be posted in a guys profile if he isn't having any luck with intiating contact. Therefore, he's letting the women know that he won't ignore them if they send an email. That's the way I see it.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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Breaking a Date...By Text Message Posted: 11/17/2009 1:05:33 PM
Frankly, I disagree with a few of the others. I don't find it to be acceptable to break off a date by text message. Why not just pick up the phone? I find it to be a bit cowardly. However, if the person called, and there was no answer, then I suppose a text (or a voice mail) would be appropriate.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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Why would a guy you had fun with turn off? Posted: 11/17/2009 1:02:21 PM
Perhaps he's only looking for a sexual relationship, but not looking for anything serious.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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Work hard and play....harder! Posted: 11/17/2009 1:00:25 PM
It means that they "work" hard in bed, but prefer to play harder.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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My best friend is gay Posted: 11/17/2009 8:34:42 AM
Not a guy, but I am entilted to give my opinion. If you are spending more time with your "gay" friend, and not enough time with your current SO, then I could see why that would bother him. However, there are people who do get jealous at some point, and perhaps he's one of those guys who don't want to share you. It's selfish but it does indeed happen. My advice would be to talk to him about it, and try to get him to open up. Perhaps he isn't so comfortable with homosexuals, and your initial post in a way proves that.

RushLuv

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time to delete your POF account Posted: 11/16/2009 11:50:14 AM
Even if I did catch people who I know (better yet knew) on this site, they probablu wouldn't notice me any how. Especially since I've changed so drastically since HS.

RushLuv

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WHY WON'T HE JUST GIVE UP? Posted: 11/16/2009 11:46:06 AM
I used to be in a situation quite like this, except for the guy wasn't as crazy. I no longer communicate with him, because he wanted something that I didn't, which was to be in a relationship. My advice to you would be to cut all ties with him, especially since he can't accept your friendship. Some people just have to learn the hard way.

RushLuv

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Bringing up marriage on the first date? Posted: 11/16/2009 11:42:33 AM
Honestly, I don't see anything wrong with discussing marriage on a first date just as long as there is attraction on both ends, and the topic is interesting.

RushLuv

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Guys in their 40s, never married and no kids Posted: 11/14/2009 9:42:17 AM
Nope. Marriage and having children aren't for everyone. It wouldn't bother me in the least. I don't know why some people feel that there is something wrong with an indivudual if he, or she has never been married, or had any kids.

RushLuv

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Playing the Posted: 11/12/2009 3:12:31 PM
?????? Oh my bad. Was my post not clear enough, or do you speak another language?

RushLuv

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Engagement rings for men? Posted: 11/12/2009 3:01:17 PM
allow the man to move in with her and mooch indefinitely until she gets down on one knee and proposes, while slipping a diamond ring on his finger Sorry. Women weren't cut out for this.

RushLuv

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Are there women/men who wait as long as 6 mos. before sex? Posted: 11/12/2009 2:48:56 PM
Is that even possible in this day, and age? Unless that person is a virgin, or is trying the knot in six months. I couldn't possibly wait that long. At least I wouldn't hold my breath.

RushLuv

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Wanting AND fearing intimacy; an internet syndrome? Posted: 11/12/2009 2:45:00 PM
Or "drama avoidant"? "Not interested avoidant" more like. OP, either these men were playing games with your head, found someone more of interests, or just aren't interested in you period. I guess I'll go with the latter.

RushLuv

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Playing the Posted: 11/12/2009 2:38:20 PM
I wouldn't dare you those three words with a man I wasn't interested in, rather for humor purposes, or not. It's still not a smart way to try to brush someone off. If I wasn't interested in a guy romantically, I would just tell him that it was fun, and I enjoyed out date(s). Co-signing with Landra, as well.

RushLuv

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He has a "dysfunction" and she has the hots for other men. Posted: 11/12/2009 2:33:09 PM
There is this couple. They love each other, and seem very much in love. They spend as much time as they can together, but there is only one major problem in their relationship...he has ED (Erectile Dysfunction.) The woman is getting highly impatient, and is getting even more anxious to see other men as time goes on. Her man tells her to please be patient, and he will go see a docter as soon as he can. The woman on the other hand, is at her wits end, and feels that her SO just wants to remain celibate, and her needs are blown out of the water. She tells him that she's been talking to other guys, and that she's fed up with being in a sexless relationship. They've been going together for nearly 8 months, she really doesn't want to break it off with him, and she's trying her best to have patience. What do you (in general) think this woman should do?

RushLuv

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I can get addicted to you what is he saying? Posted: 11/10/2009 7:49:20 PM
Since women are also allowed to give our opinion, I'll go ahead, and chip in. My take on is that he was either being a flirt, or perhaps his intentions are to become clingy. That's my take on it. Take over, gentlemen.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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She doesn't know about his other dating profile Posted: 11/10/2009 7:39:08 PM
Some of these people are coming down hard on you, OP. Frankly, I do agree that you're sticking your nose too far in his business. You two aren't an item, so I really don't see why any of that would concern you. He just might be keeping his options open, a cheater, or who really knows. After all, he isn't doing it to you. It's a possibility that he could be trying to string you along, but from the looks of your posts, that doesn't show much.

RushLuv

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Nice guys vs. Players. How do I tell the difference? Posted: 11/10/2009 8:41:24 AM
Frankly, it doesn't really matter what type of photos you keep on your profile, OP. You could have all eight pics posted up of only you in a turtleneck, and a pair of jeans. You will still attract those who aren't wanted, regardless.

RushLuv

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Cheating On Your Hot Wife/GF -? Posted: 11/6/2009 11:17:06 AM
Wasn't Eric Benet said to be a man whore? Besides, that wouldn't be the first time Halle Berry had a marriage that ended in divorce. Eric admitted to her that she had cheated on her with multiple women. I remember Halle's Oprah interview. Some people are just dogs, it doesn't matter how hot you are, and how much of a good lover you are. Some people gotta have their cake, and it eat, too.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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Hiding profile Posted: 11/6/2009 10:44:13 AM
Unless you are under stealth mode (invisible), I'm pretty sure people will still be able to see if you viewed their profile.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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21-post limit on some forums Posted: 11/6/2009 10:42:56 AM
The 21 post limit is only under the AAGirl, and AAGuy forums as far as I know. Frankly, I like the 21 post limit. That's only we need under those forums.

RushLuv

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IS IT TRUE THAT A WOMAN SHOULDN’T PURSUE A MAN? Posted: 11/6/2009 10:33:56 AM
I've pursued men before. Why not? If you see someone that you find attractive, and want to talk to, then why not pursue? I suppose some women still believe that men should do all of the pursuing, but I don't see anything wrong with taking the first step. For all anyone knows, something good could come out of it.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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Answer to the intimidated question.... Posted: 11/6/2009 10:13:36 AM
I've see a lot of those threads, as well. Frankly, I think women only ask such questions to boost their egos. I get the idea that they want men to view their profiles, tell them how good looking they are, and the whole nine. I consider those type of threads nothing more than attention seeking, troll posts.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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Bypassing the phone, is it okay or not? Posted: 11/6/2009 10:07:00 AM
Shy when it comes down to talking on the phone. I can tell you now that many people feel that way, and are in the same boat. I don't like talking on the phone, either, but it's necessary when meeting. At least one phone before the first meet. It only makes sense. Personally, I would have to hear a guys voice before I even consider meeting him. For the record, you could also make the phone conversations short. A good 10-15 minutes has always been good enough for me. It makes things so much easier when the person on the other side of the line is easy to talk to. It makes things less awkward.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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Creepy Posted: 11/6/2009 10:02:19 AM
Only thing was, he mentioned that when he goes on first date, if he’s not interested, he’d rather just leave. And that's exactly what he did.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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Why some men never want marry? Posted: 11/6/2009 9:58:55 AM
- Did you ever hear of the three (3) rings of love? First comes the engagement ring. Next comes the wedding ring. Then comes the suffering Haha. This is actually a pretty good one, for the fact that this actually happens to some (if not most) married people. If I was in my 30s, never married, and people were to ask me why I never wed, I would either tell them that I haven't found the right one, or I'm not looking to get married.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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from one dater to another: 'show me your drivers license, please' Posted: 11/6/2009 9:52:44 AM
This has never happened to me, but I probably have been searched through some search engine. I once had a guy ask me for my last name, and that made me suspicious. Especially since that was my first time talking to him on the phone. It actually made me feel uncomfortable, and I didn't appreciate that one bit. I say the best way to get to know someone just to see if they are truly who they say they are, is to ask questions, but without interrogation. Try asking the tricky question, but take caution while doing so.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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Is marriage necessary for a healthy LTR? Posted: 11/4/2009 11:48:17 AM
For the record, Division. I know someone close to me who is in a long term relationship, live together, and aren't even compatible. They don't even get along, so what does that tell you? Being in a LTR doesn't always mean people have to move in together.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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Is marriage necessary for a healthy LTR? Posted: 11/4/2009 11:38:04 AM
There's also alot of twenty year olds who shouldn't be getting married to begin with. Yeah but they do it, and a lot of times their marriages end in divorce. I don't even see the point. I would rather use my twenties for dating, and sleeping with all of the wrong people, than get married just to have it end in divorce.

RushLuv

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Is marriage necessary for a healthy LTR? Posted: 11/4/2009 11:11:32 AM
I wouldn't say so. Just like I pointed out in a previous thread, people don't have to wed just to prove their love for one another. There are people who would prefer to just be in a loving, long term relationship, rather than taking that next step, and getting married. Frankly, I don't see anything wrong with not getting married at all. Especially with the ridiculous divorce rate in this country. Particularly in the state of California. Why take that risk?

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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Second chances? Posted: 11/4/2009 10:48:05 AM
It all depends. I could never forgive a man for infidelity, and if there is not enough trust, and honesty in our relationship, then there would be no second chances. I refuse to be one of those women who are continuously manipulated by men.

RushLuv

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Seperated,deffinatly getting divoriced ,but still having sex Posted: 11/4/2009 10:35:58 AM
I agree with c deacon. If a man that I was interested in was still screwing his ex, I would just automatically assume that he isn't over her, and put it up as a huge red flag. There is no way that I would be able to deal with someone like that. I wouldn't want to put up with that type of of baggage.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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How many people to contact Posted: 11/4/2009 10:30:38 AM
Just as long as you aren't copying, and pasting the same message to over 100 girls then you should be fine. For the record, all you have to do is read these forums, and the women will tell you how much they can't stand copy, and paste, and generic messages. We weren't born yesterday. I guarantee you that a lot of us can spot a copy, and paste email in a heart beat.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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Do You Recycle ? Posted: 11/4/2009 10:28:07 AM
If we didn't have any chemistry, then I probably would introduce him to someone I think he would be more compatible with. I don't see anything wrong with that.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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Why some men never want marry? Posted: 11/4/2009 10:22:08 AM
The divorce rate is particularly high here in California. It is completely insane. Frankly, I don't see the point in marriage. Seeing as how I'm still young, perhaps my view on marriage will change at some point, but I just don't see it happening. I think I've been brainwashed by talk shows, and the whole nine. Plus, my parents have been married for almost 30 years, and watching them for all of these years has definitely caused me to get the idea that marriage isn't for me. I would rather much be in a long term, loving relationship, without getting married. People can love each other, and be in love for a long time without even considering marriage.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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What's the point? Posted: 11/4/2009 10:13:52 AM
Would you go out with someone you had nothing in common with? Absolutely not. If I don't have at least a few things in common with a man, there is no way that I could ever date him. This guy is obviously careless to the fact that neither one of you have anything in common, but is willing to continue on. Regardless if there is nothing there. A booty call comes to mind.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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Can someone explain y so many women on dating sites require events/things to be happy? Posted: 11/2/2009 6:08:13 PM
I am one of those many women. I prefer bowling, paintball, miniature golf, etc over taking a walk, and chatting over drinks. Besides, doing these type of activities tend to make things less awkward. Bowling and chatting at the same time is GREAT a activity.<img src=http://www.plentyoffish.com/smiles/icon_201.gif border=0>

RushLuv

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how long should a first meeting last and how do you get out of one without being rude? Posted: 11/2/2009 6:00:35 PM
You should be able to tell within a half hour on rather the person you've met is someone that you would like to see again. It shouldn't take an hour. If there isn't anything there on your part, then you should definitely not waste that individuals time. Just let the person know that it was meeting him/her, and go about your business.

RushLuv

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Confused? Posted: 11/2/2009 5:54:08 PM
I'm not here looking for friends, so men who do have friends listed as an option can pass me right on by. Besides, I thought the whole purpose of finding someone special was to date beforehand, and not as friends first. I never understood the whole {i]I wanna be friends first, and maybe more" deal. Frankly, I find it to be a turn off, but to each it's own.

RushLuv

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Is being a comedian now a requirement for dating? Posted: 11/2/2009 5:49:57 PM
Absolutely not. I don't expect a man to make me laugh in the least bit. Laughter is a natural thing, and there is no such thing as trying to make people laugh. Either you got it, or you don't. However, I do prefer men with a sense of humor.

RushLuv

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Peeing in the shower... Posted: 11/2/2009 1:41:35 PM
I guarantee you that the majority of people have done this, and those who are claiming that they haven't are more than likely in denial.

RushLuv

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Do you notice men when they're in cliques or when they're alone? Posted: 10/31/2009 11:17:00 AM
It doesn't make much of a difference to me. I would notice a man rather he is in a clique of friends, or standing alone.

RushLuv

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Successful Coffee Dates? Posted: 10/31/2009 10:58:07 AM
I don't even bother with coffee dates. I don't have the slightest interest in sitting across from one another over a drink. I honestly don't care how simple having a meet, and greet over coffee is. It's highly boring and is not good for awkward situations. I would prefer to be doing something active. Something that brings less tention, and won't allow too many awkward moments.

RushLuv

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are you more attracted to people on the forums? Posted: 10/31/2009 10:42:21 AM
This is not even something that I think about when I come to the forums. I just come here to give my opinion just like many others here. I have never been attracted to anyone on the forums, and such thing have never crossed my mind. However, I do enjoy a bulk of the posts on these forums.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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Does being a father scare women away? Posted: 10/31/2009 10:34:32 AM
I honestly prefer men no kids, but that doesn't mean the possibility of me being in a relationship with a man with children is ruled out.

RushLuv

Joined: 4/16/2009

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Is Online dating ruining it for the real world of dating? Posted: 10/24/2009 11:45:41 AM
I am curious because it seems that there is nobody out there in the real world anymore! If this is truly the way you feel, I would think that you are spending too much time in the house, or hitting up the bar scene. Personally, I prefer dating the traditional way. Unlike online dating, people aren't anonymous, and you can see people right then, and there.

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