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 Author Thread: Totally Broken
 zoocoop
Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Totally Broken
Posted: 8/24/2009 10:07:42 PM
I know right.... Maybe he is on here because he typed in a google search for "she said she dosen't love me anymore" Or somethig like that and this website popped up! I Don't think totally broken is exactly a headline for..."I want to date" the guy is looking for answers.

Answers, well I don't have any. I sit here alone all the time and contemplate about why I am even here. What difference does it make and et al.... All I can say is everyone says time heals. Been 6 months for me and it I am still in the same broken shape I was at 6 days. Time heals all wounds. But those wounds leave scars that are so deep no amount of healing can repair.
 zoocoop
Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Possibly to ever get over someone you truly loved?
Posted: 7/19/2009 11:06:06 AM
I don't see how you ever can. I read somewhere that it is easier to get over a death than a divorce. But I'm guessing that thousands of people go through this every year and they all can't be as miserable as us. Or can they Be?
 zoocoop
Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Why do men like younger women
Posted: 6/7/2009 1:25:29 AM
cause I'm better than most women my age?
 zoocoop
Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 13 (view)
 
How do you stop missing your ex because it's so hard...
Posted: 6/7/2009 12:42:44 AM
Roxy, what if you found that person and you have already lost them?

That is how I feel. The one person I could count on, the one person that I was there for and them for me, That person Is the one who is removing me from there life. Then what.
 zoocoop
Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Find Joy in your heart from the simple things...... it might take off some edge off you pain.
Posted: 6/5/2009 3:42:55 PM
I feel your pain. I was with a beautiful women who I love very much for 15 years. We have two great kids and while things were not always the best they were not always the worst. We are both very financially secure so we never fought about anything in that regard. Life changed dramatically for her, she turned 35 and decided that she wanted more. We fought for another year but she was never the same, she became angry at me for no particular reason and then I found out she had an "emotional affair" with some one at her work. I don't think they ever did anything sexually because the guy she worked with didn't want too, he just wanted to game her. Well my loss now, as I cry virtually every day without her. Have had plenty of offers from other women I just find all of them to be completely uninteresting, I even had 2 girls ask me to join them the other night, and I just could not feel any motivation to do it. Of course my friends and family think I'm good as I put on a mask every time I see them. I'm a complete mess and don't see an end in sight, so like so many others I'll drink more even though I don't have the motivation to do so. Not sure if there is anything we can do.
 
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